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Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

She may be trying to get you jealous probably because she doesn't feel enough love coming from you and she is trying to know if you truly love her. My gf tried to used that on me but fall because I did not succumb to that and later confront me to tell me everything and how she thinks I don't really love her.

Quality20:
How cn u b at home 24/7? Isn't there gym, worship centre,libraries etc

Unlike Nigeria, they follow strict covid19 protocol in most western countries. Even Barbing shop are not allow to operate there....

So Obiano has built 15 bridges since 2015 and no one is shouting about it upandown

Optional09:
No be by force to stay in one country.

Imagine that level of idiocy calculate how many million of dollar it must have cost to jam a radio station you would have easily asked them to shut down by just responding to their requests to build infrastructures in their region, build functional sea port and make life easy for them

You want to build sea port in the south east

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Mehnn! Some people's Wahala no be here aswear.

fati2001:
thank God I don't have any relationship... so what else?

possibly na your type de jealous scatter relationship self.

Yusufisraelj:
OP there are things you are doing that your ladies use to spot weakness, hence their using jealousy to check if you love them.

They are sending a signal to you that you are not expressive of what they consider love. Since this is a reoccurring event. Check your vibes

For sure you maybe right but I won't call that weakness. I try my best to be nice to them and even the attention ladies want. But one thing I don't do is to question about everyone in their lives especially their male friends. Now, don't take that to mean that I don't really love them. I always spell it out clearly to all of them how I don't like cheating girls...
But I would like to know some of those vibes you think is making girls think I don't really love them...

fati2001:
YOUR BODY COUNT PLS
To know whether I go fit jealous you!

If I understand this your post well - you will only be jealous if the girl is prettier and a threat to your relationship

longetivity:
op just graduated from secondary school

thank you

Sonnobax15:

There ain't no true love without jealousy...

Today,I asked my gf about her younger niece who was living with her....The way she replied me via WhatsApp alone indicated she was jealous...Na once she divert the conversation go another topic

Hahaha... My girl face will just change one kind the moment she sight me with another girl.

Bola146:
. New way of showing love on nairaland is jealousy Are you kidding me ni

That is the mystery I was hoping you can help me solve. I created this thread after my girlfriend just told me that this evening but I know a lot of ladies who reasons and thinks like that too...

lilvicky68:
Is not good but girls are very fond of being jealous but if it's a guy now they will start complaining..

As in, when my girlfriend asked me to act jealous... I was like, how do I start?? But I noticed, it is a normal things with the ladies.

My ex girlfriend tried to used jealousy as a way to know if I truly love her. She was acting like she had another guy to see my reaction. But after I did not show any concern, she then confront me to ask me if I really love her as I did not question any of her behaviour.

This evening again while talking with my new girlfriend, she told me to act jealous as another way of showing my love to her.

One thing I also noticed is that most of my exs were jealous and control freak kind of girls. My new girlfriend is also exhibiting traits of jealousy too - She said, it a way of showing love too.

Why do girls/people resort to the used of jealousy often as a way of showing love... Is it healthy to use jealousy as a way of expressing love in a relationship??

Dliquidmetal:
na 100% scam o,its very obvious but OP why you no easily see the em flags lol

Honestly, I have never heard of this kind of scam before but I have doubted it because it is so good to be true...

Firstorderwizard:
One mofo with hairy balls don dey whine op head.

Hahahaha... Everything was working so fast and it is so good to be true. It is like I am dreaming.
Do you have any advice on how I should play along or I should just call off the process

Haylel:
It's 90% synonymous to a popular scam format.
1. You should have made the video call. Perhaps, block your phone's camera and see if she is who she is.

2. If she asks you to pay for any kind of fee with excuses like - shipping fee, delivery, or whatever, then it's a scam.

I would look out for this clues, thank you bro.

Hi guys,
The said UK woman first send me a friend request on Facebook and chatted me up not long after I accepted her request. She started asking about my profile photo and want to know if I am really the one on the photo. She then started complimenting how handsome and good looking I am on the photo. After she repeatedly emphasize about my good looking, I decided to view her profile photo and photo gallery too. I then told her how good looking she is too (oboy na so the woman wan full my phone memory with plenty of her photos wey she sent them to me). To be honest, the lady on the photo is really hot!!!

After we chatted for some time, she then said that I am a kind person that she really want to know me more. She then started by telling me about herself and the cooperation she work in, qualification and even the school she finished from. "NOTE, I was very honest to her when I told her that I just graduated from the University and and don't have a job yet".

She then inquired if I have an apple laptop or iPhone for us to make video call, which I then decline the video call (for security reasons, though I didn't tell her that) telling her I don't have any apple products but told her I will let her know when I am ready to make video call with her (this is to enable me get to know her better if really she is even a person). She then asked me why I don't have an apple laptop or IPhone, I told her they are expensive here and I can't afford it.

To cut the story short, she promised to buy an apple laptop and Iphone today and send it to me here in Nigeria and even promised to snap and send me photos of the gifts when she buys them.

Honestly, I am very happy, nervous and skeptical at the time. I am happy because I always wanted to own an apple laptop and phone and here is one coming for free. Nervous in the sense that nobody has ever given me any material gifts that expensive. Accepting, the gifts from her may start another phase of my life that I am not sure if I am ready for it.

I am been Skeptical because, it may just be a scammer trying to play me (but I already told the person I don't even have a job). I also doubt if the woman (that is if she even a real person) will send it considering the fact we have not discussed anything relationship. She just want to send the apple products to enable us make the video call.

Please, I need advice on what step to take next and I will like to know if collecting the gift will be a wise choice.
I would like to know if it a scam and someone has experienced it before...

Thank you as you sincerely contribute without any insult or name-calling.

NOTE: She asked for my delivery address this evening but I have not reply her yet.

So this kind of pileup I used to cause on GTA San is also happening in real life

Is this man now the new spoke person for federal Government or what? He is beginning to talk to much.
But I agreed when he said the security force are been dishonest when they say they don't know where this bandits are....

Ghost1994:
I disagree with your write up OP!

People will keep on saying good things about late president Y'adua than the current one when he pass on.

Theirs this Baba soldier he built house around my family house back then. He act as if he's God as in if your ball enter him compound, forget that ball for life.

When the man died, everybody around the neighbourhood's condemned the man and abuse his death including his wife

There are instances where this your scenario played out, in fact there is one in which the whole village come out with drums to celebrate the death of a witch that has been terrorizing the village. But in all the burial I attended people normally say good praises about the dead person. In fact during the last burial I attended last month, the pastor even declared to us there in his sermon that the deceased is already in Heaven with God. I shock!!!

Pierocash:
I have never heard of that. Do the test and confront her,the child is yours, no law hold you.

In Nigeria it is not an offence.

The test result cannot be use in the court of law since the other partner did not consent to it. And if your partner is to sue you for carrying out the test without her consent, na offence be that oo. Court fit barred you from seeing the child self even if na your child ...

NaijaCopy:
Hmmm. Is this the teaching of Christ on marriage & people having marital issues?

Is this step God-led? To add salt to injury & sue a man whose home has been broken & you're being accused of playing a major role?

Sometimes I just wonder how many so-called men of God understand the Bible inside out and truly apply the teachings in every facet of life.

It seems most just obey the book when it suits them and go carnal at will.

Did you even understand why he is suing the man What did you expect him to do to a man who is trying to slander his name and his ministry? Don't forget the man recently filed a 2billion naira case on him. Apostle Sulaiman will have to clear his name or accept the accusation labelled against him

New polling units are most in 2023 election or I will not go anywhere again to vote. Apart from the long distances, these polling units already overcrowded. Nigeria population is booming every day and towns and cities are expanding daily. New polling units are supposed to be created regularly to catch up with this growth....

This one don go package her boobs to look like a sweet 16 years old....

In his word... By the time what is about to happen is concluded, you will see Somalia as paradise on earth.
Hahaha what worst thing can happen to the south east than making it worst than Somalia.... Only time will tell

There are two first class kingdom rule by Christian in Taraba state also. Wukari (Jukun) kingdom and Donga kingdom. These two kingdoms are both rule by men (Aku-uka of wukari and Gara of Donga) who are Christians also....

Justiceibeikenn:
Lol you will soon cry

11 senators alone is no enough, they will need all the Republican senator objecting before they can make a deference. Already about five Republican senators have publicly disagreed to this plan. This five senators alone is what Biden need to win the senate vote....

11 senators is no enough, they will need all the Republican senates objecting before they can make a deference. Already more than five Republican senator have publicly disagreed to this plan. This five senators alone is what Biden need to win the senate vote....

Is a good thing that he did not include Ebuka among the groomsmen....