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taryour: Are you for real

If I am going to be very honest,if it happens to me,I would call my hubby right away to inform him cause he just might be the one who did the transfer or asked someone to. If the transfer wasn't from my hubby,I would clear the money and transfer to my second account to avoid spending it and hold on for the bank to give me a call. Would give them a max of 2weeks to contact me,if they don't that's my LUCK.

If I don't get a call from the bank,it means one of bank officials was playing a smart one and mistakenly sent it to my account,cause I believe if it was just a bank client that made such mistake,I would be contacted in less than 2 - 3 days.

Ochiban: Dudes!!! as a new mom, i understand that you feel like a fish out of water. However, I cant help but notice that this narrative keeps on saying daddy daddy daddy. I'm not really trying to chide you for having feelings and needs that are not met... but please dont take it out on the people that love and need you most..your new baby and very very tired wife.

Tell me... how tired would you be if there was an organism sucking on your nutrients (about 1000 calories a day) every 3 hours? and i mean every 3 hours. I have a very independent baby so i feed him at 5am, 7 am, 10 am, 1pm, 4pm, 7pm, 10pm and 3 am. he is not fussy (i'm serious, several women have commented on how lucky i am). How angry would you be if this organism sucks so hard sometimes that you bleed? How frustrated would you be if you found out that this organism is a helpless child that needs you to exist. so you must offer your sore and bleeding nipples to him again in 3 hours?

How happy would you be if after this fantastic feeding schedule, your spouse asked to suck on this painful nipple? Lets assume that you stay at home all day so it seems you have a lot of free time? well, if you spend 4 hours feeding your child, another at least 4 hours changing it, checking to make sure its breathing (yes, babies sometimes die in their sleep), begging it to go to sleep so that you can sleep, well that a full time job. except that your full time job never ends. you see, when you get home, at least you can rest until the next morning. but as mom, the best I get is 4 hours uninterrupted (and as i mentioned, I do NOT have a fussy baby). How excited would you be about sex after having only 3- two hour sleep sessions every day for a month? And this is if you have family helping you (which i do). without that, cut sleep down by half.

I know its hard for dads because they feel like everyone has forgotten about them. But it is much harder for your spouse that you would ever know. How many times have you caught her crying in frustration? how many times has she left the house because she is tethered to a young one?

please be a little more sympathetic to your wife's ordeal..because thats what it really is.. an ordeal. help her more. be a little more patient. tell her she is beautiful. tell her you love her. play with your child. change his diapers and dance with him when he is crying, rather than immediately handing him over to your wife. this tells your wife that he is yours not only when he is behaving well and smiling, but also when he is irritable and uncomfortable.

May God give you the courage and the strength to give up more of yourself in service to your family. god blesd you

chaircover: @mascot, I am not going to knock your girlfriends parents because they must have their own reasons for their own parenting style, but the fact that they do it, doesn't mean that all parents should automatically do it.

. . . But I am going to tell you this . . .and that there is a lot more to bringing a child up than checking her hymen every 6 months. May I ask, how her parents are checking that their sons are not sexually active too . . .or is it only the daughters that count?.

The parents should be more concerned in bringing up as well adjusted young woman in every area and not just the fact that she is keeping her hymen. Of what good is a hymen if she is going to be a rubbish wife, mother, colleague, neighbor, employee, employer etc

If they have done their job well, they should as parents be in a position to be able to trust and vouch for her anyway. So if she is in UNI abroad, will they bring her home every 6 months for the virginity test?

Keep an open door policy and give the child an opportunity to be able to come to you and tell you anything, and the child will confide in you and you will be surprised at what you can talk about and prevent even before it happens.

Fear is not the best way to bring up a child. Yes it works sometimes but not always. The parents could be doing their virginity test and she may be having anall sex with a man . . .how can the parents test for that?

nerodenero: Wish I had the powers to ban this programme, I would have done so long ago. Useless show of shame!

Marthakings: HEYYYY CALM DOWN OGA POSTER... THESE AINT FROM THE MAIN CARTOON SERIES OOO... THESE ARE SCREENSHOTS FROM CARTOON PORN... SCENES LIKE THESE WILL NEVER BE SHOWN ON CARTOON NETWORK OR ANY OTHER CARTOON STATION.... JST CHECK GOOGLE FOR STUFFS LIKE THESE AND U WILL SEE EM ALOT... EVEN CINDERELLA PORN OR SNOW WHITE.... JST ANY TYPE OF CARTOON BT THE PORN VERSION.... IF UR CHILD DOESNT SEARCH FOR THIS ON THE INTERNET ON HIS OWN, THEN HE IS SAFE COS IT WILL NEVER BE BROACASTED ON TV. THESE ARE THE JOBS OF SOME SILLY PORN MANIACS... THESE PORN CARTOONS AINT FROM THE MAIN PRODUCERS OF THE CARTOON. CARTOON PORN IS KNOWN AS "HENTAI" OR SUMTIN LYK DAT. THEY COME IN DIFFERENT CHARACTERS

Mr Aboki: No o!!

I be Almajiri Aboki.. Abeg read wetin ehn write and do the following;

1. Tell me if e make sense to you.

2. Explain.

Mr Aboki: That he was happy at a bomb blast is not a crime.. #FACT!!

All other matters are purely sentimental.

#PERIOD!

chi nene: Instead of the fetus test and termination of pregnancy at 11 weeks or so, why not take matters into your hands and plan health babies using IVF. There are a variety of options to choose from, from using donor sperm for IUI and embryo selection before implantation. I have the AS genotype and my intended hubby is AS also. We plan on having a boy and a girl using one of these options then do long term family planning. I am not going to decide my life partner based on genotype. If a woman with HIV/AIDS can get married and give birth to a healthy child, so can I. Can't wait to have my babies. People just tell you don't try it, your children will suffer and die. Well children suffer and die any why and just 30 percent is SS related. For you intending to marry your sweethearts, just stroll into any IVF center and ask questions. Am sure you will be happy you did.

Siga: ...Stepped on my mother's foot while she was driving her VW Bettle and driving too slow...got the beating of my life once she pulled over

SLIDE waxie: are his lies news to you?
Make he sha no disgrace us again! He has no courtesy, alwys interrupting the host

To pride, no confidence, no carriage!

taryour: What on earth made you deny your mother The woman that brought you to life and could have denied you life before you even came to existence. Hope you have seeked her forgiveness And I mean forgiveness from the dept of her heart,if not you need her forgiveness and.Her blessings,go to her with elderly people from her family and beg her.

BraideBraide: I'm now distant from God...I don't know when it got this far...I rarely pray and all other stuffs...

I don't have friends anymore because I rebranded myself....I know it was a good decision but it's really lonely....I'm a shy peron but I'm also the outgoing type...it's really difficult to make good friends now....

spongeback: There is no place like home