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This issue has been baffle me for a long period of time. If a bike should carry a guy and her babe...where precisely should the lady sit? Is it in-between the okada man and his guy or at the back of his guy? Remember , we need to take care of a lady.

ritababe:
Typing

Am waiting...

akinsadeez:
Nice write up.....but pls, what the heck is the meaning of un-vanilla sex

if Vanilla sex (or conventional sex) is what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual behaviour. Different cultures, subcultures and individuals have different ideas about what constitutes this type of sex. Often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve such elements as BDSM, kink, or fetish activities, then the reverse is un-vanilla sex.

FLAWLES:
And if doz this and LOOKs ugly unko? ? ?

you are on your own...is dangerous for that person's health...shine ur eye wel wel.

aristocrazzy:
Naija girls can't do #1
So don't bother stating it.

Hmmmm 1#....Anyway dats naija gilrs, the reserve is the case in Asia and SA.

Aprime:
Tips on how to attract men, coming from a guy?... LMAO. Something is wrong somewhere.

How do u mean?

Hmmmm 1#....Anyway dats naija gilrs, the reserve is the case in Asia and SA.

As a woman it can be very hard to date. Especially in this modern era where guys have so much access to women via Tinder, OkCupid, and other sources. As a dating consultant for both men and women, I’ve heard both sides of the story.

My tips are meant to help you take control of your dating life and empower yourself as a woman.
9) Be Playful:
Guys love girls that they can joke around with. Most guys want girls who don’t take themselves too seriously because this makes guys more comfortable. Start giving guys a few playful punches to the arm, a tussling of the hair, a poke in the waist, etc. Knowing how to playfully flirt and how to use a sarcastic tone well is very key in developing a fun personality that will cause guys to feel attraction for you. If you can take a playful insult and maybe deliver a few playful insults of your own, you’ll be well on your way to magnetize men.

The problem is that most women aren’t willing to take chances in this department. They’re too “lady-like” and “polite.” Forget about all that. Men love a woman who knows how to exude a playful vibe. You know how humor is the way to a woman’s heart? Well it’s the same for men.
Smell Good:
Your breath and your perfume are absolutely crucial. Bad breath on girls is probably one of the biggest things that can completely turn off a man and I’ve had a lot of prior experience. Body odor is just as bad. Although it sounds cliched that I’m telling you to keep your breath fresh and your perfume handy, this is actually a very important aspect of your hygiene that you need to MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE YOU CONTROL. I once met a really cute girl but once I smelled her absolutely RANCID breath I just cringed and got out of that situation.

You have a purse, so use it! Keep breath mints and gum handy, and furthermore always brush your teeth and tongue very well anytime you’re about to meet a guy. I also like to keep a box of gum/tic-tacs by the bed handy so that when you wake up with your man you can have some very enjoyable morning sex.
7) Be Feisty:
Feisty girls are girls that don’t let guys take control of them. Guys love what they can’t have easily, and having a little bit of fesity attitude helps. Of course you’ve got to gauge the guy, because there are some guys who absolutely hate feistiness. Most of these guys have some kind of issues with self-esteem or control, and thus, probably not worth your time. Do not let him have what he wants ALL the time; instead show him that you are going to make some choices.

However, DO NOT be domineering or try to be the boss (unless your guy is into that). Men need a certain level of control and they need to validate themselves as manly men. So to emasculate him would not be a good way to make him think you’re a keeper.
6) Look Good:

Guys are very unlike girls. A majority of our attraction comes from how a girl looks. Some of you may be thinking, “But what if I don’t already look good?”

There’s hope for you ladies. Unlike guys, you have makeup and clothes that help A LOT. I’ve seen time and time again that makeup can completely reinvent a person’s look. Invest a little money and time on learning how to dress well + plus look good. Get that gym membership and start dieting if you’re not happy with your body. Essentially what I’m asking you to do is become the best you that you can be. Even if you weren’t born a super model, you can still improve your appearance a lot.

Especially in this modern “Instagram” era, a nice butt can make a guy go crazy. I know plenty of my guy friends that will assign higher value to a girl that has an amazing ass. Keep that in mind.
5) Teach / show him something:
It is very attractive if a girl can teach something well, especially if it’s something that may interest us. For example, if you can teach a musical instrument, an art (like painting or photography), or a sport (think female-oriented sports like tennis and volleyball). This also allows for you two to have a new mutual interest and mutual activity. If you don’t have anything that you could teach, you also should think about evaluating your life. Do you have a well-balanced life full of interesting things or are you boring and one-dimensional?

When I date a girl that can open up my horizons that is very attractive. If you’re the type of girl that doesn’t have many interests or hobbies, then you need to start expanding your world. Ask yourself, “What are my interests?” and “Do I have any interesting hobbies?” The more of these activities that you have the more you’ll be able to teach.
4) Be Interesting:

Men can’t be expected to always keep a conversation going, so you’re going to have to spur the conversation. Have a few interesting topics to talk about. This also goes back into #4 where I told you to expand your horizons. When a woman can be incredibly interesting, men will be attracted despite what the woman looks like. Being interesting also includes your lifestyle. Having more interests and being a well-rounded person will help you to be more interesting and therefore help you to attract men.

It’s also very attractive when the girl I’m talking to loves a few “guy” things, such as sports or video games. If you can hold your own in those activities you will attract tons more men.
3) Play a Little Hard to Get:

As mentioned prior, men love what they can’t have. So when you display to him that you have several options, then this really makes him want you. This is akin to playing hard-to-get, however, you do need to show interest because many men will move on if they don’t feel like they’ve planted a seed of interest in you. This means flirt with him, but also let him know that you have other men in your life that can easily sweep you away if he doesn’t act.
2) Don’t congregate in crowds:

This tip is mostly for the ladies that like to go clubbing a lot to find men. If you want to be approachable, don’t go with too many other women. Being with 3 girls or with some guy-friends makes it very nerve-racking for guys to approach.Guys love to approach 2-women groups and single people especially. If you do go with a few friends, make sure you have time to separate yourself and maybe go chill by the bar for a little bit. Or just sit down somewhere by yourself or with 1 girlfriend for a little bit.
1) Initiate:
Don’t be afraid to make a move on guys. Although I usually don’t recommend it, there are some guys out there that are shy and need a pretty big sign before they start making the move (ASIAN GUYS ESPECIALLY). The best way to let a guy know that you are interested is to ASK HIM if he wants to hang out. You don’t need to make it a big deal or call it a date. Just ask him if he wants to go get some lunch or a coffee and get to know him. Men believe that it is very “refreshing” when women ask them out. However, if you really can’t initiate it, or are too shy, you should give him an opportunity to ask you out. For example, telling him that you are really bored or telling him you can’t wait to see a certain movie.

1[b] Be bold and initiate a short chat.[/b] This will help you to learn those little things that will come in handy later because everyone loves knowing that someone actually listened to them and cared enough to remember the small details about them. Listen carefully and be attentive to the things she tells you so that you will have them for future reference. As you talk, notice if she gives you any signs, special words or hints.

All girls are different. Is she shy or outgoing? Does she act like this around other guys? Look at her body language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and dilated pupils (especially), are all signs she likes you.
Another sign is if she laughs at your boring, stupid jokes. (Beware: Don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy dork.)
She may not be able to look you straight in the eye. She might smile and laugh a lot because she is worried about giving too much away.
Check for the smile. A girl that's interested in you will usually immediately smile when you start a conversation with her. The smile may disappear quickly if she's shy, but it's hard to hide an unexpected strong emotion. If she's not romantically interested, she'll likely look at you inquisitively, but she won't express any particular interest.


2 Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends. Uninitiated, this general interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush, so know how she acts around other guys.

Be aware that some girls have no idea that they're flirting. In this case, she probably likes you a great deal since her subconscious is letting her body language do the talking.
Most girls don't like to be obvious. Girls fear rejection too.
If you fancy a girl, never make the mistake of "flirting around". If she sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she will assume that she doesn't mean anything to you and will stop trying.

3 Check for random hugs, reserved mostly for you. Hugs can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of getting closer to you and touching you without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting. In turn, you can go along with it if you want, or just act busy like you're late for an appointment and need to rush off.
4[b] Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you more often than what you'd consider the usual.[/b] This ploy is ancient and tried and true, as it's a way of touching you subtly and sizing up how responsive (and perhaps even how well toned) you are. If she finds excuses to touch you a lot, then you're probably on the right track. Act casual when she bumps into you and say "no worries" or something similar. As for touching your arm and hair in a casual but rather meaningful way, there's really no need to say anything; just lap it up graciously.

Not all girls will feel comfortable reaching out using touch. In this case, don't assume that she doesn't like you because she doesn't try to touch you. She may be too nervous to touch you yet. Don't be shy––break the touch barrier yourself.
She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as by lightly hitting you about the head, or soft punching to the body. These "one-of-the-mates" moves can be a thinly disguised way of getting closer to you without it being too evident to your friends and hers.

5 Observe the way in which she looks at you. If she likes you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on you for a long time or pull away immediately the moment your eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it often means she is nervous or not ready to reveal her true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she holds the stare, and you believe you see responsiveness or even love in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move.

Of course, some girls might just be staring or winding you up, so don't think she loves you and wants to get in touch with the real, inner you. Use the context to discern the motive.
If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction.

As anyone living in the age of depressing divorce rates knows, a happy long-term couple is almost like a unicorn: If by some miracle you encounter it, you can't stop staring, and you have a feeling no one will ever believe you when you tell them you saw it.

The Internet is filled with articles on how to decide when to end it, how to recognize when your relationship is toxic, codependent, one-sided, stagnant, asexual, manipulative. But we don't talk all that often about what defines a happy relationship. Picture it: You're dating someone new. You're waiting to feel the toxic stagnant codependency. Where is it? Months go by. Still nothing. At some point a corner of your brain dares register the thought: Could this be one of those? Could I actually be happy?

To help you answer that question, you lucky thing, here's a completely unscientific list of 31 ways to know you're in the right relationship:

You don't...

1. Fear it.

If you're afraid of commitment, best to work that out before you put yourself in a situation where it's hoped you'll eventually commit.

2. Hide anything more significant than a surprise party from each other.

That includes exes, cheating, debt, STDs, chronic illness, felonies, whether you want a marriage and/or children, genetic abnormalities (if you both want kids), a strong desire to live somewhere else, professional failures and successes, doubts about your sexual orientation, a strong preference for un-vanilla sex.

The truth will come out, and if you're with someone you feel the need to conceal any of this from, he or she probably isn't right.

3. Snoop.

If no one's hiding anything, why are you looking? Going through your significant other's email, phone, Facebook account, or journal strongly indicates that you don't trust the person you're with. You're also violating his or her trust in you.

4. Hide the relationship from other people in your life.

If you're unwilling to introduce the person you're dating at appropriate junctures to the most important people in your life, that's usually a bright, flapping red flag.

In general, if you have a good thing going, you can't wait for him or her to meet your friends, siblings, parents, the guy at the deli, and you wouldn't have any qualms about presenting this person to professional acquaintances, people you knew in college, family friends, even your ex.

5. Think you're superior.

If you feel that your significant other is your inferior in any way you know matters to you in a mate -- morally, intellectually, socially, financially or professionally -- you're never going to respect him or her as much as you hope to be respected.

The best relationships make you feel that you've convinced a person more exceptional than you to love you.

6. Resent the other person's success.

Professional jealousy can be as poisonous to a relationship as constantly thinking he or she is flirting with your best friend. It also suggests that you're spending a lot of time comparing yourself to a person you supposedly adore, rather than sitting back and marveling at how amazing he or she is. In a good relationship, you quit (or refuse to ever engage in) the one-upmanship.

7. Let any substance or behavior come before the relationship.

Any addict or over-user of a substance or behavior is cheating on you with his or her drug of choice. You deserve more.

8. Stew.

When something the other person does annoys you or turns you off, you don't push it to the back of your mind and hope it will go away, because it won't. You bring it up in the moment or sometime in the next 24 hours.

9. Damage property, animals, children or each other during an argument.

You think this goes without saying until you read something like this New York Times "Modern Love" and realize that human beings can rationalize staying with someone who leaves holes in their walls.

On the other hand, if you damage a vase or two in the heat of a different kind of passion, totally fine.

Wao...solution: block 5 friends of urs on facebook and WhatsApp if any including two members of ur family friends. After dat...u now sleep frm 6pm to 6am fon 7 days continously. U wil never discharge again. Is d work of demon

Den peace on to u.

Go for rabbits production. ..one cannot run mad here.

At times....dey wil sqiuz their mouth and face as if they jst received 21 stroke of d blabla or cane.

What hapen to her in d first pix? Did she score zero in Mathematics test?

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pastor , ar u sure u av not done it?

fofofo

Alternatively, u can become Rev Father. ..den u av Rev Sisters as ur friends .No more sex as u required.

Ask google or ifa ok

5 reflection takes place

So u dnt kno Mikel Obi....

I made a great mistake in opening ds page.

self service is better than to go out...

Chai….. Am the Alhaji u ar talking abt… so someone had fecked Alhaja in d past. Tank u for telling me now

Even females here are not comfortable with the topic… .they cannot contribute very well.

It depends… it can b 51years or more

Do you know, you dont have work.

They travelled to South Africa

War

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