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funkemary:are you his supplier... how did you know he was high on Oshogbo weed |
THUNDER4real:If he did not register for a session/semester, he has to fill a "condonement form" for that semester. What he should do is write a letter, apologising for not applying for condonement and okead for mercy to be allowed to reapply. If he can stylishly meet a few members of senate. They might be able to to weigh in on his matter when it's raised at their Senate's meeting. Else, he's on his own. I currently have a similar case on hand right now. Dud was sick and didn't notify school. Now he's back and the registrar isn't having it. |
Temidayo9:If our refineries start working and we're forcing them to sell at 145, then expect a lot of the refineries' officials to find wats of smuggling the fuel to neighbouring countries where they can sell at normal unregulated prices. So we're back where we started. As things stand now, subsidy has to go, I expect NLC to fight for a higher wage hike soon too. |
Emalachi:I sent an application over the weekend. I haven't received any call from you. |
Kreamie:If there hasn't been any explosion already, you can be sure a mentally deranged smoker will soon pass behind them |
airminem:Abi nah... Madness due to Marine husband |
I'd say to advise and/or teach her what interests her for now... How to handle male interests without selling herself cheap. If u guys gist like adults, discuss boys and their antics wen they want sex... Probably even gist her of ur own encounters wen u were still out n young... It might help her build d needed trust dat will let her confide in u. Teach her; to b proud of her body, to see herself worthy of any and all praises she gets for it. To know that not all who praise her want what is best for her. To know how to solve the multitudes of interests and decide which to entertain and when to drop the entertained when he messed up. To realise that as much as she may want to feed her body, she she also strive to feed her mind. Perhaps give her her own room, get her small periodic allowance to spend however she seems fit. There are a thousand and one lessons you yourself missed out on while dating, why not see how you can teach her? At least teach her to have confidence in her body and to add more qualities to her personality beyond just looks, take it that you r saddled with raising a would be wife. Threatening to send her back to d village/where, what's all that sef? See her as ur own daughter and take that ownership/responsibility over her, perhaps u she read up some psychology of adolescent parenting and see how u can inculcate in her, the lessons she might need in order to become a good wife and start introducing them in her a little at a time. If at 20 - 21 she displays sufficient maturity that most 25-29 yr olds of these days hardly have, she'll surely find a good man for herself. In fact, d Calibre of people she will start rolling with ehn...na u go come dey thank God and she'll have u to thank for it all. I'm not against a daughter having a boyfriend as soon as possible.. that's why I won't marry any woman who herself doesn't know how to handle her affairs well. Men will always want u. it's ur job to know which ones want u for sex alone, which ones might b valuable in d long run. If she's 18 then she's old enough to go on dates if she's interested.. wat u need to do is help her plan her time between her school /trade work, ur own errands, her own personal care, helping out with ur children (which must be sought/ pleaded and rewarded for and not commanded), and her own free time... U may encourage her to face family/ school work fully Mondays you Fridays, then on Saturday, ask which of her friends she might like to visit, call d persons parents if u know, dash her transport, tell her to call u wen she's there.etc. maybe even drive her down. Nxt Saturday/month, u might even encourage her to take a boy she likes and a girl friend of hers out. U give her change to get small chops/sweets with n Transport herself back home. U don't want her to take such risks yet, ask her to invite a friend home, let d friend join u in ur wrk. Etc. Be the accomplice and guide and desist from acts that will make start seeing you as an enemy. If that ever happens, you'll lose her trust and before u know it.. she's out, doin things you don't approve of and perhaps even out of your house. Na her u suppose take learn work o . Cos ur own children will not do any different when they come of age. So use her to learn how to manage teenage/adolescent exuberance. That yr threat about returning her to do village when. It will soon become stale and you'd surprised when one day she'd answer you to go ahead and return her. |
Op well done ehn... I hope u don't contravene this ur rules urself.
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ednut1:what is it brother? the future |
gloria34:I do and I know many others who also do. Now none of us are from the social sciences |
BronzeMajik:If he's always asking you without reciprocating. Then you shd be sure he never saw a future with you. A man who intends building a family he wants to head with any woman. Would not willingly do what he knows will erode that headship in any way. Not being the full breadwinner is an erosion of headship. It's a different thing if he asks every now and then perhaps for small things. But for a man to turn you to ATM, gurl, you shda japa-ed since |
Victory2222:You and your types said the same thing in 2015. Yet we're here... Why not say "I'll ensure I participate in all future elections in this country by trying and making sure I vote any leader(s) I consider competent." |
Davash222:. Weed is almost always the gateway to most of the others. |
Omero:Rather than praying Him for protection, why not okay him for the abundance if sense in your fellow country men. So that they will massively become better decision makers and chosers. We won't have this situation at all, if we had chosen and acted wisely. Are you aware Petrol be is about to become 145 naira? Imagine how much more thefts, burglary and binaditey will take okace when that happens. |
stanliwise:The neanderthals became Extinct due majorly to inbreeding if humans adopt same line of action... then we're headinf for the same fate thhttpspost.com/2019/02/12/neanderthals-wiped-themselves-out-through-inbreeding/ Cc Shedrack777 |
davodyguy:Racism and religious intolerance are rife in both of Australia and New Zealand, perhaps even at higher levels compared to europe, Uk and America. The world doesn't hear much of it cos of their distance from other major "civilizations". this incident should jolt their polity to face reality and develop better frameworks to curtail these kinds of actions. |
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