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muy caliente

Can you tell us the meaning of Shy?

Good night sweet heart.

[size=18pt]I Voted YES[/size]

Not so keen about the other sections but we sure need it in the Kitchen area. It (modify button) serves as a fire extinguisher!

1love

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log off -head for yonkers

You think she's shy, what do you think?

This is funny only if he knows what Swagga (popular name back home) mean *hint* _{when he walks he swag because he has (let's keep it clean)} ^{Are you caribbean?}

3 To The Third Power

3 To The Third Power

why someone keep calling and hanging up the phone in my ears. soo annoying

This too shall pass (modify button)

Anyway, here is an email (see below) I received and my response was "To each his own so no need but you are out of line by putting down black women.

By freemind2000

I have decided to get into the fray with this petty bickering which is going on and offer some insight into why I will never date black women again.
I date white women exclusively. Well, I should say "non-African American women" exclusively. I have dated women of Hispanic-American women, Asian-American woman, and am currently in a serious relationship with a woman of Middle Eastern descent. I can't say whether or not that relationship will work out.
But, I can say that I have no plans and foresee no plans of EVER dating African-American women again. So, I guess I'm what you call a sell out.
Basically, I just got tired of the black woman drama. And, when black men who date white women say that they choose to do so because of "black woman drama" - I know exactly what they are talking about.
Women who could not disagree without getting loud. Women who "got their nerve", or "who does she think that is", or "no, she didn't".
I got tired of all that "black" mentality. I got tired of disagreements having to always end up with a loud argument.
I got tired of taking sisters to a nice restaurant and, if the food
isn't prepared right, watch her get an attitude with the waiter.
I got tired of planning a romantic weekend, then have it
ruined because she had an attitude because something didn't go her way at work on Friday. I got tired of planning social events, then not having my woman want to go because she didn't like the "attitude" of someone who was going to be there. I got tired of sisters who didn't try to work out or take care of their bodies but had nothing but nastiness to say about those who chose to have enough self respect to take care of themselves. I got tired of taking sisters to elegant affairs and then watch them have nothing better to do but to comment on what was wrong with the affair. "That music gots to go", "The salad don't taste right", "That woman over there needs a breast reduction".
It's amazing, but when we went to "black" movie like "Friday" or some
Master P garbage - nothing was ever wrong. I got tired of sisters who could never find or make time to go to the gym.
Tired of dealing with "successful" black women who were just all into keeping up with the Jones's. Women with bad credit. Shopping at Sak's when they have a K-Mart budget. Buying stuff they can't afford to show off. Sick of it. I got tired of women who never have time to read a decent book, but never miss a soap opera. I got tired of planning adventurous sex and then having it blown off
with "I don't do that" or "Ugh huh". I got tired of hot love making sessions come to a shattering end because her nail broke. I got tired of that funky attitude, that nasty ass confrontation demeanor, that "me first" mentality, that low level of thinking. I got tired of black women and the drama that always comes with dating one. I got tired of women who don't let a man be a man and make the critical decisions but instead butt him on every turn and them call him
trifling or weak if he just gives up. Now, I know the first thing some of you women are saying is "I bet he date women that even white men don't want". Nope, every white woman I date is fine. Ultra fine. Bodies like Jennifer Lopez. Faces like Vanessa Williams.
I have high standards in everything from cologne, to clothes (which I
have fitted), to food (I don't eat red meat, fried food, or artificially preserved fruits/vegetables), to women (I don't date women who don't take care of their bodies, minds, or souls). The women I date are up to my standards (which are high), can wear 2 piece swimsuits with no embarrassment, can tell you the difference between a Modernist, postimpressionist, postmodern, or Contemporary painting, and can explain what a diversified portfolio is.
To make it short - I got tired of the black woman mentality. I'm just putting it out there. A lot of black men who date white won't say it -but a lot of them know it is true. While I am trying to not generalize, my experience is that most black women got an
"attitude". They like to call it being "real", or being "straightforward", or "speaking their mind". But, the attitude is just really a nastiness that says "I can't disagree without being disagreeable. I can't let others be different without belittling them for their difference. What others think of me is more important than
what I think of myself. All money is meant to be spent ASAP without
thought for tomorrow.
Critics expose themselves. Not too long ago, my girlfriend and I stopped at a restaurant and were eating. Across the way were some black females who gave my girlfriend that up-and-down look and then cut their eyes to each other in a look of disgust. Now these women were all at least 200 lbs, sloppy fat, black women. And, they kept looking to us and letting their voices raise so we could hear "jungle fever", "sell out", "weak nigga", etc. Next, it went to "she probably went down on him to get him to leave his wife", "you know she lets him cum in her mouth", "you know he must have a small penis",
"she's nothing but white trailer trash" , "loser", "slut", "hoe", "punk". And, that
is what I found about nearly all black women who have a problem with a black man dating only white. They have serious issues with their own esteem and try to cover up these issues by attacking black men who date only white women.
So, that's why!! Have a good day.

I know the topic say "Yellow" but don't let it get to you. This too shall past. Basically what i am saying "no need to talk about African girls smelly cats.

1love

gabrywyl:
Ok no beef me ooo BUT I have asked my housemates (just incase if you dont know, they are Naija boys) on why are they dating Oyinbo's instead of black ladies.

The Igbo's usually say this:- just to taste how they taste like but in the end of the day, I always go back to my African Queen. Of course Ill marry all this Oyinbos cause I want their money and also to have fun with them but I will surely go back to my roots. Nobody can beat the African gene! NOBODY!

The rest says that: OH SHAIT! African girls? Chinike! All they ever cares about this days is money money money. If you are not rich, forget about dating one cause they will treat you like shait! They are blinded by the money and thats all. Thats why I love Asian and White so much cause they show real love and they mostly are always by your side in good and rough times. Especially Asians.

And some commented that African girls all mostly have smelly toto (I dont know ooo) cause they are freakin lazy (maybe only the girls they met sha) and too high maintenance especially on their hair!!!


Yeah. Thats what I got

But my bf says No comment! Different people have different characters. One mans food is another mans poison

Run

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