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Julliet1122:
You suppose don marry bro for you to read Kole the super star you still dey the set of the Ralia the sugar girl mehn you don old😂

It's a lie. Ralia senior Kole the super star. My elder sister our first born read Ralia. I'm not married so what?

speaktome:
E be like say we be age mate
My
Jss1 Eze goes to school
Jss 2 Tells out of school/ incorruptible Jugde
Jss 3 Things fall apart/ Animal farm
Ss 1 The gods are not to blame/ Arrow of god
Ss 2 The Concubine

LoL... Yes o. Yeah I remember Eze goes to school but I don't think it was in our syllabus.

This one na Dem my Aunty read am."Ralia the sugar girl ". This and Macbeth the Witches. I only heard of them, never read any.

The ones I read were
👇
Born without a silver spoon
Kole the super star
Animal farm snowball
God's are not to blame
Twelfth night... This one nearly twisted ones brains that year.
The concubine.

Kobojunkiee:
1. I am not saying women should be on their toes. Rather, women should come to the realization that when they sit tight in these adulterous unions, they cease to be victims but become enablers of these atrocities against them. You can't cry foul and at the same time continue to give rope to the one who you cry against. That is just wrong! The law allows divorce in the case of adultery. So why would a sane woman refuse to take the exit door yet continue to make noise in our ears? For what?

When the man knew he cant be faithful to a woman, why did he marry her in the first place?

Stop apportioning blames on the woman. The man is to be blamed here for his lack of self control and unfaithfulness.

Kobojunkiee:
1. When you allow your kids the freedom to eat their cake and have it too — allow them to have two incompatible things — you create the notion that such a situation is OK and acceptable. I don't believe men naturally cheat because not all men cheat. But I do believe that by removing the clear line between what is a healthy marriage and an adulterous union, women have helped enable the cheating culture that exists in Nigeria today.

So the women should be on their toes to make sure the "lines" are not removed before the men can have sense to do the right thing? I don't get it.

This has nothing to do with the women. The men are just naturally wired like that. They lack the ability to think back and forth of the consequences of their actions before commiting the act. They just go straight up into it.

Kobojunkiee:
1. He has a point here, @EriMma1. If the reason a man chooses to marry a woman is based on any of the above, then the union is breached once the woman is unable to meet up with her side of the agreement, the same way a man deciding to seek sex outside of the marriage is equally a breach in his side of the agreement. So, why do women, when unable to continue with their end of the bargain, continue to remain in such unions when divorce is available in such situations?

How many men live up to their own end of the bargain? Yet women are willing to put up with their sorry ass till death do them part . But just a little strain here and there, they ( men) jump out and start frolicking with another woman.

Men are naturally cheats. No matter the situation, good or bad, they'll always cheat.

Kobojunkiee:
1. In Nigeria, the average married woman is already aware of her husband's straying, even though she pretends to herself that by remaining in the marriage and continuing to play a good and innocent wife, she is somehow removed from the problem. Through these many "innocent acts", these women establish themselves as enablers of adultery.

2. Not necessarily but we are all humans and we can all sense when things are no longer as they used to be. Our curious sides immediately urge us to dig to find out the reason for the change, no matter what it is. We develop suspicions and are forced to either act on them or feign ignorance.

3. We got here because married women, en masse, sitting tight in adulterous marriages, decided, that adultery had become an acceptable aspect of marriage.

Hmmm... Sad but true.

MrBrownJay1:
let them each come and give their side of the story... i know many that feel the same way.

Did you watch it? He also gave his own side of the story but a very flimsy and lame excuse which men usually give

Shapeaso:
Wahala dey! he must go back to his wife and kids Wicked man.

Can this one go back like this? I doubt.

Long throat don carry am go.

Kobojunkiee:
A better question would be why do women continue to do this to themselves? The wife must have been aware of the man's cheating. Why did she sit back and birth more kids for him knowing all that? Why did she sit back rather than divorce him before it got to this extent? What was she expecting to see happen?

How would she have known that he was that kind of person? Or are you trying to tell me all men are naturally like that hence the need for her to be informed and well guided?

How did we get here?

Orfankwagh:
This question you just asked now is what i asked my fellow man that just did this same thing to his wife and he told me that when he was dating the lady...eee! She was always looking sweet,took bath more than 4 times a day and when she gets to the room,the lady was so good on bed with all the WHEELBARROW,DOGGY AND MONKEY STYLES but immediately he took charge of her and paid the bride price she immediately restored to MISSIONARY STYLE,so since him no be missionary na,infact he went on to tell me categorically and whole heartedly that he had no other option than to get a NEW CHARGER.
That he can be suffering and enjoying at the same time

So it's all about sex? SMH.

Did he complain to the wife about it? No. Cos I'm sure if he did, she'll have adjusted.Na long throat dey worry your friend. Men generally.

Why do some men do this? A woman that suffered to have three children for you, you abandoned and followed a side chick..what do men really want.

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wunmi590:
Lol, sure, C of O dey now...

Fight for family house? I'm just a grand children, it is left to dad and her siblings to do so....

What tinubu want to do is to do an ediface like banana Island, and then give people like us that have 4family houses like 3bedroom flat to share with family and siblings, and people are not comfortable with the idea...

Is just like cheating the family...


For the fight and quarrels in the compound, in every face me I slap you, unah go fight now, me why I be landlord piking, wetin you expect, enough beefing and a lot...

But, it was fun living in such environment, if you live in that environment and you no sharp, forget it, they need to go to the river to wash your head ooo

LoL.. true about the beefing. Yeah you gats wise up after living in such apartment.

3 bedroom is not enough compensation for lands and properties owned by families for decades. Its pure cheating.

I remember when FG took over 1G4 building at VI back then. It wasn't funny as many people were displaced with no forms of compensation given to them. I just hope Obalende will not end up like that.

Foodqueen:
There will always be that man that will be farting anyhow and will still be explaining how he feels after... 🙍

Ayama....

Omor.. you garrit!

There was one guy that smokes Igbo in the compound. He can fart?? And how he does it is where the gossips are gathered gossiping him, he'll just pass In front of them and scatter the thing.. hey!!!! Come and see all of them scampering off . LoL..😂 😂

wunmi590:


@EriMma1, you are taking me back to the old days...

You know I told you about obalende then...

Yes, my journey started from there, that moshalashin street, in obalende, is one of my father family house...

Omo, is not easy, we have 4 family house there, 2 at odo Street, 1 at moshalashin and 1 at eleshin, I used to sleep in all the four different face me I slap you then, till I finished secondary school, before moving to my mum parent family house, still face me I slap you...

I don experience alot, no be small thing ooo...

My four family house at obalende still remain the same till now, just litte alteration, alot of people in obalende are afraid to rebuild their house because, there's a matter in court by tinubu that since that place is ikoyi, obalende should also get the ambiance of banana island, so nobody wants to build and then tomorrow, they will come and demosh it, not even now that tinubu is now the president.....

My mother family house have been rebuilt to nice flat....

E no easy, I don too suffer for this obodo lagos fa

LoL... You too? Wow! 👀. Ok it was your gramps house. I see. So those houses then were face me I face you? I never knew that such houses exist until my uni days.

Why would Tinubu take over Obalende area? Dont the owners of the lands there have C of O? I don't understand. You the children should fight for it jor. Ah ah.. what?
You people should demolish the old houses yourselves and erect new structures before they start their madness. It's not fair na.

No wonder I still see some very old houses in that Obalende. You know Tinubu too was born in that Obalende on one street under that 3rd mainland bridge close to roundabout bustop. That's where he grew up. If you go there now, you'll still see their family house.

Hope you too experienced those fighting and quarrelling in the compound? . It's not easy o my brother.

Thanks for sharing dear

Kurry:
Funny

MatrixReloaded:
Here is free kpansing of oloshos, STD will be on a daily norms. You will have to oppress your neighbors if you have a tigre generator.

I'm telling you.
That generator is the worst. You'll see neighbors fighting because of this issue.
Thanks for sharing.

Some here go wan form like say Dem never live face me I face you before. It's all a phase of life. Nothing to be ashamed of.

Just saw this hilarious throwback on face me I face you house.

My own experience.

Omor, my own experience living in one during my university days. I was the aunty that speaks good English and mind my business and the people hated me for it.

One mama would always boast of how they moved in when the rent was 70 naira, abi na 700 naira sha , can't remember. And the list goes on lol.... Thank God for delivering me from there. After school, I japa..

Share your experience.

A THROW BACK ON FACE ME I FACE YOU GUYS. WHO CAN RELATE?
LET GO!.

1. It’s sometimes called Face Me I slap you due to the incessant fights daily. E ma ja ju. If you don’t fight, someone will fight you. You must fight. "Ta lo gbe omi ti mo pon sibi?" (Ija de).
2. You can never go hungry unless you don’t know your way around. Enter the kitchen at the backyard and start whining who’s cooking. Drop small gist about another neighbor, walahi waa jeun ju. Gbenusi no be atenu.

Output - Gbeborun
Input - Food
3. There’s always that man who will claim he has been living in the house before the house was even built. They are always proud of the years they have lived there. They know everyone and when they were given birth to. (Ancestor Tenant)

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BrighterThanDay:
Thank you. On God, all I wrote is what transpired between I and my in laws, in fact I haven't even gone into details on the humiliation I faced. I also mentioned my fault in sending her a warning message when she insulted me and asked me to pack out of her brothers during the burial of my father in law. I shouldn't have done that considering we were all mourning, that I accept but I was pushed to the wall. I am working on a new job already. Thank you once more for the advice

You're welcome dear.
May your search for a new job be fruitful.

Buffalo2:
He should pay a fine and go to jail as well.

You think so?

Powerbandooo:
Make he sue the guy
Him be bastard
The lady is trying to live her life

Will she win the case?

If all you wrote here is nothing but the truth, then I'll only blame you for one big mistake you made and that is quitting your job. Why?
Don't you know if anything happens now, your job is the only security you have? That was not necessary.

Well since your husband is not taking sides with his family or mounting pressure on you, I'll advise you still hang in there and put your mind at rest. Focus on your own immediate family and try to get another job. Your sister in-law should be the least of your worries, after all she's not living with you guys, so her barking and tantrums can only be heard from afar.

Don't let their phone convo bother you. They are siblings and will always contact each other and there's nothing you can do about it otherwise you'll give your hubby the impression you're a bad wife.

Lastly, commit everything to God in prayers and ask Him to silent every tongue rising up against you in judgment.

nlfpmod.

The prankster who lured a hotel secretary into a hotel room and took videos of her nude has cried out pleading that the girl has written a petition against him and wants to sue him.

Watch.

https://fb.watch/jQWsfrRWRt/?mibextid=irwG9G

Theres something I observed about this girl. She looks like a younger version of Chioma. I'm guessing that was what attracted Davido to her.
nlfpmod

nlfpmod

Nice one from Davido who DMd this beautiful girl, sends her money for flight and signed her up for a record deal. He promised to make her a star.

See how God picked this girls call.
Men are finally rising up to the task. Pick them from the slums and make them somebody.

Kudos to Davido.


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MessiahOfAfrica:
Is this a movie or real-life?

Real.

garriAndsugar:
So when he uploads her pics back what will you now say?

Shey na you go help am upload am?