Einterest: Hi guys, so about three weeks back an uncle of mine was kidnapped on his way to Rivers state. The family went to the length and width of the world to raise 5 million naira. Upon his release and his return back home he was narrating his experience, mehn it was terrible. So he mentioned something that has been bothering me, he said in the vehicle, there was a lady and her 2 daughters. He said the kidnappers took turns rapping them( the mum and her two kids). They also collected 5m from that family. Till now that's what is disturbing my mind even more than the kidnapping of my uncle. Cause I can't begin to imagine the trauma that helpless family has been through.
I don't understand how wicked people can be. You kidnapped people asked for ransome and still did this.
Note: Family went to the police station to report the kidnap, to be specific rumokoro police station and was told they would track them down that no body should pay any ransome. But that was only what the police said. And they were very non-chalant about it, now imagine that family being told that with that stupid attitude of the police.
I just decided to share this so people understand what others are going through. I begin to wonder are we mad in this country, how can a human being do this.
The thing is those people (the police) don't want to stress themselves or risk their life on the line. They forgot the reason why they had to be police in the first place (to protect lives). May God help us in this country
lalalista: I feel so hurt and heart broken by someone. I want to fight back but I'm helpless. I want to revenge but I don't know how to go about it. What do I do to deal with this person without involving physical action?
What did the person do to you? From there I will tell if to shoot, roast, punch or poison the person to death
The organizers of the Big Brother Titans reality TV show have announced the date for the start of its latest show.
The CEO, MultiChoice Nigeria, John Ugbe said that the new show will premiere on January 15, 2023 and will last for 72 days.
It will be a merger of Big Brother Naija and Big Brother Mzansi, the South African version of the show.
The last edition of the Big Brother Naija was won by Josephina Otabor, known in the show as Phyna.
She won the ₦100 million grand prize edging out Bryan, Bella, Adekunle, Chichi and Daniella in the finale.
DSTV and GOTV channels will air the premiere of the competition. DSTV channel 198 will air the show on DSTV.
The show will also stream on Showmax in the United Kingdom and the Republic of Ireland.
The BBTitans auditions ran from October 6 to October 22, 2022. It is only for Nigerians and South Africans aged 21 and above with valid means of identification.
The organizers instructed eligible and interested candidates to make a two-minute video of themselves explaining why Big Brother should choose them as housemates.
The prospective contestants filled out an online registration form and uploaded the video to the official M-Net website.
The reality TV show will hold in Big Brother house in South Africa with the organizers of the show, M-Net, naming Bamboo, Flutterwave and LottoStar as headline sponsors.
The winner will receive $100,000 (over ₦45M) and other amazing prizes and the BBTitans will air in 46 countries.
BBNaija host, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Mzansi host, Lawrence Maleka, will co-host the show.
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If your instinct tells you she's been charmed, try all possible best to get her back to her sense; but if she's not charmed, let her be... When her eyes see shege she will run back
obembet: Driving a car is an experience that requires you to multi-task. As you sit in the driver’s seat for the very first time, you might begin to feel overwhelmed with all the rules that you have to remember.
So let experience Driver teach us this simple question.
When slowing down is it clutch or break first?
Brake alone When slowing down; clutch before brake when stopping
co787: My wife and daughter traveled to her village in August for 3weeks and they were supposed to be back before the school resumption but she changed her mind saying her mother was seriously ill that she has to extend her stay which was fine by me and when they returned back I noticed that she has lost so much weight which I asked her why she said it was due to the stress of caring for her sick mother which is normal.
She is her only daughter and oldest of 4 her younger ones are boys so they cannot take care of their mother better than her. Here is the reason I got her arrested, during her stay in the village, her 14 years old brother raped my daughter. This is one of the reason she overstayed in the village. She didn't tell me anything about my daughter being raped she and her mother had decided to give her treatment and cover the idiot that repeatedly raped her and when she came bck she didn't say anything to me but she confided in her prophetess which in her turn has started spreading news until it came to my ears that my own daughter was raped and her own mother has kept quiet and I can imagine if it was a member of my family that did the abominable acts the whole world would have heard it and she would have done everything in her power to put in prison.
But because it is her own brother, she has decided to keep quiet and not knowing the world is small and not secret is hidden forever. I took my daughter to the hospital the result has confirmed she was tampered i was devasted she has been the best wife to me and she has helped me and my sisters to reconciled in the past but what she has done to me it is unforgivable and I have arrested her and when I bail her I will divorce her and take custody of my daughter.
I don't know if I need advice or not but your input and suggestion are welcome I will be reading all your comments.
Your wife's only fault here is that she did not tell you about it. Otherwise, she's not to blame. I believe she felt 'worse' than the 'bad' you re feeling. She doesn't even know what to do (since it involved her blood). Moreover you should have arrested the rapist not her. Think of the fact that you're not the only one pained in this case, she's also in it (the victim is her daughter also after all).
It's not even only girls in relationship. A lot of people expect too much from others, when their expectations are not met. They see u as a stingy person.
This is why I changed my name to Mr Stingy. I don't/will never do anything to impress anyone. Never!
I remember at the beginning of the year. I made some plans and even wrote them down. I said before October this year I will save up enough money to start my business; I will bike a sport motorcycle, I will produce and promote my comedy skits (I'm an upcoming skits maker)
But this is December already and my account balance is showing -34.03 naira (na me dey owe bank sef)
In all I still thank God for life. At least when there is life, there's hope!
I don't know if I am the only one in this situation.
Please share your achievement/loss so far this year
She's saving money for her wedding, and telling you to move out... Wait o, is she the one marrying the man or the man marrying her? She should move to her new husband's house and leave u in your father's house na. Which kind mother be that one?
Life2020: Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.
The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.
The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.
Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.
Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.
I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.
Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.
Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids
Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.
I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.
The thing is whether you kick him out or not, you will always be at the lashing end (the victim). one of the reasons is that you are already made (financially stable). Men will only come to you because of your money. mind u, most of the men your kind of a woman will meet will either be single fathers, hit/eat and run or something like that. Your children will be affected either directly or indirectly I'm not supporting your husband but you need to think wisely before taking any step to avoid moving from frying pan to fire.
captaininiobong: Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.
I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.
When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.
We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.
It the devil that showed her to you. God doesn't bring problem to his children
Shybeauty: Thanks for your response. I really appreciate it. I needed someone to show me another perspective. It's not that i'm blind. If a guy likes a girl, he should talk and everything. I think i made excuses for him and now, i have to reset my brain. Thanks.
Not all guys can boldly approach a girl they like. I have like/loved a girl without being able to approach her for over a year, everyone noticed it. it was when she noticed it herself (just like in your own case) she sent a letter to me through my friend, telling me she liked me also that I should call her. I didn't even call. She later called me by herself after 4 days. After saying Hello I heard her voice and said bello too, we both kept mute for over 2 minutes. I didn't know what next to say, she too couldn't say anything.
To cut the story short. We became the closest lovers on campus. I can't explain how we got talking face to face.
You can ask him what he wants, if not face to face, through text. Then u know your stance
Deborah200299: I left home last month with my 13 years old sister due to the abuse she had endured in the hands of my mother and 2 younger brothers.
I have rented out a room in a different town, I have changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so nobody could locate me.
Yesterday, I opened a new Facebook account with a different name. I have searched for my elder brother Facebook account he posted about me being missing he has pleaded with anyone who has seen me to contact him because my mum is not in a good state.
Funny enough he has posted me alone when it is me and my younger sister who are missing so they only care about me a 23 years old woman but not a single pity about a 13 years old girl.
I am her only daughter among 4 boys she loves me more than my siblings but I have lost respect for her the day she has started abusing my innocent sister. I want my absence to teach her a lesson so she can feel the pain but I am also worrying about her what if she died, will I be able to forgive myself.
I don't know if I should contact them with a private number and tell them we are fine where we are they shouldn't bother about us. I will not disclose my current addresse to them.
Crime › Re: Kidnap: Mum And Daughters Raped by Fantazy(m): 7:46pm On Dec 26, 2022
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