₦airaland Forum

DAramis:
Stock trading (shares) and bitcoin trading (buying and holding or little sales) are two businesses that I tried, and deep down I lost lot....virtually everything I have saved
(despite the total money I lost...it is small savings of mine).

Since then, I promised myself not to try those two line of business. it is not for me. Another line of business I will try once more before conclusion is Forex trading.

The most important thing is for someone to find his line of business that his profit making is greater than his loss. There is a niche for everyone.

Gambling, it is not a line of business. It is madness to make money legitimately, and invest it in gambling (virtual and football predictions) all in the quest to get rich overnight. Many has lost it, and would turn around to blame village people.

Build your wealth gradually rather than gambling over 30 percent of your salary trying to get massive rich....My little advice to people in such line of ludo playing (gambling ) all in the name of investment.

NB: Tried learning programming, but got to realise that , that line of study/work is also not for me.

For programming I believe the challenge most times is the way you are learning it and who you are talking to about your progress . It's not an easy feat in the first instance but the moment you get it right it becomes an easy feat. But the beginning is so so hard . Cause my initial start was like hell but once I began to see in it everything started making sense

Latanini:
All of them combined can't withstand America, the greatest country on earth.

Lol 😂 you are still in the past brov. Reason is there is a continental drift already and America did what they weren't supposed to have done if they wanted to stay afloat: outsourcing your labour hence the Chinese got the upper hand with that.

mightyhazel:
na wetin we don dey hear since 50 yrs ago.na wetin we go still hear 50 yrs from now

Before it was speculations but in reality they change is becoming obvious. Less dependence on the western world will cause the shift.

mightyhazel:
What language are they speakinggggg?




Guess right and win writernig blue and red pen🤌

They moved to speaking their own native languages hence Interpreters so close by. They ditched English

Nahunger:
The face of which Nigerian youths, 😂😂😂
Most of you are so gullible, emotional and just follow trends.

You have no idea y'all are being played, no wonder politicians don't rate you all one bit

If whatever he is doing is being played, with all the obvious positive results of his hardwork then I believe many would love to be played . And if politicians are playing us like the way VDM is "playing us" I believe this country will be in a better place . Stop hating someone that is doing what's right all because you on the not positive side of executing things.

Bendeco02:
Nigeria never conduct any research on that yet sha.

But with what am seeing/observed, women are more by far.

If women start marrying multiple men in any region of Nigeria as men do, there will be scarcity of men or no men to marry again.

If not for christianity, our fore fathers or ancestors married multiple women during their time and there was never scarcity of women then.

In the North, both the rich and poor marry multiple wives yet have you ever heard that single women are scarce to marry over there?

Thing is we have no concrete documentation of the absence or the presence of multiple women irrespective of polygamy. I can say this also that it's possible that many didn't marry their decade mate or close age mate because we have stories of older men marrying teenagers and under aged ladies; this is as a result of scarcity of women in their age group or inability for them to have been able to marry when their age mates that were close or below their prime(the age range a woman is to stay unmarried)

brain54:
Reminds me of one guy wey dey count meat for pot give him wife...

The day I lost all respect for him was when I burst into his kitchen and 'caught' him dipping his fingers inside the soup pot to count the meat left.

Na that day I know say no be only psychiatric hospital mad men dey. Some are roaming freely.

It's not uncommon to see this particular guy quarrelling with his wife over pieces of meat and such trivialities.

So annoying to me and I felt disgusted.

Food is a basic necessity of life. Even if person one dey stingy not with food...as long as there isn't wastage and done in moderation.

Honestly to me na poverty mindset dey cause such over kaku!

Well what if she is out doing things and causing more expenses than the mans budget. How do you think he can handle such mess? Meat counting is very petty but na the man know watin him eye don see

Bendeco02:
Not all women will marry, take note of that. Expecially southern/christian women.

Women are more than men in number. Even if all men marries three women each, women will still remain.

This is the reality some of you failed to know. Instead you are busy imagining the kind of man you need while you're are more in market.

You need rich and handsome man of your spec. Dey play

Even if the man is their spec and not rich, they will still reject him. Howmany men are rich and handsome? That's Less than 20% of Nigeria men population. When women are more in number than the total number of men both ugly/poor and rich men combined

The ratio of men to women is not as conspicuous as mentioned here. It's more like even 1.01:0.99 women to men.
As far as there is YHWH anything is possible.

But the womans mother can come and stay in the house if she isn't well? Omoh this narrative is so annoying. For me I'd get a caregiver and damn what the wife says. Except the rooms in the House are few then we can say there is a challenge but if ther is an extra room, then why not

Bigchris01:
Sometimes I don’t engage some people in this Nairaland forum due to their ignorance and emotions of supporting things which they are not aware of, I see those arguing about Putin starting a needless war as if the war started yesterday, there has been an agreement that banned NATO from expanding their military operations to Eastern Europe this is exactly what USA 🇺🇸 did, overthrowing of Castro and the establishment of a non-communist government friendly to the United States. when Fidelis Castro seek Allie’s with Soviet Union Cuba 🇨🇺 was invaded, more over before the war in Ukraine started a lots of things has gone down the govt was crushing the Russian speaking Donetsk and Luhansk regions that want to break out of Ukraine just like Biafra in Eastern Nigeria, the US govt was supporting them giving them weapon to crush their own people from this region who feel marginalized, there has been several warnings from Russia notifying them to obey the agreement but yet they were hellbent on admitting Ukraine into NATO, sooner or later y’all will understand who is the real aggressor, all these conspiracy theorists has blinded lots of people in the world including some Nigerians, before the US and NATO carry out their planned mission to cage Russia UKraine will be grind to dust. Do to others what you want them to do to you.

The propagandas of the west thrives cause there is no coverage of the language globally hence the western media sells any propaganda and that's what most gullible persons believe without making concrete findings

God1000:
Lol, but Russia's Achilles heel has been exposed with the invasion of Ukraine

Lol and the country is still thriving amist all the sanctions; he has been able to even get American oil customers on board , man is doing well just imagine Russia isn't tempered with by the west. I dislike killings but no one likes threat being at their backyard. Need not mention the funds given to Ukraine and tactical supports from the west. It was in recent times Putin started getting aids from china and north Korea.

Lol when you want to buy anything call her and tell her the price . If she says lower report back to her what the seller said. What ever comes out of it she will be satisfied with the outcome

Edygrin:
One day we'll talk about how the likes of Sowore have reduced protests to a money making scheme.

I hate to say it but he just wants to stay relevant

NewPee44:
Good day Nairalanders,

I seriously need your help to save my marriage.
I will be very brief with my story.

I am a newly wedded man. Before I got married, I usually take soda (Coke, Fata and big cola) drinks a lot, sometimes I take 2 bottles a day. Back then I assumed that since my work is so stressful, the soda will nor have much effect.

Fast forward to few months of my wedding, I stopped drinking soda.

Surprisingly, my P*nis could not stand properly for almost a week, I had to visit a local herb seller for Agbo. After few days, it started working again.
Fast forward to few days ago, I realised that I cum as quickly as 2minutes or less. The present situation is making me restless.

Please kindly advise on what I can use to get back myself.

Uhmmm I think first of that you just want to engage people someone having this worry will not have time to look for pictures to add to this post

Softmirror:
Peter Obi is an ambitious human being without principle. Today he is the one begging Atiku for one term in ADC, tomorrow he is the one sending Datti to beg Abure, next tomorrow he is the one claiming a saint and abusing others as corrupt, next tomorrow he is the one dining and wining with those he called corrupt..........he is has no principle at all as well as no foresight. He is not a man of his words.

Lol you guys are looking for excuses to disqualify the credible man

naijapikin2:
Numby1 pic yes

But the rest it's just body show off. Even if they catch the man they can't keep him. But number one is sure to catch and keep. But then it would be the pride of the man to give her money to make better hair. Later.

I doubt you know what you are saying . Aside body their face and skin is giving

Omoh these guys think they have a chance before now I pitied them but it's obvious they know what they are doing. I don't think Israel should stop at this point

RollinTNDA:
I remember back in 2023 when my babe was showering and I yelled babe this A.I thing (chatgpt) has taken your job ooo.

It can code 10 times faster than u

This girl ran out naked with soap in her eyes saying its a lie. I show her the YouTube clip She was visibly heartbroken still shouting its a lie
And she just recently started developing her script writing skills

A.I just come snatch everything🤣
She couldn't belive it
It felt like her world just crashed

Person wey spend hundreds of thousands to learn and sleepless nights learning how to code.

The kind depression wey hit my her that year

Thing is this AI aren't perfect you need to know what you are doinf to be able to use it

Babangidapikin:
Those are the reality of the time, I have seen A.I bring out codes that would take months in less than 30 minutes...

Omoh with AI I have finished projects that would cost me a month in 2days

Mining engineering. The remaining software related courses can be gotten anywhere cause it's PoW it requires to to get a job in software related fields

What if it's the girl that's is paying the family bills?

id4sho:
Pride goes before fall, that's Wike 🤷🏿. He has to fight to death because he's not longer in the scheme of things. Tinubu will dump him shortly

If you stay loyal: Tinubu doesn't dump! List persons Tinubu used and dump that were loyal?. I don't like the man but his loyal to his loyalist

PlasmaTV:
Lol
An interestingly biased take.

First of all, Pst Chris wasn't traveling alone with Sinach na. He travels with a team of people. It'll be untenable for someone like Pst Chris to travel for ministrations alone.

Also, you are inferring that Pst Chris and Sinach were involved in an amorous relationship which led to the breakdown of Pst Chris's marriage. That's market gossip.

Furthermore, Pst Chris didn't rubbish Sinach's songs. He simply said that Christians are the way makers. Pst Chris corrects lyrics and even his own teachings. He didn't go around bashing her songs na.

Lastly, what's the purpose of your post gan gan ?

Uhmmmm everything you mentioned here is valid except the market gossip statement you can't agree or disagree on what you don't have a direct information about. Somethings will never come to limelight even if they happen. So trust yourself alone and trust God all other men are bound to cross lines sometimes as well.

Karlifate:
Bad character is the number one reason.

The others are just minor additions.

I absolutely second to this and a lady can be very spiritual and still have bad character

shibyc:
Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures.

I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.

Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument.

Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts eh, like I’m begging her.

She forgets one thing:
The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine and everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.

Now I’m realizing that, if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.

So now I’m asking you all:

Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially ?

I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking, but now I dey reason am twice.

What do you all think?

People will say this isn't right but I believe to a woman you aren't married to you don't go the extra mile except she is now the wife then she is your responsibility. If I'm to give a woman that isn't my wife fund for business maybe cause she might get more traction on the business I feel it should be more transactional. We cut a deal on partnership with dividends divides and these wil be legally documented. Or I invent the money myself on other things and just give her upkeeps when necessary. But when she is wife she is my responsibility so I can do anything for her( with a pinch of salkt: if her head de house ) else I'll still get the limit I can do cause some women are baskets when it comes to business but champion other activities well in the house.

Jashub:
But if it happened in Nigeria you will be the first to condemn and cast our broadcasting system as failed .

We criticise what affects us more than how we critic what doesnt

Aniahbaby:
We can’t dispute the fact that artificial intelligence is so helpful to humans, and it has reduced the stress and hassle in the workplace. This same AI has made so many people so lazy that they can’t think straight on their own.

For instance, the year before artificial intelligence came into existence, everyone was using their brain to write and think. Ever since we all adopted artificial intelligence into our lives, we can no longer think on our own. All decisions and thought process is thrown to ai. I feel its a way to stop us from climaxing and depending on these western worldbfor innovation.
It has gotten to the point that even our bosses are no longer demanding ideas from us. Instead, they go online, type in a few prompts, and boom, AI does the thinking and coding. Before, my boss would ask me to write some code or generate ideas for our web project. But now? He just types a few sentences into different AI and tells me to “touch it up.”

How do you expect someone like me to improve if I don’t get to think? I mean, AI is now coding for my boss. It's gradually taking over our responsibilities, and guess what? We are letting it.
It’s funny how we begged for jobs and prayed for opportunities to prove ourselves, but now that we finally have them, we are giving them out to machines. I’m not against AI, but it’s like we are slowly pushing ourselves out of relevance.

Maybe it’s time to ask ourselves: are we growing with AI, or are we letting it grow in place of us?
Let’s not allow technology to make us useless. Use AI, but don’t lose your human intelligence.

Same thing I keep saying: first of thank God I learnt software engineering before this AI thing . We don't think anymore.

Exgee:
Sometimes I wish I could switch off my phone or change my line or even block them from reaching me.

I'm getting increasingly frustrated with the whole thing. I'm under intense pressure.

I'm not yet a father to anyone, yet I'm being overwhelmed with responsibilities. Its not like I have. I'm just struggling to survive but no one seems to understand.
I've tried to explain to my mum but it seems she's not getting it. Whenever they call, demands must be made. I hate to hear the unending complaints all the time.
There was a time I decided not to pick their calls for two months and I was reported to other family members, I was severely scolded and I had to repent.
I sincerely don't know if being a first born is a crime. I don't. Probably a curse. At age 26, I'm already now having grey hair, I've gone bald too, due to lofty and enormous responsibilities. Its not I have a good job. My salary can barely sustain me in terms of feeding.
Whenever I see their calls coming in, my heart jumps. God knows I wouldn't have any issues helping my own blood but in a situation where they know I'm still struggling and they seem not to understand simply because I don't complain is what is annoying me.
Anxiety is killing me.
My blood pressure is now higher than it should be.
I'm always having one-corner headache due to overthinking.
I'm just fed up with life completely.
I can't even save. I've deprived myself of everything. Even the basic things that I should have as a young man

Exactly what I was facing before I was so paranoid every call is billing was so frustrated and pay wasn't meeting up my needs as well . I started developing hatred and complained , I used every person's I meet that their family still supports them as more fuel to my anger and annoyance; but will you continue to be angry cause the billing wont stop till they go off someday out of this world. I had to change my mindset that they are my responsibility, I started setting out weekly money I should be sending it started with 5k weekly and it has risen to 20k weekly, this excludes drugs of up to 50k sometimes more monthly, aside lower priority billings, all I told God was to provide for me so I can comfortably provide for others. And so far God has been a magician. I don't go broke and I don't know how He does it. So change your mindset and everything will be alright.

Agbegbaorogboye:
This article is concise and the message well passed but I disagree with the message. Obidients and Obi need to be pragmatic. They need to understand and realise what they are up against. This is not 2023 when Buhari wanted a level playing field. Even with his good intentions, the political hawks in APC still managed to "glitch" the system. We're talking here of 2027 where Tinubu will be an incumbent running for a second term, where he has successfully subjugated almost every critical institution and apparatus. If Obi runs solo, the 2023 template will be replayed again. Simplicita.
His best bet now is VP to Atiku. He shouldn't allow anyone to gaslight him. Even Tinubu attempted to be VP to a Buhari. Anyone telling him to run alone is either just being sentimental or working for the APC.

It will be better he doesn't contest than be a running mate to Atiku.
Atiku is hungry for power not for bringing development to Nigeria

UpaIweka:
You rather we chose the pandora criminal that looted N250 million from Anambra coffer to his warehouse in lagos monthly for good 8 years ba ?!

Lol 🤣. One thing I respect a particular ethnic group for is that they see their eviil brother a saint compared to a true saint. Nothing can change their perspective and they don't mind if that brother is even killing them they'll defend him to the last. I always envy this ethnic group.

AdesegunSanni89:
What an irresponsible statement from a mediocre.

Lol. soon it will be so clear to even the blind