theredaddy: That you are abroad is that suppose to have an effect on me, .... simple question.
Abroad or no abroad, mention that job you aint permitted to go pee or given a break time ... and i will define slavery
Yeah ! maybe there are works you submit your phone at the entrance But i dare you to mention that work you will be in the office for one week without a break to bath, eat or change cloth .....and i will define prison.
i once had a navy landlord, we have time we can reach him, and when we cant reach in at all he is offshore completely out of reach not because he is tew busy to pick his family call ... besides these is not even the arguement.
Navy, army or ship workers, which one are you, whats your excuse again ode !
that ode you mentioned at the end, na your father middle name! You get sense so! You think say all job na office job?
Guy gets small sense na is like you never get experience for your life!
theredaddy: Can you mention one day you were tew BUSY to take a pee or eat, just because you are working.
Lets not fool ourselves, if you are not on ICU bed or about to set Guiness book record ... its impossible to be busy 24hrs straight,
The gospel truth, no matter how busy we will always have time for those we love ... if a dangote can have time to sleep in a mistress house sotey she snap his yansh bro forget it
laugh on you
You dey that country were job no dey that's why you dey think like this!
Even in Nigeria they're some work you are not permitted to hold on your phone on duty for even a weeks . Make I name them for you since you get shallow mind? Police Navy especially Dss Army Oil company ( especially offshore work in riverine area Researcher (research institute)
sleek214: Which one be physical copy of a driver's licence again na. Fine for driving without vehicle documents and driver's licence is not up to 20k sef. People drive without driver's licence here in Abuja, if police FRSC or VIO stop you, you press 2k for their and move on. 1 million for an offence that is not an offence is crazy. The boys should tell us the truth. As a corps member back in the days, no police or soldier fit harass me in Akwa ibom state ooo
you don too ride bicycle too much!
You don't know that there's a digital copy of licence which you can show the police or whatever?
DuBLINGreenb: lol 🤣 I think we are due for an Update.
Yes you are right. She broke up with me over a very long WhatsApp text talking about how she never wanted us to break up and she intended to come back to me and what not but after going back she’s had a third and fourth person perspective and our relationship is toxic because I do things to make her jealous and she gets very very jealous which she used to swear she was never ever jealous before she met me but with me she gets so jealous she started doing things she didn’t think she would do things if she saw in the movie she’d say this b!tch is crazy so I made her a crazy b!tch
Well long story short we are toxic and everyone wants us to break up, I also kind of reluctantly agreed because I know with 0 support any little issue we have we have no one to turn to anybody we turn to says break up even if it’s just a normal couple issue like deciding what to eat for dinner, assuming “I wanted goat curry and she wanted Jollof” and she told her friends or anyone the next thing they’ll say is you guys should break up, but when her sister was being beat up physically assaulted by an Indian man they’d console her to stay forgive him 🤣, and she stayed for a while till it became too much she was going to d!3, that was when finally they said Ok, but with us the slightest inconvenience they want us to break up,
I personally don’t care what people think or say because for most of my life I wanted to please people, I tried but they were never ever pleased it was never enough if I get 3rd place in school they’d ask what about the 2 people ahead of you, if my nails were clean they’d ask what about your hair if that was done they’d ask what about your socks if you did all you had to do they’d say “And so what? You want a medal for doing what you’re supposed to do? 🤣” so for me people have never really cared about me, my opinions or my interests other than my mom and dad of course so I don’t care much about other peoples opinions but she does, she loves to please people especially her family. Her dad number one, her sisters, her mum, her uncles and aunts etc.
When she was leaving I told her, distance makes the heart grow fonder, nostalgia can fool you into thinking something bad was good. And everything I told her has happened, the first few days she arrived she told me everyone is Nice to her, they love her here, why did she ever leave. I didn’t want to spoil the moment by reminding her all the things she told me went down especially between her and her mom. (Long story short her mom had 2 girls and wanted a boy some horoscope or family or poorly done test or whatever told her she’d have a boy to continue her husbands legacy but that child turned out to be a girl. And her husbands brothers all had boys she was the only one without a boy so Maybe she held a small tiny grudge against that baby for not being a boy, she bought boy clothes and even gave the kid male haircuts as a child. She and this child would have lots of disagreements and fights.)
So I told her chill, relax savour the moment you’re still an adult visitor in their eyes who came to visit bearing gifts so they’ll treat you with respect and adoration wait 2 weeks you’ll become the normal child that left many years ago. We started communicating less and less and stopped communicating entirely at a point, for a while things were rosy for her and her family… until the mom decided to arrange marry her to her friends son (which if you remember the mom promised we won’t arrange marry you till at-least 3 years or till you finish the program you said you want to do) But the guy she was to be arranged married to didn’t like the fact that she had friends and she visits the mall and she didn’t like the guy the way he was so opinionated/authoritarian and his views on women and their roles in the family and society etc. So they both tried to frustrate meetings and marriage plans But she told me she stopped communicating because of the whole arrange marriage thing going on, and since she wasn’t communicating I was giving back the same energy.
As if that was not enough the mom went through her phone one evening and found pictures of her at a friends place with weed aka mary Jane aka loud aka canna (it’s legal in Canada) but that picture was in India in India it’s not exactly legal not that I know off but it’s easily available and accessible.
The mother also saw pictures and videos of her with me (no weed/mary J) (well they knew about me already) but the pictures were a little steamy, also she found some stuff about her ex who is a Muslim Bangladeshi (if you don’t know Indians and Pakistanis and some parts of Bangladesh don’t get along well also Hindus and Muslims don’t get along well long story short allegations of forced conversions, marriage jihad, disrespect and discrimination both ways, cows being held in high regard by Hindus and not so much by Muslims to taunt Hindus etc etc) the mom freaked out and long story short she (the girl not the mom) sustained some scares and bruises from the mom.
It’s been under 2-3 months and everything had already gone downhill fast. They were watching a movie one day and she woke her mom up to go sleep inside, the mom decked her and shouted at her not to do that again, the rest of the family didn’t agree with the mom saying her actions were rash the mom became livid😡 saying that they were supporting the girl over her in her own home.
The mom is dramatic from all I’ve heard not just from the girl but her sisters and other people that night the mom even threatened su!c!de so things became extremely tense so tense that she left the house that night and no one noticed till 24 hours later.
Where was she gonna go? at the time no family wanted her to stay with them. So she went to a friends place for awhile then a shared hostel remember this was someone everyone back home promised heaven and earth if you leave him and come back home you will add many years to my life, we will add you to the Will, we will forgive you, we will treat you better, we won’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do etc etc etc.
Long story short one day she calls me high/drunk and just kept crying and telling me she misses me and she wants me back and reminiscing on all our inside jokes and pet peeves and pet names all that but I didn’t know what to make of any of these because I’m thinking she’s just high/drunk and stressed, she calls me a second time the following day same time same type of talk and days later she calls and asks what’s going on and all that and she’s very sober this time after the call she ends with the same “I love you” she used in the other 2 calls and I’m like “hold on you can’t just slide that in there I thought you were only saying those things because you were drunk/high and she says no. I meant everything I said I was high but I wasn’t wasted I knew what I was saying. Things got so bad she started drinking to cope back in Canada we bought a campaign the bottle lasted us more than 1 year only visitors drank the drinks even the smoke we only smoked when someone who smoked came around we borrowed their weed and we didn’t even finish it. I haven’t had any weed at all since she left. I have also never had alcohol, she was also on the same pet to not having any at all even while around smokers and drinkers she had quit drinking entirely and was about to quit smoking but now apparently atleast for thise two days we spoke whenever she missed me she’d cry and drink herself to sleep
So as things are now she’s looking for a job, she’s starting some educational program and she’s trying to get back with me and convince me to come stay with her in India she claims housing and food won’t be as expensive as in Canada but my concern is ‘Money coming in is more important than money going out’ if 100k is coming in and 80k is going out no problem, but if 0k is coming in and 2k is going out Big problem” she claims it’s be easier for me to get a job because I am more learned, more educated than she is, I’ve got more certificates than she does. And Indian employers love certificates. But I know they have 6 day work week instead of 5 and the working conditions I don’t think will be the same as Canada.
She says she’s got a few non-Indian friends from Canada going over to India in December and she’s arranging the entire trip itinerary for them and would like if I could come along. I’m like I would love too but that’s something you plan and save months ahead for. and I have no budget right now also since it’s all girls it may be a little awkward for me. She gets jealous easily and I have no sisters so… I don’t know from the little I know girls think and operate differently from guys. I’m more used to understanding and figuring guys out than girls.
One small example I had a Naija friend who had a white Canadian babe he has/had a situationship with and my Indian girl and this white Canadian girl used to always meet at our place so they also became acquaintances/friends, one day she (the white Canadian) offered me a ride to work, this was when I had no car, and I was running late so this friend told his girl to offer me a ride since we are going the same direction in my “guy with no sisters” brain I said yes thanks thinking that will save me time and money and save me from going late to work only to come back and was told by my girl at the time that the white Canadian girl said I’m the only guy who didn’t hit on her ‘actively’ and I’m like oh good but I didn’t hit on her at all, she starts to not talk to me🤣 I was forking confused till today I don’t know what I did wrong but I apologized. During the ride not once did we talk anything love related I didn’t even look at this girl once, she told me about how long she’s been in the city all her friends had moved etc. I only said “nice car, oh, I see, ok, ahn-uh” and thank you, when she dropped me off. She was the one doing all the talking. About the outing she went with my girl, her car and the name she calls it, there was some long silence during the ride. But apparently by her own female perspective this was “inactive flirting”. And by my own girl at the time her girl perspective this was “cheating”. Well this was what she meant by we were toxic.
When we went to the club we always got compliments and girls usually approached us she used to get jealous When guys approached her I don’t get jealous I saw it as a compliment.
She would get easily jealous and I sometimes out of frustration of having to apologize over nothing would say things or show things that I thought was actual cheating or flirting and she’d be hurt. There was always drama 🎭 but there was even more good times.
I don’t know maybe I’m wrong but I also saw her jealousy as love, I thought the reason she gets so jealous is because she’s really in love. She also said she wouldn’t be able to do long distance relationship when we first met but now from what she’s been saying and suggesting she wants us to try it.
When we first met I told her you’ve never been in love before, many women never really have and most women will never really be in love. She said the idea of sex & the act scares her and she hates it, she used to claim she was a Les to not date guys and when we started hanging out I asked her about it she laughed and told me she wouldn’t say she is she she just tells people that to not get approached but she would say she’s bi. But even that was a lie as well. Not that I even mind but I told her you’ll be certain about yourself when you find someone you love you will enjoy the act and you will like the person.
Then she didn’t understand but now I’m sure she does.
exactly what my did to me! With time will start blaming her families as you narrated! But one thing I will advise you! Don't be foolish enough to come back to her! When she said that work is much in India over Canada! That's is a bloody bait lie! Even the India themselves are running away from that country because work is hard there.
When I said don't be foolish enough to come back to her or give her chance is because she initiated the breakup and everything!
Now she went back to India and can't compare any man as good and as you! What did you think will happen? She will try all means to come back in Which you will be foolish enough to take her back!
Just move on even if you can stop answering her call or message! Aldo she will do all such of suicide threats and messages with emotional blackmail saying that you didn't stick up with me during her hard times! ( Don't give in to those temptation)
LocalFARMERS: After making this video last year, With hope that I will have a bountiful harvest. Few weeks later, there was a Ginger disease outbreak in Kaduna. This disease affected over 95% of the Ginger farms within and outside Kaduna State.
Today, a bag of Ginger is over 600k. So many people couldn't farm Ginger this year, because the seedlings was scarce. Ginger farmers usually keep aside their seedlings after every harvest.
Ginger is a major cash crop in Southern Kaduna. Some people have build Duplex, buy lands, Cars and travel abroad with the money they made from Ginger farming in Kaduna.
Berankis: If any country should be delisted in the entire world, it should be the US. They have recorded the highest crashes in recent times, which should actually call for concern by other countries but because of the money (grants/loans/interventions/donations) they all get from the US, everyone keeps quiet. Hence, they are.now delisting others.
that's what I'm talking about! They have the highest record of crashes in the entire history of plane crash! So which one are they talking about lack of adequate maintenance?
Richtaiwo: Summary of the report is that there is lack of maintenance on the part of the airline operators. But watch retarded puppies spring up and start insulting, crying and cursing their worthless fathers as usual.
lack of maintenance but US have the highest rate of plane crash with their adequate maintenance policy
Thundafireseun: My brother…. A man must look carefully for red flags before making life decisions…. If it were up to me my daughter would use just ordinary Vaseline…. That’s exactly what I see children her age using
But the mental mother has refused so for peace sake I send money differently for her cream and in return send me pictures of product and recent receipt
Stop using this type of cream for your baby girl! Instead use vaseline or coconut oil or rather Nivea cocoa cream or so.
jorion: You no dey hear word until woman trap you.
just leave that guy make he dey form Mr sharp guy! Na him type Mr sharp guy full prison with regrets. Something similar happened with one of our neighbors some years back ago! That guy sleep for detention cell for 4days until them bail am.
Village people dey do meetings for that guy head! Them go soon finalize am
BrutusOj: I can say you are still learning about Nigerian ladies sha, she came to your house on first date, you didn't do the needful with her instead you started talking about relationship afresh?
Babe don already assume her duty as your babe na, she wanted more of you in your room not gentle man talk of relationship. Nowadays, you don't ask ladies out formally, from the first romantic move you take towards them, it has started.
Going straightforward most times spoil everything for those ladies who have dated very badt sharp guys
na your type dey go rape girls up and down
Shall na Nigeria you dey you fit get away with tape! Carry this your yeye mentality abroad, na prison you go sleep
This is why I laugh at women who, instead of working on their stubbornness, say they will find a man that can "handle" them.
Who told you that a man wants to handle you? The last lady I asked out did something similar.
We vibed well, I took her out once, then invited her over, and it was at my place that I told her what I wanted. She straight up said "na."
I said okay, we're good, and that was it.
We gisted a bit more, I saw her off, and when she got home, she texted me, "Are you angry?" I said, "na," but that was it for me.
It wasn’t even the rejection that was the issue, but how it was said. If you want to play hard to get, at least drop hints that you're interested, otherwise, I'll assume you're playing "never gonna happen."
Later she told me I had everything on a platter of gold but wasn’t man enough to take it.
Ladies don’t realize how stressed the average Nigerian guy is already, and then you add unnecessary hard to get on top of it.
I will pass abeg.
you could have told her that she had everything on a platter of gold but wasn't woman enough to say yes
That's why I love foreign women! Yes is yes and no is no.
essentialone: There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.
All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.
About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.
I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home. Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.
He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."
Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.
What should I do now as a Lady?
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the mumu guy even try convince you for 3day
Nowadays who got that time chasing black women especially naija girls! If I set everything in the mood and I approach you, you give me that hard to get vibe. Otilor!
South Africans are ordering Bolt in Nigeria, all the way from SA and cancelling when the rider gets to the pick up location.
According to them, Nigeria's currency is weak, 'they' can't pay cancellation fees.
Next they want to start reporting fake crimes to police lines.
Nigerians have successfully created maximum Bolt surge in Cape Town and Johannesburg, rendering South Africans stranded over unavailability and expensive rides.
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