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Family / Re: My Husband Flirt With Girls Alot Help Me !! by Ephatah: 11:08pm On Dec 14, 2023
Be good for you. Not for him. Don't cheat. It degrades a person. Can anyone talk to him? There's the prayer of covenant. Remind God of the covenant of your marriage. Then ask him to remove all third parties from your marriage. Keep the faith. I wish you well
Career / Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Ephatah: 11:26am On Oct 06, 2023
So sorry about this. It will go with time and practice. Don't run from it anymore. Try talking in front of few people, the. Increase it from der. This used to be me. I would freeze . But don't overthink it. Most importantly, be prepared for your presentation, practice practice practice. It will get better oooo.
Family / Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Ephatah: 2:04pm On Sep 28, 2023
My 2 cents
Seems something happened to him. Something traumatic. Dats y he is saying his life doesn't have meaning. So he needs a counselor or professional therapist.
He can change. Next, does he go to church? Encourage him to go to church. A good church oo abeg. I no say make him go white garment.
All the best. Don't give up.

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Family / Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Ephatah: 2:21pm On Jun 13, 2023
If fidelity is the goal, then it is not even a problem, he will be open. But when the man wants to cheat, then the phone becomes protected like a fortress. It's really not about checking the phone always it's about trust. If she knows she can trust the man, nothing go concern the woman with the phone sef.
Some men are just opening doors generational curses to Thier families and Thier generation. Centuries later, Thier offspring will be renouncing evil covenants their ancestors made, not knowing the said ancestors are here in the year 2023 justifying infidelity and inviting the devil in. May God have mercy.

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Family / Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Ephatah: 9:00pm On Jun 07, 2023
Smh, And people still view sex as ordinary and a game. Something dat can ruin an entire family. As for the case of your cousin. Is there an elder in the family that can be fair and hear both sides and judge fairly? So dat the truth can be known. She can also pray for God's vindication. I hope she the fiancee is aware of wots happening. B4 he hears a totally twisted story from someone else.
Business / Re: Importer To CBN: Tell The Truth, Naira Has Been Devalued by Ephatah: 7:41pm On Jun 02, 2023
Why is Emefiele still the CBN Governor?
Family / Re: My Mum Bullying My Dad Is Getting Out Of Hand!!! by Ephatah: 3:41pm On May 28, 2023
This happens alot when the man doesn't have a steady source of income. Some women tend to look down on the man.
Don't scold. Talk to her maturedly. Wish you d best

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Romance / Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Ephatah: 3:30pm On May 23, 2023
She can report the lecturer with evidence. Because sometimes these lecturers are actually demonic agents sent to universities. If she sleeps with him, na so she go continue to sleep with man to get job after school? NO!!!!
She can also report the man to God. Get someone to agree with her on this prayer. Prayer of agreement strong gan!
She must study hard to pass the course also, Incase he fails her and they have to call the script back for remarking. She should cheer up. All will end well.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Dangote Refinery: How Prepared Are You As A Job Seeker? by Ephatah: 1:49pm On May 22, 2023
I am a female electrical engineer. I didn't really believe I could practice so I ran to other fields. I want to retrace my steps. You are right in saying alot of youths don't have mentors. A small word of advice or knowledge could have helped put me on the right track. Thank you sir. I am really interested in how Nigerian young pprofessionals can maximize this huge opportunity.

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Education / Re: Scarcity Of Teachers In Private Schools: What Is The Cause and the Way Forward? by Ephatah: 8:15pm On Sep 09, 2022
The stress is plenty
The schools look down on the teacher
The parents and students talk down on the teacher
Abuja schools close 4 o'clock. It's hard. You teach, mark notes, follow up students for assignment who are not afraid anymore because they are not to be flogged. So they hardly do assignment.
Discipline levels are low. You can't teach someone that disrespects you. It's impossible
It gets harder to meet basic needs, so you have to engage in private lessons. The students still behave badly character wise.
Society does not value the teacher anymore.
Which is really sad.
It's like a ticking time bomb�
In the words of Asa.....there is fire on the mountain, .....one day we will run, wishing we had put out the fire.

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Family / Re: Advice Needed by Ephatah: 11:53am On Sep 11, 2021
Zuchey91:

Pls forget the ex. He is a distraction
Since your husband feels women should not talk, telling hima about the cheating will make him more emboldened and may even turn it on you. So I get that you not telling him.
I feel your pain. Divorce may not be an option sha. Talk to a counselor. Talk to him about you guys doing couples counseling. If he doesn't feel women should talk den don't argue with him. State your points at other times. You will have to be the emotional mature one in the relationship. Then pray. You can join NSPPD PRAYERS by Pastor Jerry Eze. Every morning 7:00 to 8:00am. It's a global prayer platform. I wish you well.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: As An Online Tutor, How Much Do You Earn Per Hour? by Ephatah: 1:12pm On Sep 09, 2021
world123:
Hi House,

So I got an offer as an online tutor to be paid 2$ per hour. I am thinking it's too small. How much do you guys earn per hour as an online tutor?

Pls what site is dis
Family / Re: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by Ephatah: 10:50am On May 01, 2021
Don't shout at her
Push her to do stuff, enrol her in activities, piano lessons, football clubs,
Tell her she is great wen she does little things. She will do what you want without fuss so as much as possible don't yell.
Encourage her in academia. Go for her school events. Be friends with her asking about her day constantly so she gets used to telling you what happened. Teach her to know God early. Wish you all the best

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