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Adewale1603:
but this is just a copy and paste quote nw, she doesn't mean it, just catching cruise and being comical, jokes and comedy

You can't repost what you don't affirm... Forget cruise disguise. And for her to delete it it means she remembered that she did not restrict some persons. Women like that do select people they allow view some of their shady deeds

Well he in already in a hell hole. He needs clear evidence to nail her and a status is nothing because it is subject for debate.

Throwing direct suspicions doesn't end well. Here is my hack. Oops 🤫 I can't even say it here cause most ladies will.become smarter with this too... Just act calm. No matter how smart they are, we guys have advantage of knowing technology more than ladies so bro use technology to fill in your presence when you are long away and you'll get information that you seek.

AwokenVawulence:
I'm sure we have all been in the position of thinking if a close friend is helping situation or bringing more problems. I'm currently in university and every is feeling the heat from the current economy, I recently entered university as I came I couldn't buy gas cylinder and other equipment that would enable me to cook as it's cheaper than eating out, so sometimes ( about 4 times) I use gas from this friend, note we bought the gas together.
Sometimes we go to the market to buy some foodstuffs I average contribute about 30% of the amount spent. About 10 days ago his family member gave him 10k he used it to buy perfume , chain and other stuff worth almost 8k I was angry but didn't show it ( why not use it to buy more foodstuffs ) . Sometimes when I go out to eat he comes and meet me there and due to the fact of I don't like eating when a friend around me hasn't eaten I buy him food or we share the one I bought .

Now on Friday I went home bye my gas and foodstuffs because it saves money and since I came back he has been eating with me daily,this has taking a great stress on the foodstuffs I brought back because what my parents gave me wasn't ment for two people and I am to use it till December.
So please how would do I go about this , I don't know how to tell him to stop coming because I used his gas when I didn't have and he is close friend.And also what scares me is that he currently doesn't have any provision due to the fact that he spent it on perfume and does stuff I listed before which probably means he is going to keep coming for a while

Note - I only used his gas and the foodstuff 4 times mainly because I contribute less( 30%) and know am not entitled as much as a higher percentage , and I only go to his room when only I haven't eaten due to maybe my parents not sending the cash on time not every f**cking day

I feel if your friend narrates this story there will be a different justifiable angle.
You were eating at his place not frequently but sometimes. to a large extent your friend is a free person. If you stop him from eating your food now when you go broke who will you run to?
One thing I learnt in school is give to get. Now's is your turn to contribute the 70% you are seeing it differently. Just allow make this your current good stuff finish together then una don draw. When you want to get new one you can draw the line and he will understand. You can say your parents complained about it. And he will get the message and you guys will still be cool

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Opanka44:
Let me go straight to the Point.

I'm dating my Boss's younger sister who happens to be the last born from a polygamous Background. We've known for almost two years. She claims to love me so deeply and she knows I also love her in return.
In December last year, I saw a chat on her WhatsApp. A chat with her acclaimed ex-Boyfriend. Before I saw the chat, I had been complaining about the constant communication between her and same ex because each time I checked her call log, I would see same guys calls everyday. So when I saw dis chat, I told her that I had broken up with her. I made it clear to her that, it would be an act akin & tantamount to stupidity if she's multi-Dating while I'm loyal to her and her alone. I can't share u with anyone. She begged, cried , knelt down and apologized. I was so scared that day because she almost died in my apartment. She has a health condition (A Hole in the Heart) and whenever her mood is affected, it triggers a negative response. It's a very sad medical condition. And doctors have told her that she can die at any time. But I've always encouraged her that there's nothing God cannot change and there was no point getting worried about the situation. I went further to tell her that, in Life everybody is a walking corpse. We'll all die at some point in our lives, it is only the date of our death that we don't know. I forgave her that day and we reconciled.
The main issue now is that, I have introduced this same girl to almost everybody cos I'm so proud of her even though she still behaves like the last child that she is. My neighbors, friends & few family members. This girl said we can get married and build our lives together and even if it's garri, we'll drink and keep pushing. However, her attitude and actions seems to be in direct contrast to her words. She has never introduced me to anyone as her guy. She also works in her elder sister school. We both work in same sch. Our colleagues are aware of our relationship. So I told her that we are adults and whatever we are doing should be made know to her elder sister who she is currently living with. I asked that she tells her sister about our relationship since her sister is the one to approve or disprove it. I have a very good working relationship with her elder sister who is my Boss and the elder sister had jokingly told me last year to hurry up and pay her sister's Bride Price and that "Any devil that will stop me from paying her sister's bride price is a Bastard". We just laughed over it.
This girl has refused to inform her sister about us, she has never introduced me to anybody. When she comes to see me at my house, I can't walk her to the road cos she said she doesn't want her sister's Husband to accidentally drive pass and see that she visits me.
She hasn't allowed me to have sex with her. She claimed to be a virgin and that I must wait till our wedding night. I make her happy in bed, I give her head, suck her pussy, suck her breasts so well but she can't do same to me. At the end of the whole thing I won't be able to cum and my scrotum will start paining me due to excessive accumulation of Semen. What she does is to tighten her both legs & ask me to climb her and use my dick to rub her clitt so I can release. But I don't release at all. I also doubt if she's a virgin cos she can't allow me to penetrate and verify her claim. She is 28 and I'm 33yrs. I noticed she masturbates a lot cos any time she comes, she always want me to use my fingers on her clitoris and ensure she cums. I do everything she wants but she can't reciprocate. I'm fed up with everything. I cannot boldly beat my chest and say she's my girlfriend and she hasn't ever told any of her friends about me. I'm handsome and well-educated, neat, honest and have almost all the attributes she wants in her man. So why is she not Proud of me??
I have decided to break up with her and I've warned her never to come beg me or go to my friend's to tell them to mediate between us pls. I'm too good to be in such terrible state.
The psychological impact alone is really very Terrible. She makes me feel less of a man.

You've made her feel like she is your oxygen. If you can hold yourself you can destabilize her. Lol 😆 the opposite happens with me with ladies they always beg for it and I decline their request and that puzzles them everytime. When to she comes put her in the mood and leave her there. She will be craving for it. Then even her pride will drop when you aren't giving in to signal she will now be direct on what she wants. Kindly ask her to go stating the reason why you can't engage cause youn't enjoy it. Next time she comes do same message will be sent directly and she will reveal her true self if she is a virgin or not. If she is not it will be easier than if she is... Meanwhile God condemns fornication and youthful lust; they end up ruining you and messing with your mind. So as a good person you say you are ; being good isn't enough only Christ is enough!

You never get money. na make am.

When you are trying to use GPT, ask for referencing and citations. Like what is biology with reference and citations? Then you can boldly add it to your paper and it won't be detected as a generated because now the ai is referencing a paper so you can reference the document in your paper

advanceDNA:
Lol .... Person wey wan buy 500k -700k phone wey come need another person 80k to make am complete is obviously not thinking straight , is greedy, inconsiderate, an exploiter, and has not gotten her priorities in life sorted

Make I even clear you... una plenty wey dey pay for that phone .....

Na small things like this be red flag..... but una go just dey see am as normal woman billings..


No need to pretend....tell am say if she nor fit buy lesser phone make she dey use her old phone till she get money....

He doesn't want to loose her na

It's sex that's playing your mumu button. Remove am for mind. What's her job in the hotel an lounge? A hooker or bartender?

Kajaard:
Probably started feeling remorse for playing with op's heart and penis. Who knows

women with this type of motive plays it to the end

zedman1:
As for me, I read some books related to what you prescribed to the OP, I could speak like Obama in my head or when I'm alone, but when two or three are gathered (lol)... Ok, more than three actually, when there's a small crowd and I'm asked to speak, my heartbeat takes entire control of my being. I'm unable to say a word, just like the OP. The only thing that got to save me was when I discovered alcohol. At some point I thought I had overcome that fear but I discovered whenever I tried speaking in public without licking that juice, I fumble. And I'm not a kid anymore- I'm married sef. So I don't think it has sooo much to do with age like some people think. We're just born differently. So you see? alcohol came through for me. Those books couldn't epp.

Wow true different stroke for different folks. In the end he should just find what will work best for him

Public Speaking by Dale Carnegie You need to read that book it helped my life

It seems like you aren't seeing that they word is quoted meaning it's a reported speech

Thing is nothing concern you. If she used POS that means the transaction was withdraw and transfer or withdraw and pay in cash that's what happened. You are a business man and so you can't know how your clients gets their money. If they ask for refund stall for some days then kindly refund the way the money came

I see why this forum is bias. you couldn't put the data that showed all observered discrepancies, you didn't add the admission details that still surfaced its the one that made it look like the document is valid that you put out here

I feel Tinubu knows how to cover his dirt anywhere. Someone who lived in the USA would know his way around shits so we are in for a huge shut up

SultanOfPuna:
Guys I'm so confused and angry
I visited home since 12th this month
Everything seem normal and calm until today

I dey bored, I go download Tinder app
Sign in then begin dey swipe babes
I then change the search area to 1km, to search for babes very close to my location

Lo and behold
I just saw my sister's photo on TINDER!!!!!!!!!

omobirin alaanu yi fe pari mi

I feel like reporting her immediately but in the past she don cover up for me many times.
I no wan come look like snitch
But I don't know how to confront her

She dey always send me money well well
And I don't want a fall out with her
Omo I no know wetin I go do

The kind shame wey dey hold me right now
I can't even look her face the same way again
What the hell is a 21 yr old girl doing on tinder??

To make matters worse
HER TINDER ACCOUNT IS VERIFIED!!😭😭😭

What are you doing there too

ThatFairGuy1:
To say Tinubu didn't attend CSU is the most useless thing to say.

Let's even agree with lunatics he didn't, abeg WILL THAT TAKE AWAY THE MANDATE GIVEN TO HIM?

You all are running efforts to no avail.
Nothing will happen, he'll finish his four years tenure it's a reality

sometimes I wonder how some people think

Rossikk:
WHAT Country Are These Names From?

Nantong
Nanking
Nanching
Nanfwang
Nanchang
Nankin
Ching
Nankeen
Nanjin.
Yen
Ninan
Talang
Tarjeng
Tarweng
Pan
Naijen
Nandom

If you answer China, or North Korea, or Taiwan, or Japan, or South Korea, or Vietnam, or Cambodia, I have a SLAP for you.

Just answer the question well.

plateau state

Pukkalolo:
The girl you love says "I needs space..." Or she gives you any other "I'm breaking up with you" epistle...

Or if she just threatens to end the relationship....

Do you know the BEST WAY to respond to her?

Well, here is it:

Just say, “Ok”

And end your interaction with her.

Don't attempt to try to Change her Mind.

The more you try to change her mind, the more she’s going see how needy and desperate you are... This will even then harden her mind more.

Just say, “Ok”.... and move on with your life like it's doesn't bother you.

As long as you don't go back chasing her, and you confidently move on with your life, then life with randomly open doors for other women to come in to your life.

easier said than done

MightySparrow:
The organization is of the Devil. I have many of them around me. A woman like that marries to a man that attends a pentecostal church. ( I mean a family member, not Dem say) The marriage knows no peace. The children followed their mother initially, now, when they reconsider their mother's 'organizationally inspired ' evils are back to their father's religion.
Don't let people like MaximumSide deceive you. They can qoute Anthony Morris'drunkard's doctrines from morning to night. Behind the delicate and forced humility they display when they come knocking at your door is unspeakable evil like Jesus's proverbial white washed sepulchre.

This people would be worse than Boko Haram if their GB taught them a bit of violence.

Ejọ oloro. Green snakes under green grass.

Whenever I read things like this, I laugh in JW's paradise language.

I pity people that marries from their midst believing that love is blind. Heartache will force a tough miracle to open your eyes.


Hypocrisy Promax

I am no JW member but these guys are better off than many Pentecostal churches. You hardly see them in the lime light of wrongs compared to other churches

fyzaila:
Why must you press press virtually all the roasted corn available before picking one? Why? To me it is unhygienic. You'll carry unwashed hands from no where, after scratching all the itchy part of your body with that hand. Then, you come and start sampling roasted corn all in the name of you're looking for soft one.

The other worst one is those who sample boiled corn. They'll tell the seller to open it and they'll now press, that's how they'll keep on doing that till they finally select one.

If you know you do that, can you please stop? It's quite irritating 😒

Eating roasted corn comes with its crazy risks. From the dirty gaze, to the unclean atmosphere, to the corn sellers hand all over the corn, to the saliva of customers talking over the corn and to the prospective buyers checking out the corn with their hands.

AntiChristian:
A realist.

Things can't go your way all the time...

Too bad. Your reality is relative and not absolute. So in the end you defined a relative truth and assumed it to be the ultimate one and it can't be

AntiChristian:
If it goes your way then democracy wins!

If it goes APC way then democracy loses!

You're simply a selfish bigot!

And what are you?.

You don de fat. 😏😏😏