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maestroferddi:
The manner some you guys talk makes one to wonder you really have experience in relationship...

No matter how you look at it, a lady going out of her way to delete recent chat history with her intended husband raises a red flag.

These two people should be head over heels if the feeling is mutual.

It is a no brainier if had dated a player before. They are not techies but they have master all the tricks to ensure that their tracks are covered.

No-one is saying it couldnt be coincidental, but the man should watch it...

Experience is the best teacher! You may not know this until you experience it. I know what I am saying.

Kendo16:
She's got her mum's physic, the woman still looks thin even at her age, and after giving birth to so many Children.

At some points in life, you have got to compromise some things just to get along. I have come to agree that you will never have everything your way. Check, if she ticks other of of your boxes, then I will advice you go for her. Cos, from your description, that lady seems to be a wonderful babe....only that majority of slim ladies with tiny boobs are short tempered.

Op?


You're the one digging your own grave by yourself. Stop checking when there's nothing. He who bought a fire wood infested with ants should also expect the visit of lizard.

Your babe might be doing that to keep your relationship and for security purposes! Perhaps it may be that she's putting her reputation in check cos of some potential blackmail in the future.

It's possible that if things doesn't work out for you both tomorrow, you can easily refer back to your (dirty) chats. Just to rub it on her face and to prove some lame points.


Better leave her alone and allow the sleeping dog lie since she's not cheating on you. Or since there's not evidence of her cheating on you.

shamsin6300:
But for her not to passworded her phone shows there is nothing to hide. I guess her phone got fault & she formatted it. Give her like 3days & still check back again. If u couldn't find anything you can raise up the issue to her if you really see her as someone you wish to settle with.

Her phone develop fault and she formatted it? Really? What has formatted phone got to do with Facebook messenger? Every message on messenger is encrypted and can be retrieved on any device so long as you have access to the Internet.

Lol

bamidelee:
Bringing down building without following due process.

Until people's lives are lost, that's when you deem it ready to bring down the building ani?

This is potentially very dangerous! Something needs to be done before this looming disaster occur.

More reason why I love Abuja Development Council's chairman, you hardly see building of this sort anywhere within the municipal area.

Lagos State Environmental Protection Board should swipe into action.

There's something about this man that interests me so much. As much as he's stubborn and crazy, he's still very smart and clever. #FrailBody Gangz

Huge economic loss. The property I am sure is 100% well insured. So the insurance company shall soon swipe into action. That's one thing I love about sane countries as UAE

Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.

Typing....

iCauseTrouble:
Please, someone should summarise the writeup

Jokes apart, you need to go through the report. It's about you and your next generation. If nothing is done about it, you and your next generation may end up living your lives at the mercy of the Nigerian Health Authorities. Read, don't be lazy.

My views on this are simple!


1. I welcome the idea of having a legislation to guide the control of Infectious diseases. However, the current bill is ill-timed. Nigeria is currently struggling to control a global pandemic (Covid-19) and is succeeding in getting the most deadly Lassa Fever outbreak in the history of the country under control. The National Assembly should wait for this to be over to enable critical stakeholders participate actively in the process of enacting the law. You don change the rules in the middle of the game. You don't start making new rules of engagement in the middle of a war.

2. The Bill does not respect the federal structure of the country. Most of the Infectious Disease Control efforts happen at the State level under the leadership of the Department of Public Health of the State Ministries of Health. The Bill as currently worded gives absolute powers to the Health Minister, DG of NCDC and law enforcement agencies. It can only work in a Unitary System not in a Federal system. It will cause more confusion than solution in the system.

3. The bill has many provisions that violates personal privacy and confidentiality of patients. For example, section 8 empowers the DG of NCDC to request ANY health information from health workers. Sub-section 4 makes it mandatory for the health worker to provide any personal information of the patient to the DG "not withstanding any restriction imposed by any written law, rule of law, rule of professional conduct or contract". This is not acceptable to me. It gives an absolute power in obtaining people's confidential information to one man which can corrupt absolutely.

4. The bill criminalises Infectious diseases. How? It empowers the police and health officers to apprehend "any person" suspected to have an infectious disease on "any street, public place, shop or public transport" and take the person

Rip

At this point, he has no choice than to obey. Edon Red be say edon red. Every suggestion that's geared towards saving lives is what's practically needed in Kano now. It doesn't matter what your your religious inclinations is. Kano needs help, and that's just it. The earlier the better.

zionmde:
Both this idioot and iddiots who listen to his senseless rants are useless

Lol...

They listen as though their complain is going to unMillionaire him!

Bethel4Life:
Wo will forget how obj gave dangote the leeway to monopolize the cement industry by persecuting competitors and allowing tax cuts on dangote inports..

Its called relationship in business, if you don't know the impact of relationship when it comes to business, you will forever remain small and keep on throwing the blame game.

viyon02:
Very true, many politicians hide their money in his company.

Speculations!!!!


Use facts to back up your claims!!

Nice one!

This is a good way to go! I have expected this long time ago since Zoom scandals began flying around. The US born entrepreneurs must definitely react to it. Good for us and good for our business.

Next..!

To bad to what this country has turned into. Who did we offend self? We are ready to apologize.

This sheer ACT is enough to sue the Federal Government! How can a country that have over the years, pride herself to be the leading black nation on earth, in her right thinking sense, set to poison her own citizen? National Disgrace!!!

Smh....a sheer display of stupi**ty. Something needs to done about this. I can't even think of whom to blame now, from the minister of Agriculture to the Presidential Advisory Team on Palliative Care.

Tufiakwa, Nigeria!!!

Too bad!

Civilization demands civil approach to so many things. I have never been of (or subscribed) to the opinions of insulting our leaders. There are numerous ways to register our displeasure, with regard to the bad leadership and governance we are experiencing every day than to insult our leaders.

One may chose to attack their deeds, but not their personality. Anyone who is insulting others, isn't sure of making a good leader cos you must be a good follower before you can be a good leader. That's the area where majority are getting it all wrong without knowing.

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

I haven't gone through others comments to know if what am about to say/write has been said/written by another person.

The issue of loosing interest in a lady who shows an affections to a guy is something I would say is subjective. Not all guys loose interest in a lady like you generalized it to be and likewise, not all guys develops interest because a lady shows her affections.

Everything has its own price and no matter how you try to underprice it, that wouldn't make a difference! It might be there's no connection between the two(which is normal) or that the guy you are speaking about has an underlying ego which makes him think you're not worthy of his affection and all that!

Again, our culture and traditions have made it that way that a lady isn't supposed to be the one to do the chasing. So, when the chasing eventually comes from the lady, the guy may not be able to reciprocate the feelings.

I love this story. You're so lucky to land a man like your husband. Please always appreciate him. Its a rare gift from God. The Ephesian 5 man.


Many ladies wish to be like you right now. It doesn't come cheap. It goes a long way to say a lot of things about you and your kind of heart. Keep being you.


And don't forget, whatsoever your husband has commend you about in the past, never you slow down on it. Keep getting better on it. You husband is a rare gift from God.

missimelda01:
I assume it would hurt down there for a while after childbirth, why not wait until the pain is gone and it's a bit tight

Speaking from experience?

TonyeBarcanista:
@AutoB24, you are not a man!

Firstly, you married a non virtuous woman and expected her to be a wife of virtue. Very senseless I must tell you!

Secondly, you married from a useless family and expect to enjoy your marriage.

Thirdly, you don't have class for you to stoop so low to beg a woman that neither regard nor respect you.

You have no shame for desiring a woman that told you to your face that she was only using you to "pass time" and she feels nothing for you.

Sir, you need to get a life, a class, and a virtuous woman from a godly family to marry.

Stop fooling yourself

MODIFIED:
OP you aren't even married sef... You are also a useless man, a very useless one at that.

Easy bro! Some mistakes could be made out of ignorance. Many are not privileged to have enough information to guide them through such situations as this.

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7million unintended child birth? That could loosely translate to over $7billion worth of money to be injected into some people's businesses!

That means more business for us at the Health Care and Supermarket industry. Pampers and other baby care products go sell wella. **Wicked Grin**

Money is a seed. Seeds serve no purpose being in your mouth. Bury seeds in the ground (investments). Wait for it to mature. Then eat its fruit.

Those with savings may end up making banks rich. Those with investments end up making themselves wealthy.

Knowledge changes every 6 months to a year. Once we had 1G. It is now obsolete. Today we have 5G.


That is why you must continue your education by reading even after graduation. If you dont, your knowledge becomes obsolete and your earnings dwindle .

The 26 richest people on Earth are collectively richer than half of the world. Many of them are on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.


Yet, you don't follow them. But you follow gossips, thugs and rappers. And you are surprised you are still so poor?

Success depends on how you see yourself. Don't wait for others to love you, love yourself first.


Walk into a room and be so in love with yourself and everyone in the room will either love you, or love to be you, or hate you because they are not you.

Dont go into business where the money is. Go into business where your talents and life purpose are.


You‘ll have to work like a dog to even compete in an area where the money is. But even if you play in your area of strength, you‘ll still make money.