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oloriT:
dunno why they leave hairdressing when they become born again.

seen a case like this.

being born again doesn't mean you shouldn't or can't do a job as long as the job is legal.

sorry to say but I feel your mum is being too religious coupled with what she is being taught in the church she attends. it's like acting like those Pharisees in the Bible

Yes all her sisters talked to her about her decision then but she proceeded to sell off all her equipments and quitted completely, when the going was good, we were the first person to owned a tv set in our neighborhood when it was still very expensive, that shows how ok we were before she made that terrible mistake.

Evince:
U just lied. The summary of her statement is the fuckery of her new faith which has brainwashed her mum into believing that synthetics are sinful to wear on d hair. Those stupid pastors failed to let her realize that clothe is also an attachment.

What she is crying of has nothing to do with whether mother is valuable or not. I kid u not if ur mother is a nuisance, u will wish u never met her.

Mother or no mother, we are all human and hv emotions. besides she didn't curse her mum she is concerned with her recent attitude that's why she is shouting.

My dear open Bible and teach ur mother what those pastors lied to her about.
Engage her in conversation logically.
It will take time to speak sense back into her but with patience and good humor u will win her back from church

Its so ridiculous how the women here think I hate my mom, I guess they dont know what hatred is all about, someone who hates u would not want a solution to ur problem, my mom allowed herself to be brainwashed and it has badly affect the family, how im I going to take care of her when she's jeopardizing my odds of becoming successful? No one! I repeat, No one can ever understand what im passing through unless he or she has been there.

MrFly:
Whats d name of d church she attends?

She became born again at holy savior gospel church but right now she's a member of CAC

victorian:
Abi?

I pity the mother for giving birth to such ungrateful son.
Better to have female children than such a son!
He's talking about not been able to bag a degree in the university. When there are so many graduates out there without jobs, trekking with torn shirts and battered shoes.
He should go and see his mates who didn't go to university, how well off they are and enjoying life. Cos why? They think out the box and outside the norms of the society.

Any man who dispise his mother will suffer in life. It's not curse but what God has ordained already from above.

That's why he's suffering. So much hate in his heart towards his mum.

Na their he go dey ,no going forward no going backward. He should keep hating her. He is doing himself.

I thought u said you're done commenting on my post? who's harbouring hatred among us now?? You carry my problem for head like agege gala, what a useless hoe! Go hug transformer or better still drink methylated spirit and die like a fowl if u re so pained about what I wrote up there. Smello

nosagold:
My brother, nobody in this world has 2 mothers. Please love your mother no matter what. Those who have lost their mothers will give anything to have them back.

I guess you'll give anything to have her back if she abandoned you in your childhood days, smh for African mentality, they always idolized their parents even when they lack parental care, its not my choice to come through her and as such she owed me a living, those spilling trashes here have forgotten that you can only take care of your parents if they took care of you. She unwittingly cut her source of income thereby denied those innocent kids the good lives they deserved. Im just over 20 and I have kids sisters and brother, now their responsibility has indirectly fallen on me because sometimes when dad isn't around I took it upon myself to feed them with my hard earned money including her, it has become obvious im on my own on issues regarding my education and I've accepted my fate but what I won't accept is feeding her with money im supposed to support myself and my education with.

victorian:
Well no need stopping low to your level of trading insults. That's all you are good for.

Am done with this topic.
Bye.

Devil may care about ur ego but I DON'T!

victorian:
Don't mind him. They want to kill the poor woman will work.

Cause it's because of them and their dad, she came to this life.
How can someone's grown up child not have human sympathy for his own mother.
Na wa o.
If my mum were alive, she wont lift a finger to work. I will make sure I care for her until her dying days.

And the father went ahead and married a second wife.
Can u imagine?

What a fool you're, " If ur mom is alive I believe you will take care of her only after you've been taken care of, right? I don't hate her but I think u misread or u lack understanding to comprehend the story. She stopped working when she's young and her kids need to be taken care of, I was unable to attend university because all the burden rested on my dad's shoulder. Now, tell me how can I help her when she didn't help herself in her prime by supporting her husband to invest in her kids education?

victorian:
Don't mind him. They want to kill the poor woman will work.

Cause it's because of them and their dad, she came to this life.
How can someone's grown up child not have human sympathy for his own mother.
Na wa o.
If my mum were alive, she wont lift a finger to work. I will make sure I care for her until her dying days.

And the father went ahead and married a second wife.
Can u imagine?

What a fool you're, " If ur mom is alive I believe you will take care of her only after you've been taken care of, right? I don't hate her but I think u misread or u lack understanding to comprehend the story. She stopped working when she's young and her kids need to be taken care of, I was unable to attend university because all the burden rested on my dad's shoulder. Now, tell me how can I help her when she didn't help herself in her prime by supporting her husband to invest in her kids education?

victorian:
Has it ever occurred to you and everyone at home, that she's tired of working?
She simply need a break and she has finally hang her boots on working all day for the upkeep of the family.
She simply want to rest at her old age. So let her be.
Go and hustle. You are still. Young and vibrant.
And lastly don't compare your family with others, or else u will always find faults in your mum.
Everyone in the home, should Appreciate her, love her, respect her and see how she will change from been troublesome to calm and soft mother.
She is simply tired!

She's 51 now and she stopped the work over 15 years ago and she's tired ever since? We tried setting up other cake business but she always squandered the money, give her 100k today and she won't be able to account for it the following week. We've left her to become what she wants to be.

Earthbound:
What is the problem exactly? That she can't fend for herself or what?

Yes! Her inability to contribute to the well being of the family is the result of her decision to stop working, She's been jobless for two decades under the pretence of becoming born again, and she's not really serving the God she left everything for cos her intolerance for others is far from anything Christlike.

Earthbound:
The disdain you feel towards your mother is unnatural. The church your mom became born again into is the root of all your problems

Its not really like I feel disdain towards her but she the architect of her problem and the PROBLEM is affecting the whole family but she failed to realize she herself is the PROBLEM!

Well as an African I believe it's disrespectful and rude to diss or called out my mom for her unhealthy attitudes but I think its high time I make it public so people who has witnessed or experience such can give to me a valuable advice.

My mom was once a successful hair dresser and she was the breadwinner of our family until she became born again, she abruptly stopped plating hair for her customers based on what she tagged "unbiblical" She basically affirmed that she'll never touch attachments and synthetic hair again in her life and ever since then things hasn't been going smoothly again.

My Dad now has got a Rick Ross fatlike woman as a second wife and I think the whole situations has taken its toll on my mom's mental health, she's literally cut herself off from the outside world and everything always mean something extra terrestrial to her.

My Mom would see a gecko on the wall and believe it was sent from hell to drag her to the underground, We always packed from one apartment to the other thanks to her intolerance toward other people. Omg! She'll always find faults with her co tenants, everybody is either a witch or a spy from the underworld.

There's one thing she did that convinced me she's struggling from mental instability, we packed out from one house to a flat like apartment, do u believe my mom went back there and packed the huge rocks we used to make fire? She tagged them as her property which can never be left behind, she'll play with u today only to become unresponsive when u greet her tomorrow, she stopped her work almost 20 years ago and ever since then has become a liability on my dad and a burden on us the children, it disgusts me to feed her with my hard earned money when she's hale and healthy, she's the reason my dad was unable to send me to the university because the burden is too much on him.

What I find ridiculous about her is her mindset, her mind was wired to believe we owed her a living when in reality it's the opposite, when my dad is unable to send money she'll become so tensed and angry, its so annoying how she find it difficult to realize she is the PROBLEM of the family.

Pls I need good advice on what kind of help we the children can seek on her behalf cos its obvious she needs help. Thanks all.

One Is too many and a thousand is not enough :- Brendan Behan

My name is Oloye Opeyemi Olanrewaju and I was born on the 1st of December in the year 1992.

THE INNOCENT ME

Precisely sometimes in August 2013, I was working with a local telecom retailer, we have 5 marketers including myself and our job is to drive round the town selling Sim cards for people, so in order to impress the boss and to make it home with large incentives, we always compete with ourselves and make sure we made more sales than each other. But there's this one guy called Kazeem, he always carried the day with the largest sales and sometimes he'd got more incentives that the rest of us combined, to the point that we started getting jealous of his character, though K was a very jovial person but what I found ridiculous about him is his AGILITY! Kazeem would keep hawking even when the sun is at its brightest mode and he'd never look for a place to shelter when its raining cat and dog, to me he was a very strong person but my perception about him changed when Tunji (the guy who introduced me to the work) started exhibiting the same behavior. So one day I took it upon myself to unraveled the source of their motivation and morale and what I discovered
changed my life till today!


MY LIFE AS AN ADDICT!

One hot afternoon, Kazeem entered a chemist shop and I swiftly followed, he looked back at me and frowned "Why u dey follow me up and down?" He querried, I smiled at him and told him its nothing and just immediately, he was handed a green tablet by the chemist and he paid #150 they exchaged handshakes and he stormed out without looking back at me, I followed him and when we got to the vehincle he went to the rearside where Tunji was sitting with the Mic, and peeped and I saw him brought out the tablet, divided it into two and handed one side to Tunji while he opened two out of his own and chew it without water, after that he went away and I moved closer to Tunji and asked him what was that, the next thing he said to me contributed to my downfall, " You will die if u try this thing" Tunji said in yoruba language, and me being a curious guy I told him nothing would happened to me, he gave me one of it and I swallowed it without water!

ONE IS TOO MANY AND A THOUSAND IS NOT ENOUGH

I felt like I was in heaven 30mins later, I was so happy and I took no offence to anything anybody did to me, brethren to cut the story short that was how I started my journey with TRAMADOL HYDROCHLORIDE! I've using it consistently everyday for the past 5 years, I've tried to stop hundreds of time but I always relapse immediately I fell into withdrawal, Im currently on 400mg per day. It has basically ruined my life because I cn't do anything without it, I can't travel without having it placed in my bag.


A CRY FOR HELP!

I live in Owo, Ondo state and im currently jobless, I need people who can help me raise #15000 to pay rehab fees in Akure where I will spend two weeks with two meals per day, I promise I will work for whoever can help me after my treatment regardless of the location.

Acct Name: Oloye Opeyemi
Acct No: 5184421017
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God Bless Every Reader.

Actuarydeji:
You mean Biologically she's very bad?

Yes a wide and smelly pussy is Biologically a No No!

CAPSLOCKED:

YOU'RE NOT A VERY WISE PERSON.

SHE'S GOT A BAD PAST AND MULTIPLE BODY COUNTS BECAUSE YOU ASKED AND SHE TOLD YOU?

LOOK FOR MONEY AND HELP HER FIX THE ISSUE, YOUR EXCUSE DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.

YOU'LL PROBABLY END UP WITH SOMEONE WHO WAS A FORMER LOVE PEDDLER, BUT WOULD LIE TO YOU SHE NEVER HAD SEX BUT BROKE HER HYMEN FROM RIDING A BICYCLE.... AND YOU'LL BELIEVE,

BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT A VERY WISE PERSON.

You just exhibited your unmitigated stupidity, do u really know what the word PROBABLY means? Ok fine, you didn't! How do u explain what happened that makes a girl ends up with a wide pussy if not by her previous sexual exploitation?? Get a sense bro, it's really cheap nowadays, if I end up with a love peddler then all i need from her is...

1. Good character

2. Tight and Clean pussy

3. True repentance



That's all and we are good to go.

CAPSLOCKED:

HOW DO YOU KNOW HOW WEEK OLD CORPSES SMELL, IF YOU'VE NOT BEEN MAKING LOVE TO DEAD BODIES AT THE CEMETERY ALL YOUR LIFE?

IF YOU DON'T HAVE BIG MONEY FOR THE GYNAECOLOGIST, A GOOD PHARMACY THAT KNOWS BUSINESS WON'T COST MORE THAN 10 TO 15K.

IF YOU ALSO CAN'T AFFORD THAT, I'M SORRY FOR YOU.

You really shouldn't be sorry for me if I can't afford 15k for her treatment, if her problem is some kind of infection then she should be solely responsible for the consequences of her previous sexcapades, I should've just take a long walk but I stay because of the love I have for her, I'm the victim here so why should I bear the whole cost? She needs to do her part stepping up her level of hygiene, I clearly stated that I'm only worried because the whole thing seems not to bother her at all.

thanki410:
Is she fat? I NOTICED one fat chick that had same issue .... but my bro keeps telling me his bae has none of these bad thing

No she isn't, she's a slim girl

Espada10:
Next time, stick your fingers into her smelly pussy ..bring it out and let her smell it...let her smell her bad pussy so she can know how bad it is.

..some people are just non chanlant( it doesn't mean they are bad people )

Look, if the girl is really a good girl with good behaviour and she truly loves you ( not that you love her)..if she truly loves and care about you..then work it out with her ..help her but if she is the Slayqueen / oriaku type ..Don't even bother...Fleeeeeeeee

She know very well her pussy stinks but she don't give a cent about it and that's exactly what I find disgusting about her, I believe she got the infection during her sexcapades but I just happened to be a victim of her previous misdeeds and I don't hate her for that because she's proved to be a girl of good character. But what I detest about her is why she's not bothered about her problem, I've caught her many times sniffing her fingers after dipping it into her pussy and im sure she know how bad the smell is. I've never talked to her about it but I think I'll address the issue tomorrow when she's around.

TonieLee:
Let her insert peeled garlic in her vagina very night for 14 days.

Peeled Garlic? How safe is it? I hope it wont cause more harm than good, and I think garlic itself is responsible for strong odour in the body.

BrideOfDracula:
Sorry, I had to check it for you because I couldn't remember the name. It's called Flagyl.

Thanks a lot, I think I'll try that

Cutehector:
If you manage that kind of thing with a girl, she will feel comfortable about it. You need to really express the level of disgust you have on that, she will work on it, but if you keep letting love blind you, sorry.

How do I express disgust without hurting her feelings? I really love her but I can't cope with her condition so I ve taken it upon myself to find a solution to her problem. But, what its really disgusting to me is her inability to see her problem as a problem and do something about it, maybe she think its normal or she's been like that for a long time to the point of feeling comfortable with it.

ubunja:
avoid luxury soaps. they kill pvssy bacteria thats needed to maintain balance and health.stick to simple ones.in SA the best is sunlight bar soap. pussy is best washed with warm water minus soap, coz its a self-cleaning wonder when its healthy

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BrideOfDracula:
Tell her to take a proper bath. WTF? Or she could have an untreated STI or other normal infections that she left unchecked. Not all have symptoms. Her pussy could be festering & rotting away as we speak. There're antibiotics that she could use in case of an infection. There's one antibiotic that is inserted inside the vagina, it's considered a "cure all" because it is so effective, it even clears the colour of the urine & balances the natural pH in her body. The type of underwear she wears is also a factor. She should wear 100% cotton underwear, so that that area can "breathe". All these silk underwear some ladies think are sexy, are actually bad & cause infections. Cotton is best, especially the underwear specially designed for a purpose of eliminating odour, with air pockets for the much needed ventilation. She should also use panty liners & tell her to wipe or rinse herself after peeing. This is actually disgusting, you're like the komodo dragon, you eat rotting flesh

Pls what's the name of the antibiotics? Kindly specify.

naija1stpikin:
you can tell her in a polite way. Tell her you think she's been infected as you notice how her womanlines has recently started bringing out some unpleasant scent but let her not be worried is it's a simple problem that can be easily treated. Offer to take her to see a gynaecologist

Thanks for the Advice, but I've highlighted my financial strength in the post, I don't think I can afford taking her to a gynecologist now, besides there are some red lights im considering about her. Character wise, she represents everything a man wants in a woman but biologically she is the last thing I could pray to get, probably because she's got a bad past and multiple body counts.

pyyxxaro:
Take that kpekus to synagogue for deliverance .....

There r demons staying inside that kpekus and that kpekus must be delivered





English scholars r coming for u

I've corrected my mistakes, though I made them cos I was in a rush to pour it all out so I c an probably get some kind of good advice...


Anyway, thanks for ur comment even though its of no use to me cos it didn't address the issue on ground and as such it belongs to the trash bin.

Though this may sound a bit weird but it's really having a toll on our relationship, there's this girl I just met after my baby mama broke up with me and sent my child to live with her mom, couple of months after the break up I met this pretty girl, then I think I've finally found a replacement for her until I discovered there's one issue about her which we "or may I say I cos we've never really addressed it because its embarrassing" are facing and its really threatening the relationship. HER PUSSY STINKS! I mean its basically a soakaway down there, even when she just had her bath, it stench like a week old corpse, what baffles me the most is how she feels indifferent to her plight and the worse of the worst is she won't stop asking me for a headjob. I've researched a couple of treatments from the internet, ranging from buying some sort of creams to taking some pill but all seems too expensive for me cos I've nt got a stable income. Pls is there anyone who has any idea what cheap and affordable stuffs I can get for her? Because right now I've been contemplating break up but I love this girl cos she's of a good character though she's a bit wide down there for my liking.

elgramz:
After they have messed up his name in public and caused his suspension by the NJC. If I'm him, I will sue the FG for one billion naira for destroying my hard earned personality of integrity after many years of service at the bench.

If u are a good reader, u ll notice that the court didn't declare him innocent, rather dismissed the charges because the pre condition for instituting them was not met. Which means the trial can go on when the FG is able to get the prerequisites to charge a judicial officer.

A Woman that's Hórny Would be Sloppy Wet and her Vagina muscles Would start to relax. The vagina will become naturally “loose” when a woman is sexually aroused in Anticipation for Itercourse.

After sex it resumes its normal State.
Pat yourself at the back. You did a good job. Don't let your insecurities get the better of you.[/quote]If u follow the op carefully, he said "SHE WAS UNUSUALLY OPEN", I believe u know what he mean by UNUSUAL, c'mon he's been with her probably for years, are u saying she's never been in the mood during those period? He knew something is wrong immediately he inserted his dick into her and I strongly believe she's been with another man. Same thing has happened to me before, later found out she's getting drilled by our neighbor. Furthermore, op said she wasn't interested in the sex so does that ring a bell?? The fact that she defended being loose with menses story has established the truth that she's been with another guy.

sarrki:
''I am not into the unrealistic realm of magic realism where birds talk.'' -- Vikas Swarup

Encouraging Durotoye, Sowore and co. to continue dancing and you are watching their back is not what true friend or admirer does; it's deceitful. Deep in your heart, you know these people have zero chance. The right thing to do is tell them the truth, it is not about discouraging anyone but simply saying it as it is. Their energy and resources can be best utilised if directed to a more realistic goal, and you know it. Stop deceiving these people. This is national politics not some kind of organisations.

What u People failed to understand is that contesting elections is not always about winning, sometimes its about gaining popularity and adding some relevance to your status. For instance, if he contest against Buhari, he would have his name registered in INEC presidential aspirants book as one of Nigeria presidential contestant. He would be more relevant home and abroad and he would forever be referred to as former Nigeria presidential candidate even though he didn't get up to 1% of the votes. Lastly, he would gain more public trust as people and organisations would like to reckon with person of such calibre, so the advantages of contesting elections is more than winning the election itself.

wale2day:
The one Nigeria Yoruba have spoken out against the oduduwa republic Yorubas.

Let us pause for a second and critically analyse the action of Ambode apc.

U claim you want to preserve Yoruba language but yet yoruba hinter state like Oyo, Ogun, Ekiti, Ondo and Osun dont see need to pass such law.

Lagos, the commercial capital of Nigeria with about 70% of its population being nonyoruba is passing bill to impose Yoruba language on non yorubas.

Thus, where by the non yoruba fail to comply, they will be discriminated from going to University.

This begs the question of, does Ambode APC understand the meaning of constitutional human rights?

Aparthied has been born in Lagos

uh
70% of residents of Lagos are non Yorubas?
You must be high on Ghanaian weed!

kingxsamz:
[color=gray]stupid op...please if u know nothing about the quaran stop misleading people...your topic itself is misleading....if u have nothing resonable to post today pls u can take a nap... thank you...

Fyi I'm a christian. [/color]

The Op explained all these with reference to the Quran but you just countered it with senseless trashes, if u know he is misleading us pls kindly lead us right also with reference to the same Quran or else you've got to shut the Bleep up cos you sounds like a FOOL

sarrki:
Bro it good you go for test

For the guy the chance of contacting it is very very slim 5%

Once there is no cut , good to go

The ladies are vulnerable that's why I advised stay away from immortality

You mean Immorality