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[quote author=SarutobiEky post=96151202][/quote]hmmmmm..

SarutobiEky:
Don't you think the bolded best describe your gender??

Nop,,it describes ur gender rather.

It is well,,I feel for him...but such is life..men tend to dislike ladies that loves them and love ladies that dislikes them..


May God console him anyway..

Flier:
i believe she was killed by a woman,they used acid,the police should be able to find the killer

yes..the police should act fast and look for her killers.

Choi,,see how they wasted a beauty....may her soul rest in peace.

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congratulations

Meliann:
You're an idiot. I'm female. Na the insult you chop make you back-track. Otherwise you're just plain evil. Psycho.

Its is lie..you are a male claiming to be a female..common get lost forever you thief.. Anuofia.

Well it might be true cos i have 24hrs power supply at home with the aid of my generator.

luminouz:
Go into the kitchen and prepare my dinner

You've got no talk so keep mute.

luminouz:
Lmaoooo....
If I squeeze u no ehn!!

Me will less you..gan

luminouz:
Aunty sharrap, your advice get W-leg.

I'm sure you behave just like the girl. Girls like you called you out on your BS but you no wan hear.


Rockyfancino, I will personally cûrse you if you take back that girl. Such girls NEVER change. Take it from me

Hey listen up,,you have no right to ask me to keep shut..I believe everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion..If my own advise pain u, just waka pass....mtcheeeew red pill ni,,red pill ko..

Meliann:
Which stupid advise? Didn't you read his post where he said he had tried talking to her several times yet she'd just be mute or you're just dumb? Maybe you share the same Personality traits, it's why you're asking him to try sort things out with her.

It's you that is dumb...And didn't you read the place I also advised him to move on if she doesn't change..Be here forming red pill gang..but in reality you crawl on a girls foot just to get her attention... Abeg shift...

Rockyfancino:
Crazy right, but she acts like she's madly in love sometimes. I mean she was even talking about family recently, I was shocked.

LoooooLz...Anyway to get her behave the way you want,,,give her a little space....and watch her reaction...if she try to come back to you,,,accept her back and give her ur conditions.

Rockyfancino:
She tends to act off even offline too. It doesn't make sense to me anymore, I'm tired.
The point is she knows most of what she's doing is bad but will never take to correction for God know ls why. She once told me that I'm trying to punish her because she's not giving me peace of mind.

Then it's obvious she doesn't love you,,she's just there for reasons best known to her...Move on then.

Rockyfancino:
You guys need to get me. She was not like that from the onset. She was a loving person and stuff. But I couldn't give her back the love she was giving me at that time and I many times do not show her attention. Everything got scattered and I had to try to make up for everything while freeing myself to love. That was when everything started and I felt maybe I could revert it but it's impossible. I vetted her very well to check if she had someone else but I don't think so.

The truth of the matter is that the way women fall in love,,that's how they fall out of love too..
It's obvious that she loved you,,but the love she had for you died up completely because you took her love for granted...and when you realised yourself and tried to make things work again,,,it was already too late.

Meliann:
You are wicked o. The girl was obviously toxic, you're still advising him to have a conversation with her.. about what? Instead of you to advise him to move on.

You are the one that is actually wicked here,,,My advise to him wasn't wrong atal...I still maintain that instead of drawing conclusions just like that,,he should have a face to face discussion with her on what is making her act up all the time,,,she might open up to him..because trying to make her happy on the phone is completely out of it...Then if she refuse to open up and keep acting funny,,he can then move on.

please learn to put people's feelings at heart,,because you never can tell what they are passing through at the moment.

Rockyfancino:
Read my last posts in the thread. Tho, everything happened due to lack of experience from my part and I was really depressed then. But it is no justification for her behaviours, because a person who really loves you should be happy that you're back on your feet and happy with my display of affection.

Yeah a person who actually loves you will be happy towards ur success...Anyway she might be frustrated or emotionally down,,,that's why she is putting up such attitudes...Try and have a face to face conversion with her,,ask her if there is anything that's eating her up...hear her response,,if she's not willing to share her problems,,,,You can let her be.

Rockyfancino:
I'm projecting the initial her I knew. I wondered if it was because of some complicated issues in the past... There's no excuse for anything jare.

Complicated issues in the past like?

congratulations

Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.

I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.

Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.

It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.

I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.

So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.

Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.

I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.

I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.

I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.

Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.

I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.

As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.

Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.

So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.

You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.

She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.

Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.

Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.

Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.

If she's a very good person,,why then did u put up all this complain about her?

congratulations

Snitch24:
I'm sure u don't want to get married to a stranger Anyways I checked ur profile U look good Are u single ?

Thanks,,

ebenezer202l:
I won't be able to reply your pm.
The mail in this account is not working.
Are you using that lilian_best26 Yahoo mail?

nop my email is....Odirichi2018@yahoo.com

ebenezer202l:
I won't be able to reply your pm. The mail in this account is not working. Are you using that lilian_best26 Yahoo mail?

Bop my email is....Odirichi2018@yahoo.com

ebenezer202l:
I want to hook you up with my cute brother

ok oo.

ebenezer202l:
I'll love to comment with you via mails.
But the mail attached to this account is inactive.
hope you don't mind dropping your mail address
Thanks a lot

Hmmm....but u are a female na,,,
Am not a lesbian ooo...in case u have such in mind.

ebenezer202l:
I'll love to comment with you via mails.
But the mail attached to this account is inactive.
hope you don't mind dropping your mail address
Thanks a lot

Am gonna pm you then.

Snitch24:
Bro forget about religion except you're a true man of God na the only thing wey fit make u no taste the food on top fire
I hope u understand

pls am a lady,,,not a guy.

Chijeep:
Congratulations....

I pray for all those doing legitimate job trying to become a better person in life that may God in his infinite mercy see us through. AMEN

Amen!

Weneda:
Keep quiet �

Ok sir!

ebenezer202l:
hi is your mailbox active let's communicate

Yes my mail box is very much active.