₦airaland Forum

This is a serious something!

One thing people don't understand when it comes to leadership is that whatever you do, there are people watching you. Even though you may not know, it will inadvertently have a way of influencing others. That's why we always preach against corruption cos its a contagious.

May they find reason to settle their scores without jeopardizing the interest of the populace.

Ramos16:
Also, out of curiosity, what does this statement ", ask what cunnilingus does to the soul of a broken woman" have to do with the context of this conversation

Oga, are you new in town? If yes, you're welcome. This is Nwamaikpe, the king of sarcasms, pun, paradox, irony etal. Maybe with time, you will start getting used to his jokes and the likes.

helinues:
Ganduje is currently the best governor in Nigeria when it comes to development

Nice one

Say who?

Clapping gently...

APC are Cloning Nigeria!!!

Whenever I see VP, I remember Tinubu. That man, his opinion is shaping the affairs of Nigeria political scene. Never you as an aspiring leader, in anywhere he has a say, make trouble with him. He has all it takes to dethrone even Nebuccadenezzar if he was a member of Babylon.

Congratulations. You held me in suspense until when I read the negative part of your post. I must say congratulations again. You are a man.


Now that you have known your status, I hope you will continue to use condom. That laboratory manufactured sickness is real. Its real man. Always make sure you blow safe.

Amazing how people's opinion change and alter the affairs of the nation. The moment I realized this, I became wary of the people I choose/chose to speak into my life. The people who I listens to and people who i allow to make key decisions in any organization which I happen to be a part.


These guys at the helm of affairs are more concerned about their image and reputation without considering the image, reputation and welfare of the nation.


People reeking of hypocrisy all round.

Beautiful thread. They're people who have inspired me a whole lot.


People who have shaped the way I see things in life. Among those but not limited to them are: MaziOmenuko, Zubby77, Onihaxy, ITbomb, Divepen and many more.

meekparagon:
I had a friend with a broken home.

He told me that he just found out that his wife with two kids have cheated on him for a while.



He also told me that they both had some issues 6 months ago but she refused to apologize to him. OK due to that, he refused to touch her for about 6 months till now.



Due to lack of sex for about 6 months, her colleagues in her working place approached her, asking for her contact .



Two weeks later, they both meet in a hotel, where they had sex twice before the husband found out.



According to her that the guy promised to work working visa for her to travel to Canada, and also that no woman can stay for 6 months without sex.



I was shock hearing the shit.





I had to meet her personally in order to know better, trust me there was no difference at all. She told me the same.





BACK TO THE THE GUY.







Am totally confused currently, because he actually thinks of taking this case to the lady family or to their pastor in the church in order for everything to be OK.



NOW



Do you think doing any of this will bring to the end of the issue between both





Should he take the issue to the lady family or to the pastor.



Thanks.

Wait Op!

Come, tell us the truth...are you sure you're not the person this is happening to? Cos from the way you are sounding, I am suspecting you to be the man in charge here.


Anyway, back to your question. The truth is that there's no better way of settling dispute other than communicating your feelings to the next person.

Detailing how things happened and what you would like to change. We human being, we have a way of giving room for ill stuff to thrive and when kasala don burst, na then we go begin dey complain.


How can you be snubbing your wife for six whole months?! Six months, Op? Inyanga dey sleep, trouble go wakam.....As body no be fire wood na, she don't go collect preek to satisfy her sexual urge, now you come dey complain on NL.....Mtchewwwww!!!!


The kind of things some new generation married men do these days still dey annoy us wey still day single and make me come dey wonder, whether I wasn't misinformed when they say wisdom comes with growth and responsibility.

This is terrible!


A very saddening situation I must say. Nigerians and body shaming. Stay hustle for naija, they no go gree. Now, oyinbo men den do catch them throw for prison.

midnighter:
Better start prioritising your own investments and stop financing somebody else's stupidity. Call them and tell them you're not paying anything except school fees. Set up a direct debit to the school and make a good contact there

If the tables turn and you can no longer keep up those kids will still grow up to curse that their stupid uncle ...hope you know that?

Since she takes the church more seriously than her life let the church sink more money into the fantastical business.

By the way, the Bible has a lot to say about wise spending. Or she didn't see that side or what

Bunch of selfish pseudo-religious leeches. She took care of you as a child and now you must take care of her as an adult right? Somebody with a husband for that matter.

10 million! 10 million.

I am more concerned about what she's learning from the church which she has made her second home. Ideally, the church is to be a place where she'll meet other people who are supposed to inspire her to get things better in life or is she not seeing or ladies of her kind?


Sometimes I wonder the way some people reason. What's so difficult in putting herself together. Meanwhile, she happens to come from a moderately well to do family cos having an uncle who has invested over 10million to support her step sister is not little privilege at all. Common sense is not common indeed. People make problems out of things which they are not.

pansophist:
Humans by nature are notoriously known to be exploiters, and it is not in the nature of people, and particularly, your cousin's interest to voluntarily stop fetching from the wellspring of finance that you have positioned yourself to be. You have to put a brute stop to it, you are in charge here, the giver, and it should be on your terms.

What if you drop dead today, or lose your source of income, does it makes it the end of their existence?

Louder pls

healthserve:
My own take. Never give people all they ask. If they want 10 million, give them 5 million

If they ask you for financial assistance for projects ask them for the project file that details out execution. And tell them you want to be involved in mentorship role. You can guide their path from slipping off the right path

God bless you

Keep being there for them so long as your income supercedes what goes out


I'm also personally responsible for a community and K ow what it's like being in your shoes.

Priceless Wisdom.

Thanks for commenting

My Christmas wish:


We have few more days to the end of this year and my dream and some of my 2019 goals haven't been met. One involving the target I set for myself on my financial goal.

Oh Lord of bank alert, God of last minute miracle, good Lord of ministerial contract, agency and parastatal connector, let your prophesy manifest upon my life.

Marrying the wrong woman. Someone who isn't meant for me. Someone who will mask and shroud herself in a different personality, claiming she's what she's not. I am an introvert by nature and most times, my strength lies in few words, proceeded with actions. I find it hard to speak out so much hence the reason for my silence.


My Dad never got it right during his prime days and it left him with perpetual agony and broken home, until the day of his death. Everything has spilled from the top leaving us the kids with the same agony and fear of women. It has also gotten to a point that I find it very difficult to cultivate a serious relationship the ladies thinking I may end up been controlled or sth.

PF.


Praised the lord. There's nothing the Lord can not do. Congratulations to her and her family. To those trusting God for the fruit of the womb or anyone you know, your testimony shall be the next.

That's what you get when you marry a man from a broken home. Its embedded in them, even though unbeknownst to them.


Its part of the things you as a lady should investigate properly before consenting to the marriage from the initial time when you guys were in courting.


As for the issue at the moment, I think you should engage him to a heart to heart talk, make him see how keeping malice has rubbed your family so much in terms of growth and stalled your family prosperity cos the aforementioned doesn't thrive on contaminated environment.

PF.


Must people always complain about everything?
If you don't fancy that, why not call his attention and discuss it with him. Or better still go to the living and find out what he always there doing.


I hope someone isn't trying to accuse somebody of some diabolical acts? I know how some ladies could reason. Call his attention. Engage him in a meaningful discussion. You may be surprised that he may likely be there praying for your family welfare.

Thank you!

Your childhood best friend, you grew up together, played together, probably schooled together...poisoned your drink?

Wonders shall never end. The kind of things I see and read everyday makes me wonder sometimes if some people actually have conscience at all. That's the height of wickedness without conscience!

To anyone reading this post, may you never be a victim of cruel circumstances as this. May you never be a victim to sadist friends, who always laugh with you but their heart is filled bitterness and jealousy.

God shall and will always shield you against nefarious friends. We shall all live to fulfill our purpose on earth.



Amen!!

My sister, I feel your pains and your worries, hence why you came up with such a sorry-seeking moniker.

First, I want you to understand that the point where you are is not sth that's peculiar to you alone.

A whole lot of people are silently suffering the same ailment and many haven't allowed it to get over them to this point like you did.


Just discuss it with your husband and seek for his own contribution. Whatever advice he gives you, make sure you evaluates it and work on it. Sometimes, as guy, what usually get us attracted to the ladies us not their physical look but their way of reasoning.


You will be fine at the end.

nototribalist:
What do you expect from a traitor like Umahi. Onye iberebe

Must you display your stup'dity everywhere?

I recently came along Apostle Salmon through a friend's 30seconds WhatdApp video status and moved further to know him more. Ever since then, my life have experienced a tremendous impartation via his teachings.


He's truly a genuine man of God sent to liberate the people of God. My prayer for him is that he will continue to grow from strength to strength. The Lord will keep him and continue to bless him more and more.

ChimaAdeoye:
To rehabilitate a runway of 3Km, without exrending it to standard 3.5 Km and no taxiway, costs N10 billion in Enugu and takes more than 8 months!

But to rehabilitate Abuja airport's 4 km runway, with entire taxiway aprons cost N4.3 billion in Abuja and took only 6 weeks to complete.

Go figure one Nigeria and EFCC not even paying attention to sloshing of public funds under cover of "we are rehabilitating Enugu international airport "

Must you always complain about everything? If you put the energy you spent at finding faults on doing productive things, I promise you, you will be far better of. Bad energy is a communicable disease. Reason why I avoid people with these set of mindset like a plague.

Ok

Richdad50:


For every complicated question, there is a simple, nice, but wrong answer.

Ask the Holyspirit for direction and the purpose of God for your life. If and when you do, you'll find the answers to your question.

Richdad

I am in love with the way you see things in life; very unique and commendable. I have been following you for a very long while, and have wished secretly to adopt your own way of reasoning and thought processes. Welldone man

1Sharon:
Then explain why very dark skinned ladies are called ugly and the light skinned women are put on a pedestal?

Nigerians don't like dark skinned so all you're saying is hypocritical.

Who said so?!

Or is that what you think?

No. If you are ugly, you're ugly. There's no two ways around it. Whether you're fair or dark. It doesn't matter.

Whoever thought Nigerian ladies that they look more beautiful when they bleach their skin has lied to them.

Appreciate your natural color and you will have nothing to worry about all these skin diseases.

nasoeb:
Sorry, I was wrong.

Its okay. Thanks!

Beautiful thread.

Following and reading religiously.

Amazing when people talk about finance and investments like this.

Although I haven't make money to the point of investing at the capital and money market, I have this conviction that money will come and I will apply all that I have learned.

Thanks to everyone who has been sharing the information here.

Diyke4rich:
Good afternoon gurus in the house please my treasury bill matured yesterday, till now I have had anything from the bank, yes last week I notified them to rollover the investment plus the interest but they did not notify me if my request was granted or rejected or credit me.what should i do?

Pay a visit to your account officer. If you're in a remote area that you can't visit, call him/her.

Okay