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My Landlord passed away two months ago and my rent expired that same month.

There has been disputes on who to collect the rent.

My Landlord married three wife with many children

Each wife and their children came to hold meetings with the tenants, saying we are to pay our rent to them

The other party will come and say we shouldn't pay to them that, they are the right person to collect the rent

Another party served us Notice to Quit and another party said we should ignore the Notice to Quit.

I am confused on who to pay to and i don't want find my self in one chance situation at the end of the day

Pls, what do you suggest i do and who do you suggest i pay to?

Your CCTV cam, caught a thief in your house or office and you now choose to post the footage online.

Wetin carry you post am online when the court never confirm the Thief say e dey Gui'lty

🤣🤣🤣🤣, one chance

Drop your evidence in court, not online

Don't forget,
That thief is still innocent before the law and the court may grant the thief bail.

When the court grants the thief Bail, if the TIF no carry Any Arm for the stealing, dem go grant am bail

The thief can file a suit against you for LIBEL/DEFAMATION for damaging his or her reputation online and breach of his fundamental human right and also, cyberstalking

The thief has the right to Demand for damages up to one trillion Naira from you.

No go believe say because say you get CCTV footage

If the TIF get better lawyer, e fit come out innocent oooo

Even a TIF has his own rights as a citizen of this great country and you must respect it or pay damages for breaching his right

Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Are you aware of this?

Your Electric Fence is meant to shock the Thief and not Kpai them under Nigerian Law or else, FR££ stony beans for you

Before you install that electric fence bah, come closer cos you fit chop FR££ stony beans because of that electric fence wey you put for your house

There are rules and regulations to follow when installing electric fence in Nigeria, if you fail to follow the rules, FR££ stony beans for you

1. The peak voltage should not exceed 10,000V (10kV)

2. The shock must be a brief pulse (usually lasting about 0.0003 seconds) occurring no more than once per second. This allows a person to let go and prevents the continuous current that causes heart failure and kpai the person.

3. You must put a warning sign that says, Caution: Electric Fence.

4. The electric cables must be 6.5 ft above ground level to prevent accidental contact by children or passersby.

If you fail to comply with the above requirements and do something that will kpai the Thief and someone trying to trespass into your property

You will Eat FR££ stony beans for kpaing that person

Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Are you aware of this?

I just opened a shop right in front of my husbands building where i sell hots and alcoholic drinks because there is a brothel right in front of my house and thats the business that will move very well.

The community chairman and Landlords Association came to meet me that they don't want such business in their community

They gave me an agreement form stating that i will not sell such drink in their community.

I refuse to sign and ask them why they did not close down the brothel, the chairman said the brothel has CAC and i showed him my CAC too.

They threaten me that they give me 14 days to comply with the community order and directives before they do what i may not like

Pls advice me on what to do

Does the Landlord and Tenant Association has the right to dictate what kind of business i can sell or not?

My husband is now a King and in less than five months on the throne

One BIG man in the community, gave my husband his daughter as a Gift to marry.

My husband rejected the offer but the Chiefs are saying it's a Taboo to reject such gift

I told the Chiefs that we are married under the Act but, they say it's their tradition

The king will get many wife as a Gift and i do not have the power to stop it and the King himself can not reject such offer.

Does it mean Our Statutory marriage is cancelled because my husband is now a King?

Complete show off

‎I can confidently tell you that men are more s€xually careful than w00men.
‎—Yes!
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‎One may ask why or how?
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‎Cam down and follow me — Since I became an adult and started having s€x, it has been my responsibility to always use protection (condoms).
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‎On the other hand, it has never occurred to any w00man I have piped to either bring condoms or suggest I use one. They always assume that I cannot be a carrier of any STD or deadly diseases.
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‎But these infections are not written on the face. And I'm in fact 100% sure that at least 9 out of 10 guys will agree with me on this.
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‎At some point while even using condoms on some w00men, they will suggest you remove it and go raw. Someone that doesn't know your health status, but she will want you to have an unprotected s€x with her.
‎Some of these w00men don't even know there's a female condom.
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‎Why are most w00men this s€xually careless?
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‎Some of them wear expensive wigs, but they have never been to the hospital to check their status. Once they soak ginger and garlic in water and drink, then in their minds, they believe they have treated infections.
‎Many of them are parading around with 500k wigs and fixed nails and eyelashes but have been harbouring infections for over 10 to 15 years.
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‎That's how careless w00men are. And it's one of the reasons why is never advisable to pipe any w00man without knowing her health status even though you will still use condoms.
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‎Condoms are not 100% trustworthy.
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‎Sometimes, it gets burst due to pressure from the piping. When you know the person you're piping is infection free, if the condoms burst on the process, you will be sure that your health is not at risk.
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‎Moat of these w00men are bed to bed midfielders, they will be sleeping around with different men like dogs, sucking every Preeq they cross paths with and without protection and good medical care.
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‎Brothers, even your girlfriend is faithful. You didn't meet her as a virgin. So there's possibilities of her getting piped over and over again with those men she has been with before you came into the picture.
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‎So please, embrace safe s€x. It's either you stay strapped or you get trapped.
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‎Protect yourself brother.
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‎Learn or perish.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.

‎Men only correct the w00men they love.
If you’re sitting back, watching a w00man spiral into chaos without stepping in, you don’t love her, you’re just there for convenience.
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‎Real love isn’t about passive acceptance. It’s about stepping up, holding her accountable, and guiding her toward becoming her best self.
‎If you’re not doing that, it’s because you either don’t care about her future or you’re too afraid to face the backlash.
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‎A man with no long-term plans for a w0pman will let her “do anyhow.”
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‎He’ll sit quietly while she dresses half-na.ked, drinks recklessly, sm0kes, or acts wild because he’s not invested in her future
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‎He’s just there for the short-term thrill. He doesn’t see her as a partner; he sees her as a temporary distraction.
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‎The sād part is many w00men prefer this.
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‎They mistake his silence for love, thinking his lack of guidance is acceptance. But here’s the harsh reality — a man who doesn’t correct you doesn’t respect you.
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‎Contrast this with a man who truly loves a w00man. He won’t sit back and let her
‎ru!n herself. He’ll confront her, even if the truth stings.
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‎If she’s engaging in destruct!ve habits or presenting herself in ways that diminish her value, he’ll speak up, not because he’s controlling her, but because he cares.
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‎Real love involves discipline and correction. He sees her potential and wants to build something meaningful.
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‎But here’s where things fall apart: 👇
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‎Many w00men can’t handle being corrected. They’d rather dr0wn in their emotions, run to their friends for validation, and hear comforting l!es like: 👇
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‎ “You deserve better.”
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‎They confuse guidance with control, rejecting the very men who care enough to hold them accountable.
‎And instead, they cling to men who let them do whatever they want, men who couldn’t care less about their future.
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‎Bro, stop enabling cha0s. If a w00man rejects correction — walk away.
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‎Because she’s not ready for accountability, and without accountability, there’s no foundation for a real relationship.
‎A w00man worth your time will respect your guidance and value your leadership.
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‎She’ll understand that correction isn’t
‎cr!tic!sm, it’s love in action.
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‎Sister I tell you this today — A man who corrects you isn’t your enemy, he’s your ally. A silent man doesn’t care about you.
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‎The one who speaks up is the one investing in your future. Stop confusing discipline with disrespect. Real men don’t tear you d0wn; they build you up by demanding better.
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‎Love isn’t about letting someone do whatever they want. It’s about setting standards, holding each other accountable, and building a future together.
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‎Bro, if you’re not willing to correct the w00man you’re with, you don’t love her. And w00men, if you can’t handle correction, you don’t love or respect him either.
‎Stay strong, stay sharp, and demand accountability in every relationship.
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‎A w00man worth keeping will value your guidance. Anything less is a waste of your time.
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‎The point has been made.
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‎Till I come your way again.
‎Class dismissed.
‎Keep following for more.

‎When it comes to choosing a life partner or relationship management, one of the problem with many men today is that they tolerate and endure.
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‎Hoping that a poorly behaved adult or should I say a w00man with bad character will turn around someday, change for good and give them peace.
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‎A w00man is created for help — to help man and make things easy for him. To give him peace and happiness. Any w00man offering anything outside this should be a No No.
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‎A good w00man adds to your life. She doesn't come in and create more problems. She doesn't bring drama where there was peace. She doesn't add stress to your already full head.
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‎She doesn't make your life harder than it needs to be. She doesn't become another thing you have to manage. She doesn't turn your home into a battlefield. She doesn't make you question your worth daily.
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‎A genuine w00man takes pressure off your hands and not put more on your hands. She's your help meet and not an additional stressor.
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‎She handles things sometimes, so you don't have to worry. She solves problems, she doesn't create them. She makes decisions that benefit both of you.
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‎She protects your energy instead of draining it. She brings ideas on solutions, not more complications.
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‎She lightens the load you have to carry, not add to it. She makes your days easier, not harder.
‎A real w00man is your teammate, not your opponent, your partner — not your competitor.
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‎She's your safe space, not your source of anxiety, stress and depression. She's your peace, not your chaos nor drama. She's your support system, not another burden.
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‎Bro, if she's not making your life easier, she's not your wife. If she's adding stress instead of removing it, she's not the one.
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‎If you're more tired with her than without her, let her go.
‎If your life was simpler before she came along, that's the sign, the answer you need.
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‎A real w00man enhances your life, not complicate it. You deserve a w00man who makes loving her feel effortless.
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‎Marriage is a long journey to travel with a w00man that will not give you peace. No matter how long you have dated her, if your peace of mind is not guaranteed — d0n't marry her.
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‎L!fe is already hard for man — don't make it harder for yourself.
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‎Learn or perish.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

HesInMe:
Which part of my comment did you deem careless, please? And what is the stock doing in response to the results you seem to like so much?

Are we looking at just the headlines or trying to understand the business? The fundamental story of Chams is that it's a low-margin price-taker. These results affirm that, and margins are headed in the wrong direction despite modest growth and brutal cost discipline. I'm sorry you like the stock, but that investment story is not a screaming buy.

In essence, at N3.62, is Chams Plc a Buy, Hold, or Sell off?

pluto09:
I don't think listing by introduction is the problem.
We have had many stocks in recent times moving in price with no justifiable fundamentals.
NCR, MECURE, DEAP CAPITAL, FTN among others.
What is needed is clear rules and strict enforcement.

Deap Capital Plc is now at N5.50
Buy, Hold, or Sell off?

Akungitit:
Which kind English be dis?

Write out the correct one

‎Bro date someone you can genuinely see a future with.
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‎Very unfortunate that people choose partners mainly based on looks, and they overlooked what truly matters.
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‎Over time, I’ve seen many relationships built on the wrong foundations—appearance instead of character.
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‎In relationship, what really counts is who the person is — their work ethic, how they treat others, their attitude toward life, their goal or purpose in life, how they communicate, their confidence, ambition, and most importantly, their heart.
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‎These are the qualities that shape a lifelong partner — and even the kind of home you’ll build together one day.
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‎Physical attraction may draw you in, but it doesn’t sustain a relationship.
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‎Looks fade, but character remains. Thia is why we are having a lot of marriage issues and divorces.
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‎Don’t date someone just to pass time. Be intentional.
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‎And if you don’t see a future with her, don’t hold on to someone else’s potential partner.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

Amarachibaby:
@essentialone you write so well and your knowledge is vast,pls What's your secret?

I always believe that I know nothing, so I use every available opportunity to try and learn something new.

Thanks Amarachibaby

SHOCKING: FG pays NYSC Corps Members N77,000 per month, and pays I.T. SIWES Students N2,500 per month.

Influential theories on moral judgments propose that they rely either on emotions or on innate moral principles. In contrast, the mental model theory postulates that moral judgments rely on reasoning, either intuition or deliberation. The theory allows for the possibility that intuitions lead to utilitarian judgments. Let us look at two experiments involving fifth-grade children, adolescents, and adults; the results revealed that children reason intuitively to resolve moral dilemmas in which action and inaction lead to different outcomes. In particular, the results showed female children to be more utilitarian than female adults in resolving classical moral dilemmas: they preferred an action that achieved a good outcome for a greater number of people. Within the mental model theory's framework there is no reason to expect that females and males differ in their ability to reason, but at the moment the results for females cannot be generalized to males who were not properly represented in the adults groups of the two experiments. The result revealing that (female) children are more utilitarian than (female) adults, which is hard to explain via many current theories, was predicted by the mental model theory.

Those priests who were busy mocking women for marrying yahoo boys ten years ago… how far?
I hope your own parish accounts are still balanced.
I hope your counselling sessions are still holy.
I hope the people you guided didn’t later discover the truth behind your “advice.”

Because if we’re going to talk about shortcuts…
Some of you take spiritual shortcuts every day.
Shortcuts to favouritism.
Shortcuts to covering scandals.
Shortcuts to punishing some people while protecting others.
Shortcuts to pretending holiness while hiding the mess behind parish walls.

If we’re warning young women about dangerous men,
then priests, too, should warn each other about dangerous priests.

Since we’re being sarcastic today, let’s not forget:
There is no shortcut to priesthood integrity either.
And when a priest misuses authority,
the damage lasts longer than any yahoo money ever will.

Before we joke about people’s past mistakes,
let’s make sure our own hands aren’t dipped in spiritual fraud.

#TruthWithoutFear
#SelectiveMorality
#AccountabilityInChurch
#LeadershipWithIntegrity
#WalkTheTalk
#SpiritualResponsibility
#NoShortcutsToHoliness
#ChurchAndSociety
#HypocrisyAlert
#DoBetter
#SayItAsItIs
#ProtectTheFlock
#VoiceOfThePeople

I been hearing a lot about and seeing so much foul religiosity regarding gambling. It’s weird.🤪

It’s not the gambling that’s unsettling — it’s the hypocrisy. Faith gets worn like a badge instead of lived like a discipline. Certain behaviors are loudly condemned while others, like gambling, get a pass because they’re socially acceptable, neatly packaged as “fun,” and done in polite company.

When religion is used to monitor others instead of confront the self, loopholes multiply. Gambling survives because it looks harmless, even wholesome, while feeding the same cravings and escapes faith claims to guard against. That isn’t oversight — it’s selective morality. And people who value integrity can see it immediately.

#SelectiveMorality

Corruption itself is not condemned because it exists, it is condemned selectively. It suddenly becomes BAD only when I am not the one benefiting from it. When I am involved, it is conveniently renamed as strategy, adjustment, political necessity, or smart management. When others do the same, it turns into a moral crime, a national tragedy, and a threat to democracy.

This mindset exposes the real problem, not corruption alone, but HYPOCRISY. The issue is not the act, but who controls it. Power decides morality, and involvement decides judgment. Until corruption is rejected on principle, regardless of who profits, societies will keep pretending to fight it while quietly protecting it.
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#Corruption #PowerAndHypocrisy
#SelectiveMorality #PoliticalReality

If you don't give away grace for a woman's past, you'll never keep peace in your own soul. We all have to keep our house in order - it doesn't give us license to audit everyone else's life while our own inventory is still in the red.
It's a deep kind of hypocrisy to get on social media and judge women for the same lifestyle you once profited from. But what's worse is the damage you're doing at home. Have you ever stopped to think about how your girl, wife or BM feels reading those posts? She was out there once too. Even if you think you're "defending" her now, when you trash those women, you're trashing her history. You're telling her that you only value her because she changed, not because of who she is.
You can't "preserve" a healthy relationship while you're publicly dragging the very path she had to walk to get where she is at today. Real recovery is about humility, not using a keyboard to play moral police. Check your own balance sheet before you start trashing someone else's. You can only keep (i.e., preserve) the respect you're willing to give away.

#Reactionformation #Therebornextremist #Theghostintheroom #Perfomativeactivism #Thepathofleastresistance #Selectivemorality

SELECTIVE MORALITY — When people only remember their “values” when it benefits them.

One of the strangest patterns of our generation is how morals suddenly become flexible.
People now switch their principles ON and OFF like a ring light, depending on who is involved, what they stand to gain, or how trendy the situation looks.

You’ll see someone condemn a behavior with full chest…
…but when their friend does it, they call it “not that deep.”
You’ll see someone preaching about dignity…
…but hype indecency when it comes from someone they admire online.
You’ll see someone insisting on “doing what’s right”…
…but go silent when the wrong favors them.

That’s not morality.
That’s convenience.

Real morals don’t disappear because it’s your favourite celebrity.
Real values don’t shrink because someone attractive is involved.
Real principles don’t break because the internet is clapping.

Selective morality is dangerous because it makes people feel justified in wrong,
as long as they can find a “special case.”
It trains the mind to replace truth with excuses
and principles with preferences.

If you only apply your standards to strangers,
you don’t have standards —
you have bias.

If you correct others but defend your own for the same thing,
you’re not protecting them —
you’re enabling them.

And the worst part?
Selective morality kills growth.
You can’t become better if you’re always shifting your values to avoid accountability.

Stand for what is right, even when it is not popular.
Speak the truth, even when it shakes your comfort zone.
Let your principles be the same for everyone —
your family, your friends, your faves, and even yourself.

Because integrity is not proven when it’s easy;
it’s proven when it’s consistent.

At the end of the day,
true morality is steady — not selective.
Choose truth.
Choose character.
Choose consistency.

#SelectiveMorality

When you lie to protect yourself, you call it wisdom.
When someone lies and it costs you, you call it wickedness.

So the issue was never the lie.
The issue was who benefited.

If morality bends with advantage,
then it’s not morality—it’s convenience.

#MoralDoubleStandard
#SelectiveMorality
#TruthAndHypocrisy
#DoubleStandards
#HonestyMatters
#Ethics
#HumanNature
#ThoughtProvoking
#DeepQuotes
#MirrorMoment

Wait for your turn. Now is mine.

‎This is a beautiful example of everything I always say about $íñgle vvomen. 90% of vvomen are not $íñgle by choice. They don't have any man interested in them.
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‎A grand portion of vvomen who discourage vvomen from getting married are bíttér and hvrt. They don't have any serious man in their lives, so they push this narrative that marriage is not worth it.
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‎Imagine telling other vvomen "if you want to marry, marry and you'll see signs and wonders," just because of her own personal bad experience.
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‎A vvoman has a few bad experiences with men and boom ! She paints all men with the same brush.
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‎Whether you cohabit or not, it's your business but expecting the next innocent man to SVFFER for exactly what you gave another man for free, for 3 months is kinda reaching. I'm guessing since she admitted it's 3 months, it's probably like a year or more.
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‎Who knows she might be the difficvlt one to live with but hey ! You already know by now that a man is always the pr0blem and most vvomen can't be accountable.
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I understand the hardwork trying to portray yourself to be happy but we know the level of tears you shed every night and always.

Time will tell !

Bro understand that by discipline, your w00man is your first child. Discipline and punishment is part of it.
‎It might not be some t0xic kinda physical t0uch on her b0dy.
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‎But punish what you don't want or wouldn't what it to repeat itself or keep reoccurring.
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‎Once, twice could be a mistake, but thrice and above isn't a mistake. Because if you ignore it.
‎It will intentionally gradually turning into a character, and attitude that would soon destr0y b0th y0u and your children.
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‎That's why you must date someone you are pretty older than. Have more m0ney than. More educated than her. More influential than her — more than her in almost all the spheres of influence.
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‎While doing the corrections and punishment, learn to keep to your words and acts too.
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‎It may interest you that w00men learn by observation like children. Some will never cheat provided you'll never cheat too.
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‎But immediately you can't keep to that, you'll loose her completely.
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‎Date or marry who you can thame, correct and guide. Whatsoever a w00man is, The Man permitted it right from the day of asking her out.
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‎Be a man, hold the line, but always remember to balance the equation.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

‎Bro, that situation where she did something truly wr0ng. She knows she's wr0ng. And you corrected her. You put her in her place.
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‎Then she decided to ghost you. She's not picking your calls again. She's not replying your chats because you c0rrected her.
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‎Match the breaks, bro.
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‎You even made a big mistake by trying to reach out to her after she snubbed you for correcting her.
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‎Don't worry.
‎Don't call her again.
‎Don't text her again.
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‎When you correct a w00man and she snubs you for days or months — snub her too. If she avoids you, avoid her too.
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‎Leave her alone and focus on your business or job.
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‎If you want to have a great relationship with w00men, learn to avoid them when they avoid you.
‎Don't go back to typing and sending long texts explaining why you corrected her and why she should talk to you.
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‎Let her be.
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‎She'll do all the drama for just a few days. If she's into you, she'll come back to say, sorry and would want to fix things up.
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‎But if she never returns, that's the universe telling you she's not into you.
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‎Let her be my man.
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‎That kind of w00man wouldn't give you maximum respect as it ought to be. Don't beg her back into your life, even when you both knew she was wrong.
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‎You'll sūffer if you go ahead doing that. It's called emotional blackmail and mind games to keep you under her control.
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‎It's a hypergamy.
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‎If you aren't careful, if you aren't emotionally str0ng, she'll use all these tactics to keep you under her.
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‎You can't continue this way bro.
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‎Learn or perish.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

yMcy56:
No be small thing...
Every stock has its own time.
Meyer's time will also come...
As for Premier Paints, I think that one go still waka far small...

I actually came to look for the post that argued this Premier Paints with me when suspension was lifted on it......😊
From N10, it closed @28.20 today with full bid....


Jan 22

E shock me ooo