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That Moderator or Antispam bot that normally ban me whenever I post vacancies on this thread should take it easy o. I haven't done anything wrong by posting jobs for people to make a living.

Secondly, those people who are of the habit of sending me private mails whenever I post jobs, make una calm down o. I have no connection whatsoever, I'm just posting what my Oga at the top instructed me to post. And if you've been an active member of this thread (as against those I need a job crew) you'll know who my Oga is.

Nobody should send me a private mail biko. If you have any enquiry, call the numbers indicated in the advert.

Thanks.

An Islamic school in Ikorodu, Maya axis requires the services of College teachers
� English , Science ,French and CCA

Qualifications; - B.ed or B.sc (ed). Requirements:-. . Computer literate. Strong communication skills. Ability to work out of the 'box'. Dedication to duty. Team player. 2-3 years work experience. interested persons should call the following numbers. 07086761149 or 08036955335

Send CV to baitulhikmahschool@gmail.com

VACANCY
An experienced, qualified and dedicated preschool teacher is needed in a school at Ajao Estate.
She must have Practical Knowledge of Montessori, EYFS and ICT is very necessary.
She must reside within or around isolo, Okota, Airport road, Oshodi, mafoluku, Ajao Jakande. etc
Interested person should send her CV to flairmaccradle@gmail.com.

A christian school located at Agege needs committed and competent

*Head Teacher*
*Principal*
Requirements;
• Degree in Education,
*Must be Montessori /EYFS based. ( Head Teacher)
• At least 10years teaching experience with 3years experience as a Head Teacher / Principal in a reputable school
• Strong leadership skills
• Ability to devolve responsibilities, delegate task and monitor practices.
• Ability to use ICT for school management development.
• Must have ability to maintain the school brand, think and act strategically, especially in moving the school to the next desired level in terms of school discipline, population, standard and compliance.
• Must be a high performer.
Forward your CV to titilization22@gmail.com Application is on until August 1,, ,2018

Vacancies
We are hiring for the following positions (for immediate employment)
• Elementary teacher(B.Ed,NCE ,pgde,Nd,HND in any field, tech savvy, not less than 2years experience in teaching)
• Early years teacher (with knowledge of Montessori method, excellent communication skills, not less than 2years experience in teaching
• English,diction and phonics teacher ( full time)
School at Oyemekun bus stop Ogba. Candidate should kindly
forward CV to: fenugadara@gmail.com on or before Wednesday 1st august 2018

A reputable international school at Amuwo Odofin is in need of preschool teachers for ages 3 - 5

Candidates must be creative, innovative proficient in both spoken and written English. Also must be passionate and committed to raising a total child. Candidate must possess B.Ed, or NCE qualification with minimum of 3 years work experience in reputable schools.

Knowledge in jolly phonics, Montessori education and EYFS frame work is required.

Qualified applicants should please send cover letter and resume to lorionventures@yahoo.com by or before Wednesday 1st August, 2018. For details call 08034915033

A reputable school in Ikeja need the service of a teacher with jolly phonics, Montessori and EYFS experience. Friday is the interview. Call 08066004600 for details.

*Vacancy!* Vacancy!!*

A reputable Secondary School in Maya/ikorodu needs the service of
* English teacher
*PHE/computer
*Science Teacher
* Lower basic Teacher for immediate employment.

interested applicant can send CV with application letter to shittahalley@yahoo.co.uk or call 09066066669

*VACANCY*

A reputable Nursery and primary school situated in Lekki / Ajah axis is recruiting to fill the following positions;
Nursery teachers
Assistant Nursery Teachers
Administrative officer (Male)

Qualification for teachers:
B.ed/B.Sc(ed)

3-4 years of experience in a reputable school.

Strong Communicaion skill is a MUST.

Job Skill Requirements:
• Passionate about teaching and learning.
• Great team player.
• Excellence driven attitude to job delivery.
• Commitment to good work ethics and discipline.
• Strong classroom management skills.
• High level of commitment to Creativity
and innovation.
• Passionate about improving standards.
Must have good knowledge of phonics and diction
Must have EYFS
Must have done Montessori training
Must be 21st century teacher.
For Administrative officer:
A degree in relevant discipline.

Must have 3-4 years of administrative experience from a reputable school

All position must be versatile in the use of computer.
Only candidate with this criteria will be shortlisted

Call/ Send your CV to my WhatsApp number on 08139353543 indicate the position you apply for.

Strictly for teachers in Lekki/Ajah and it environs

A reputable school at Ajao Estate, Lagos is in need of experienced Montessori teachers for ages 3 - 5 and 0-3

Candidates must be passionate, creative, innovative, technology savvy, proficient in both spoken and written English. Candidate must possess B.Ed, or NCE qualification with minimum of 3 years work experience in reputable schools.

Knowledge in jolly phonics, and EYFS would be an added advantage .

Qualified applicants should send application letter and CVs to ginikaobiorah24@gmail.com on or before 6th August, 2018. For details call 08038536113

*VACANCIES FOR IMMEDIATE EMPLOYMENT*

Available for the positions of:
- Early Years Educators
- KS1 and KS2 Teachers

*Location:* Surulere-Ojuelegba axis

*Qualifications*: BEd./ PGDE

*Experience*: minimum of 3 years

*Skills* : Communication, collaboration, critical thinking, creativity, multi-tasking

Interested candidates should send CV to: mobosky3@yahoo.co.uk
Or call: +2348094372355;
+2348028178261

Mehn! The desperation is real! Just because someone replied another person's request for information on salary, you guys have been quoting him left, right and center?

Like seriously? Has desperation really affected you guys ability to comprehend a simple information? Make una take am easy o!

divinelove:
sorry bro it's my opinion and you don't have to accept it. Quality education is not something we have to be sentimental about or lower standards for? Not everyone needs higher education. Have a nice day.

You're foolish beyond belief! So, you think quality education is directly related to the amount the citizens pay to acquire it? What then is the primary duties of government if not to provide basic health care, quality education & social amenities. You're the foo.lish one here if you don't know.


You seem like one who is low on cerebral fuel.

I have a feeling that dude named 'MIKOLOWISKA' is the same UP. Else, he won't be up in arms attacking everyone whose opinion negates his.

Thank you Zirah for adding another twist to this plot. So, the house the mofo built for his parents is in whose name? Theirs or his? The answer to that question alone will mail his coffin.


To be honest, even I too can't build a house in my father's name when I have none yet. God forbid, if he dies, my siblings who happen to be mostly boys will just easily put me out with the 'You're a woman tag'. Like the yorubas often say; 'Oko o kin je ti Baba t'omo ko ma la'la'. Meaning a farm yard doesn't belong to both the father and child without a boundary.


That guy is simply a thief, crook, rogue and an egotistic fraudster. If he's not, let him settle with his wife and move into the apartment without demanding for a name change. If not for what he has up his sleeve, what has the name on a document (ordinary paper) got to do with marriage? Is the woman collecting tent from him? Is she bringing in other man to the house? Abegi! Most Naija Men are narcist!

proffemi:
As one of your wife's harshest critics on the other thread, I feel compelled to weigh in.

I still stand by my surmise that your reaction stemmed from a sense of betrayal, but I now see that she wasn't solely responsible for that "betrayal". You are both victims of the dynamics created when wife earns more than husband (or comes from a wealthier background) in a patriarchal society.

It is very easy for a man in that situation to feel emasculated, just as it is easy for the woman to step out of line. While the man's subsequent overreaction will be blamed on pride, the truth is that his self-worth rides on that pride. I can't blame the woman in that situation for stepping out of line, just as I can't blame the husband for occasionally overreacting. That's just how it is in your type of marriage. You both have to find ways of curbing the excesses.

So, who's the blame for this currrent brouhaha? I'm now apportioning the bulk of the blame to you.

Your wife erred in having her name alone on the deeds, and I understand your overreaction when you found out. Arising from the aforementioned dynamics, I can imagine how nasty her words might have been to make you explode that way, but still, I am worried that you were capable of asking her to pack out of the house over *her* suspicion of *your* infidelity.

Your wife started it, but I still cannot justify your actions.

If you think your marriage is worth salvaging:

1. Your wife should apologize for making herself sole owner of the property.
2. She cannot, and should NOT have your name solely on the deeds. Why should she? I understand that this will make you feel emasculated. Well, deal with it.
3. If you are both interested in the marriage, then consider transferring ownership to the kids under a tight legal framework that protects her from any future fits of anger. There will be more, trust me. Not necessarily because you are evil, but because of the dynamics at play.
4. Apologize to your wife for asking her to leave the house, and for your subsequent actions. Explain how deeply her words hurt, but still, the buck stops at your desk on this one. Apologize.
5. Don't be a dog in the manger. You either want your marriage, or you don't. People hate the term "divorce" but they are willing to be divorced in all but name. IF you can't live with you wife and can't stand her, free her to live her life. If you still want her, act like a responsible man, not a wounded kid. Reach out, settle this matter. Own up where you've been wrong, and get her to do same.

After that, go and sin no more

cc: Heseesall

You really are what your username suggests! A wise Prof! I doff my hat!


This is what pride, ego and arrogance does to a person. It masks a person's sense of reasoning and makes one see actions with the prism of 'Cause and effect'. Trust me, his 'get the hell out of my house' statement has just proven why the woman registered the property in her name alone. She definitely knows who she was dealing with. Period.


Every other ground can be shifted, but the document should not, I repeat should never bear the man's name. One thing I've learnt in my life, people can only be fair when it suits them but talk of treating you the same way the would love to be treated? It's quite impossible!

gaby:
Tough call this is for sure where the first mistake was sharing profit from a joint business with your wife as a business partner. This was wrong in my opinion and served as the precursor to what you guys have here.

After the business deal, you guys could have simply both taken out an amount for family and personal upkeep, while you as the head proceed with the housing project as a unit.

You goofed big time bro by asking her to leave the house and this goes to justify her having one over you because she seemed to have studied and predicted you'd tow that line someday-which, unfortunately, came to pass.

From experience, when some women insult you and give you names, you won't even know when you'd pick up a rope and do the needful on yourself, so I can give the benefit of the doubt on the 'leave the house' order but certainly not justifying it even if the house where to be solely on your name. That's the definition of narcism.

Hope you guys find a middle ground around this, while you relegate your ego to the back-burner.

Peace guys.

It shall be well with you for this! No one could have said it any better! Meanwhile, you didn't say anything about the man's outrageous demand of coercing the woman to change the document of the house to bear his name. Is that deliberate or you just don't want to pass blame? Lolz.

MizMyColi:
Succinctly put!

I honestly don't know why we are all stressing ourselves. This issue has shown it's peculiarity ab initio.


Two matured people conceived an idea to do a business. They contributed towards it and shared the profit equally. They were supposed to start a project with it, but someone used his own share to cater for his immediate family (Selfishness No 1).



Any man that tells his wife; 'Get the hell out of my house!' is not only selfish but also wicked. 'Your house?' I thought marriage joins people together, so where did that personal pronoun 'I' come from?


Thirdly, now that the table has turned, he now wants the document to bear his name alone (Another act of selfishness). Whoever cannot see what the man is up here is either blind, deaf, dumb or outrightly selfish just like the man.


Na wa o! Some people's wickedness beats the devil's own hands down.

declaro:
You can say whatever you like about the man. His wife confirmed to us that 'her husband is a good man'. Don't put people in your own shoe because they can never be you and you can never be them. His wife love him and she knows what she will miss. If you have a bad experience in your past or present don't refer it to others. If you were unable to find happiness in your home, don't wish others unhappiness just because you are unhappines.

Yeah! She confirmed he's a good man but didn't put his name as the owner of the house ab initio? Bros, you dull o. All those he's a good man title, na format. The wife already knows she's dealing with a totalitarian, hence, she gave herself a back up plan.


For your information, I'm happily married. So, it's not because of any bad experience that I'll typing this. I'm just advising a fellow woman not to fall victim to the latest marriage scam you men play. Besides, I'll like to ask; 'which law stipulated that a woman can live in a house built by her husband but the husband can't live in the same house built by his wife?'.

If you can't answer that, then, advise your egotistic brother to jejely move into his wife's house whilst paying maximum respect to his landlady. Else, he's just a bloody crook seeking to possess another person's possession.

declaro:
Anyway, you are right.

Bros, this world we're all living in isn't a place to trust completely o. I have seen and heard a lot! Let's shudder to think, why would the man want the property to be in his own name only?

That reason alone makes him dubious to me. Haha? He didn't even consider a scenario where the family can throw the wife and kids out if he dies under the excuse that 'Na our son property'. Also, if not for ego, who says a woman can live in a house built by her husband but the husband can't live in a house built by his wife?

So, you see? The whole idea of partners being equal in marriage is a hoax. Husband & Wife have never been equal to start with. If the woman wise well well, let her hold on to her house o. Else, I see her as the ultimate loser in this case....

declaro:
Husband and wife with children should not have properties in their name separately. It should be in their children's name, if any of them have problem with the marriage then he or she should leave the properties for the children. We should be more concerned for the children, parents should put them first before themselves.

I see no reason a wife will be concerned about having a property on her name if not insecurity. If you feel insecure, Satan must test you with this kind of temptation. It will fill your ego with the thought that "nothing will happen if I do this or say that, " "after all I am secured. You may turn a Good husband to a bad man unknowingly, properties are nothing to a man. If you respect your husband you will always have them.

Bros, abeg pass me that thing wey you dey smoke wey make you dey mistype. Why on earth should one register his property in his children's name? Children that might decide to sell it while the parent is still alive? Abeg no repeat that statement o.


Just like I advised a friend who just had a baby out of wedlock, she was like I'll struggle, make money and give my baby the best life. Then I asked her, you nko? Have you given up on yourself? You haven't completed your education talk less of living your dreams, na your 1 month old baby you wan give the best life. Which kind play be that one?

My point is, everyone has their life to live. Nobody should be a cog in the wheel to another person's progress under any guise; be it marriage or parenthood. Last last, it is all man for himself o.

Acidosis:
The marriage was built on a faulty foundation: The idea of my money, your money, I will spend my money on this, you will spend your own on that . weakened the marriage. No love relationship can function on that platform. It is a mere partnership, and partnerships are bound to break someday.

For some selfish reasons (not love), a lot of couples have embraced this system. This is not entirely bad as far as OP and his spouse share the same ideology about marriage and properties.

As far as marriage is concerned in my own school of thought, all receipts must be in the name Mr. & Mrs (except those gotten before marriage). It doesn't matter who bought them or who paid the children's school fees, it doesn't matter whether you married a sit at home wife or a career woman.

If my wife decides to embrace some selfish interests or make plans for my demise, then she's merely wasting her time. In my lineage, only my grandfather died "prematurely" at age 96. The house he left behind is currently wasting away cos grandmom at age 95+ don't need it anymore. All she does now is sleep and eat. The only way a selfishly acquired property would meet the intended purpose is when a spouse die prematurely (- now this is the message we preach).

@OP, whether in her name or not, if you both see yourselves together in year 2070, there wouldn't be a fight in the first place. However to avoid issues of any form, buy everything in the name - Mr & Mrs and save your marriage.

Bros, na how many mouth only you get nau? See as you dey shift blame up and down. At first, you technically blamed the woman for the whole brouhaha. Now, you're faulting the foundation of the marriage. Just say the truth, the man no try at all. It's obvious he's trying to cheat the woman period. Any other thing is tantamount to speaking from both sides of the mouth.

It's funny how men can easily open their mouth to utter words like; 'It's over between us'. 'Get out of my house'. Which kind yeye statement be that one? Shuo!

princechurchill:
A man without enemy is a man without value= Machiavelli

Bros, leave story abeg. Is Donald Trump the only man with value? Dude is an irritant! Very foo.lish old man!

Bros, I'm a Lady but I'll never support evil. Of all the wrong things I've observed in this generation of ladies, sending nu.des and giving a head is the worst!


Bros, jejely run outta the relationship if you don't wanna die of heart attack. The girl probably knows you're not a strong willed person, hence, the reason why she's begging you desperately. I can bet my 6 months salary that she will do something more stupid than that, only that she'll be doubly careful so that you won't catch her. A Leopard never changes it's spot they say....


But the slap though, I understand its a way to release the flux of anger bottled up inside of you. All those saying sh.its like you're a weak man are hypocrites who will either do worse or kill themselves when they experience such. In case of another time, try to inoculate yourself against such. How? You either learn to play video games or stroll out to take a bottle of beer. Trust me, all problems become lighter with a bottle of beer.


#My_One_Cent#

donstan18:
The man didn't do well, that's disheartening. He should be penalized properly.

I'm a lady. Truth be told, money and favor can't buy love or spouse. Because you borrowed your partner money shouldn't make you think it's a must for you two to end up.

Some ladies like me ended up dumping a man after being trained in school. Money and favor shouldn't be a tool to cage a partner.

As a lady, I'm sure her only problem is that he didn't marry her, not even the money. Husbands are scarce these days, God should give me a man, I'm tired of being single and pretending on social media to be happy , a man who will rescue my mission before Aboki will use me(Evening newspaper) to wrap suya. Amen.

You confessed to being a 'Lady' three times in your write up while your username suggest otherwise. Continue, God is soaking your cane in Kerosene.

Observing some sellers from the tree top where I'm presently sitting. Una just dey quote price as if Na Jankara market una dey. Like seriously? PS 3 for 60K? 1.5 Split AC for 60K? Hian?