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luminouz:

Omoh,ur aggression no be hia o....
Take it easy na...u just dey attack everyone since...

Essenceminus boy!!!

MissJoy29:
Na so....


It's a vicious cycle and will continue to be until we all decide to not to hurt the next person because we ourselves have been hurt once, twice or dozen times (like me).

luminouz:
Pele o...Mr Applier or Plier...
Wee u gerrarahia

Danwakae:
You are a thief


Nobody should listen to him

MissJoy29:
So this is another strategy you guys use now? You don't invest emotions anymore? How then do you enjoy relationship?


Ah! No weapon!!!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
You dry form hard guy, hard guy, deep introspection, and you might just be a Sissy begging to put the tip in the nunu.

Ajoboss:
bros too.much wisdom dey ur head

archdon:
I am still trying to process the info you provided, as Agriculture is not my main strength I am going to be making some consultation before I could respond to you

focus7:
Well said bro

Livefreeordieha:
I sight man wey get sense. May ur wisdom never be compromised...

Kiddo01:
For some time I have struggled in life, when I think things are getting better, the opposite happens.My salary is 25k, I work in a printing press as a gestetner operator and with the look of things, I foresee lay off as a result of low turn up. as a young man who is still single I've tried making sure I save 8k every month out of the 25k salary. Life has never been easy with me. I think I'm becoming depressed. The purpose of this post is that I've tried saving up 100,000k out of the small salary and I don't know the business I can invest it before I miss use it .
Advice please.

flokii:
@OP ndo!

Young girls of nowadays no wan suffer.. na big god dem want eg. Regina aya Ned

Funkyswagzz:
They will be warming with ur money on the side

meobizy:
So this isn’t a clear enough sign that you need to upgrade first before searching for a wife?
How old are you and why the rush?
As a man you are marriageable until age 80 and in many cases older.
Unless you want to raise children quickly I see no reason why a man won’t make money first before thinking of procreating.

Funkyswagzz:
When u mentioned imo state I just knew instantly ur problem is money... Imo girls no dey smile. Bro make ur money and find someone who can support u as well. Pls deviation ur attention on these gurls on the streets they are no gud.

franchasng:
My brother every profession comes with it's own burden, I think that is the current burden for Government Teaching professiona now oh cos no fine lady of this our time now known as slay queens will agree to marry the village headmaster

Its not easy, don't blame the ladies in this situation.
The same thing with Police officers, it is well

youngest85:
Eye service

2kurupt:
Well said bro.

Seriously I just weak with such reasoning patterns. Many of our youths today tend to see materialsm & accumulation of wealth as the solution to all life's problems, quite sad.

2kurupt:
Let's not deviate from the matter the OP presented. He is concerned about getting a lady to make his wife, he doesn't say he can't sustain her when they do marry.

A pidgin proverb says "leave wetin dem write for bus, enter bus". Marry first before you start bothering yourself how it'll end you dig

2kurupt:
Your own last sentence even buttress my point further and what most persons here have been saying. When he finds "his" woman she'll stay, irrespective of this house location or career.

It is this misconception that "naija women & money", "nobody wan suffer" etc etc that breeds stereotypes. Yet every Saturday we see weddings of so-called slay queens getting married to normal guys & average Joes. Seriously you guys need to stop!

A man that knows his onions can walk up to any right thinking lady & strike a convo that can lead to a lasting friendship and then marriage.

Ranchhoddas:
Exactly. You are the prize.
Once you realize this everything becomes easy.

ChiefGuru24:
You don't need money to get a lady. Your charisma and game is important. Honesty is good but too early on and it destroys any feelings that can ever be built. Women enjoy being lied to.

Lies First, truth later

ChiefGuru24:
You're wise . You know your onions very well. Which books have you read and been reading in the past? Don't tell me none oo

Tsolutionifede:
fake, u dress well(looking rich), handsome(physically attractive), pretending to be spiritual, and maybe little maturity, not all those ur stories