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Your children are your life’s work. Your job is your work life. Don’t sacrifice your life’s work for your work life.

At the end, your success is gauged by your life’s work. In fact, your work life may not notice when you die. Your life’s work will.

Never outtalk enemies. Out-listen them. If they talk, listen

Never outsmart your foes. Outthink them. Thinking outweighs smartness

Never outwork your enemies. Outperform them. Work is activity. Performance is result. Deliver results, not activity.

People dont change. The veil just gets lifted. You only know people when they stop benefiting from you.

As long as they gain from you, many people suppress their real nature. It is why your colleagues behave differently in the presence of your boss.

It is sometimes even more spiritually beneficial to fast from smartphones, Internet and TV, than it is to fast from food.


Many times, when satan wants to separate us from God, he finds someone to ‘bless’ us with a smartphone and recharge card.

Never promise what you can do. Make it a habit to promise a little less than you can deliver and deliver much more than you promise.


It will make your promises more valuable than money and give you more credibility than a bank. Promise LOW, win BIG

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Christ did not tell even His own brothers that He planned to visit Jerusalem (John 7:. Mystify haters by not talking about your plans on social media.

By revealing your plans, you alert your monitoring spirits (AKA haters) to spoil those plans.

* Your world is a projection of your word
* Your nation is a projection of your imagination
* Your community is a projection of your identity
* Your environment is a projection of your endowment

If you want to change the world, start with yourself.

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No matter how dark it gets in your life, I assure you that the sun will still shine again. You are only being tested so your strengths are revealed to you.


Even if you are FEARFUL, be assured that God is FAITHFUL. Get relief from your belief in God.


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Saul was so humble when he was broke, that he took instructions from Samuel. But when he saw wealth and power, he turned to a tyrant.


The man shaking for you now, may shake your confidence when he sees small change. Broke humility is fake humility.

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Education is a means to an end, not an end itself. By itself, it can't make you rich. It is what you do with it that makes you rich.

Acquire education for the purpose of applying it in real life and not just for the purpose of passing examinations.

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Read books, because the only asset you have that‘s not affected by inflation or devaluation is knowledge.


Provided you apply it, what you learn determines what you earn. What you know is responsible for how far you go. Books are pregnant with wealth.


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Be aware that the day your company no longer need you, they will fire you. They don’t like you. They like your work.


And the day they can get a machine to do your job, you are gone! Don't wait for it. Start growing your business and sack them first.


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The secret to wealth is living beneath your means while doing all you can to expand your means.

Change your language from 'I cant afford it', to, 'How can I afford it'. impossible is possible! "Everything is possible for one who believes"


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To be rich, don't think of what you need. Think of what people need and how you can help them get it.


People will pay you to solve their problems for them. “Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too“

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Refusing to read after you leave school has the effect of gradually putting your brain in standby mode.

Stimulate your brain by regular reading. It will in turn stimulate your finances by providing you marketable ideas that can make you wealthy.

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Mcuzy:
A man's mentality can change greatly once he(she) has money
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Say Power!

Yes, my grand mother. She was the one who helped shaped my believe, ideologies and 70% of all the virtues values I carry. Died nearly two years ago. But I am still missing her like it happened yesterday.

Are you a prophet of doom?

Salmom:
This pandemic is going to be catastrophic in Africa. The coming months will reveal the ugly grip this virus will hold on Africa. We are not prepared. In the end, the strongest will survive. But the aftermath will be more deadly from a crumbled economy to hunger sweeping across the country to uprisings occurring like never before. We are not ready

Why is nobody telling you the truth bro?

This whole thing na scam. The lady is scamming you. She first connived with the medical and native doctor to scam you off your money. That lady is no pregnant.

Her money isn't missing anything. She's aware of the lady you're dating and wants to make sure she torments you since you're leaving her for another lady. Fear not, cry no more. That so called native has no power. And that medical result is no real.


I would have advised you go for another medical test in a different hospital if not that you guys have already passed that stage. Chill, relax....this whole thing will be fine.


If you want to know if what I am saying is true, try make this payment, and you will see her device another stupiid avenue to reap money off you bro.

Be a man and face this head on. What happened has happened. Even if she's going to inform your mom, brace up and be a man. Your mum ain't going to kill you. Chill and relax, nothing will happen to you.

JDJ4:
A Very Big Mistake Of My Life

Hi nairalanders.

Please pardon me in case of any grammatical error. My story will be long, pls kindly bear with me and read to the finishing point. I'm ready to accept any insulting comments, it doesn't matter to me now.

I'm a 25 years old guy, not really financially buoyant but an average, money never dries in my pocket and back account as a hustler. Am currently still in part time program in university.

Now let me go straight to the point, here is my story. I started dating one beautiful girl back then in 2014, we were in love until something came up. There was a time I came home and she visited, that was the beginning of our separation, my mother warned me to stay away from her that she doesn't like her.

Honestly, I didn't know how to breakup with her without hurting her because she loved and cared for me so much. I love my mother so much and I listen to her as well. So, I started to avoid her, reducing my number of calls with her, sometimes when I visited home I won't tell her. All these to make her change her mind but all to no avail, I couldn't tell her what's up so that she won't hate my mother and make both of them enemies of each other.

She noticed my unprecedented and unusual behaviors, she asked me what has she done I only told her that I was very busy and concentrating on something. She later got fade up and started minding her own business because sometimes she would call I won't pick her calls, so she decided to let me be.

Fast forward to early this year, she went for a business trip and returned, so I decided to pay her a visit because even though we are no longer in love but we are still friends. I was hoping to visit her in her shop but she wasn't there, she told me to come to her apartment, I went there, we gist and had funs, she started making a move to me and we eventually had an unprotected sex.

I was thinking that she was a big girl and can take care of herself but after one month plus she called me and told me that she was pregnant, I was speechless and couldn't believe her, she threatened to report the case to my mother if I didn't show up and proffer solutions, my mind jumped. I hurried to her place and she showed me the pregnancy test result, we calculated the months and it was exactly the day I had sex with her, from that day till the month is exactly what was written on the paper.

To cut the story short, I got lost in thought until she waked me from my daydream, I told her straight that I wasn't ready for that, she should do something about it, so both of us agreed to terminate it, it was done successfully, I wasted much money on that moment but it didn't bother me.

So, after a while she called me and told me the sudden changes in her business that money disappeared from her hands always. She went home and complained to her dad, her dad suggested they should visit a native doctor to find out what was the problem. They visited the native doctor and he apparently exposed and told her what she did, that the pregnancy she terminated was the reason behind her misfortune. He listed all the things she will buy for cleansing and the total money involved. She called me and told me the development and demanded my own contribution (money), at that moment I didn't really have money to provide and she couldn't believe me.

Now am afraid if she will angrily expose me because she told her people that the person that got her the pregnancy is not around he traveled abroad. I haven't answered her since then because I have been busy thinking about my mistake, regretting the day I visited her, crying had I know. I returned but I didn't tell her so she won't visit me. Right now am having a double mind if I should adhere to what she told me by contributing money for the stuff, but the other hand, am asking for God's mercy upon my life, so if I should contribute money now it means I will be committing sin upon sin. I don't really know what to do now, I told her that I will visit her whenever I return to discuss with her but I haven't done that.

Presently I have a fiancee am dating now, my mother knows about her and she accepted her as well, also thinking about settling down with her when the time comes. I will hurt and loose her if what I did exposed.

Pls advice me my good people before I commit suicide and end everything, you can insult me if you like, it doesn't matter to me now, am very desperate human being now. The native doctor even told her to tell whoever that got her the pregnancy to also do his own cleansing or else he will encounter problems in life.

Should I also listen to the native doctor man or seek God's mercy, of whose report shall I believe..? Will there really be any problem, and what do I tell her now.

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