marttol:
lol ,is that what you are using to console yourself ?...bro those wey go simp pass you plenty for outside,...abeg talk something else,no dey carry girl matter for head...

Not using that to console myself... I don't really care anymore actually. All I know is I cannot continue to have my peace of mind being messed by someone who can't even reason correctly.

freesoul12:

Man, u just explained d exact thing that happened to me years back. Infact na like say someone just copied my story here. See im going to advise u and i use God beg u take this advise ..im hundred percent sure it will work for u. The bitter truth is ure too much in love with dis girl and that's a turn off. The bitter truth is d girl is not peaceful she may not be a type that shout but we have some gentle unpeaceful girls. She is scanning for alternatives, im damn sure she is just from an average background (not rich background) .This is what i did that solved my problem d grl then.. I told her myself with d way things is going i see no future in d relationship cos it seems d feelings is not mutual and i couldn't get any peace from d relationship. I told her she need her peace and i need mine.that we should just give each other a break. She agreed. Note not dat it was easy for me but i realized there is no point in loving someone when u don't get it back. I knew I deserve peace more than love. So i moved on.. She called like 12times after 6 days.. I didn't pick..i was so gentle and cool like u then so she thought i wd come back. Not until she started trolling me on watsap nd facebook.After 3 months cos i was busy with learning new things that eventually changed my life. I could see peace is more valuable than love. She texted and chat to check on me. But guy don move patapata.. she went ahead to download my pic and upload.. still money and peace keeps me going.. until i later realized she is not as beautiful as i thought.. love dey blind person eye ND i later realized i was too weak for her shortcomings. Plz just zero ur mind about her no matter how painful it is..I swear u wont regret it.. forget about she doesn't cheat, forget about she is a good girl. The only thing u should ask yourself, do u get peace being in a relationship with her,do u feel loved? Move on and see how nature handles d rest.She will value u when u leave than stay . Cheers

@bolded,

This is valuable knowledge, wisdom and understanding.

Experience taught you this, you have now attained a higher consciousness.

Quite deep!

galantjoe:
My current relationship died the day, she said she will be charging me money for having sexxxx with her. I gave her a space for a week. She called and asked if there was a problem, I said NO. she came over to my home for all night free pussssy. I am into the relationship because of free sexxxxx, the day she go demand money I will vamouse

Are you saying you never gave your gf money? Even if you didn't, I'm sure you sometimes buy her little gifts or provisions, right?

Rockyfancino:

Not using that to console myself... I don't really care anymore actually. All I know is I cannot continue to have my peace of mind being messed by someone who can't even reason correctly.

if you can stand on what you are saying here in reality it will do you a lot of good.

OMOJOHN001:


I didn't need help, that's my own way of life,
I have no relationship with a man, by touching him,sharing same bed, hugging and lots, for what reason bikonu.

Even my dickkkx No man is allowed to see it, If got ne annoyed, Like what for sef. TUEEEEH

Deal with your internal homophobia. Be deceiving yourself.

Rockyfancino:

Not using that to console myself... I don't really care anymore actually. All I know is I cannot continue to have my peace of mind being messed by someone who can't even reason correctly.

Peace of mind is very important.

Gentleman001:

Sorry, but did you grow up there?.. because I saw you answering lot of questions a average Nigeria lady with throw tantrum for

That's the difference - 'The Orientation'.

Good you spot the difference.

cc Momoreoluwa90

YESpParticipant:
So you suddenly discovered the poor dude was a 5 seconds man after he turned down your requests abi?... Babe fear God!
Anyway, go get a legit job and stop been a liability and an entitled girlfriend. #Peace!

Toor. I say no to stingy and 5s men. #mychoice

Harry81:
I just quit mine today...when I discovered she is already dating someone else...life goes on.

how did u find out

Ginaz:


Lol sis.

Am not joking ooo. Nonsense stingy guy

When she started answering other guys calls right in my presence and be forming it's her life!

Rockyfancino:

Read my last posts in the thread. Tho, everything happened due to lack of experience from my part and I was really depressed then. But it is no justification for her behaviours, because a person who really loves you should be happy that you're back on your feet and happy with my display of affection.

Yeah a person who actually loves you will be happy towards ur success...Anyway she might be frustrated or emotionally down,,,that's why she is putting up such attitudes...Try and have a face to face conversion with her,,ask her if there is anything that's eating her up...hear her response,,if she's not willing to share her problems,,,,You can let her be.

Iamthoney:
I knew twas over when she wan come dey form church girl and secondary virgin, she dey tell me say baby sex before marriage na sin so let’s abstain from it henceforth and wait till we get married. Omo me I Jakpa and leave her inside the relationship cos I cannot come die of conji when she’s prolly getting boned by another guy

You can't be sure she's getting boned by another guy though.

But why did you leave? You don't want a virgin wife again?

doggedfighter:


No, you are in my thoughts just that I am not born again. And I am not even ready or will ever be ready

you need Jesus bro

Ezi1993:

Yeah a person who actually loves you will be happy towards ur success...Anyway she might be frustrated or emotionally down,,,that's why she is putting up such attitudes...Try and have a face to face conversion with her,,ask her if there is anything that's eating her up...hear her response,,if she's not willing to share her problems,,,,You can let her be.

You are wicked o. The girl was obviously toxic, you're still advising him to have a conversation with her.. about what? Instead of you to advise him to move on.

Samsimple:
She deleted my luno app to free space for candy crush

Watery sperm is coming out of my nose right now cos of this your comment

Rockyfancino:

This one is not really nympho. This girl feared me before but that moment when I said okay, lemme love too, everything just scatter. I didn't even know how I lost my self-respect and self-esteem. Damn... I get infuriated at myself sometimes.

Don't beat yourself up especially on stuff you cannot change. Take it as a learning curve and you will appreciate yourself more coz you now have experience.

omooba969:


If she loves you, count yourself lucky.

it's actually the other way round

Stop been a SIMP

omooba969:


@bolded,

This is valuable knowledge, wisdom and understanding.

Experience taught you this, you have now attained a higher consciousness.

Quite deep!

Sure boss.. most times we need to experience somethings for us to understand things about life. Now we dey laff at those stuffs.

Lucyspa:


Toor. I say no to stingy and 5s men. #mychoice

so Says a lability

ume1000:
it's actually the other way round

Stop been a SIMP

Wot u tryna imply?

ume1000:
so Says a lability

Eziokwu. #mychoice

Meliann:


You are wicked o. The girl was obviously toxic, you're still advising him to have a conversation with her.. about what? Instead of you to advise him to move on.

The thing sef tire me.

In other words, wahala for boyfriend wey no fit sort his girlfriend for he shall be tagged a stingy/5s man. Oshay!

Lucyspa:


Toor. I say no to stingy and 5s men. #mychoice

Godada:




While I understand that English is neither your mother tongue nor mine, but it's of utmost importance you need to go back to school and ask your English teacher for a quick tutorial because you have spent your time indulging in truancy.

Even this one you just wrote now get k-leg..but the first write up is not possible to understand

omooba969:


Wot u tryna imply?

your comment promote pussy worshiping

Women should count themselves lucky of a man's attention not the other way round

Other than procreation they add no value to a man

I can proudly say it that she'll hardly ever find someone like me.


I believe you are trying to console yourself thus this statement.
Bro no think am.............Nice ( Mumu) guys plenty out there. She'll quickly pitch her tent on one of them before sun dries the washed bedsheet both of you used last before the breakup.

Lucyspa:



Eziokwu. #mychoice

So u be 30hrs woman

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright...we real niggarr ain't got no story concerning this topic because we real niggarrs don't do relationships.
We just see women as swimming pool..our own na to swim shaperly and move on

We don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
We don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before we started swimming
We don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after we are done swimming our own
And we don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with us as we are swimming
We just swim our own sharpely and move on.
Real niggarrrz bang pussy and move on.

your still a virgin bro..its so obvious

Rockyfancino:

This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.

Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.

I know you won't hear what I have to tell you but I'll say it anyway. I hope it helps you somewhat.

When you mention "you tell her about her behaviour", I get the feeling that your "telling" is becoming a "nagging" and people don't like to be nagged. I do nag when things don't go my way but I hate being nagged at. Ironic, I know, but I'll use myself to explain to you why your method of trying to "correct" her won't ever work. I'm very stubborn. No long talk about that. Which means I do stuff when I want to do them, not when you want me to do them. Nagging me to do them brings up in me this angry, defensive spirit that just wishes I could block the person from ever talking to me again, parents and teachers included.

I'm more of a person who will only change stuff about me when someone makes a comment in passing about it but from a deep place rather than their constant talk about it. So if you're always talking about how I'm rude or arrogant, I won't ever listen to you unless you say it from a non-judgmental place.

I sense your girlfriend is similar too. So stop trying to tell her her behaviour is this or that in that "scolding" tone. To her, it would seem as if she's being scolded again as a child, this time not by her parents, but by someone who's just a few years older. No one wants that. However, you can get your points across to her by randomly throwing it out there when you guys are discussing other unrelated matters.

For example, if a friend of hers did something that annoyed her and she told you about it. While advising her on how to handle the matter, you can chip in innocently that her behaviour could have been responsible for the matter that annoyed her. That way, she doesn't see it as a scolding and thus picks up on it.

So I implore you, if you guys ever get back together, desist from always talking about her behaviour like you're her parent. Even teachers who had stubborn children as students will tell you flogging them into behaving appropriately almost never works. However when you put special attention on them and encourage them, they learn to behave better.

Be kinder. Be less about her behaviour and more about her qualities.

YESpParticipant:
In other words, wahala for boyfriend wey no fit sort his girlfriend for he shall be tagged a stingy/5s man. Oshay!

Yes, he was stingy very stingy and to be honest, very horrible in bed. I am making this up to spite him.