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prettythicksme:
like seriously? #u don go about fuuucking all cute girls or how do u get to know dis?

When you fvck like 7 cute girls and the story is the same and these ugly girls keep impressing you, you get my point?

When your own main chick will only give head if you'll return the favour, and the way she does it? like its poison.

However, cute runs babe give good head if you're ready to pay. Either cute or ugly, they are loyal to pay.

Hello everyone,

Am i the only one who noticed that cute girls, i mean those astonishingly pretty and sexy girls don’t give head during love making unlike the average or ugly ladies depending on how you want to call them.

If the cute girls give head, first it’s always short…they are always in a hurry and they demand you eat their Kitty-Cat in return.

Unlike the cute girls, the ugly girls spend eternity pleasuring a brother by giving him head sometimes till he comes. The good news is, these girls don’t ask for same favour in return, unless you’re willing to return the favour.

I’m not just concluding here, I’ve done my personal research. This is real life experience.

To the cute girls….why now?

hehehe!

Ok, all those ladies that made a decree at the beginning of the year, that they must get married before this 2013 runs out. I've got good news for you.

Its not over yet, we still have two(2) good Saturdays before this year runs out.

So, hope, believe, its not over yet. Only if you believe in miracle.

Religion is nothing but an HYPHEN to separate us

tunapius: anywishway sha, all i knw is, persn wey i no lik no fit get belle 4 me

NO fvck person wey you no like if not...she go tell you say she get belle after 6 months wey u don turn papa pikin finish.

Monstertrucks: My marriage started with,Mr man,if u no marry my daughter wey u gif belle so,I go use this cutlass for ur head. doing tragic

LOL...this is...."oga, i don miss my period" + "by force, by fire"

Ngokafor: *rolls eyes*...like seriously?...
..anyway @ op i've got three words for you..mind your business!!

LOL....Its like urs started with "oga, i don miss my period"

I notice most marriages these days are triggered by the fact that the bride is pregnant, hence the need to plan an urgent wedding. I really don't have anything against it. But some people seem to frown at such practice. What are your views?

From the early days of democracy in ancient Greece, speech making has been the most important tool in the arsenal of a politician.

Socrates, Cicero, Elizabeth 1. Mandela, Awolowo, Zik, Sadaurna, Winston Churchill, Che, Obama..............the list is endless.

Jonathan is in the FBN Stadium in South Africa with his entourage. I hope he listened to the Obama speech. It wasn't talking at people. It was talking to them. And there was a definite structure to it, and the delivery was spot on - a result of constant practice.

All wrapped in a sweet delivery where the speakers wasn't just in a hurry to get to the bottom of the paper, but connecting with the spirit in the atmosphere and the people unlike GEJ's pedestrian nature of speeches.


read more....http://www.osundefender.org/?p=136522

- Politics without principle.
- Leadership without character.
- Governance without humanity.
- Business without conscience.
- Pleasure without morality.
- Wealth without work.
- Worship without sacrifice and Godliness.

How many have you committed recently or encouraged someone else to commit with your praises and admiration?

lorretta u: I can't believe what I'm readin here
Anyone of these guys who comes out tomorrow to condemn prostitution is a certified hypocrite
And I'm really sorry for us girls.
Some saying all girls are prostitutes means that even the ones you're dating are prostitutes?
How appalling!
So when a girl is in a normal relationship with a man he thinks of her as a prostitute while in her mind she's in love not knowing the man is thinking of her as a wh*ore.
Damn this is highly disturbing. If these men speak for the majority of guys out there,[i][/i]then something is wrong somewhere.

which majority are you talking about here?....whats the population of guys on nairaland and if you want to use it as a sample, will it be responses from some unreasonable kids?

the OP has not committed any crime here and i'm surprised to see how guys just decided to pick on her like she is their next door neighbor and they know her so well. If her attitude towards guys is questionable, its not best to attack her for opening a thread to air her views. I'm so disappointed with most of the comments coming from guys here...are we now justifying prostitution as a good thing?

This is an online forum that even little kids from 9yrs old who have access to internet can read. Have we completely lost our morals as Africans? I have never in my life and will never patronize a prostitute cos i also share the OP's opinion. They are so dirty (public toilet) and if i can't share a spoon outside my house, i don't think i can share Kitty-Cat with another man when i am so aware of it. If my GF is seeing other guys, at least, she is keeping it away from me, what you don't know will not kill you and out of sight is out of mind....

fredx4: That's correct and the sooner the OP realises this the better.

Its obvious you're seeing life through his eyes...I'm not here to glorify any religion, so far we all serve God. Lets tolerate each other and forget about which is superior or the best and only way of serving Him.

tonguetalker: John 14:6
" And Jesus said unto them, I am the way, The truth, and the life. No man comes to the father except by me"

I expected this, judging by what you know alone. Don't come here to preach about any religion. I'm here to preach tolerance.

If Jesus is the only way, does that mean the other large world population who practice Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism and other traditional religions who don't practice Christianity will all perish?...God will never design his things this way. So, remain in your faith and tolerate others. Don't force them to convert.
Religion is not a one way thing. Religion is an organized collection of beliefs, cultural systems, and world views that relate humanity to an order of existence.

About Interfaith cooperation......

Because religion continues to be recognized in Western thought as a universal impulse, many religious practitioners have aimed to band together in interfaith dialogue, cooperation, and religious peacebuilding. The first major dialogue was the Parliament of the World's Religions at the 1893 Chicago World's Fair, which remains notable even today both in affirming "universal values" and recognition of the diversity of practices among different cultures. The 20th century has been especially fruitful in use of interfaith dialogue as a means of solving ethnic, political, or even religious conflict, with Christian–Jewish reconciliation representing a complete reverse in the attitudes of many Christian communities towards Jews.

Recent interfaith initiatives include "A Common Word", launched in 2007 and focused on bringing Muslim and Christian leaders together,[65] the "C1 World Dialogue",[66] the "Common Ground" initiative between Islam and Buddhism,[67] and a United Nations sponsored "World Interfaith Harmony Week".[68][69]

In a round table discussion about religion and freedom in which many scholars and gurus were presenting ideas and opinions as to how to make the world a better place, the following conversation between two participants took place at a recess...
A bearded scholar maliciously, and also with interest, asked a religious guru: "Hi guru, what is the best religion?"The bearded man thought the guru would say: "My own religion" or "The oriental religions, much older than Christianity."

The guru paused for a while, smiled and looked at the bearded man in the eyes, which surprised him because the bearded man knew of the malice contained in his own question.

The guru answered: "The best religion is the one that gets you closest to God. It is the one that makes you a better person."

To get out of his embarrassment with such a wise answer, the bearded man asked: "What is it that makes me better?"

The guru responded: "Whatever makes you more Compassionate, more Sensible, more Detached, more Loving, more Humanitarian, more Responsible, more Ethical."

"The religion that will do that for you is the best religion."

Hearing this, the bearded man was silent for a moment, marveling and even today thinking of his wise and irrefutable response:

"I am not interested, my friend, about your religion or if you are religious or not. What really is important to me is your behaviour in front of your peers, family, work, community, and in front of the world."

"Remember, the universe is the echo of our actions and our thoughts."

"The law of action and reaction is not exclusively for physics. It is also of human relations. If I act with goodness, I will receive goodness. If I act with evil, I will get evil."

"What our grandparents told us is the pure truth. You will always have what you desire for others. Being happy is not a matter of destiny. It is a matter of options."

Lets examine the classifications of religion....
>Universal religions: that seek worldwide acceptance and actively look for new converts.
>Ethnic religions: that are identified with a particular ethnic group and do not seek converts.

But scholars reject the distinction,pointing out that all religion practices,whatever their philosophical origin,are ethnic because they come from a particular culture.
The question is,do u go with this scholars that all religions are from a particular culture?

I welcome you all.


>This group is not for atheists, as the group believes and accepts that
1}There is God/Allah/olodumare/chineke or other names as the case may be,given to a singular being in theistic and deistic religions.
2}God/Allah/olodumare/chineke is the supernatural creator and overseer of the universe.
3}It is right to pray to the creator and no other.
4}The words of prophets are true.

>This group says "no" to religious extremism and is not aimed at promoting a particular religious movement.

>That members are not allowed to promote their religion in anyway whatsoever in this group.

*AIMS AND OBJECTIVES OF THIS GROUP
>To promote religious tolerance.
>To reduce the tremendous harm religion has done to the society among which are promoting religious goals using war,terrorism and violence.
>To unify and integrate the existing religious movements considering the fact that all religions are ethnic based because irrespective of their practices,they all came from a particular culture.
>Promote interfaith dialogue and cooperation as the most effective tool for solving ethnic/political and religious conflicts.
>Bring about peace in the world.

Ishilove: What a waste of my precious mb. Boredom+internet access= Nonsense nollywood story

May be you'll write your own Hollywood story for us to read here one day. Then you'll realise....


"it takes a lot of courage to fry a bunch of plantain without eating out of it"

Thanks guys...I've learnt my lesson o, now spending wisely.

lynpetra: Rubbish!!!The gurl try o abeg.I know fit try am.Once I am caught cheating I din waste my time begging,not just because I don't feel guilt but because I have trained my heart NOT TO CRY OVER SPILLED MILK!!!Forgive her and take her back,that's only if you can!The next gurl might do worse and will not apologize.

like seriously?

Truckpusher: OP apparently you didn't react well enough for her to have the guts to come close enough to plead with you.

There is a way you react when issues like this arises she'll would be so discouraged in making an attempt to see your eyeballs ,in fact she'll change all routes that she is likely to come across you.......show her the other side of you she didn't know it existed

LOL...

holyvirgin: A no is not a good answer.... I dnt even try asking anyone out, I just appreciate gOodlooking people and move on... Too shy to hit on anyone and getting a NO is gonna hurt

LOL...just like every lady will say.

We guys get several "NO" anytime we hit-on ladies, why do ladies expect "YES" any time they come out of their shell and develop the confidence to approach a guy? A "NO" from that guy automatically turn him to an enemy. Why are ladies so emotional?

First, I want to ask everyone here…have you ever been in a situation where you have to pick in between two impossible choices? Follow your heart you’ll all say right?....LOL
I mean, there was so little to say, yet there was so much time. My mouth was empty yet with words in my mind. I love this lady still but I was bailed out by Adele’s track: FIRST LOVE. I never knew I could sing the lyrics….

"First Love"
So little to say but so much time,
Despite my empty mouth the words are in my mind.
Please wear the face, the one where you smile,
Because you lighten up my heart when I start to cry.

Forgive me first love, but I'm tired.
I need to get away to feel again.
Try to understand why,
don't get so close to change my mind.
Please wipe that look out of your eyes,
it's bribing me to doubt myself;
Simply, it's tiring.

This love has dried up and stayed behind,
And if I stay I'll be a lie
Then choke on words I'd always hide.
Excuse me first love, but we're through.
I need to taste a kiss from someone new.

Forgive me first love, but I'm too tired.
I'm bored to say the least and I, I lack desire.
Forgive me first love,
Forgive me first love,
Forgive me first love,
Forgive me first love,
Forgive me,
Forgive me first love,
Forgive me first love

After my song, my speech was the exact lyrics from Rihanna’s TAKE A BOW….

"Take A Bow"

Oh, How about a round of applause, Yeah
A standing ovation
Oh, Yeah
Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah

You look so dumb right now
Standing outside my house
Trying to apologize
You're so ugly when you cry
Please, just cut it out

[Chorus:]
Don't tell me you're sorry 'cause you're not
Baby when I know you're only sorry you got caught
But you put on quite a show
Really had me going
But now it's time to go
Curtain's finally closing
That was quite a show
Very entertaining
But it's over now (but it's over now)
Go on and take a bow

Grab your clothes and get gone (get gone)
You better hurry up
Before the sprinklers come on (come on)
Talking' bout'
Girl, I love you, you're the one
This just looks like a re-run
Please, what else is on (on)

[Chorus]

[Bridge]
Oh, And the award for
The best liar goes to you (goes to you)
For making me believe (that you)
That you could be faithful to me
Let's hear your speech, Oh

How about a round of applause
A standing ovation

But you put on quite a show
Really had me going
Now it's time to go
Curtain's finally closing
That was quite a show
Very entertaining
But it's over now (but it's over now)
Go on and take a bow
But it's over now

I never believed these two tracks could bail me out at such crucial moment. The funny thing here is, everyone was like….”You’re wicked” “you’re a bad guy” “you could have given her a chance”
Me? Never, first love ko, second love ni…I was glad we ended it. Na just opportunity for me, this girl don nearly kill me with demand. BBM came to android few months after I bought her BB and she was still insisting I buy her Samsung galaxy S4 again. I don suffer, recharge card na every week, chopping nko?...make-up kit, Brazilian hair untop watin? Na me go first get GF?...I no get savings, na God himself deliver me. There is no going back. meanwhile, i was contemplating if i could afford to leave my new catch, with the way that babe carry front and back. No way!
So, did I do anything wrong here people?.....your views.Thanks for reading.

She knelt down, right there, I mean right in the street with everyone watching. This created a big drama as everyone around moved close to see what going on with passers-by stopping to catch a glimpse of the action. Her words in loud voices;
“Forgive me my first love, for you’re my one and only.
I betrayed the trust between us which is our bond.
I’ve imagined this world without you, and its not worth living.
I’m sorry I got tempted with material gains and got distracted in our love journey.
All I need is one chance to prove its only through your eyes I can see.
I promise to give all, pay for my wrong doings in any way just to be in your arms again”
All this words came out amidst tears rolling down her eyes. And with the whole crowd around, I could not figure out what next to do. Then I heard voices from the crowed… “eyah!” “forgiver her” “she really love him” “love is blind” “ I can never do this to any man”….so, wanna know what I did?

So i caught her with her boss right in an hotel room. This has been going on for quite some time. I refuse to believe my first love would ever cheat on me. I told her its over, she could not utter a word as she kept mute. Now, three days after the whole incident, she put up a show that really got me thinking now.
I was chilling after a normal day at work, so she came around and waited outside with the bike man that brought her, right in my ever busy street and sent someone in to call me. I was just told i had a visitor outside, she never told the person her name so i won't know it was her. I got outside, saw her and guess what happened?

lynk106: - go and find a cocaine or drug addict and get her pregnant. If she gives birth, take her to court and you will gain full custody because she will be judged 'unfit' to be a mother.

- befriend a terminally ill patient.Maybe a woman with cancer or something like that. That way, you know that she will pass away soon after nursing etc.

-travel to a foreign country thousands of miles away and find a very poor woman to impregnate. Bribe her with money to take the baby away and leave the land. you are gone without a trace.


in all seriousness though,why do you think orphanages are so full? I wish there were more men out there willing to take care of their kids.

wrong choices.... The fact that I don't believe in marriage does not mean I'm bad and don't have human feelings. Its inhuman to venture into marriage with any of these motives. I bet you I'm more aware of what marriage entails than most people that are in marriage now, its why I came to the conclusion that it might be difficult to cope.....meanwhile, I've started receiving emails.

Chillisauce: OP has a mission to bang! He is here to sample free pu ssi.the girls contacting him will go through the exercise of banging before he declares them worthy.

His first post is looking for baby mama.

In case you don't know....sex is cheap. I don't need all these long processes if its all about sex when I even have two ladies, they are room mates and students of mapoly who come around anytime I need both of them for sex.... t.h.r.e.e.s.o.m.e tins....LOL(Na money e go cost)

You think its really about sex?....I can't stop laughing.

Phema: I thought we were talking about a mature lady with same ideologies as you?

By the way, I think it is even easier to get a lady who will agree to open marriage than one that will agree to be a baby mama.

may be.....

Phema: Another one you might want to consider is open marriage. That might even be easier for you. You two get to bring up the kid/s together under same roof while having other partners.

This is going to be more complicated, will have been ideal for me if and only if ladies in this part of the world can opt for an open marriage but forget it....its gonna be treated like normal marriage and only lead to more complications.

Phema: He doesn't need good sex from the said lady, he needs a child. He can have good sex with any other lady.

As for the sperm bank risks, well, everything in life comes with some level of risk. Who says the the natural method is risk free? The lady can sleep with other men, get pregnant for one of them and claim the child is OPs.

sure, I don't need good sex from her. Its not the aim but as regard her claiming another person's child is mine.... why do we have the DNA test?.... either in marriage or outside marriage, av made that decision for long...my kid(s) must be put through DNA test to be sure of their paternity. The world is changing.

Phema: I honestly do not have any problems with your arrangement. Not everyone believes in marriage and not everyone should be married. Some people just cannot deal with the whole commitment thingy. It is not for the faint hearted, i tell ya.

You not wanting to get married doesn't make you a bad person. It only means that you know your capabilities and have sincerely accepted them. Don't mind those castigating you. Some (if not most) of them are in horrible marriages and wish they had half the nerve you have.

I'm sure there are ladies out there who want the exact same thing you want, but scared about what the society will say especially in a country like ours.

However, I would advice you go for pure surrogacy through artificial insemination. That way, it's just contract and no emotions involved. When emotions are involved in this kind of deal, it could wrong.

Another one you might want to consider is open marriage. That might even be easier for you. You two get to bring up the kid/s together under same roof while having other partners.

Bottom line, get a lady that shares your ideologies, understands what you want and doesn't confirm to societal norms. Goodluck.

Good points. I know about artificial insemination but prefer the natural conception method, I sure have my reasons. A lady that can deal with the process of sexual intercourse without bringing emotions into it to me is ready and will keep to the terms and conditions of our arrangement. I know how difficult it is to find that lady of larger heart. Thanks for your contribution.

It started with a little pillow talk.

“Would you ever be down to have an open relationship?” Eva* asked her boyfriend.

Sam hadn’t thought about it before, but they both agreed it made sense. They were 26 and had been living together for about a year. It was a few days before Eva was moving away to take a job. Sam planned to meet her in her new city in six months, but they were going to be a plane ride apart until then. They had both gone to a lefty liberal arts college where people don’t exactly rush each other to the altar. Eva was a feminist who believed in sexual liberation; Sam had read everything sex columnist and non-monogamy evangelist Dan Savage had ever written. They were too young to have slept with everyone they ever would, they reasoned. And they both felt that the impulse to be with other people was natural and healthy, and might even bring them closer.

They set some ground rules. “No sex with some one more than three times,” Eva suggested. “That might lead to a relationship.”

“No hooking up with mutual acquaintances,” Sam said. “Too weird.”

They each had different priorities, and patted themselves on the back for being honest and listening to each other. When Eva left, they were secure in their relationship.

Three weeks later, Eva brought someone home and had a fun, drunken time. But when she got on the phone with Sam the next day—they had agreed to tell each other everything—he got silent, then resentful, then outright angry.

“Sorry, I thought I was down,” Sam said. “But I don’t like this. I guess I’m not.”

In theory, non-monogamy makes all the sense in the world. We’ve seen the statistics: up to half of both men and women end up cheating on their partner at some point in their lives. In her new book, Marriage Confidential, Pamela Haag cites research showing 80 percent of men and 65 percent of women would sleep with someone other than their spouse if they knew they’d never get caught. We all know someone who’s cheated, been cheated on, been the “other” woman or man. We know that vows of monogamy are frequently broken.

But when it comes to applying this knowledge and changing up traditional ways of constructing our own relationships, we have a tendency to hesitate, or make excuses, or flat-out say “no, thank you.” We've come to accept that forever-and-ever may be unrealistic—just look at divorce rates and the rise of serial monogamy. Yet while we're in those relationships, exclusivity is still the standard. There’s a strange split between what we think and what we do. Will we—the portion of the population that is not wedded to the idea of monogamy—ever stop sneaking around and start changing the way we conduct our relationships?

I decided to investigate. I sent out an e-mail asking for testimonials from people—mostly straight and young, a mix of races and backgrounds—who were not totally averse to the idea of open relationships. When I asked who came to mind when they heard the word “non-monogamy,” the responses spanned several subcultures: “Burning Man hippie types,” “people who live in communes,” “the Grateful Dead,” “gay men in the club scene.” The HBO show “Big Love,” which is about a polygamous Mormon family, popped up a lot. I got few celebrity names: Will and Jada, Mo’Nique, Charlie Sheen and his “goddesses,” Tilda Swinton and her pair of lovers.

Despite the fact that I roll with a super feminist, progressive crowd, nobody named a friend, a neighbor, or a co-worker who was in a successful, heterosexual open relationship. A handful mentioned committed gay couples with open arrangements, but those didn’t seem to resonate as role models for their own lives. Very few people admitted that they had tried non-monogamy.

When I told this to Christian Rudder, co-founder and editorial director of OK Cupid, he wasn’t surprised at all. He says that among younger straight couples in the U.S., he’d estimate that “fewer than 1 percent are in publicly open polyamorous relationships,” and that those numbers were not much higher on OkCupid. He added that even for the site's users, who tend to be liberal and open-minded, “it feels deviant.”

In Marriage Confidential, Haag explains that our idea of monogamy has actually gotten purer even as the divorce rate has increased. In the 1950s, cheating was just as common, yet people were much more tolerant of affairs. There are myriad reasons for this—including the fact that divorce could prove financially devastating to a woman—but there was less pressure to actually stick to exclusivity. Her book profiles the new “marital rebels” who are combining a “free love” 1960s ethos with a 1950s nonchalance. She argues that couples are quietly rewriting the rules of marriage. Problem is, nobody talks about it.


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