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guy do you yourself even know the meaning of those texts you were sending?

People always say she will bleed, her pussy will be tight etc but my friend that is all alie. atleast it does not apply to all. some ladies do not even bleed and most ladies do kegel exercises which make pussy tight and small so even if she slept with 20 men she can come back and claim to be a virgin o. please anyone who disagrees with me proove that m wrong so there is no way at all of telling if she is a v

Mrs.Chima:
I mean no offense to Nigeria,South Africa,nor East Africa.

[size=22pt]But why would anyone marry for papers to these above countries?[/size]

Madam have you eva been to SA?have you seen how most our brothers are living down here?please pay a visit then ask me that question

sex is your marital duty and must always give your husband even if u r tired. u do not have the right to be tired in thia one

your mamam. y u make poor ladies to read this long think. joor

got a call rom someone who claimed to be my lovers spouse. you could tell the person was lying but convinced to call

hell no

i think its true. but i am in south africa and have noticed that most of my home boys only marry these easy ashawos because of paper or to just help a nigga get through the process of bordom, finance etc but most of us always return home for a good wife

do u blv in that shit

all the above n more

she must talk to her husband and show him that she needs the job or else sh must just be the woman who does what she pleases without divorcing him. if there should b a divorce let the man be the one to initiate it but yo frnd must b tought not let his habits get to her course that is exactly wat he wants.

Princess zoe: God hates divorce so much. Divorce can take one to hell. Are you divorced oga ? If yes, what was the reason why you divorced? If not on the ground of adultery then you are rubbishing your salvation and should never remarry. You had better go back to your wife or seek counsel from God but if you are not yet divorced or married, never you resort to divorce, is very bad and a killer of salvation.

No madam i am not divorced nor am i married. I intend of=n getting married soon when i find the right one but was weighing all my options before i take this big step

D_BestDoc: @ Op you dumped her because she had been sexually active in the past.
And you suddenly noticed her weight after you slept with her, or did she just gain weight after you guys met?


You are really a learner,giving up a good woman because of her past that may not affect your future together in any way.

Sit there and wait for the kind of woman you are wishing for in your dreams......NO BODY IS PERFECT..


I see you dumping the next girl for flimpsy excuses too.
GOODLUCK

To tell the truth she has always been big but when i was putting all the things i do not like about her i then started to notice how fat she was and i used to think she would loose the weight at first

I know someone in your situation. She has nver had a problem getting man . she is a size 20/44 but she has those moments when she takes very good care of her self and looks attractive but sometimes she neglects her self. She is so desparate for men that she even lets them sleep at her house and use her. Well that is how she was before. Now through hard work she lost 32kgs and now a size 12 / 36. She looks great. Still chubby though but this chick takes care of her self that she looks like an african queen and even though she is till big men are queing up to say hi to her but she told me that this time she is taking her time and assessing all the guys properly so that she can get a good one who will not sleep at her place but spoil her with his own cash. loose some weight and make yourself pretty. you would be suprised at how men will respond to you and plz dont show desparation. everyone on nairala land i am posting a picture of this lady now. pleae tell me what you think of her.

OP u sound like a very heart broken person. it will be fine now heh, dont worry. time is the greatest healer of all wounds

nkem/ ousofia looks very cute and sexy to me

image is everything in the world of attraction then charator catches the heart

love will never be enough to sustain a good marriage. both parties have got to know what they are getting themselves into and must understand that the feeling of being crazy inlove will eventually vanish but they will still have to be there for each other

if he is truly yours he will come back without you putting up a fight but if he is not yours he will walk away. you are a woman, you do not need to trick or fight him to be with you ebcause no amount of that can keep a man. he will return when he is rady but do not hold your breath because no one knows what tomorrow holds

i am sure i have read this somewhere still on nairaland

no 3 - rich but 50% sexual

Caracta: My next of kin is my wife. And that's because, we are "one". She is 'me', I am 'her'. Or she is 'i' and I am 'she'

[This comment is not from caracta (f)]

are you a man?


Me i do not care about who the next of kin is, but i care more about who is the beneficiary as they are 2 different things

okay am no lady but i have noticed that most ladies seem all confused at first after the deed then became ashawo for sometime ( just to explore what they have put off) then they become okay. i do not know about confidence because i do not see y a girl must be confident for giving her body to a man who is not her husband. i would prefer girls to be shy if they lost the virginity to just a lover not a spouse

you said it bro. humans are visual beings so we start by being attracted to the physical features first then the charactor

i miss the cold nights

joeydozzy: don't tell me you opened a thread just because of my comment

I'm touched

lol. touched in what way?

BIGVAJINA: often nl peeps see my handle and read several meanings into it.
but seriously, i am a very decent lady.
very God fearing and married.
i chose this handle just to pull peoples legs here, i am not what my name suggests.
Any which way, back to my topic, will you turn down a man's love proposal just because you dont like his name and vice versa? How about you guys? sometimes i personally marvel at names like born2fuck, mr cork, bushyanus etc.
brb

a woman must never give her self names like yours bigV. nairaland is requires you to give your self a name so you have a chose as to which name to choose. its not as if your mama and papa named you BigV. me i can get angry if a girl has a naughty name

luk at yo question. you asking if he sexed her and yet he does not deny it. sister a man will never be loyal to only one woman ( most of the time). chances are the child is his. so what you go do? dump him and go to a worst bustared

gree-die:
i was thinking lyk a male wen i wrote dat.

look at you. you were thinking like a male and yet you are not male. very soon you will be telling us that you want to test a guy too before marrying him?

butta: nothing is guaranteed .

i see

do you think she hates me considering that she did not fight me this time

butta: @op there is no ready made answer here for u concerning your question , even if there is do u think any one will come and tell you they are divorced here , what happened and will they want to get married again you must be joking . Sh...I...I..t happens move on with your life and pray you meet someone better and suited for you .. Nothing is guaranteed in life .

so you mean to tell me i can not even try avoid it sir?