₦airaland Forum

calgaryFriend:
Sup guys, I am attending a work seminar here in BC , any nairalanders here at all ?
There is an option for me to move to BC, and I am seriously considering that, Calgary is too coldl
I see we are still very shy and reserved.
Big ups to the few people that have shown some interest.

Do ladies respond to threads like this my friend?

calgaryFriend:
Majority of people advising this poster are not abroad. Or they came to the abroad already married so they have no idea what it means to be a single, lonely , isolated, minority in a very individualised environment.

If you are already married or in Nigeria you will not understand so I will advise OP to listen to me.

Yeah, cos I am also going through the same thing right now.

Having said that, if you are someone that has lived in Naija or Africa having that sense of wanting to raise a good home, you will quickly find out majority of the people out here in the west are a downgrade from what you deserve or what your expectations are.

For me, what I see are very weak moralled people and I do not blame any one here, its just they way the society has conditioned them.

And the fact the p oster is female does not help matters cos unlike someone like me who is a guy and I can actually start hunting for people on the social media or whatsap groups, majority of people may prey on the poster if she does that.

So my suggestion is this, would you mind going back to Nigeria to spend a couple years to sort out that part of your life ?

I have about 3 years to stay where I am to get my citizenship so unless things change , I will probably just stay here till I get the citizenship and then go back to Nigeria to get a woman and probably come back here .

Its better not to be married, or marry late than to marry the wrong person.

I pray you find the peace you seek, I am currently in the same shoes as you and I can tell you, its a terrible place to be.

But with adequate planning things will become better. Just be patient.

You can hit me via mail, ayonaira@yahoo.com

You spoke well my brother. Well mannered people are going extinct. You can tell by the comments on this site for example


Given that you but have a pecularity of needs and desire compatibility. Your strong desires can play an advantage here. I'll like to come out plainly to ask you both to give it a try. And who knows.


All I want is an e-picture of a bottle of henessy if things work out.


Best of luck

fieryy:
Why are you like this

You can imagine.

Imogenn:
I wrote this thread last year about a guy that I had met who was into all kinds of rubbish
https://www.nairaland.com/4861952/god-showing-me-signs
Well after deceiving myself and going back and forth with him, I finally said enough is enough. I broke up with him early last month after i went through pictures on his phone through his email, and I saw that he had taken a picture of my bank card details to possibly steal from me. I also saw screenshots of him having friendly conversations with another girl in his church. Although there was nothing to serious in their chats, I just felt it wasn’t appropriate to have friendly conversations like that. So it’s done and it’s over.

Now I recently just turned 25. I feel like I’m getting to that undesirable age and I just feel that I will never find a serious guy. I feel like I’m never going to find someone, I’m so lonely all the time I’m just fed up. I’m that anti social type that hates being in crowds so it’s sooo difficult to meet people. I’m just fed up of everything. I just feel damaged and I feel like I can’t trust anyone and i don’t want to waste my time with unserious men.

I need help.

My crush is 30. I rather marry her at 30 than another beauty queen at 20

The car has a public price nau.

tstx:
See money




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The way Nairaland men/boys put our women down is just so troubling and sickening. I hope you guys grow up.

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Just suppress your emotions.it kills them like fire

daddytime:
Hahahhaha

I dey always lookout for you

Daddytime and sagemk will soon be here. I'll park here and wait for comments. Oya. Lilmissfavvy, waiting for you too. Bukatyne,how was church service yesterday. I hope you ministered well.



I like to say ladies develop yourself. And find yourself in a field. I.e work,church,organization, humanitarian service. Be plugged somewhere and with the social connections you make, you'll be found

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Hallmark of an irresponsible man. Proves Tonto was right, his lopok in the pic confirms it. The pictures also. Model, wealth etc. No productivity, no concrete work that employs. Just the lifestyle.

Following up. Good Morning Everybody

The guy commenting has some scathing comments.

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Dremskeji:
Go learn Mini-Importation and Facebook/Instagram Marketing.

Then promote your highly demanded imports using social media paid advertising.

U can chat me up privately if you want to know more about it.

#20,000 will see you learn these two skills and you can import goods with 30k while you keep the rest for other things.

If you do this, you'll be so glad you took this step.

Go girl. Girl power. You're super brilliant.

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