₦airaland Forum

CLOUDRepublic:
Well it is what it is?
It's hard to judge people

I guess you meant the opposite of what you said.

Wow

See this

Godfullsam:
From my little findings, 80% of the women whose husbands have side chick(s) today were once side chicks to married men in the past.

This is most sensible comment I have been waiting for.

Mariangeles:
Exactly.

That is why they would always want to take the place of the wife.
That is their ultimate goal.

I've stated this before: nobody hate wives like side-chics.
And once a sidechic, always a side-chic.

100% true.

Cum4me:
As a man just get money. There's nothing special about all these women. There are young guys and married men who are broke. They won't follow them because they're broke. Immediately they sense you're trying financially they become loyal and caring. Poor man girl child are disaster to the society. Na Dem full Olosho pass

Extremely true

Wow

And this

femi4:
no calls, just text

That's true. And ladies like calls.

yMcy56:
Ok thanks.
This is old news btw.

Oh ok. Yeah it was in February.

Ok

And this

Ovieemmanuel:
the question still remains . What do we do??. As a man you think of going into agriculture the next thing they meer you inside your farm wuth AK 47. Kai nigeria is frustrating.

If you are not based in Lagos, or other high paying states, you should learn more of online skills and leverage on them.

Interesting ooooooooo

Ok


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Cum4me:
Very useless post

Why do you say so?

Ovieemmanuel:
apart from lagos most states has nothing to offer. Even if you get a job they think 200k is more than enough as salary which can not survive a family man.

I agree with you. Most states in Nigeria have very low salaries being paid by private companies.

Ovieemmanuel:
my brother which work dey nigeria?? Which business ??

There are several work and businesses in Nigeria. Network properly and you will be gainfully employed.

Sometimes people are jobless because they are either hating or arguing with people they supposed to be connecting with for opportunities.

Sad irony of most Nigerians.

‎Practically w00men control access to s€x. While men control access to commitment.
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‎During courtship, a w00man decides who have s€x with her, why men decide who to get married to.
‎That’s the marketplace dynamic whether people like it or not.
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‎A w00man can decide who sleeps with her. A man decides who gets his name, his protection, his provision, his long-term investment.
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‎And here’s where the tension starts.
‎Many w00men want a certain type of man:👇
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‎High status. Financially stable. Confident. Emotionally controlled. Respected by other men.
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‎But that same caliber of man has options. And men with options choose carefully. They don’t just look at beauty. They look at temperament, peace, loyalty, discipline, and long-term compatibility.
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‎Now here’s the uncomfortable part.
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‎Some w00men struggle with being single not because men don’t exist — but because the specific men they want are not choosing them.
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‎The man she desires may not see her as his long-term choice.
‎And instead of adjusting, improving, or aligning with the standards of the type of man she wants, she blames “men.”
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‎forgetting that attraction is selective on both sides.
‎Just like she rejects men she doesn’t want, men also reject w00men who don’t fit their long-term criteria.
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‎High-value men typically prioritize:👇
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‎Youth and health. Feminine demeanor. Emotional stability. Respect for leadership. Cooperative energy.
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‎That doesn’t mean w00men have no value outside that. It means different traits are prioritized in long-term mate selection.
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‎The mistake many men make is forgetting their leverage. If you are disciplined, focused, building wealth, improving your body and mind — you are increasing your commitment value.
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‎Do not trade long-term commitment cheaply. Do not rush to wife someone who would not qualify for the caliber of man you are becoming.
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‎S€x is temporary. Commitment is generational.
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‎Build yourself into the kind of man who chooses, not the kind who begs to be chosen.
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‎You may need to read the last line again.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.
‎Keep following for more.

EmmyMaestro:
Where are the examples

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‎Practically a w00man does not love a man the way a man loves a w00man.
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‎A man can love a w00man simply because she exists. Because she is beautiful to him. Because she makes him feel something.
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‎A w00man rarely operates like that. A w00man loves what a man represents; 👇
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‎His strength. His direction. His protection.
‎His provision. His stability. His resources.
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‎Remove those things and watch how fast love begins to shake.
‎Lose your job. Lose your status. Lose your confidence. Lose your leadership.
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‎Suddenly the energy changes.
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‎This is why so many men are shocked when life hits them hard and the same w00man who once called them my king suddenly becomes distant, disrespectful, or gone.
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‎It’s not cruelty. It’s reality.
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‎W00men are wired to look for security and direction. If a man cannot provide structure, she begins to look elsewhere for it.
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‎That is why love alone is never enough. Respect is the real currency. If a w00man respects you, she can stay through storms.
‎If she stops respecting you, love disappears faster than you can imagine.
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‎This is why men must focus on becoming strong, capable, and disciplined.
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‎Not for applause. Not for validation. But because the world respects men who can carry weight.
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‎When you are weak — people don't feel sorry for you. When you are strong —people follow you.
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‎Stop chasing love.
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‎Build power, purpose, and discipline.
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‎Love that survives is the love that respects the man behind it. That is your resources.
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‎Learn or perish.
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‎Class dismissed.
‎Till I come your way again.

Tenrack:
lmao. Leave these creatures. They think they are the wiser and smarter gender. In time, we'll find out who's playing the losing game.

This new game or war going on between men and women on social media is already playing out in real life. To be honest, ladies will suffer more at the end of the day...