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tk4radi:
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Having Time and Space Alone Solves A Lot..


A specialist wouldn't even suggest anything else for me, until I finished having the vacation first.


Life is really NOT all that serious.

We the people make it look like it's so serious.

I understand you bro but dont you think you would have been better off not married since you're this kinda person who wants their privacy from time to time. Once in a while is ok but having this wish round the clock just simply means you're a loner and would be better off unmarried. Just saying.

Mryacks:
Oh my....I remember fido-dido. We use to like to draw him(it) in class

My dad bought me a short /knicker beach wear then with pics of Fido Dido surfing and chilling at the beach. I loved it! I used to wear it everyday until my mom began to chase me back to go and wear other clothes. Hahaha..

UniversalGee:
If you see the girls in my department, you will vex sef. They look like men.

That is why I said you Neva talk wetin you dey look for. If is just friends you want, why are you bothered about their looks? You can be friends with anyone regardless but you want the sweet and sexy looking ones you can have intimacy with and I am telling you, you don't need such for now.

Go for those "ugly" looking ones who I'm sure are intelligent enough to be in that department. Those types are always focused and would not distract you from your studies but would rather help you stay focused and excel in your studies. That is where their beauty lies and every man should strive to have such ladies as friends. Not the overly dressed and makeup fashionistas with empty brains who have nothing upstairs to offer than their overused bodies.

Those ones you see as ugly, their beauty always come out after Uni education when they start working and polish their skin, by then, coupled with their brilliance the kind of level they'll be pulling, you no go fit approach them. I know what I'm saying.

I'm advising you like a mother. So listen before it's too late. Face your studies.

Before nko?
When you men go as far as paying for it, what do you expect them to think?

It's not even a matter of what they think, it is true cos you men are always the first to initiate sex.
You men cheat just for sex abi na contract dey make una cheat?

It is also because, like I said earlier, you men can empty your account just to have sex with hookup girls or prostitutes. If e no favor una, why these extreme measures to get it?

Now, how many girls do you see paying for sex? They only do it for the money which is your own way of doing them favor too.

Shey you go buy dog and not Feed it and still stop it from collecting food from other people willing to feed it?

It's simple. If you don't want her to be collecting cash gifts and what other guys give her, then fill in the gap in your own little way.

Girls are different. Some want to be showered with gifts. while others, all they want is your attention. So you wen go pick the one that likes gifts, you have to be showering her with gifts and if you can't, pick another girl who is not moved by such and let the guys who match her lifestyle take over so you can have peace of mind.

You can't be telling someone to reject what they like and not provide it for them and still expect them to stick with you. You're wasting your time because she won't stop.

All this aka gum of a boyfriend sef. Make una dey try dey mefu aka.

This one looks modern now. See below.

It was called Tortoise car or beetle car back then. I hated this car enh... Used to feel suffocating cos it had very small space inside.

I think it's this concept Keke napep used to make their tricycle.

UniversalGee:
Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that?
Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

You never talk wetin dey hungry you @the bold. Instead of you to make friends with the non feminine ones in your circle to avoid the distractions that comes with the feminine ones, you're there looking for what will bring about your downfall.
Look at Samson in the bible.
Look at David
Look at Abacha and ask yourself if you really need a girl at this time and stage of your life.

You better face what you went there to do before you regret.

tk4radi:
We need to hear the two sides of the story.


With first-hand experience,, I can tell you this..
“Sometimes, I feel like leaving my family and work, and go for a full one-month retreat where I will stay all alone by myself.
Just alone., without any HUMAN Visitors (no matter who that person might be),, I would just be left all alone with my thoughts.. and my only nearest companions would be the trees and the birds, and animal sounds and noises..
And my phones would be put off..
I may only read newspapers and listen to news on radio in order to get updated, that is, if there might even be need for such”.


The reason I think of such things at times, even though I have a family, is because, sometimes I get totally fed-up with everything.

My wife would be there thinking that having a Family SHOULD mean everything to me, and be More Than Enough for me to be always happy in this world..
Only if she would ever know that at times,, I prefer to stay with the wild trees and birds, than to stay with her and the kids

So, you don't know what the man might be going through in the family.
We need to hear both sides of the story.

This your own strong o. It's not the same as the man in this video. You want time and space alone but this man is cheating with another woman. He absconded with another woman.

I think your case needs medical attention or... A visit to the specialist.

Pele.

Kobojunkiee:
1. Fulfillment in business? In life? In a relationship? Which?

2. A friend of mine used to say it is wrong to check your time using someone else's wristwatch. You have to find the meaning of fulfillment for your own self and then make plans towards it accordingly, and be willing to identity and let go of all that will not help you in the end. As for hurdles, sometimes they are there to help us slow down and rethink our strategy, our goals, etc. Other times they are there to help us grow into better people and move to a higher level than we have previously been.

Hmmm... Nice one.
Thanks.

bukatyne:
Which one is Ashewo vibes again

I believe most of these people are just catching cruise. Facebook is not an anonymous platform like NL where no one might know you.

I hope so

Solofresh2:
You too much abeg

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Thanks.

Why him come resemble Ned Nwoko like this?

Her choice. Provided she's comfortable and they are happy together, no P.

Happy married life to them.

Hassanmaye:
Thanks

You're welcome dear. God will prosper you in Jesus name.

She's screaming with an understanding. Wetin accomodation problems dey show many people nowadays no be small thing. Housing alone gulps 75% of ones income every year, you now say she should not scream? E reach to scream abeg. I feel like screaming for her too. . Overnight landlady.

Go gurl!

Wande22:
Sister abeg manage am for me

How you take know say na bag dey for my top buck list?

Thank you.

OChimex:
But Bill Gate wife leave am. Jeff Bezos wife leave am, na lack of money make them leave too?
These are amongst the 4 Richest men in the world.
What you said is called, fallacy of generalization.
There are still many good women who are not all about money, same as good men who are not all about sex.

Are they Nigerian abi wetin you dey talk?

Space. By the way, support from who? You? Hm.. you wouldnt want to come near me make i no break your head .

If I call my guy and another girl happens to pick it, forget it! In fact don't even bother calling back.

What are you doing with another girl?
I see any man who double dates as irresponsible. I mean, ... It simply means you don't know what you want and only a dumb head does not know what he or she wants.

I pray she blocks you for good.

LoL.. e don happen!

This is what happens when you have sampled different types and sizes during your singlehood.

This generation ehn... God help us. Good for the husband. I don't pity men cos they clearly go after these ladies with Ashawo vibes forgetting that such women are not easily satisfied with one man and would one day get bored of them.

GboyegaD:
It is no shalaye and it is greed for any woman to expect the groom who is visiting to pay for the food they want to serve him. If what you have is ground it and garri, take pride in it and serve it. The visitors are not coming because of food and should appreciate whatever they are offered.

That said, I think our negative competition mentality is why people try to show off otherwise, why bother so much about food and drinks.

The guy told my sister not to worry that he'll take care of the bills. should she have rejected it? It doesn't mean anything. If the guy is boxed up, let him do it.

Ah ah.. the people you're inviting for a celebration will not be entertained and catered for? In Africa? Hian.. it's very important o.

Guy if you hold money, that thing na small thing. You can cater for it and bone.

When my eldest sister did hers, na the guyman give her bah wey she take buy some things for the introduction. We just gathered ourselves (the girls) as pro cooks that we are and cooked all the food.

Popsy organized drinks and some other venue arrangements. The guy tried abeg. Na man him be. Till tomorrow I still dey dolf my hat for that my in-law. Though he's an engineer and was working with Julius Berger.

Make una dey try dey hold bah before una do marriage to avoid all this shalaye.

This one 33? I don't even know where to place her age wise? She looks confusing.

The hardship is biting hard seriously.

mizzhathaway:
Abi they borrow nurses' own but never return it 😂

Oh really? 👀. I don't know about that though, I'm not a nurse .

etrange:
No, Erimma, those are too high-tech for a man of my age. I use ground leaves. It's environmentally safe.

😂 😂 😂... Ok ooo.. . Funny you

etrange:
Hehe... even bricklayers sometimes write down thier phone numbers on the wall for prospective clients.

Eh.. with chalk or charcoal now . Which one you dey use?

Money go, woman go. When I was warning you guys in my post that a woman needs to be taken care of if you want your marriage to last, some empty skull said I too like men matter. Now see.

This skill is what you ought to have learnt first, then build your financial security before talking about marriage but You men like putting the cart before the horse.

Number 2, marriage is not for children. Forget the general opinion that it's better to marry a younger girl. mature ladies are still far better in terms of managing hard times and handling tough situations unlike your 23 yr old who has not been through lifes hurdles or surmounted challenges on her own. Prolly she just moved in with you from her parents house where everything is being done for her.

As long as you're still broke and can't meet her needs yet, no amount of begging will make her come back cos that was why she left in the first place.

Focus and complete your skill training. Make sure you learn it very well and start sourcing for jobs.. Also keep looking for a regular job to sustain in the meantime. Forget about her but try to send upkeep for your child

If you hammer tomorrow, look for a mature lady and marry.

All this 20 yr old ladies without tangible source of income rushing into marriage with average Nigerian guys, I pity all of you. You people think marriage is childs play. Make una dey play.

Fighter2029:
.......thank you ma'am, actually I used 4 seasoning in all,the taste wasn't noticeable,thanks for your input though.

Oh.. ok. Thought I saw a bunch of them.

You're welcome.

mizzhathaway:
Nurses too
Always writing

O ho o. Even doctors. these ones even use their own to decorate their breast pocket.

MrBroke:
No mind me it's kind of strange to me

Just saying cause i haven't in a long long time, gat Notes on every smartphone, which is faster and safer with cloud storage.

So you don't go to the bank or places where you're required to fill forms? Ok. If you say so.

MrBroke:
People still use biros and book

Ah ah.. see question.

Students
Teachers
Bankers ( even Emefiele)
Ministrys and organisations use paper and biros. What are you now saying?