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i have noticed that ladies turn to love us more when we open up about our real selves. they feel that they belong in our hearts. i would say take her to your place. let her see how you live and brother if she is a real woman, she will love you for who you are. taking her to a friend's place might make her think that you are not serous because you do not want to be honest

yes it would be very rude and bad. remember we must respect woman. how would you feel if someone did it to your own sister

belovedaja: Because of the responsibility that goes with it

which responsibility?

okay so maybe he is telling the truth that he did not sleep with her but what if you are just the girl he is using for sex and she is the girl he is sparing for marriage. open your eyes n do not make a mistake. sometimes being desparate or loving someone blindly might be harmful

guys especially ladies plz tell me why some of you are always scared of dating new ppl. i have heard one lady tell me that she is fat and she wanted to loose weight first. i met this ladies 3 years ago and still has not lost the weight but she is so scared of dating. claming that she wants to slim first and the lady am talking about is sooo beautiful and has the abiliy to look like a queen if she puts an effort? don't you people think its hight time you stop that your nonsense and start living as life is short?

drnairalov: huh!!! what rubbish!! even if na village girl what difference does it make..so only City girls re pretty #SMH..i never wanted to say dis here...but ma gurl was the former Miss OYO

whether she be ms oyo or ms oya. ugly is ugly my friend and your girl is ugly

in our society its very common to judge a book by its cover, that is why you should package your self well but make suire you are real at the same time. also do not change those things which made the other person like you once you are in a relationship. make the packaging your true story

yes i also think you should see a pyschologist ( thats a shrink)

such girls are gold diggers and one should be careful of them. i also do not have any respect for them

its normal for an ex to regret breaking up with the other but hey you made your bed,lay on it. you have no one to blame but yourself. do not break your husband's heart by being sellfish. just forget the ex and take your evil lust to the grave

pleep: ^ You should abandon the notion that the ladies are always looking for sturdy long-term relationships... more often than not, fun and excitement are higher priorities. They also want someone they are sexually lusting after too....

Atleast when they are young and attractive

If you are thinking about marriage well... the ladies will settle down when their biological clock starts ticking... and their looks start fading

Wow thank you brother. i hear you o

it turns me off when a girl is really trying hard

why did you break up? its funny how we always find out way later that we let the real one go and want her after putting her through pain. bet you will want this current one as well after you break up

poster wow. this is what i have been trying to tell these woman. most of them subject themselves to unending diets and toture just becoz they think they are too fat or bla bla bla. ladies you are yet to understand that you as an individual are unique and beautiful in your own rights and the right man will love you for you and not for something you will never be

dude i am againts your number 8. i would want my sister to end up with a guy who also measures success according to dollars because life has ups and downs and i blv when the downs befall your union it would be better to cry inside a lexus than in a bycicle

pleep: ^ Ladies are kinda like us, in that they get turned off by people who are too "easy"

They want a challenge.... the dude who is obsessing over her is too available and quite frankly a dime a dozen.

but shouldn't that be a plus for her since he clearly shows that he is for keeps? so does this mean since they like chasing, their marriage will be sour as there is nomore chasing in marriage

we are not doctors. did you go see a doctor? anyway what will you do if you are ?

the one i do not like

pleep: Why do you care...

are they chasing you

Well i have noticed that its a trend with most woman. Most of the time if a guy truely loves her she just treats him bad but if another who clearly does not care about her comes, she will run after him and even have sleepless nights because of him

to be honest my ex never did anything for me. The only thing that kept me going was that i loved her from the bottom of my heart. Even though i knew she was playing me. just to see her and get a hug from her was the highlight of my day. Spending time with her was all i wanted but clearly she had a different idea. She used me financialy ( even though no one forced me) when you truely love someone you are even willing to jump from the roof for them but when its all over you finally see that they were not worth it. its takes sometime to heal though as even the worst lovers are hard to get over

i have learnt that soemtimes the truth is not always the best policy. you know the song that gays '' lie to me''. its better for someone to lie to me and make me think am the only one than for her to confess that she has been playing me

sexkillz: [color=#000030]The guys are more guilty. [/color]

what do you mean more guilty? plz explain bra

Ladies no offence. I have noticed that most of you stick with rotten men. even if you can see he is bad and the guys normally make the situation seem as if you the one who lost out but we all know that good woman are hard to find and a man is sometimes a stumbling block

Hello my people i just have one question. How come some ladies keep running after men who clearly do not seem to care about them. Is it because its hard for woman to see when they are being played or they are scared of being alone

50calibre: This is one of the worst threads I've seen, it's jam packed, no paragraphs or spacing.

Next time arrange your post in bullet points or paragraph, it makes it easier to read. I feel like giving you 24 lashes of the cane.

shame on u

OP your girl is not hot. she just looks like an ordinary village girl not even a city girl. she is realy not hot. I think the purpose of your threat is to trick ppl into posting their pics. its realy not about the girl but about your curiosity

lol this picture kills me o

its natural for him not to want Bleep you because you are pregnant. don't you know that sex is for relationships and not for marriage. you are yet to feel Hot for the rest of your life o as it will only get worse from now. Big Vjj

ladies how do you feel about this? all the time its all about what we prefer in you but do you ever wonder how do you like yourself? because self love counts more

the best revenge in the world is success. build your life, get him out of it in the process and you will see how he will wana be close again. When you reject himhe will be hurt,now that will be the best revenge or simple. live it all to the almighty because his word says do not repay evil with evil but allow his wrath to take place as he is the begining and the ending