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Wow she just wasted her IQ studying a course that can't make you creative but following a defined pattern

Kobojunkie:
The ego of the Nigerian man never ceases to amaze me really.

Well this is my flaw but I do other chores good, so complimenting each others flaws works.

Kobojunkie:
Good idea! Now if she seeks employment then it must also follow that the man equally shares in her former duties as a homemaker, right? With the economy as it is, traditional marriage settings ought to be thrown out the window completely for families to survive.

For me chores in the house is supposed to be shared responsibility, aside from cooking cause I don't like to cook but I can help in cooking prep.

Lol 😆 3k daily is small but at the same time how many men earn more than 100k monthly. She is supposed to read the situation at home and seek employment.

TimT:
Before starting an article, explain the terminologies used first...
I don't know what "gen z" means, I had to google it up...
Without knowing the meaning of it, the whole writeup was very alien-like and confusing...

I won't say other wise cause you are probably right but 'gen z' seems to be a popular phrase that doesn't need to be explained nowadays.

Scripted shit.

Omoawoke2:
I found mathematics really easy in school.
Among the subject I never missed an A.

Maths is just common sense, logic. There are far more subjects tougher than mathematics.

What are they?

Typing:
Trash again.
Obaseki is the worst Governor in Nigeria

Well, I rest my case. You are entitled to your opinion that's built on wrong and invalidated data

Typing:
Trash.
So because there was a training that was organised by Edo Government, you now rate them the best? How many Edo People benefit from the training? Show me one project Obaseki did in Edo. Remember, Edo no get market.

Lol 😆. You aren't informed, bro. It's available to any there is no bias. Like I virtually knew no one and got picked. I've seen people get the same opportunity. If you are keen to partake from this opportunity kindly let me know I'll point you in the right directions.

DenreleDave:
Okay but I'm sure it wasn't only Edo state dt is responsible for that training... I can bet it with my balls

I saw dt announcement but no be only Edo state dey do am.. There are sponsors and what's bad if Edo state repair the road and FG reimburse them same way rivers did. Akwa ibom us doing her road with or without FG

Edo dey collect oil money too na..

Have you checked the revenue the state is allocated compared to the aforementioned states, have you checked their debt status. The Governor is wise to partner with foreign companies for programs and skills acquisitions; because these companies (local and foreign) give professional trainings and certifications and help reduce cost, GIZ has been an active partner with the Edo state government. When you talk about roads He has done many but because he isn't a noise-maker like the other administration. But he is more involved in building lives and creating job opportunities by as well partnering with local firms to bring job awareness and give these firms the best by first helping to interview potential employees who applied for the role

jeromestarks:
That stick is enchanted.
If you drop it, you drop your life.
Hit like if you believe.

Exactly my thought

DenreleDave:
Why not tell us?
Mann failed jooor

I'm not an indigene of the state but I've had free trainings organized by the government which is still ongoing: from Solar panel installation training to computer training they are quite much. Check for Edo jobs online and follow up their training sections

Xxxxtentacion2:
Obaseki no try for Edo at all...

You are not informed about the privileges he has created

Solofresh2:
Their is this female colleague that was transferred to the branch I work like three months ago now. So I have been nice to her from the day one, just like others do but I noticed that she always wants to be around me,going for lunch with me and sharing other marketing work with me to the extent that everyone have noticed and I don't like it
I don't want any woman wahala in my life because I know what they are capable of.I have shunned her to give me space but she never listen.I am not afraid of being sacked because I have a business of my own but I don't like it when a lady keep forcing herself on me. I am not ready for any relationship talk less of marriage.My mum do advice me to be careful with women.My colleagues now believe we have something serious together which am not happy with

It's obvious the girl is not fine. Else you for no de vex when dem de match una. Lol 😆

Mccullum:
100 plus of gay arrested, immorality of the highest order,

when coming to this world next time, they may

ask God to send them to animal kingdom and

directly to goat family.

Animals are never gay.

siofra:
Don't generalize abeg.
Not every girl is like your ex

Many women offer emotional support, comfort, peace of mind, status, etc. But you wouldn't know that because you're busy running after kids.

I've been noticing your comments as a result of mentions too. Seems like you are quite unkind in your savagery responses. Well I would not want to be dived at but you are quite correct for saying not all but proceeding to banter the the dude seems to be terrible.

Jovialjune1:
You are the frustrated being that came to my mention to cry, you men are diick hoppers that are around, you live for sex, you cannot do without sex, you can sell your properties and give the proceeds to women because of sex, some of you can be sexually moved when you see babies, teenagers, and women, if not daftness and shallow brained fools, the only reason some of you claim polygamy and endorse it is because of sex, you can kill yourselves because of sex, you men have waged war because of women and sex go and check history, very embarrassing and disgraceful creature, nonsense.

I can't seem to disagree with you at the same time generalization is a questionable act: you can as well use many, to quantify it. But I assure you that many men aren't sex driven as you mentioned and the ones that defend themselves with polygamy are those with no self-control and those who are very selfish in their reasoning. The same applies to ladies with multiple relationships they tend to give unreal reasons for the act: from the reason of not fully trusting their spouse in the quote "Don't put your eggs in one basket", to their spouse not meeting their emotional, financial, sexual needs, etc. So the game at the end becomes an annoying stalemate with everyone selfishly justifying their wrongs.
My honest and innocent question to you is, have you been absolutely faithful in your relationship? If no then you are guilty of the crime you are accusing the opposite gender of committing; but if yes then you are making the world a better place with your acts.
I say it any day anytime: you don't love your "god" if you are in multiple relationships you are a true hypocrite.

Jovialjune1:
If men are not moved by sex, how come cheating is on the rise with so many side chicks around? How come men justify their diick hopping by claiming they are polygamous in nature when caught cheating? Explain this.

Who's responsible will know that there is no trophy in multiple affairs; same vagina just different attitudes and different shapes. In the end if you have important things to place your mind on, sex drives becomes a secondary thing. Celebrating multiple affairs and counts, are trophies 🏆 that most people use to boast to their peer groups.

They are bewildered when you are not interested in sex. Most times even when they visit I purposely turn down their sex offers. Before I start to hear "What are we now?" and if it doesn't go as they planned they will result to their usual blackmail: "You just used me, you are like the others" even when it was them that initiated the one mission they came for! I fell for one and it gave me a hard time and now it's drama all the way; you will see them beg for it; they will drop all their styles and become direct especially when they're staying the night if you aren't careful they will even result to rape attempts when you are sleeping, if you aren't strong on your decision you will give in and when you do, they will resolve back to their original blackmailing plan. And when you make it obvious that they were the ones that initiated it, they will say "If it wasn't in your mind you wouldn't have done it"!. So I love celibacy it has been giving me peace of mind from all corners. Sex is pleasurable, but a few minutes of actions, come with too many consequences that outweigh the pleasure you get; especially when it's not under the right umbrella.

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talented321:
I can't frown at him' na him sweet he is spending, but just that you will never see those trillionaires spend their cash this way.
Life is choice.

Same thing im saying. Billionaires still waste money on things that doesn't make sense too. Imagine those bunch of billionaires that outright killed themselves because of a pointless risky adventure to the ocean floor.

talented321:
Normal' You will never see Dangote or Elon buy things like this upon their excess money.

They all got their crazy fancies that they spend their money on that you will still frown at.

IconicR:
Fake messiah, they don't know this man. Smh

That's why I concluded that most Nigerians hates what's good.

StandNFearNot:
This life can be up and down, that is why nobody can tell what comes tomorrow.

I am an undergraduate. I am self-sponsored and run a small business in the school campus which generate revenue for myself.

The school authority issued a notice for us doing business in that location to vacate the place and on the 3rd of July, the place was taken over by the school.

This rendered me jobless and unproductive, bringing untold hardship to me as i am yet to find another location.

The hardship has make me to sometimes do things i wasnt doing when I was making my daily bread.

Earlier on, in order to save cost as I couldn't renew my rent, I asked a close friend to let me join him so we can split the rent. He accepted and i paid him my own part of the bargain.

When things was going well with me, most times i prepare meal with my own money without him contributing a kobo and he'll eat and I won't complain in any way. I buy most of the basic things we use like soap and detergent, pay electricity bill, water etc. This guy even share up to my shirts sometimes. On Tuesday, I had practical in school and I came back sweated and I used his detergent to wash my cloth, my roommate almost tore me apart for touching his detergent.

The salt we are using now, just because I didnt buy it and he bought it, I used few days ago to add to the yam I was cooking, he wanted to empty the whole pot on me. I used the gas he bought to prepare noodles, half way he came and off the gas, and asked me if i don't know how much is a kg of gas now.

This afternoon, I came back from school and was very empty. I mean very very hungry and no money to organize something for myself, neither anything else in the house. So because I was very hungry, I cut a small portion of the yellow rice he cooked to eat, unluckily for me, he came back and met me eating it. Could you believe the guy snatched the food from me and poured it back to the pot. He said he told me to stay aware from his things, except he gives me.

This is a guy i have been helpful to times without number.

This is the same guy that has been borrowing money from me and some without refunding.

The other time when his mother was under medical emergency and they needed money so urgently, I lent them my school fees and that money was never refunded complete.

I don't smoke but he smokes including Indian hemp. He was caught with it and taken by NDLEA but I contributed money to bail him without the parents knowing.

In all of these and more that the guy has benefitted from me, see the unkind treatment I'm getting from him just because the challenge I am facing today.

I'm now afraid to live in the same house with him, because he's totally behaving like an enemy, not a friend or roommate.

I'm still looking for a new spot but I feel unsafe staying in the same house with someone that behaves like this.

I'm afraid and helpless right now. I don't have money to buy food and gas right now and who is supposed to assist me at a time like this is helping.

Sorry for the long post and any mistakes spotted. I'm not with the right mental state.

I learned this the hard way too. People you help most times aren't your friends they are around because of the benefits they get.

C2Ok:
Are music Groups and music Bands the same thing?
If no, then what’s the difference?👀

That's where google comes in

Okortor:
Please help, my side chic is insisting I send my wife and kids abroad so she can move in. What do u do please?

The pressure is beyond me at this point.

La31ra.

Chiefpriestt:
We dey watch. Any nonsense judgment from the Judiciary may cause an uprising. Nigerians are hungry and angry

Hunger suppresses uprising. The saying "na who don chop belle-full de fight

Onpoint1010:
I worked with two guys and 3 girls as their security chief in a fast food restaurant as contract staffs. The guys were something else but I managed them although we had back and forth arguments because they were trying to disobey my directives.

As time went by, the then manager told me about a vacant position, "Store Manager" and helped me to apply. Unfortunately, he was transferred before I was fully employed so, he handed me over to the new manager and assistant manager.

I was employed and was happy. Those two boys then began to conspired against me, they are psychologically smart and to an extend fearless and manipulative, I like them for that.

Just of recent, they began working against me with the manager, they stopped helping me to offload goods to the store and so, I decided to stop them from entering the store to charge their phones. But they boldly told me that I can't stop them and if I do, they will beat me. They have muscle more than I do. I knew they can beat me but I decided that I won't back down.

Yesterday, I stopped the now security chief from entering the store but the manager told me to allow them. This is the same manager that supported me initially to stop anyone I want from entering the store house and to lock it each time I want to go out.

Right now, I don't know what to do, I feel like the manager is trying to make me powerless in the office.

I want to know, does the manager have the right to ask the guards to keep entering the store room or I should continue to resist them?

Any store man or woman who has had similar experience, how did you overcome it.

Read 48 laws of power. You are making a huge mistake. But in what I see here you too get for hand.
I always believe that Newton's third law of motion. You might have stirred the waters initially and you are complaining of the large waves that's the stirring has caused. I barely have enemies in any place because I de use sense the follow people ; everybody has different ways you approach them. These guys aren't manipulative like you think you no just know their pin code. Maybe as you get store manager work you come de form, Oga Titus, and maybe you were commanding them to offload for you instead of asking them politely as though it's a favour. Now they are talking behind your back that you too de show your self. The new manager flows with the guys hence they have a good relationship. As for the charging: force doesn't solve problems rather reasoning does. If there is a way for both parties to be happy at that then look for it because before they stopped helping you to offload, their charging in the store wasn't a problem but because they stopped you want to use your office to revenge.

Jewessgratitud3:
A colleague of mine called me last week and Said a woman needs a sounds teacher to come and take the child on sounds this summer to enable the child read before school resumes and that she wants someone with British diction.
So, because I'm a diction instructor and have done that kind of job in the past ( like nine years ago) my friend recommended me.

Back then ( 2014) when I was into this home lesson full time, I was charging 25k per child and its three times a week and I pick the places I go to. No long distance thing.
Now with the current situation of the economy and considering my age, I charged this woman 50k three times a week and she said it's too much. Meanwhile, the school the child is attending was where I taught before I left and started doing home lesson and their school fees then ( 2014) was 95k for prep class. By now it should be around 150k. My friend already told me the school the child attends.

She said it's too much that she can only afford 20k. I just ignored them. They will pay 150k for school fees, nothing much to show for it but will want to give you peanut and expect you to perform magic under 1month.

If I handle the child, no doubt, she'll read and her accent will change but definitely not for that amount. I'll now be trekking that long distance cos no bike and somebody is telling me 50k is too much.

Did I do wrong by ignoring them cos they want me to come and start this August but I have zeroed my mind there.

Would you accept such amount for home lesson?

Always know your worth and charge your worth. All these people will feel you are suffering so you should take anything.

KoT

The thing is you know her type of person then know how to get around with things. You can't impose your will on an adult and expect them to swallow it when that is not what they want. And another thing you should know is that before you married your wife she was your spec except say na belle she take enter. So stop this rubbish selfish speech of the new woman is your loml.