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gree-die:
yes ofcz

Are you a man? did you not see that the poster was talking to men. kai woman of today

also beware of hiv /aids as you are not sure the extent of the level of his cheating. adultery does stand in a divorce court so you decide. you either want to stay with a serial cheater who will bring you aids or stay away from him and b single again

sister its not your fault heh. Your husband probably got married before he was ready or is a serial cheater. There are man like that. who believe that marriage does not tie him down at all so he will continue with this cheating habit until forever. just get used to it o because a man can not easly change

Tinkybabe: Why do you want to know?

I want to know because i want to know how the girl i just broke up with feels and i also want to settle down now and i want to know what kind of mistakes to avoid should i get married so that i avoid divorce

Oohrhii: Let me help you out here..

1: You need to understand that we all have our past. The past is what actually made us who we are today. You dont have to judge anybody based on their past. its history and histories are meant to be seen as its called and meant for stories and lessons. This girl has obviously learnt her lesson..common thin k about it..born in a city a lady young and beautiful..Imagine the number of temptations..especially if she doesn't have anyone to guide her through properly.

2: She came clean for you. She actually told you so much about her self that even you felt its too much.. Thats someone that has learnt and doesnt want to make any mistake again.. Thats a lady that actually luvs you and doesnt want to have any skeleton to hide. Bro those kind of ladies are rare.

3: Now considering the fact that you are not as exposed as she is ..and she knows this fact for sure.. Have you even thought about why she decided not to play you, but love you instead? Yeah cos she luvs you.

4: Yes she might be wrong by not listening to you regarding her weight and stuffs..thats why well this space might spur her to enforce these changes.

5: Finally, she decided not to make noise or fight you, because you just broke her heart again..and by now..she is probably used to it.

Conclusion..you should actually be ashamed of the method you use. Shows you are not a man..to ur sister ..and to her the method depicts you as a liar.

Remedy.. Just walk up to her, and take charge..tell her u aint married..and that you actually did what you did so she can get some exercises. Forget the past bro..her past is nothing..instead focus on what you want to achieve with her, and if you cant see anything..just bounce and let her be. Remember you would be the 13th. if you leave her again..and that probably was how the number kept raking up.she cant marry herself..she had to take the risk.. If you never try you will never know.

Ti a ba gbagbe oro ana... Ao o ni reni ba sere..

You aint clean also bro..you had your secrets but you didn't share.. Appreciate the person that had the courage to come clean.

wowwww thank you sir. i really appreciate your help here. you have really shared some light and i am feeling like a complete idiot. i wonder if she can take me back. do you guys think she can since she did not put up a fight or she will just walk away with her broken heart

gabriela union
queen latifah
lauren hill

sometimes you just have to drop your expetations honey. there is nothing wrong with finding a wrong guy and helping him become the man you want. for ladies i would say there is no perfect relationship but a good one needs work and patience.

shona - ndinokuda
i also know there is nakupenda but m not sure if its swahili or what

Zulu - Ngiyakuthanda
Xhosa - Ndiyakuthanda
Sotho - Keyahorata
- Afrikaans _ ek is lief vir jou
french - Ja tem

i need to know if one has gone through the divorce how did they feel adn what coursed the divorce in the first place. how did you cope and will you wana get married again

poster i like this thread becoz it seems woman are ven ready to kill themselves for marriage only to be unhappy. if the time is right you will get married but please its not the end of the world

us men we lie becoz its in our blood but ladies lie when they have been hurt before or to avoid being hurt

y r u even visitign your ex in the first place? don't you know that when a woman still allows you in her life she still want you? and you just had to even ask for her friends number in her presents. she might have said no problem but she is hurting inside. dude you are so insensitve

i only have oen word o '' bye''

the world can tell which stage is a man in life by the car he drives and most ladies unfortunately always want to be seen with the guy who seems to have made it not still trying to

REMMEI: And when you are done doing all these she tagged you mumu..well sha,Ode na like..

guy you sound bitter. Poster we thank you for the info and i think i like it coz in think its true o

bro many ladies do that o, it does not mean she is cheating. are there no ladies you chat wit sometimes? abeg grow up and be a man and stop crying like a sissy. it aint no biggy what your girl is doin

Poster i think you just wanted to joke when you posted this thread. But there are lost of cute men who can be used for calenders. You only chose the ugly ones

SLIDE waxie: u are a FOOL, dude!

abi

bknight: Pls if u're not sound writing, try to punctuate properly. Give spaces

#Damn! A nicca's going dizzy reading this

Okay i here you sir. now please give me advice on my matter and live the gramma alone abeg

Dovahkiin: lol u dey feel like say u dey sleep with ashawo but u still dey sleep with am dey enjoy am , yeye guy

Bros do you also agree that she is ashy?

Darlene babe: lols she is frm d city n u frm vilage, to me, if a lady tell u d truth about herself, dat lady in in love n want to b hold by u. u seem to ve a double mind about u decision. think carefully n act wisely

Sister please tell me how to act wisely? what is acting wisely because i do not want to regret anything

I met a wonderful lady 2 years back. I have been very scared of approaching her until last year september i made my move.To my luck ( i gues) she also had a crush on me for long time so she did not give me stress. we clicked from scratch and our relationship was perfect. But the lady turned me off when she told me about her past relationships which she was sexualy active with. She was so in love with me that she decided to be extra open with me. She told me most of hers and her family secret. For me that was too much o. mind you i was a virgin before i slept with the but she has slept with men over 12in number. i am 24 turning 25 in august and she just turned 26 in february. I am from a a village and she is from the city and she blamed our different upbringing for her exploring life at an early age of 20. she said it was a stage for her but me i am feeling like i am sleeping with an ashawo when i am with her and i told her that in life i thought i would end up with a virgin 2 but i had promised to marry her. Now i got tired of her and asked my sister to call her and pretend to be my wife and ask her to stay away from me. the first time we broke up she was so hurt for over 2 weeks and begged me to take her beg but this time after my sister called her she just said nothing and realy stayed away from but sent me a text telling me that my day of punishement is coming. My question is was i realy rude by my last action to her and will my day realy come? why is she not throwing turntrumps this time because she always puts up a good fight when i hurt her? does this mean she is hurting too much or is she realy over me? another thing that turned me off is that she is overweight and always eats junk fook. i have begged her countless times to join me when i go to gym or do something about her body but she never listens. she starts a diet today and tomorrow its over then she keeps telling me to be patient. Guys have you been in my situation and do you think i will be jelous if i see her with a better man or when i see her looking attractive? becaus right now she does not look attractive at all because of the weight but this weekend i saw her jogging on the streets and i am afraid she might look good after she looses the weight and i might have lost her. yes i admit she is a good person but somehow i have lost interest but i cant seem to forget her telling me that i will be punished. See i do not have muxh experiance with relationships as ai did mention that she was my first. m i behaving like a village man in the city or am i justified?please help m stressed o

Poster naa stop putting people in this suspence. answer your gender now. see everyone is doubting you abeg prove that you are a lady

purebarbie: eze my apology for excludin ur name and also others whose names i must ve excluded unintentionally,thanks.

Thank you Madam o

purebarbie: No one of u except the guy dat post dat pm and then the thread owner is mentally mature,if u all re,u will follow up the thread accordingly instead of goin off key.... Every thread has its own purpose,it either u like it or leave it for those dat like it! Its either u follow up or u dnt bother followin d thread at all...

Chineke sister you mean even me too am immature? what did i do na? is it not i was talking to the poster about the thread? y must u say everyone now? i m wounded o

Bros woman are very hard to read. Sometimes they claim to love us but they play games. Me i dont know o because sometimes she will be playing hard to get like that then me i end up confused and sometimes loosing interest when the game is too much but abeg don't get me wrong once the chasing is over thy wear their hearts on the sleeve most of the time

poster are you a guy?