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eagleonearth:
Please can Nlanders suggest to me what I should with this shop on my street that sold me a fake pepsodent toothpaste. The moment I opened it and pushed out the paste, I just knew it. The colours were blurred and paste was watery compared to the original with sharp colours and dry paste. I then settled down to compare it to the original on pepsodent's twitter page, that is when it dawned on me that I was just sold a fake product. I tried using it to brush and it did not foam, does not leave your mouth minty fresh as usual. This is clearly fake.

Can you please suggest what I do with this people. They also operate a drug store where I am sure they sell fake drugs to unsuspecting customers.


Mods please quickly push this to front page so I know what to do with this people on time.

Just take it to the shop and bring their attention to it and hear what they have to say( They too might not be aware after all) If nothing favorable comes from them just stop buying from them that’s all! You will gain nothing spoiling their business

lordm:
Imagine the smell from the surroundings.
Well , I don't know why people love pork sef

If you try pork and dog meat, you’ll never crave another meat again. Very sweet!

Hello great people,

I’m 31 with no responsibilities yet. I just lost my job. I am planning to buy a second hand (used motorcycle) and use it to hustle cos I don’t want to start looking for salary job at this time. Besides, how much will they pay me that will be enough to save and start a family? My savings is not enough to buy the bike though.
But the major issue is that I worry too much about how to balance the money for the bike, to the extent that I have lost so much weight.

I know I have to think fast cos if I don’t get the balance I will be spending part of the money on ground till it finish and I will have to start afresh (I don’t want that). But I really need to reduce my worry level!

Please I need words of advice/encouragement till I’m able to get the balance (which I don’t know how/where to get it as it stands now)

This one doesn’t know the joy that comes with football! Especially watching Arsenal win.
There’re things a man (not the few WOmen with men’s clothing) cannot do without and football (or any other sport) is one of them

Thunder suppose fire you first before any other thing!
Initially, she’s not owing you all that she’s done/been doing for you people, but she does it cos of blood and love she has, yet you couldn’t even tell her of your little success/job/contract! (Which I’m sure she won’t even demand anything). It simply means when you finally get to the top you won’t even acknowledge her as the one who shaped you.

People like you are damned dangerously ungrateful (spits)

Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men

Whoever have ears let him hear 👂
Your wife can divorce you anytime but your siblings can never disibbling you!

The truth is, many of the beggars on the street have become used to begging that they will still feel like going out to beg no matter the amount you help them with. The best thing to do in this situation is to establish something for whoever you want to help (if you have the ability). With the income coming in, it’s will be difficult for them to go and beg again. Else, they will squander the money and go back to the street

You don’t forgive a woman after cheating on you as a man!
You sit down, take a deep breath, if you want to cry, you can cry for heart break (cos that’s the end of that relationship). Pull yourself together and play along with her until you find a replacement because if you confront her and break up with her immediately without having a replacement, the pain will be times two.
At that point if you have a touch of wickedness, you can use her.

She told you she only had sex once and you believe her.
Keep playing, your eye go soon clear.
1. Never you see any Nigerian girl as innocent, no matter how her face looks. You will be shocked to see her behind the door.
2. Never you fall deeply in love with any girl, even if she has all the qualities you need in a wife until she eventually settles down with you, and you are sure she is your wife.

Don’t play o

PresidentMUGABE:
I'm scared for Nigerian women in the next 10 to 15 years. When I look at Gegeh's doctrines and the number of young men who followed him, lots of Nigerian women will face a massive decline in masculine men.

Therefore there will be lots of masculine women. Gehgeh is teaching men not to be responsible. Running away from responsibility, which is one of the principles of turning a boy into a man.

This isn't rocket science! If the men are running away from being responsible men who work and take care of themselves and their women, the women will have to work hard and become the men they wish they had.

Sadly, the same men will hate their women because they will become aggressive, competitive, less agreeable, dominant and masculine traits are opposing to men in the dating market.

Women are not built to face toughness. Men are built for it. Men becoming women is a choice of weakness; women becoming men is a choice of survival.

We need men to be men and women to be women. It's what its...

Your level of ignorance is second to none!
What the guy (Gehgeh) is talking about is taking the responsibility of a girl/woman who is not your wife.
The mentality of an average Nigerian girl is that, the moment you ask her out, you’re automatically indebted to her i.e you should be sorting her financial needs. Ask your ignorant self, is that right? Many guys of ruin their lives in different ways just to please girls. Do you know that 85% of guys who go into fraud/yahoo do it because they want to satisfy girls financial cravings? It’s time for these girls to wake up and start becoming responsible as well and stop totally relying on men!

Host78:
Sometimes we talk about women been cheats and it's understandable to Blame them.

But one thing I cannot understand is why a man will sleep with his own brother's wife.

I understand that your brother may have married a shameless and loose woman who has no respect for him.

But why do you then have no shame and respect for your own brother and family?

I've been in this anonymous group on Facebook and this issue keeps coming up again and again.

I feel this is rather rampant.

I cannot imagine touching my brothers wife if she even is vulnerable to me. Like, I can't begin to imagine it. It's really upsetting how little family matters to some people nowadays.

See as I’m looking at you in this your last paragraph!
It is because you haven’t been in that situation before, you will be shocked to see yourself initiating the act yourself if you get in that tempting situation. Just pray you don’t find yourself in that situation at all, you will just see yourself on the bed Yakata and blame the innocent devil later.
Many people who do that never plan to do it, they just see themselves in the situation and fall, especially when the woman does not object. Besides, it’s the woman who suppose to run from it knowing fully well that a man’s body is moved by what it sees

Cost price: $60 + $80 = $140
Selling price: $70 + $90 = $160
Therefore, he made $20

Israel5:
Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.

My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.

As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.

The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.

A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.

I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁

I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.

Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.

When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type.
I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.

Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?

Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business?

This is why I always pray to God not to let me be in a state where I will allow my child to live with someone else (either a relative or not).
If you make that child unhappy in any way because of your jealous/wicked wife, you will surely regret it!

Christiano Ronaldo is coming to do his own wedding in Nigeria also!

Kobojunkie:
Also, plan to keep your impending future regrets and woes to yourselves... make sure you don't come telling us sob stories about how a friend of yours get this problem or another wey you wan make we comment on.

That you/anybody you know regretted doesn’t mean I will also regret! OR
What exactly makes you think I will regret

That can only work if the girl is a virgin! Else, NEVER!

I’m planning to settle down (marry) when I’m 33 (by Gods Grace) and I am not going to marry a girl that is above 20. I.e she must be 20 or below and must be a virgin. Anybody can argue with his/her self. I don’t bloody give a damn!

I wonder why they keep calling those calculators of theirs smartphones!
Very anyhow people!

Congrats!
But what do you have to say to an intending rider like me?

Wickedness everywhere!
If they kill you like that will you be happy?

Merry100:
In my opinion, Nigerian women bring more to the table

What a foolish question! No wonder it just making Front page after over 3 years

As it is a counter attacking, passing to either B or C is okay, it all depend on how well you trust their ability!

Firebox123:
can you send your picture

For what?

Chin chin anytime, any day!
More of ground nuts cause pimples for me

I thought the post was for everybody!

80% of married people in Nigeria cannot relate with what you put up there!

Xso666:
Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.

Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.

Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.

Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.

So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.

So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.

Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.

Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.

Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.

Be a gentleman,Try to meet the man you saw her with, become friend with him, have a man -man discussion and ask him questions regarding his relationship with your wife. Make sure you act matured (no frowning, no threatening). The man will be surprised by ur reaction.
He will surely open up and tell you if there has been any intimacy between them. Then you decide what to do. (Note: this might take some times) but at least, it will be worth it at the end.
Because as for me, I can never accept a woman who’s cheated on me.

He thinks they are taking his photo shoot to promote his business 😀😀

Any man that says he doesn’t care about the sexual history of a woman is a messed man! In fact, such a man is under a spiritual marital bondage! After character, virginity (sexual purity) of a woman is the principal thing!
Roughly 30% of married men are not the biological fathers to some or all the children they are taking care of, and is is mainly because they don’t care about the sexual history the woman they married.

In conclusion: If I don’t marry a virgin then I will never get myself tied down with a woman I don’t know her sexual history . I don’t mind having baby mamas! That’s my opinion and nothing anybody can do about.