₦airaland Forum

hardywaltz: Mr Man/woman stop following me about GEJ is a clueless coward come 2015 he shall be shown the way out.
When a President looses the majority in a house of parliament is he referred to as LAME DUCK PRESIDENT. Its just a matter of time before he looses the Senate then some of those Northern States (Katsina, Nassarawa, Bauchi & co) will pull out of PDP for fear of loosing in the general election lets see if its[b] old man Jang & Pa Elechi, sick Chime & Imoke, Daft Orji & Uduaghan, political nwatakiri Obiano, loud mouthed & not so clever Akpabio and inconsequential Dickson that will deliver him in the next election.

Paroman: Shout out to all the single girls who thought dey would be married in 2013. you have two saturdays left........ goodluck.

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! some kids on the rampage. sorry they never limited themselves to 2013. 2014 is coming boi,dont worry about the rice n cake they denied u this year.pele o omo mi.

Licensed-2-Kill:
Yet, it never reduced his value and importance in the eyes of the international community.

mctolspell: It amazes me that y'all commenting can't decipher on what he was saying ...." He was referring to the huge ready made market to invest in Event management, textile industry amongst others to make money as a youth". Truth is,let government provide everything for youth to be self employed, most of our youth will still be roaming the street. Uneducated lots. Smh

Kanwulia: Both!

There are ELECTIVE ABORTIONS aka D&Cs aka ACT OF MAN/WOMAN!!!!

There are SPONTANEOUS ABORTIONS aka MISCARRIAGES aka ACTS OF GOD!!!!

Yup!!! We can't justify both!

In his own image and likeness! God kills. . . so do humans and animals!

Jesus was killed by PROPHESY aka GOD!!!!

I love RELIGIOUS HIPPOS and PIPPOS!!!!

Much ado about a PHOCKING blob of 'unwanted blood clots'!!!


Mtcheeeeew!!!!

Egba girl: I am not familiar with the story but form what the OP wrote, it seems the customer only came to Nairaland to vent their frustration and not demand that the staff be sacked. It is rather unfortunate that it got to the attention of management. I don't think the customer is to blame for expressing their opinion on something of that nature. It's the same as giving reviews about a product/service (which I think many people find useful).

Now as per the punishment, maybe management should have suspended him/her or whatever but in no way should a customer be blamed for the shortcomings of an employee. It's all about the customer in the business world. Without them, you have no business. Gotta stay on top of your game. It's about time people took customer service in Nigeria seriously!

chosen04: *****shakes head****

This is truly disgusting! Its appalling that same people who cant do anything when the political leaders are stealing the country blind can go at any length to have their fellow ladder-trying-to-climb citizens sacked! Its truly a curse to remain at the ladder bottom with some peeps

What has happened to forgiveness as recommended by our saviour?

Sacked staff! its all your fault! if not, you should have stolen from the bank and climbed far beyond the bottom of the ladder, if that was the case, there is no way this your fellow bottom laddered friends, sorry enemies would have got you sacked.

*****And they develop cold feet when politicians are involved*****

ukcars: There is nothing interesting in someone being sacked

$ugardaddy:
Who the hell is talking of "mother's love" here? This is insane and purely diabolic.

Something similar happened recently when a man locked up the corpse of his purpotedly missing mother in his wardrobe for 10yrs and we all concluded he was responsible for the death of his late mother.

You need to convince me this woman didn't kill this boy for ritual purposes as well. Or is it because it happened in Europe?

$ugardaddy:
NLanders!!! Una no go kill me ooo!!! I asked for advice, instead of giving me, most of you have turned against me

Anyway sha, I appreciate all your comments, I actually made up my mind after that last post from debosky where maturity was advised as it was a family matter.

As a mark of respect for my wife, I will ignore and move on as advised by the majority of posters here. I have also picked up opinions as being proud, vengeful and egoistic or egocentric from a couple of posters. Surprisingly, those are vices I hate most in individuals no matter how highly placed -I will deal with them as well and come out a better person thereafter .

I will place a call to my BIL as advised and move on thereafter irrespective of whatever response I get from him. It may not be now but I certainly will do someday and I may not have to share that on this thread again.

I must say that all your comments have pushed that inner "deal with him" urge away now and I can feel it finally getting out of my system for good .

May God bless you all .

chaircover: which career path dare I ask

sugar daddy see ur sef? you don enter am today today today

$ugardaddy:
Ok, for the benefit of those of you who equate "deal with" to mean physical harm or injury to someone, let me explain what I mean by "deal with" :-

1. I will not call you for any reason whatsover.
2. I will ensure I don't participate in any event that will bring both of us physically together
3. I will ensure my children do not visit or have any interaction with you or your immediate family
4. etc, etc, etc

They are boycott actions and not physical harm as being misinterpreted here. Besides, they may take years to realize .

IGBO-SON:
Is it just me, or does Aunty Onyeka look like the mum of the boy besides her?

Orikinla: I have sat down on the floor with an Imam in his house to share the Good News with him and we never quarreled.
And I have dined with a "Christian" brother who later raped an innocent sister.
I have worked with both "Christians" and Muslims and the Muslims were more honest and humane.
Majority of those claiming to be "Christians" in Nigeria don't have the Holy Spirit and without the Holy Spirit, you are powerless.

hustla: My project for school no long rish am sef



.who go email me the summary?

yellowpawpaw: Oh no! I just pity her. Pls tell her it is well.
Nothing lasts forever. She will heal.
I had a psychological problems too during my own time and was aversive to men. I will give all manner of reason not to consider a man's proposal. I was running from d inevitable but I cried to God one day that I need help.
When hubby came my way, even though that other part of me was saying no,I just couldn't help but fall for him cos he was very understanding of d situation on ground.

She should pls accept d fact that everything is not ok.(I'm going this deep cos u said she will read this)
Its not her fault that she experienced tragedy(part of life). I can't even start with my own shares of them.
Has she ever let it out or she just bottled the whole thing up? Can she cry, throw something,yell? By all means she should indulge herself whenever d feeling is too strong for her(part of healin process)
Is she a christian? Jer29:11 should be always on her lips( positive confession).this will make her start thinkin differently about life generally.
When her man comes around, he will break d remaing barrier if there is any. But she has to be open to d guy.

I so much feel for her. Pls dear, God will bring a man that will make u feel lv again and believe u me, u will not feel d past again.
I wish u well dear,I hope and pray u share ur testimony with us.

Poster,u guys should not pressurize her.let her heal from within.
As for d randy uncle,pls try and forgive him so u can heal properly.

God's blessing and guidance.

TONYE001: J'aime ca! Le Francais ce une langue que j'aime et adore!!! Si on fait comme ca, il y aura beaucoup de travail pour les professeurs du Francais. Si j'etais etudiant maintenant, j'aimerai etudier le Francais!!! Pour mes amis qui sont etudiants, je les souhaite une bonne chance et j'espere que ils utiliseront cette opportunite apprendre bien le Francais!!

FrenchyL: Salut! Je pense que c'est une bonne chose en ce qui concerne l'examen UTME.

bibigirl07: This is indeed gruesome. The deceased officer's wife is a friend and I mourn with her. Everyone knows Seme is not safe, security wise, but this so called "reprisal killing" is uncalled for. Custom officers on that route work tirelessly day and night in a bid to prevent this demonic agents and smugglers from importing all sorts into our country. Yet some NLs here are so ignorant. Do u know how many trailer-loads of contaminated rice and infected turkey this officers impound daily [/b]and burn Do u know how many families would have died by eating such poisonous food? [b]Smugglers are ready to bring in weapons, bombs and other unsafe instruments thru this same seme border yet, all sorts of people are busy name calling this our Officers. My dear Sister/friend...I mourn with you, the last time I saw you and now late husband, he was dropping you off @d roundabout. May His Soul rest in perfect peace...Amen. To his now Fatherless children..Take heart, Vengeance is of the Lord. He will keep you and make sure you succeed in life. Amen. *sobs*

chayooh: Thanks for the responses but there was no agreed formula for sharing responsibilities. Obviously the man is supposed to take most of the responsibility for the expenditure in the home but where he feels he can use "his money" the way he likes and there are children involved what is the woman supposed to do? Sit back and watch the children starve?

About the other issue of who comes first, is a husband supposed to give top priority to his siblings above his family especially when those siblings are all graduates and are fit to take up paid employment?

Imagine a scenario where a man's unmarried elder bro borrows most things from his married younger bro's house and the wife must not make any input?

debrief08: Lol, I do that don't I?
Sadly, we groomed a form of worship where personal responsibility is removed from the individual which is in reality far from what religion really advocates, the issue is not really religion but how it has been twisted.

Like you said ignorance and lack of awareness plays a great part because if we actually take time to study our religious books ourselves as God directed we wouldn't be in such a mess.

True religion is beautiful, wonderful, teaches responsibility, social relationships ( Ist John 4, Hebrews 12, Romans 12), respect, love, charity and peace ( Matthews 25 31-46, Matthew 5 44_45, .attew 5 1- the end, 1st Corinthains 13, Ephesians chapter 5-6, Hebrews 12 5- 13). It also emphaisises discipline.
The version of religion we do here preaches hate, anger, greed, coverteousness, over dependence, lack of responsibility, fear, violence (die by fire), and so much emphasis on miracles not hard work.
That is my problem and not spirituality itself.

greatgod2012: she has all these problems, especially, being molested by uncles and here you are asking why shes afraid to love or marry anyone, the problem is that, she will believe all men are the same. She is suffering from the fear of the past and fear of the future. She need to see a psychologist/a certified marriage counsellor as soon as possible. It is not her fault at all. For now, if she is based in Nigeria, Funmi Akingbade is who comes to my mind. But tell her to not allow what happened in the past to ruin her future joy. It is well with her and may God give her the healing she really need.