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Peacefulplace:
I caught my husband flirting in multiple women's comments when we were first together and engaged. I told him he cannot do that. He then stopped. But then I found out he was following ex's and other women alot on Facebook. I mean like 100+ other women with very inappropriate photos.

I told him to stop. He stopped for awhile and then I found out he did it again. I told him off again and so far he never did these things again as far as I know.

But tonight he told me that the two women that were accusing him of cheating, he actually was cheating with in the beginning when he first proposed to me.

Not cheating on person, just cheating online. He had me believing they were crazy. Only now, 8 months later did he tell me... In total though, we have known each other 2 two years. So it's been a long time.

I am so upset. He does not do well when I cry. He does not like it. So I excused myself to cry. He told me not to get upset, but I feel betrayed.

We are getting married this month and now I am so worried upset with him. I am 31 and he is 30. I am a Australian woman and he is a Igbo man. I am moving across the world to be with him. I have visited him many times but I decided to stick by him and marry him.

I am very upset with him and hurting from within. I am trying to deal with this pain but it is a lot. Should I continue to stay by my man? Or should I leave? So far he has not cheated for quite awhile and I am hoping he has learnt his lesson. .

You women are funny, this is why many men never tell the truth.
Here is a man who loves you so much, he doesn't want to keep any secrets from you.
Do you know what true imtimimacy is?
You can never have true intimacy with secrets in the heart. Standing completely naked before each other and unashamed, no guilt, no regrets, that is true intimacy, I believe that was his reason for telling you the truth.
He doesnt wanna be with you and feel guilty of anything in from his past.

Quick Question: What if he never told you? What if he went to the grave with this?

efficiencie:
...but when the government makes the process tedious, long, and expensive you can expect that many will do anything to evade the process and it will make properties very costly. Imagine how many agencies of government you have business with and how much you will spend just to get approvals. The government is there to make life easy for its citizens, not make them miserable...at this rate, no one with a disposable monthly income of less than 1 million naira can dream of owning a house yet I believe I won't be far off the mark if I guess that this accounts for at least 80% of Nigerians.

In reality, a man who finds it difficult to raise N3m has no business building a house.
And I understand your analogy of the ability of people to build unless they earn more than a million.
Truth is no one actually build directly from salary, na save people dey save to build, all over the world and nobody saves to build a house in one year, sometimes it takes 5years of saving and planning. People who earn less than N500k are building houses.
I still say again that anyone who can't spend up to N3m on approval has no business building a house. In Most of the state's across the country where they pay peanuts for approval you would never see the state officials go to any site for first hand inspection, they just do paper work and pay. So you really can't compare Lagos with other states.
Each of those agencies have a role to play and if we want to get things right then we need to follow the process.
Come to the UK and try to lay a block anywhere, you go know say Lagos dey easy.

This would be a huge step in the right direction.
We need to emancipate the economy from Dollar

TempUser:
I don't know how much you wish to beat about the bush, but you are not correct. Cry me a river darling...

A smart person would have come back with a superior point.
A smart person won't just come and say "but you are not correct" a smart person would have proved how I was incorrect.
A smart person would have known that I was taking my time to give a detail explanation because I know your I.Q is way too shallow to get the summary, ofcourse if you were a smart person, you wouldn't have come up with correcting my English in the first place....

4KNGOATS:
Mumu how many buildings can you vouch for when it comes to structural integrity when you know that any rich mugu can just bribe his way through the whole process. sadly you should be the one doing that critical thinking before opening your dirty trap

Well that your trust word to my reply was an insult shows the I.Q of the person I am dealing with.
There is no point having a conversation with you.
Na me jump entre your pigsty na why you get mind wan rub shit for my body.
I don comot.
Sorry no vex

TempUser:
It's not called English teacher unless the teacher is from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿. It's called teacher of English, capiche?

Hahhahahaha yet you couldnt understand what the post said?

Your small airhead doesn't understand that, English are a people from England and they speak a Language called English and that language is taught in schools as a subject, in summary when you hear the one English it is to be interpreted in context.
Here I was talking about English as a subject thaught in schools.

Or are you saying I will be wrong to say "Mathematics teacher" or "physics teacher"?

You never understand small article you wan correct person English.
Airhead.
Don't go and read the post 4 more times so you can understand.
Be correcting English that you lack comprehension of.
Small brain wan act smart as small nyash dey shake

Better go and get your queen primer and start from the basics

4KNGOATS:
And despite all these inspections buildings still collapses every day

It was because of those building collapsing that the government became hard with the inspections.
You people should try thinking before talking.
Did you not see that the engineers were arrested the last time?

chopnaira:
Nigeria is number 6 on the top ranked countries.

1. Dominican Republic
2. Sri Lanka
3. Tanzania
4. Panama
5. Malaysia
6. Nigeria

You no attend English class for high school?
Or you English teacher did a terrible job, which one?

Exceed15:
Again? This old Joe Biden should resign. This shit won't continuously happen under Republican government.

Unlike you lots people don't think from their anus in civilized countries.
If na Nigeria una for don hit street dey protest.
Is the president a pilot?
He should resign because he has been the one flying all the planes, helicopters and choppers that have crashed thus far?
Washington to be Abuja

Hardship
Who dey face hardship no dey go ATM.
Na who get money dey go ATM

igwebuike01:
Lol. Wetin dey pH? Everything bought in pH comes from Aba.

You are telling us the infrastructures, good roads, flyovers airport, seaport, refinery, skyscrapers all came from Aba yet Aba is still celebrating gutters and Julius Berger Logo......

The miracle here is how you guys are able to give to PH what you don't have....
Now that is a note worthy miracle.....

Abi una no sabi wetin be skyline?

LoL small nyash wan shake....

I don't understand this price of bread Nigerians keep talking about.
The price of bread is subjective.
It's like generalizing the price of cars when we all know they vary.

Quality and type of bread, it's not really about the size.....
I am not saying bread is not expensive but comparing prices in respect to size I actually wrong.

Hahhaahhahaha....
The amount of money Oti is spending on propaganda.....
It will be the same way Obi spent more money in court than he spent on election and campaign....

Every 5 minutes these guys are opening one thread or another measuring dicks with people who don't care....
Imagine, na PH wan benefit from Aba.
Small nyash see dey shake

Nice

Hmmmm okay

How is this supposed to be news.
Is he not allowed to buy soft drink?

SkullIMAM:
I hope say Mohammed dey use condom fvck him own 72 to avoid STD

You see your problem, where in his comment did he insult your religion?.
This is how you people go about calling Muslim many names, like headslammrs, jihadists etc..... I keep saying it Christains are the biggest problem in this country.

If I tell you Jesus was not using condoms while banging Mary of Magdala, you would cry religious bigotry....
You hardly see Muslims insult Christains on Nairaland but everything you see Christains insult Muslims on topics that are not even religious.
It shows the hate you have for Muslims.
It is only Christains that you see going about trying to divide the yorubas by calling some Yoruba Muslim, I know this was an agenda from the Easterners to create a division among the yorubas during the election because of the Muslim Muslim ticket, they made efforts to make yorubas see them selves from the eye of religion and not ancestors, unfortunately it is because of their lack of exposure that they thought such a thing would work in the Southwest where many families are living together in the same house and same nuclear family but different religions..
My yoruba friend is a Christain, his wife is a Muslim, his daughter is a Christain but his two sons are Muslims, Our brother from the east thought they can make people like that turn against each other because of religion......

PS: I am a Christain, but not a Christian that will join in this dance of shame.....

SensetionalGoal:
Donating vehicles as what? Is he the governor of the state What is his portfolio in Lagos state that warrant this nonsense display of arrogance...
This man should go and sit down abeg people have serious issues to talk about not this overpampard motor park whatever...

When you want to criticize, be constructive so you don't look stupid, this your comment is making you look very stupid, Many individuals and private sector donate not just to the police but to many other sectors. The vehicles Dangote donated to RRS are still running all over Lagos today, is Dangote a governor?
You may hate the gentleman but your criticism make zero sense.
This is the wailing of a child who you ask why he is wailing and he is just looking back at you because he dosing even know why....

Akalia:
Buses that would eventually suffer the destructive effects of bad maintenance culture in the system. Most will pack up in less than a year.

If this thread had being about schools and students complaining about this you would be here to bark the loudest about government incompetence. They have bought the buses to aid the schools you are now barking about maintainance. When they are well maintained you will still come to bark about how they are spending too much to maintain them.
If I were a leader in Nigeria I won't listen to Nigerians because of folks like you.
It's is because of people like you the leaders don't listen to the crys of the people.
They know whatever good they do animals in human skin would still complain.

I can get you for free that your own state government hasn't done anything like this

When will Igbos stop all these nonsense.
Nobody is in competition with you.
Why do you see the need to always wanna measure dicks and show off....

Have you guys been to Kaduna, Kano, Minna, Ibadan at all.
I don't want to mention the obvious, Uyo, Calabar, Lagos, and other area that are far more developed than the east, but you never see these regions come here day and night to show off.....

Give poor man 1m now he will tell people he can feed all their entire community, he will insult his landlord. But give a rich man that same 1m and watch how grateful the rich man will be

Well na so poor man dey do sha.
Na people wer dey drive Camry muscle and corolla dey play the loudest music.
You won't hear noise from RR, Vogue and the likes.....

Chicagograduate:
How can 3 cement brands be selling their products to 300 million Nigerians?They are taking undue advantage of Nigerians.

Did you build a factory and Nigerians refuse to buy from you.
Go and build one, lime stone full every where.
Meanwhile Larfarge is understandable, they are the only producers of premium cement in the country.

Djele:
How many poor life did he impact

Looks like you are still at the bottom of the food chain, when you get up there you will understand what a pyramid truly is.

Richtaiwo:
Honestly, I don't understand. A human being claims he is a Nigerian and indeed holds Nigerian passport. But any positive news about Nigeria is always a source of tears and sorrow for him. They are many, some of them will soon show themselves because of this indigenous military hardware manufacturing company.

Prophetic

seeker121:
You destroyed the one at home but travel far Europe to refined and charge heavily for what you can get on a platter of gold at home.Indeed only God knows what is wrong with the country.

If you have a car you would be worried that this fuel backyard refineries might find your way into your car.
But obviously you don't have a car, that is why you support this,

U

DenreleDave:
Yen yen yen.. As bitter Betty na ur tribe, why u no go shift goal post

Two face hyp

Kid I am not Igbo, some of us think with our brains, not bigots like you.
Was it betty who screenshot the chat and brought it to the media.
That was simply what I implied but your empty skull brought tribe into it.


No one hits Igbos like I do on NL you can check my comments today.
I hit them for this same stupid thing you just did.
Many Igbos are on some threads hiting me this evening because of my comment in favour of the yorubas.
I didn't know a wild pig would jump on my comment

Nigerians really need jobs.
Only a jobless person would go about everyday measuring dicks....
Tomorrow they say politicians are these and that......

Obviously Betty didn't share this.
This was private chat between them.
But the other party bringing to the media really tells me that Betty is very right about her

successmatters:


That's how they carried one Katsina man CP and deposited him as Ondo CP.

Are they not Yoruba commissioners in other states?
Is your brain under your foot?
The current commissioner of Police in River state is Tunji Dissu, a yoruba man, are they complaining....
We create a ranch m, something RUGA, but for human, a place to dump people like you.
It is important to eradicate your type from the society

After so many years in Covenant University, dude has a huge wealth of experience.
Maduka University made a right choice.
I remember him as my DVC back then.
Great guy

chnnmfl:
Hate always coming from slum dwellers from brow.n roof republic.

Ignorance and foolishness is what is killing most of you.
You cannot see that old structures like that are evidences that the town had been exposed to civilization a long time.
As at the time those houses were built your parents were walking naked(Yes just about the time of independence in 1960, Igbos were still walking naked) let's not even talk about cement block houses or zinc roofs.
The best of you were living mud houses when these houses were built....

If not that you still live in a cave in the east and haven't left the country you would have found building that are 100 years plus in cities like London, Venice, Paris, etc.....
Ignorant illiterates coming to insult people with rich history....

The reason you don't have roofs that are this old is because your people were to poor to afford this type of roof as at when this were built.
Your people were and are still jumping night buses to get to the west.
Many have even bought ticket for tonight.
These roofs were what made your ancestors called the west "city"....
Slowpoke
Historical building are all over the West, South South and the North....
You can't even find an old palace in the East.
Una wer start to dey civilize yesterday.
Small nyash dey shake.