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silence still holds the keep to alot of bad things that ought to have happened.

hmmmmmmmm! na waoh!


so buhari no be am at all.

[quote author=aiyeboy post=28801385]what about most foolish?[/quot


u should know better.

na India everything for de happen. world youngest mother, shortest woman, infact hmmmmmm

lalasticlala u wan begin de Bleep up o. u de post wetin another person don post before. maintain ur champion o no fall my hand.

all this one no concern me. I must get the book.

that na the koko.

I beg make this book come out fast. he go sweet die.

YES

Na u impregnate her. go take responsibility quick.

deeper life people

Get ready for the worse. she will soon stop giving u food.

simple just call ur parent to come and tell her that you av offended her in more way than she could ever imagine, like the way its done in movies. sorry for all the people pouring out insult. This is something every woman should always think about but shouldn't pray to experience it. As long as u are still alive it can happen. eni ori yo odi ile.

Never say never if your man is still active and there are still desperate ladies every where. Shalom.

hmmmmm and while you are at it...

If he can make very good use of his tongue, no problems.

this is really bad.

wetin saka the albino de do for there

who is that old layer beside her?

must she bend her head like that.

this woman is pained cos of the pic 9ice just released of his new baby and his baby mama.

This must be her house in Lekki. I will like to be like her when I grow up.

change ur topic to 2 celeb that.........

iykepromotions:
according to reliable source the 3 volumes goes for N25k. hope you can afford it

the fact that u cannot afford it does not mean that I can't. anyways I will let u know as soon as I get it so that u can come and collect to make photocopy for yourself.

hmmmmm

I beg make the book come out quick. I can't wait to read it.

[quote author=kellyJames5 post=28760482]Guy chill!
Have you for once asked yourself,'if that man was to be my dad,how am I gonna feel about all those insult been thrown at him?'
Do to others,what you would like them do to you!

R.I.P to the dead![/quote

what is this one saying

see ur head

now this is better compare with who expose breast I read on nl these days.

ask Google.

what about those of us with husband and kids do we come with them too?

pls where is FP. I usually get confuse when people start saying move topic to FP. and some will be glad they made front page so pls enlighten me.

which kain person ask u question. this write up has been on the net for more than 3yrs. u did copy and paste and you are here asking question.

my dear please for God sake leave him. Talk to your parent and walk out of the marriage. i just lost a cousin and a friend 2 months ago. she was going thru exact thing u are going thru yet she stayed. At the end she got death in return. the useless guy in question did not even attend her burial cos she's from Edo state and her corpse needs to go home. There was a time they went to church but mean that the guy is a worker pastor believed him and he has a sugar coated tongue just like ur hubby. Dont wait till he kill u o leave now that u can. if u don't mind can we talk on bbm: 7B19F1D4

I really feel or pain.

blesie:
So i narrated how little i can of my ordeal since i got married to this man here last week - https://www.nairaland.com/2030889/he-punishing-me-honey-moon
While i got alot of advises from our dear Nairalanders, i had resolve before not to tell the pastor or my parent but to talk to him as many advised, i couldn't look him in the eye actually, i tried to do that many times since that Friday but I couldnt, so i said ok, after sunday service i will build up courage to confront him and voice out my opinion to him.
So on sunday, it was going to be our first sunday after wedding, i had arrange our wears, his and my own, i woke up early to make breakfast for him and prepare him for church, before he woke up i was already in the kitchen so i ask him to take his bath and lets go early.
He took breakfast (i don't take breakfast so i didnt eat), we were all fully dressed and ready to set out, i packed our bible and writing note into the car and the gift we wanted to give our pastor too inside the car.
it was almost time and i said, so shall we, he said not yet and i said what is remaining, he said you're remaining, you havent given me nothing this morning, i said but you just took breakfast, he said nope, i haven't had you. This is like 10minutes for church to start oo.
He came closer and i said please dont let us waste time lets go, he changed, dont let us do what, did you just say waste time? he dragged me down the couch and started what i will call rape again, at the process he had rough handled everything i wore, roughen my hair, i started crying, he walk down the wardrobe pick up something and ask me to wear it, i told him i'm not going to church again, he started begging that i can't do that but i keep refusing.
He shouted i should let us go and i refuse, he came back and raped me again till i agree i will go, so i dressed up and just ran into my own car, took off.
He thought i was going to church, he also entered the car and make his way to church, when he got to church he called me, i didnt answer the phone, i came home and was lying on the bed thinking of what next to do. i was actually thinking of running away without a word so he can come look for me forever.
So he got to church and the pastor and wife ask him about me, he said i must be inside, the pastor sense something, did you say she must be inside? did you two not come together bla bla bla, after serious enquiries he opened up that we had an issue in the morning.
I was lying down and i heard the door bell, i thought he was the one, i did not open it the bell rang a thousand times i ignored, the pastor wife called i didnt answer so because my car was parked inside they knew i was around. Finally i opened and here my pastor and wife have left the congregation standing there with him.
So they came in and ask me what happened, i told them i want a divorce that my husband is killing me, they ask me what happened if he was beating me or denying me of sex of not providing etc. i told them he raped me everything over everything and that my greatest surprise was to know he is doing all of these because i couldn't let him have sex with me while we were dating.
They then turn to him and ask him what happened, i never knew some people can talk so well that will make a bad case look good, anyway he's a barrister.
He said, pastor i don't know why this happen but i knew i never ask God to give me a virgin as a wife, my brother married a virgin and till today he cannot enjoy sex so he has resulted to having sex outside wedlock but i have promise myself that i wont do that, wether she likes it or not, she must satisfy me.
Ever since i met her over 3 years ago, i loved her, even though she told me no sex, i thought she was just been careful so i left her, fr 3 years i never touched any woman, here i was thinking she was practicing romance, or sex style she will give me on wedding night cos she did not have any virgin trait on her, she was exposed (works in the media), talks fearlessly, gives me headache so i thought oh she is a tough girl.
But on our wedding night, my wife here comes into the room, before i could finish a call, she rush to take her bath, cover herself up like she is going for a mecca trip, comes here lying with her back facing me, i thought to myself but this is the same lady that smiles and laughs through out na, what would have happened, i said ok pls come and bath me, she refuse i had too beg then she came standing 50 metres away, throwing water on my body, i got so angry i wanted to beat her up but i calmed down and before i could say jack, she got angry that she is not bathing me anymore, i met her again in the room and she said she tired and want to sleep, i tried to beg her she refuse, i then say to myself, so after begging her for 3 years to date me, kneel down to propose, beg her parent, beg the church i have to beg again for sex int his house, not in my life so i had my way, and i made sure i wasnt hurting her cos i realise the first time she was a virgin.
Just to please her that she was a virgin which wasnt much of a big deal to me, i entered a car shop, got her a car, i told her this is for you, she said thanks like i bought her a biscuit and the next morning she left to her office in her own car.
She returned and i wanted to kiss her and she said i was disturbing her that she is tired, i was so angry, so whenever i am angry, i just have sex with her to calm myself down so i dont go driinking of even beat her, the only day i can admit to raping her was when she returned from work and i had sex with her, she stayed on the couch crying, i took wine in two glasse, gave her one she pushed the wine glass away from me, i then said jokingly, you see its your time to cry now, im giving you those hot sex so you remember the times you use to punish me, insult me and make me go through hardtime but you've got to change now cos im your husband, if not you will be crying like this.
Then my wife stood up and said to me, God will judge you for your wickedness, what!!! so i am wicked to have sex with my wife? the same woman i paid a huge ransom to her calabar relations to marry her? i got so angry so i raped the hell out of her that day, she almost fainted though i felt bad afterwards.
So this morning, we were set for church, i wanted to kiss her and just touch her a little cos she was looking beautiful, she started that stubbornness again, she pushed me away like trash so i showed her im more powerful by having sex with her and she said she wasn't going to church anymore, i brought something else for her to wear she refused and i remember she does anything i want her to do while having sex with her so i gave her another round and she ran out to the car, i thought she has left for church but no, so this is what i have been passing through.
My pastor wife was first to comment, she said what!!! did you do all that i heard, i said no ma, he is not saying it the way it is, he raped me, so they started, asking the questions one after the other, did you bath only you on your wedding night, my husband jumps in, ask her if she ever bath with me together since we were married.
At that point, i felt like asking him to stop talking, my pastor said, how old are you again incase i have forgotten, i said 26 sir, he said why na.. why, did you not read? but you are learned na why did you have to do all of these, the pastor turns to the wife and said mummy did you not put her through counselling?
They all started blaming me and apologizing to my husband, my pastor's wife had a one on one with me, they ask me to kneel to beg him.
They ask me to dress up lets go to church, it was suppose to be our thanksgiving sunday i told them, i wont be able to go as my eyes was already red. in my mind i rather sit and start thinking of how i can satisfy this man.
As advised, i bath with him last night, as expected he had sex with me in the bathroom, i felt like fainting but i kept quite this time, i bear it like its a price i have to pay.
We had sex 3 times before the night was over, now he is happy.
HONESTLY IF I KNEW THIS IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT, I WOULD HAVE JUST STAYED IN MY MOTHER'S HOUSE, THEY DID NOT PURSUE ME OUT