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Diamond098454:
My dear
I tire ooooooo

Hahahahhaha. It's surprising to me too.

Hi dear.

Click Like, if you lost interest in this story after realising that it was a man.

flokii:
Good read . truly women are trying especially in the aspect of running the home.

Let's not forget that the husbands too go through a lot to provide funds that sustain the home.. if only some of you know the length that guys go just to provide for their family and make sure the wives and kids are okay. The man might be starving but will make sure the wife and kids have food to eat and clothes to wear.

To tell ourselves the truth, how many women will agree to switch roles with the husbands and be providing all that's is needed in the home?. Hardly will you see any.
Even the wives that work hardly contribute funds to run the home, the belief is the woman's money is hers while the husband's money is for the house

Marriage takes two to work.. no party is less important than the other. so far there is mutual respect and love, couples can live happily.

but who contributes more?

Mention it

Mention it

Mention it

Truthissupreme:
Just like you have been striking Hezbollah forever and you never fit eliminate them

Or is it the hamas that is still ruling in Gaza after your three years of "strikes" with USA support against a rag tag group

No be to strike, na the will of these groups to continue to insist they won't be bullied to disharm whether nuclear or their fire arms

You need to know that Israel and US have Rules of Engagements to as much as possible reduce civilian casualties. If Israel goes out on full onslaught against Gaza or Lebanon, without recourse to who survives or not, these countries will be turned to an empty desert in less than a month. You need to understand some things.

Diamond098454:
Hey........ Guy be calming down
Smile smile

Ok my Darling. I am calm.

Diamond098454:
Happy weekend essential

Same to you Most Beautiful.

This is very very good. Kudos to the security operatives. Continue until all Criminals and Terrorists are killed completely in Nigeria.

someone should please compile and post an updated list of all companies that have declared dividends this year 2026...

Hamachi:
Even you, group you created tou left them alone. You gan na toxicity.

how please?

Diamond098454:
Hi essential I'm in Lagos

I'm good

Yaay, that's the world's Most Beautiful Queen. Love you dear.

‎Bro, these believe that you must move out of your parents house before your 25 to start hustling has ruined the lives of so many youths and it's still running many.
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‎These are some of the lies social media tells you and it ends up pressuring some people into moving out from their parents house when they're supposed to calm down and plan themselves.
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‎It's not like I'm encouraging laziness or saying you should relax and do nothing.
‎Social media is far different from reality. So not all this motivational words/quotes you should practice.
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‎There's absolutely nothing wrong with moving out but the pressure to prove Independence has really ruined many young people and even affected their financial growth.
‎Being independent is not easy. Even Nigeria as a country that's celebrating independence, they are still owing China huge amount of m0ney in million dollars, if not in billions and you think Independent life is easy?
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‎So please, If staying with your parents helps you save m0ney and plan your life better, then stay. Many young guys are into illegal businesses today and many are already in prison just because they want to prove independence at the age of 25.
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‎What you should understand is that, life is not easy — so, proving what you cannot is foolishness.
‎Many young ladies are out there selling their body for m0ney because they want to prove independence.
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‎Who is setting this standards for you guys? Who told you that if you're 25 and still live with your parents, then it's a sign you have failed? Why the pressure? Or should I call it competition?
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‎Slow down. Those people telling you they made their first 1 Million at the age of 22 and 25, they will only tell you that but they wouldn't tell you the help and the assistance they got from their uncles, families and the rest.
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‎They will not tell you about the connections and contacts that made it easy and possible for them to make their first 1 Million at the age they are telling.
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‎Mr Eazi that just got to married Temi the daughter of Billionaire Femi Otedola, at the age of 18, his uncle borrowed him Millions of m0ney to invest into a business and according to him, he lost all the m0ney to the business.
‎No profit and he couldn't even recover the capital he invested into the business. Now the question is; How many of you have such uncles?
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‎You listen to their stories and want to be like them, but do you have the kind of support systems they have?
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‎Stop letting motivations you read to put you into unnecessary pressures. Take your time and plan yourself, unless you're in competition with someone. Take it easy with this societal and social media pressures..
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

The only human being in the world that have a complete name that has 2 of the world's most priceless artefacts in it...

Let us highlight the disparity in rewards and recognition between lower-cadre employees and management at Zenith Bank Plc. The workforce feels undervalued, with salaries and benefits that don't match the bank's performance and growth. Key concerns include:

- Low salaries and welfare packages for lower-cadre employees
- Management enjoying generous packages and bonuses
- Perceived imbalance in sharing rewards and recognition
- Impact on morale, loyalty, and passion among employees

The call is for fairness, dignity, and a more equitable distribution of rewards. A motivated and valued workforce can drive sustainable growth and success for the bank.

Do you wonder why your woman is always in a bad mood? It is because you are not her first choice, yes.

Some of you men are not even the second, third or fourth. You were just her settlement plan.

This applies largely to women in their thirties. This category of women today have tasted, or eaten almost all the apples on the tree, & they have thorns in their foot, they keep jumping from one man's bed to another.

You are just on a rescue mission today as a man who wants to pick a wife and it is this category of women that you find appealing.

An advanced age woman today have high body count, she has been in series of relationships that failed, her first choice broke her heart, her second choice disappointed her and the circle continued.

She has been used, reused and overused. She's psychological traumatised. She's not marrying you for love but for survival, for the love of being married, for the protection that marriage gives women.

They are the categories of women going from one prayer house to another, crying desperately for husbands.

In their prime, marriage was not an option, every suitor was not rich enough, except for older married men who maintained her lifestyle, every young man who came to marry her was not her type.

Except she had delayed marriage for any reasonable reason and kept her legs closed in the process, run away from advanced age, 33+, bitter women.

She will never be happy with you and will never bring you peace. Majority of them are like wounded lions, wounded by their past lifestyle and trauma.

They don't trust men again, they say men are scums, men are wicked, men are bad, etc . As long as you are a man, she will always have mood swings around you, always sad, never satisfied, never fulfilled, and can never respect nor bring you peace.

‎Listen to me bro, immediately the relationship ends, properties should go back to the rightful owner.

How do I mean?

For instance, if you happened to buy her a phone when you both are in relationship, and she decided to break up with you. Take the phone you bought back with other valuables without looking back.
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‎There is always a reason you fund a w00man. Purpose. Loyalty. Growth. Peace. Respect — The moment that reason dies, your funding must die with it.
‎If the mission is over, pull your resources back. Not emotionally but practically.
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‎Too many w00men are running soft scams in the name of love. Dating as a business model. Affection as a subscription. S€x as a bait. Bills as a lifestyle.
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‎They don’t respect m0ney because they didn’t sweat for it. They didn’t grind for it.
‎They didn’t bleed for it. So they spend it like it grows back on your body.
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‎Hear this clearly bro; 👇
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‎Your hustle is not charity. Your provision is not entitlement. Your generosity is not a lifetime contract.
‎If she stops adding value, you stop adding funds. If she stops respecting you, you stop sponsoring her comfort. If she walks away, she walks away empty handed with only what legally belongs to her.
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‎Anything you paid for that is yours, is yours. Anything you funded for a purpose that no longer exists, is done.
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‎Stop confusing love with foolishness.
‎Stop financing disrespect. Stop rewarding manipulation.
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‎A w00man who truly loves you won’t milk you. A w00man who respects you won’t drain you. A w00man who understands hustle won’t treat your m0ney like free m0ney.
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‎Protect your resources. Protect your legacy. Protect your sweat. Because broke men are made by emotional spending.
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‎Most importantly, hold your m0ney to your chest. Because without your m0ney — you are nobody to her.
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‎Learn and apply.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

Merry100:
O thou saviour of single women, please come to our rescue. Don't leave us, don't leave us.

Pele o, the chosen saviour. Is it only that thing under your trouser that is making you feel like oxygen, or is there something else we don't know?

This recitation of yours is looking like a manual for insecure men. You better take it easy and don't be too hard on yourself.

Mention the parts of it that are not true.

‎Bro, at 30, all your secondary school or high school famale class mates would almost be married, yet you'll still be aging gracefully.
‎Only a quarter of the male might be married.
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‎Don't rush. Otherwise, you may end up living with a dem0n for the rest of your awful life. Don't beg any girl to marry you or stay. You have enough time to decide.
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‎If you appear desperate, she'll make rules for you, she'll tell you "buy me shawarma, pizza, high hill, cars, take me to Dubai etc out of your will.
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‎She has the Clock, you have the time. Relax. Don't rush.
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‎If she wants to leave, let her leave, you can't bend to satisfy her selfish demands, rules, standards and regulations.
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‎Understand that w00men have a Biological clock. Men have a Financial Clock. Don't be a victim of her biological clock.
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‎She is on a rush to beat the clock. This is none of your business. Be the designer of your financial clock.
‎Do not waste her time, be direct, tell her what you want. She is racing against her biological clock.
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‎Girls born around 2006 will be 20 years this year. There's enough supply into the dating market yearly.
‎Buying flowers, pizza and chocolates to win her attention is a waste of her time.
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‎Never ever rush into a w00man’s biological clock.
‎At 30, her friends are pressurizing her to get married making her feel inadequate.
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‎She will give you ultimatums. You are not Jesus to save her.
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‎Don't be on a rescue mission. She can leave if she feels your commitment is slow.
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‎Do not be a Simp.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

MaxInDHouse:
What thing?😟

Sex

Do everything you can to avoid marrying an Aggressive lady. Or you will regret it forever...

Zonefree:
About 75.32% of women on glasses are demonic.

When did you really count them?[color=#006600][/color]

kcowen:
The ones who thinks they don't have to contribute anything that you are the one who's suppose to provide everything and also the nagging ones

Why won’t she love you for your money when from day one you introduced yourself as a walking ATM!

You met her today, and before she even knows your values, your vision, or your character, you are already spraying money, paying bills, overdoing gifts, trying to prove you “have it all.”

You started the foundation of the relationship on luxury, so don’t complain when luxury becomes the standard.

Some of you, just one week into talking stage, you want to showcase wealth. You want to impress. You want to overperform. Then after a few months, when you can’t keep up, you start complaining. You trained her to love the money. You marketed money. You branded yourself with money. So money became the attraction.

If you want to be loved for your heart, present your heart. If you want to be loved for your vision, present your vision. If you want to be respected as a man, show responsibility not just spending power.

Don’t blame a woman for responding to what you advertised. Shikena!

SlayQueenSlayer:
Lol Call her my wife keh? I invite you come any wedding?

But actually a lot of people will refer to your Baby Mama as your unofficial wife

I prefer one ceiling fan to 10 standing fan

Look very well at your lady. If she is always feeling Vengeful, avoid her Completely before it is too late...

That type that can bear grudges and keep malice for days, weeks, and months, and will never forgive, no matter how hard you try. Hmmmmm

nnamdi640:
Lady with mood swings

That's very true. Also ladies who are always Angry over everything and over nothing. Most times, you will find yourself always wondering what exactly is making her angry again. Avoid her completely...