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iLegendd:
I'm financially better than the young boyfriend even though he's a principal in a private school. For the pastor, I heard he's extremely rich. Why won't be he rich when he collects tithe and offerings.

Assistant boyfriend by choice or by not being up to her standard?

Also, I was the one who advised her to stay faithful to her man and I won't want to have sex with her again. Since she came, we roam in the house with no clothes. I set the boundary of no sex, but she later became way more serious with it since she's getting older, 26. She started taking religion seriously, but it seems this pastor is about to bring back her back to worldly enjoyment.

See, I have never dated a Nigerian girl. The highest I can go is babymama or friend with benefits. All these women are the same. If you want peace, play the game from the corner, not the centre. If the people at the centre know the rate their women are cheating, they'll switch to corner.

Maybe, you won't really understand what I'm trying to say.

Nice one.. I wanted more info.. And you are absolutely correct about playing from the corners 99.9 percent of them are the same but there are rare exceptions though.
Thing is a woman cannot be really tamed she stays loyal till she meets someone else that got what she needs just a few are truly loyal.
A typical look at the lady: she is dating a guy she shifts when she knew you are more financially okay than her bf. Now you made it possible for her to stay in a relationship and still be with you which a typical lady will see as a blessing; now she meets someone richer :a pastor.
And for sure you can't date a woman that's digging you when she got a man if it weren't for your discipline and her eventually stopping according to your story you'd have continued.
One thing is sure you'd want to dig again if you are carefull knowing she is a plain hoe except you get rid of her.

iLegendd:
Lol

How can you date someone you've flagged as red flag since 2019? A SIMP will change his mind, but not me. If you're one of those men that ignore red flags, it's not me.

My pain is how she has started lying too much.

People like us who built 99% of their lives in honesty, we get hurt when we're lied to. Doing her thing doesn't hurt me, because what else is she supposed to do after refusing to date her for years? She's not a wood.

Lol bro that's the thing.. You have done that. She is a red flag for you in quote for a relationship but a white flag for a friend. One of the greatest problems of man is self-deceit and creating a reason for something; with time even our mind plays in that direction even if it's not what we want. What I am saying in essence is that if she got red flags in your eyes you guys won't be this close. You are just sad the assistant bf position you are managing someone is taking it away from you and nothing more painful than knowing the guy got what you don't have: money.

Under the hood you still have feelings, you are not feeling it too much cause she has been giving you more attention before now than her bf. Now someone is taking your spot and this person got more steeze than you. Lol

Akpakomiza2:
Left which 40 bil in which treasury? He left nothing. He agreed that Edo is even owing over 100 bil. Towards the election, borrowed money. His government pretended to be strict. Radisson Blue and Afriinvest are his firms that were involved in deals within Edo. He seized lands from several communities.it seems you were part of the government or a loyalist of Obaseki. The panel did a great job...

It's either you are a clear APC person you are failing to make due research or you shutting yourself from the truth. If you are any of these: it is very difficult to make you see things from the bright side and the truth hence we deepen ourselves more with the obvious lies of people who are out to destroy a country and we celebrate these persons even when they are bent on harming us. Except you don't Want to see the truth; this current government is taking Edo state back to the past way before even Oshiomole's time. Where did he get money that he threw away with the name of saying he had commenced building of overhead bridge? Please it's obvious you are a friend of this government so I'll leave you to sleep in your lies and deceit. Or maybe you weren't benefitting from Obaseki's good governance because many lazy persons and miscreants Obaseki's governance did not favor them.
Lastly, I'm not an edoid neither am I affiliated with anyone in his government but I analyze and see the truth and say it I've loved Edo state for a while and never a time has a government successfully made all these impact on the state moving the whole state to digital and organized pattern. The government did not favor lazy people you had to truly work to get what's needed.
I believe the reason you don't like him is cause he did not dash money...

Akpakomiza2:
But if you look further, you will see that the allegations are true to an extent and therefore valid

I feel they aren't.. someone that left 40billion naira in the state treasury and he isn't owing a dime is not someone that has the intention to steal. His government was strict to corruption to a large extent. Make your research on this: many complained they weren't seeing those little fraudulent profits, in order to reduce government expenditure on projects he partners with foreign companies, gets available foreign aids so as to make the state make impacts with little expenditure. and you are failing to see that APC and propaganda cannot be separated. Is like you agreeing when a known thief and liar is calling someone a thief.

Akpakomiza2:
How is it invalid

Thing is in order for you to look like a good guy you have to be the good guy or make others look more terrible than you; then people will see your bad as better and might even call you good.

Lol, I know they'll try but all these are allegations and it's invalid.

Danielomisco:
HELLO I NEED ANSWERS,FOR THOSE THAT USE UPWORK HOW DO YOU WITHDRAW TO YOUR BANK ACCOUNTS?
IS THEIR ANY SITE THAT IS VERIFIED THAT ONE CAN GET REMOTE JOB?SUGGESTIONS PLEASE

You can add your local bank.

annolomy:
[size=8pt][/size]My girlfriend visited me today, and while we were together, she received a call from someone who seemed to be a man. At first, I brushed it off, thinking it was just a random call.

But could you believe this same man called her a total of ten times? I even told her to answer the call in my presence, but she refused to pick up. Now she's telling me that I don't trust her and that I'm doubting her.

I told her to show me proof of their chats, and I would drop the matter completely. But she insisted, saying that if I don’t believe her, that I should forget that she's not sending any proof.

What do you think about this situation, my fellow Nairalanders?

Mistakes most men do is direct confrontation: will someone that's doing shit admit to it?.. They will play the victim game immediately. Imagine you are a thief and someone accuses you directly that you are one, will you accept or deny? So don't directly accuse anyone of infidelity they will all enter defense mode and if you aren't careful you'd start apologizing even when you know you are right. Rather play a sucker to catch one. Act like you don't give a shit and you are fully blinded; in no time you will see what you want to see. And as far she is girlfriend I no too de worry. This method has proven to be cause they will become careless.

MondayOmoAdugbo:
2face go don madd well well for this marriage,... So many times him head go dey boil but he no fiy shout lol 😂


Now

Jungle don mature 😀😹

He knew that coming out public was the only way to end the torture

You see who de feed you na make you get the addiction. If other things bother your mind andno option addiction go vanish. And your mum is petting you too much typical of mothers. So you need to be responsible for your self and your mum she has done so much for you. Dont be selfish and just be thinking of yourself make that woman proud as she is hoping.

fuckJones:
so you means PDP will not pursuit the case to Supreme Court which is in Abuja?

Lol 😆. The idea is to frustrate them then there will be nothing to show for in the end. Same thing they did in presidential. It will now look like the case isn't a serious one and justice will not be served and as Nigerians we always learn to adjust to bad governance and also some bias people will still call what's evil and terrible good. Even when it doesn't benefit them.

fuckJones:
PDP and LP are not serious

They moved a case to Abuja because they know it will be difficult to ask witnesses to travel such shady moves to sink a state down. APC has no good plans for the country till people wake up they will always be slave

GanagiBitrus:
Scrabble of course.
Chess is nothing but a glorified draughts (draft).

Lol why do I feel it was very difficult for you to play it and you weren't good at it.

Sonnobax15:

The earlier Sowore realize that Nigerians aren't worth dying for,the better for him.....

He is fighting for his own ambitions. All these activities is to stay relevant

NwaAmaikpe:




While the church is a place to let go of your burdens, emotions, worries and fears, it is not a place to rid your inhibitions and indulge in such brazen public displays of affection.

As a product of adultery whose primary specialty is mainstream adultery, I can authoritatively confirm that what I see in the faces of those two are not the look of a couple but that of adulterers.

I don't blame them, I blame our Lord who is so merciful to allow such fuckery in his house.
Gone are the days we found holiness in the church; today, it's nothing but an abundance of fuckery and ikwokirikwo.

From the altar boy smooching choir mistress, to usher giving protocol officer handjob, down to treasurer looting the offering basket to the nagging married mistress of the priest who is tired of washing his semen-stained cassock.

The church must wake up.

But come to think of it, I may be wrong about those couple, but everyone knows that no one performs a better PDA than adulterers in a comfort zone of safety.

If they are married there is nothing wrong in it.. God no be hard person abeg e get why Him say him be our father and comparing Himself to the normal man that gives his son bread instead of stone. It implies He is loving so cut this your religious stufss. He asked us to prove our love to Him by keeping commandments not being too holier than thou.

Prenup

Im confused on how she is monitoring all your lines where she de work??...

Gadafii:
Werey have you "recovered" the stolen funds from your site completely?

E good as you dey expose fraudsters and criminals, but don't be one of them

Lol seems like you are still in the past.. Today is 15th January 2025

Tell her by asking for a solution that you can help her pay for.

From another angle, I think it was a smart move. And a distraction to a saga that was about to ripen( him threatening little smart) to prove a point that people are gullible to info. They don't validate it before broadcasting it. And to know who his true friends are. In one moment you think people are your friends till you are in a big mess. Someone called his mum a thief; these are brutal enemies that you must know else they might catch you by surprise like Brutus and the great Julius Caesar. Similar thing happened with Jesus with all he did for the jews, they requested a thief be pardorned rather than someone who was doing good deeds in their midst.

thesicilian:
I believe the black man is generally more intelligent given the same conditions.

Nothing special about these guys except that their forefathers made right decisions and ours didn't; and it keeps rubbing on us.

Fiscus105:
Uhmmm, prejudice way of reasoning, I guess.
So many men, abandoned their wife sexually and running after girls ,that are not in any way match their wife, even in bedmatic affairs.

The infidelity among married women, high abundantly now, no thanks to sexually deprivation of wife, for no reason by men.

In as my, some women are culprit too, but most come from men.

This is bitter fact, that we men shying away from.

Well, in your opinion it's a prejudiced way of reasoning which I won't debate because it's your opinion, but your opinions are very valid some men/women take extramarital affairs as a sport irrespective of how their spouses play their roles well these men aren't satisfied. I've seen men date women their wives are far better in all areas. Some persons start this infidelity habit because of peer influence and truth be told when you are with a like mind even evil can be made to look good. If we play a close analysis you'll still agree that if a man is comfortable at home he barely hangs around with friends except it's his nature to be around friends. In my conclusion, there are lots of exceptions to what I propounded the first time but if a man/woman who wasn't a chronic cheat begins it after conjugal bliss there is a high possibility that their own spouse is the cause.

Dtruthspeaker:
That is because you are following the op's words whereas what op is talking about is one of the many blows that hits all marriages. but men do not see it coming.

Women using sex as a weapon, is not really here since most people fornicate before they marry, so uncle can see it coming.

But consider this, while you thought she was all over the moon for you is why she married you only for you, over the course of 10 years to start seeing evidences that show you that the other guy who she preferred above you did not want to marry her, and is her spec for now after10years you now know the Truth of what she likes and she would like to and that actually she is just managing you.

Can you deal with that?

And God help you, that you are already suspicious of her chieating with someone spe close to her who is not her spec. oya na, go and lie down next to her not to talk of riding her, let me see.

From this angle, there is a sense of truth as well. Especially women they marry who is available; especially when they are in their prime or close to it. Then as time passes especially when they become financially okay themselves they start craving for their original desires. Hitherto is why I tell every guy not to entice or woo a woman with money. Know what she likes before you marry her. Some try to paint a color you desire over her cause over time the paint wears off

Women who weaponize sex at a younger age when they are married are the ones having this issue. When you tell a man no too many times, he becomes used to it and he moves on to other things that will not give him negative feedback. Many women are just like logs of wood in bed; the man becomes bored and wants adventure somewhere else: some pick a hubby while most get other ladies that will match their bedmatic fantasies.

Samantha125:
If you found her dressing like that, the you'd have two choices.

Either you respect her style of dressing or you hit the road.

You can't find someone who's comfortable and confident in her own skin and start manipulating her into losing her own self confidence for your own selfish reasons ... If you want a woman who dresses like Deeper Life sisters, then go to Deeper Life church and get yourself a Deeper Life sister.

Let's be truthful to ourselves that not skin confidence it's indecent dressing. Stop closing your eyes to what's bad

MadamVanessa:


Desperate woman stoop so low like this, and the man have no iota of respect for a woman he claims he loves.

What's the point of all these? Can't proposals be intimate and private affairs? Some persons even go to the extent of dressing up, visiting a photo studio, and capturing the moment. So childish to me

As for me, I highly doubt I'll ever consider remarriage, despite having numerous suitors at present but if at all I made a change of mind. To any potential admirers, let this be clear, I will not be proposed to in a public spectacle. You don't have any right to kneel down for me while proposing, you don't have the right to expect me to kneel and accept a ring. Try that silly attitude and see me walk away from you.

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Well, you stand for what you want. You should have protected her from even your dad. Ask her what she wants next and if the wedding she desires will pacify her. You did not marry her, that court thing seems like a secret wedding. Do the wedding a Nigerian girl desires; and also is your dad paying your bills? that is the only way most parents have strong hold on their kids.