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Entrust indeed. How can u even trust to get married to a family who could not raise their daughter properly? Na u foolish pass dindinrin

dyera:
The foolish man doesn't know the purpose of Bride price. The family of the Bride asking for Bride price is them asking the man to prove his financial capability, that way they can entrust their daughter to him with peace of mind.

U are mentally derailed for saying she will pay with copulation later. Like seriously? is she a LovePeddler or aren't they going to enjoy it together? while must he be a slave to the babe because of sex? some naija guys are just very stupid thats y we have many babes with the mentality of the OP babe. Shior!!!!!

rickleye:
In my eyes you both acted immaturely
1. You had a budget of N3000 ( You said not more than N3000) - So when the food was ordered it was less than N450 she wanted plantain. Let her have the damn plantain. !!!
2. Because she didn't get what she wanted she takes the food , doesn't eat it and in addition moves away from you ( Is she 16 ? ) I mean common.
3. You too vex and then apart from your food, you ate hers as well. So at the end you consumed 2600N all by yourself which is more than you had agreed upon.

There has to be more than binds you together than this episode if you really love her.
Talk to her that you find her behaviour childish that because the food was under the budget did not mean we should spend it all. We could have used the remaining money for something else. You will however find in relationships there are some battles you avoid to win the war. If you want to have whoopie, let her have the damn plantain because she will pay with copulation later on. Its give and take later on.

Na wa for them

babasolution:
Nigerian info 99.3,is riddled with feminism.It was clearly feminist bias.It's their modus operandi to always favor the female in Nigeria info

It was a show of shame at the "I BEG TO DIFFER DEBATE" at Nigeria info 99.3 fm between two 15 year old secondary school student, Olalekan Ramadan and Deborah Pamsat. In the debate, it was so glaring that Ramadan won and they declare Deborah the winner. I have never seen such bias judgement from the unjust judges before. If you listen to the debate, what is your take? I know this will definitely affect the psych of that young man and if ordinary debate can be so rigged, what does the future holds for this country?

Is Saul not a midfielder?Why keep RLC on d bench? Tuchel dey mad

Sunnyb104:
Kante, Jorginho, kovasic all injured, so he needs another player in that role

Wat sought of foolish formation is Tuchel using and he sat there knowing this is not working and can't do something about it. Y will James b playing tru d middle

Please do not crucify me for this not because I want to marry a second wife but I found this thought a provoking write up on a Christian platform, it's worth sharing.


POLYGAMY! POLYGAMY!! POLYGAMY!!!
You will all agree with me that one of the most controversial word in Christiandom today is POLYGAMY

Are you a religious scholar? a Pastor? a Theologian? or a born again Christian?.......? Please , feel free to constructively contribute, castigate, correct, admonish, advice or preach........in accordance with the provisions of the Holy Bible (the word of God)

Before I go further, I will like you to have the following questions at the back of your minds.

1). Who was the first person to engage in the act of POLYGAMY?

2). Is POLYGAMY a sin?

3). Did God condemn POLYGAMY?

4). Those that engaged in POLYGAMY, are they in Hell?

5). What is the fate of the polygamous Children?

6). Is marriage a traditional act or religious act?

7). Why do Christians condemn POLYGAMY?

. What are the effects of POLYGAMY in Christiandom?

9). Has God changed?

GEAR 1
Lamech was the first man to marry more than one wife, Gen 4:19

GEAR 2
Godly/Holy persons that engaged in POLYGAMY according to the Bible included
Abdon, Judges 12:13-14; Abijah, 2 Chronicles 13-21; Abraham, Gen 16-1-3, Gen 25:1; Ahab, 1 kings 20:1-3; Ahaseurus, Esther 1:9, Ashur, 1 Chronicles 4:5, Belshazzar, Daniel 5:2, Ben-Hadad (who married Ahab's wives), Caleb, 1 Chronicles 2:18-19, David (had 8wives), 1 Samuel 18:27, 25:39, 25:42, 2 Samuel 3:5, 5:13, 12:7-8, 12:24. Eliphaz, Gen 36:11-12. Elkanah, 1 Samuel 1:1-2
Esau, Gen 26:34
Ezra, 4:17-18; Gideon, Judges 8:30....and many more.

We had not fewer than 40 Godly and ungodly men that engaged in POLYGAMY from the Bible. Also, we had not less than 43 POLYGAMY cases from the Bible.

GEAR 3
Had God condemned POLYGAMY?
No! God NEVER did In all the POLYGAMY cases mentioned in the Bible, God did not condemn any except David who snatched Uriah's wife. God said to David ' in 2 Samuel 12:8; I gave your master's house to you, and your master's wives into your arms. I gave you the house of Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more."
Why did God himself say so to David?

GEAR 4
Is POLYGAMY a sin?
Those that engaged in POLYGAMY are they in hell?
Is Abraham in hell? (Luke 16:19-31)
Is Jacob in hell?
Are David, Solomon, Elkanah, Ezra.....@all, in hell?

GEAR 5
Does God permit POLYGAMY? The answer of course is YES! In Genesis 21:10, God said If he (man) marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights. In 2 Samuel 12:8. God Himself said to David ,"...I gave your master Wives,........if you need more, I would have given you"

GEAR 6
What is the fate of the polygamous children? Condemned or
Favoured?
Why was Joseph, Samuel, Solomon.... Highly favoured?

GEAR 7.
Before religion there was marriage.
Gen 1:26-28, Gen 2:18-25

The issue of Monogamy was purely the tradition of the western world who were our religious colonial masters. In the land of the White, traditionally, rivalry is a taboo. But the Jews (Israelites) and the Edomites (the blacks) share the same or similar traditions. A widow is not allowed to be seen in the Street, but be remarried to their husbands relatives or friends, Gen 38.

GEAR 8
Why do Christians condemn POLYGAMY?
The new testament completely responded seamlessly on POLYGAMY matters. The new testament talks about every aspect of Christian living except POLYGAMY. Mathew 19:3-9, Jesus spoke about God’s initial plan for man. He condemned divorce but did not condemn POLYGAMY. Paul’s admonishment to Timothy on how to elect Church leadership, just like the case of levites of old (Moses...), 1 Timothy 3. The point of contention here is, If there were no men with more than a wife in the Church, Paul Won't have mentioned it. Also in 1 Corinthians 7:39.

GEAR 9
Effects of POLYGAMY:
POLYGAMY has it merits and demerits in the society and Christiandom at large.
1). In the Society, the Maternal Mortality rate is high in the female folks compared to men. The number of girls birth rate is higher than that of men, and the number of men death rate is higher than that of women. The number of widows keep increasing geometrically adding up to the number of single women in the society.
This leads to increase of infidelity, adultery, and formication in the society compared to the days of our forefathers. So pathetic nowadays to see our single girls fighting with widows for the ownerships of a guy.

2). Religiously, the so-called MONOGAMY has caused more harm than good in Christian-dom. God says in Gen 1:28 'God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground'. But what do we have today? Christians going into family planning. The Israelites lived 430yrs only in Egypt, but Pharaoh became scared because of their rapid growth in population. I can't imaging if they were practicing Family planning and Monogamy.

IBB introduced family planning to Nigeria with a maximum of 4 children to a couple and, was widely embraced mostly by Christians that is 4 children to a couple but, Muslim being naturally a polygamy has an average 2 to 5 wives to a man, meaning 20 children to a family. This have invariably led to increase in population of Muslims far above their Christian counterparts in Nigeria (60% / 40%).
Looking critically, Nigeria is trailing the path of Turkey and old Sudan

Turkey(the biblical Antioch) was a Christian nation overtaken by Muslims because of falsehood of Christian priests.
b.) Very soon Our children, particularly daughters (that we are trying to protect today) will be used as sex slaves because monogamy denied them an opportunity to marry.
C.) There are millions of stranded women in the South and, may not likely get a husband forever because of the arguments against polygamy; whereas hardly can a women be stranded in the North; thanks to polygamy there.

GEAR 10
Has God Changed?
God of Adam, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, .....the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, is the beginning and the end, the Alfa and Omega, He is the same yesterday, today and for ever; has not changed

CONCLUSION
What is the way out?
Christians don't be "Paul when he was Saul'
Pastors, be careful what you preach on the pulpit about POLYGAMY as what you preach, instead of becoming light, rather, it is destroying Christianity
Hosea 4:6, 4:6 my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge. "Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you as my priests; because you have ignored the laws of your God, I also will ignore your children.

HE WHO HAS EARS, LET HIM HEAR

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I don't like this lineup o Chelsea. Why bench the best performers? Hmmm

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Waoo. She is a Scorpio, these people dey sabi Bleep o both their male and female. If u ar looking for a good bedmate, look for a scorpio

Na to protest make dem comot this people for Naija. How person go pay 8k and won't be able to watch UCL. God punish them and the stupid govt wey dey indulge their incessant increase.

Judolisco:
Only God will punish dstv almost 8k on compact and no big games will be shown.... E blike say time don reach to reason dis people matter 2

[Themselves. Who taught you?i am tired of having to read stuffs like this. Gosh!!!quote author=Eryyy92 post=95109404]is this how they want to govern their selves as Biafrans?[/quote]

This is the best time for the youth of this country to take power from these politicians. We can gather together and flush them out if we can unite the way we have been sick this protest started.

u want to go with the flow? Don't worry by the time he pokes u and u realize he is the best u ever had in the other room, u will know that nothing confuse a lady than a guy who knows how to Bleep.

Foolish manu dat can't score unless it is a penalty. Useless team

In Ronaldinho days,will he be on the pitch and his presence will not be felt in his team demolition? 2-8 imagine

What i know is that the two players are good but i still believe Ronaldinho is a better player. Players should not be judge by the number of goals the score or the number of years they played for. It should be about what the player brought to fore when he is active. Ronaldinho is the most skillful player to ever kick football, he doesn't copy skills,he invented them and there are things he does with football that ends with him. To me he is incomparable to any footballer that has ever played the game. Shikena

Walahi, God bless u richly. Dont mind all these sentiments from Messi fans. As bitter as Madrid fans are to Barca fans, they rose in unison to give Ronaldinho a standing ovation in estadio santiago bernabue because of his skills. He played football not only to win but to also entertain we lovers of football.

Joedoyle:
If you say Messi is greater than Ronaldo, then, you are actually saying that Ronaldinho is a godfather to Messi.
Ronaldinho-Greatest of all skillfull
Ronaldinho-Greatest dribbler
Ronaldinho-Inventor of skills
Ronaldinho-Handed his shirt to Messi
Ronaldinho-The most complete football in the world.
So many attribute to just one man.
Though he may not have the goals for the fight but he would have scored more if he wanted to. He just showed the world that football is entertainment to him not just business.
A player who drank of an opponent(goal keeper) bottle and still in that same minute provided an assist for a goal-and he smiled and bow.
The best Football entertain we'll forever miss.
So many children of this century began watching football because of Ronaldinho and not Messi nor Cristiano Ronaldo(although at his early career years he did entertain).

Thank you o. I was asking my guy to tell me one thing Messi can do better with the ball than Ronaldinho he is still thinking since yesterday.

Beverlyjean:
U messi fans are the frustrated bitter ones...always wanna bring down other footballers that achieved better...u guts will try to bring down Maradona, cr7 , pele, zidane , ronaldinho for somebody that cant win kpalasa for his national team ...only barca is his achievement... those other players u try to bring down have won trophies for national team and club

I meant Messi plsss