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Na the guys money she take buy am. Don't be deceived!

BluntCrazeMan:
From @General_Oluchi on X-(Formerly-Twitter)


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Source:
https://twitter.com/General_Oluchi/status/1694899224083677230

So because I don't use my belonging always does that give anybody the audacity to snatched it away from me.
Why una too like wahala like this?

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

If this ur epistle is true then you need deliverance, from bondage. No man in his right sense will allow a woman to punish him this way. Who is she?
Anyway, maybe she's the one who married you and also feeding you, I wouldn't know. But in what ever way it might be, stop putting up shits like this, the few lines I read annoys me.

dwayne111:
Good morning good people of nairaland, I'm 28, i base in delta state(for now) and i'm hoping to start my career in show biz...so i'm looking to learn music production(preferably in lagos but i don't have anyone in lagos) I'm willing to pay any amount. i have passion for it and i'm a very fast learner and a computer literate.

Music, okay.
If it's content creation (skit making) I would have invited you to join my brand.

You spoilt the whole matter when you said "he was the one who wanted your hand in marriage"!

I wonder why you women keep having that mindset; marriage should be a two sided plan not one (the man alone). He wanted to marry you, fine. You also wanted to settle with him isn't it?

Why then will you expect him to kill himself cos he wanted to marry you.

You women don't always think of the aftermath of the wedding (which is/should be the principal thing)

I can't even try to do more than myself if any girl parents don't collect what I have to give, let them go to hell for all I care. After all marriage no be by force!

I'm mosquitophobic. I f[s][/s]ear hate mosquito. The fact that it spreads malaria makes me go crazy at hearing of it sound.
The next one I lay my hands on will regret coming to this whole

If he can do any legit job available when he comes to your side fine. Let him come, look for any job available for him.
In a month he start feeding himself till he gets a better job.
If the car washing job is moving as his cousin told him, I won't blame him for quitting the bank job. 70k in this economy isn't something to rely upon.

IyanuDeb:
My friends have been advising me to start saving money for a while now, I don't earn much but I had already decided to start saving, no matter how little, just yesterday when someone heard us talking about it, he said with the way Nigeria currently is, saving has disadvantages because my 1million today will become 500k next year.

Everything in this world have disadvantage(s) EXCEPT Saving.
If you can afford to save, please save oh!!

Benard5050:
I worked in a school for four years and I decided to resign to establish my own business, a laundry business to be precise.

Immediately I gave my boss a month's notice, she turned me into her enemy immediately, and she became so bitter towards me.

The school is run by husband and wife and I discussed with d husband who is the director that I still wish to maintain the room in the staff quarter till December that the house rent should be deducted from my last salary because our rent is being deducted every month from our salary.

The director agreed, wished me well and even advised me further on other things.

My last day at work was Wednesday and happened to be my birthday, this woman never wished me a happy birthday but instead a full manifestation of bitterness that was open to all to see. I made sure I fulfilled her requests but I cried cos I felt let down and betrayed... I joined the school when the college was only jss1 and 2 and now with d help of God and my hard work and those of others, the school has developed and grown to ss3

I'm into teaching aspect and also extracurricular activities that I do teach the students and won many things for the school regarding that.

I left unceremoniously and I felt so sad and betrayed...

Yesterday the director messaged me I'll have to vacate the room I'm occupying and this house is where I'm doing laundry, I planned to be there till Dec and then move away when I start making some money from my laundry.

How can humans be so inhuman and ungrateful?

I have nothing to say to them, I put everything in God's hand.

You should have waited till December when u will get your place. So when u resign, u park out immediately. 99% of employers don't wish to see their hardworking staff leave. That's the mostly the human nature

So with all the problems this country is facing they are still broadcasting this shitty show?

Hmm...

Ijelenwanyioma:
But you know a million naira can't buy land in any good location. Thanks for your contribution anyway

Haa! So 1 million no fit buy land! And I'm here planning to buy 2 plots in banana island with 500k (250k each)

Anyway,no be compulsory to buy land,
make I go use my money chop pepper soup

Nice2023:
The real middle class in Nigeria are individuals and families who have a moderate income level, typically earning between N500,000 to N10,000,000 ($1,200 to $24,000) per year. They often hold white-collar jobs in sectors such as banking, finance, education, healthcare, and technology. The middle class in Nigeria is characterized by their ability to afford a decent standard of living, including owning their own homes, sending their children to good schools, having access to healthcare services, and possessing some discretionary income for leisure activities and savings. They typically reside in urban areas, particularly in the major cities like Lagos, Abuja, and Port Harcourt. The middle class in Nigeria is considered the backbone of the economy and plays a vital role in consumer spending and economic growth.

That's 41k per month? Do you even know what u saying?
The people with that amount in this current economy are the less privilege!

I want to learn to play the drum set and the piano.
So help me God

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Those people are indirectly doing runs (illegal business).

Any way, I don borrow from 3 different apps amounting to about 15k in total combined.
You know what? I AM NOT PAYING ANY OF THEM A DIME. Let them come and meet me in my house.

Change the tyres to trailer tires

This one wey her breast don turn elastic. Before she finish the breast go don reach ground

If you have someone (relative) over there who guarantees you of job, accommodation and other necessary things you need before u settle on your own. Go Canada!
BUT if you just want to go and start somewhere on your own.. You go see shege o..! Beter stay in your country where u have lands to establish on and start your life bit by bit.

A word is enough for those whose make use of their sense!

Na hunger go kill am for the marriage, when the man empty his account on bride price.

It shouldn't have gotten to such curses na. Haba!

Meat wey some people dey find.. You dey complain

Na so my apartment mate dey connect directly to light, bypassing electric meter to avoid paying.

Where as I pay him for light every month. Now NEPA people don discover, cut all wire go. I just pretend I don't know.
I still dey reason wetin I go do am next

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