naijapikin2: God bless you for this piece. Infact. If I meet a lady I love and she says she's a virgin. I will automatically end the relationship.
All those men looking for virgin to marry I see them as those that can eat parboiled rice 😁😁
You sound like someone whose village people are after! Marrying a virgin does not guarantee everlasting marriage, marrying a non virgin has no guarantee either. So is it not better to marry the one that, at least, you know she’s sexually pure when you met her? Please don’t annoy me this night o
Oyindamolah: ❗There’s no guarantee that spending money on promotion will make you go viral.
🔁 Consistency, quality content, strategy, and a bit of luck are what usually lead to growth.
📈 Some creators blow up in a month, most take 6 months to 2 years of trial and error to get traction.
> So spending all your savings on promotion doesn’t mean success.
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What’s Smart to Do Now?
✅ My Recommendation: Use a Split Strategy
Save consistently for your motorcycle, but allocate a small, fixed percentage of your income/savings to promote your content monthly.
For example:
Total Savings Promotion Budget (Monthly) Savings for Motorcycle (Monthly)
₦20,000/month ₦5,000 (25%) ₦15,000 (75%)
This way:
You don’t kill your dream of owning the bike.
You keep promoting your content and experimenting.
If your content starts earning, it can even speed up your bike savings.
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🚀 Other Low-Cost Promotion Ideas (Before Spending Big):
Collaborate with other small creators for free exposure.
Use trending audio and hashtags.
Post consistently (3–5x a week minimum).
Engage with your audience (reply to comments, ask questions).
Learn SEO/hashtags and algorithm tricks on YouTube, Instagram, TikTok.
Join creator communities where people support and promote each other.
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🚦If You Still Feel Confused, Ask Yourself:
> “If I spend all my money and don’t go viral, will I feel worse than waiting a little longer for both dreams?”
If the answer is yes — don’t spend it all.
--- Summary:
✅ Don’t spend everything on promotion. 💡 Invest small, consistent amounts in content promotion while still saving. 📊 Track your growth and adapt your content. 🚀 If growth happens and income starts, you can speed up the bike goal.
🎯 You win either way — maybe just not as fast as you’d like, but definitely smarter and more secure.
Thanks so much for this advice! This is exactly what I’m going to do! I really appreciate 🙏
budaatum: Who can guarantee you'd go viral in a year? And who can guarantee your motorcycle wouldn't get stolen or crashed in the first week?
Invest your money in creating content to see how you go, and save up for a motorcycle. That way you'd be hedging your bet both ways to see which shall profit you.
Thanks so much for this! That means I will have make it a year plan instead of six months, by splitting the savings into two.
Greetings nairalanders, Your advice is needed urgently! Please no jokes and insults.
I am saving up little by little to buy a second - hand/used motorcycle by or before December this year. The thing is, I am into content creation as well, and content definitely needs promotion to go viral/get recognized.
Where I need advice: Should I be using the money I’m supposed to save for the motorcycle to promote my content? Is there any guarantee that I can go viral in the space of the 6/7 months or even (a year) I’m planing to save for motorcycle? I’m confused, I will not be happy, if I don’t go viral (at least to a certain stage where I can start earning from my content). And on the other hand, I don’t also buy the motorcycle!
That’s how low the mentality of majority of girls is. Even if he demanded for sex, can it be equivalent to the money he spent? Or is her gbekus made of gold? Most of those gender needs to get a life!
Why will I want to travel out before if not to make money, now I have the money so what am I looking for? I stay in my country! I can be traveling on vacations one in a while
Remove the amount you took from the church and add interest to it, take it to the church. (Just assume you you got a loan from the church) and use the remaining to do anything it can do for you.
But most importantly, ask God for forgiveness cos a sin will always remain a sin no matter how you twist it!
Chram: I write with Pains in my heart. I wish to ask God why some certain events occur in life. I have lots of questions to ask, but nobody to give me answers.
I describe as Selfish, inconsiderate and egoistical the decision of my mum to remarry.
So, I lost my lovely and caring dad six years ago. We had lived in Port Harcourt prior to his death. When we were traveling to the village, we packed all the little properties we had cos we were not going to return back to PH again since my mum would not be able to cater for myself and little siblings. After the burial and funeral ceremony, we all stayed in the village. I mean a typical village where there's no good road, no electricity, no mobile network. I stayed for a few months, then left them to go squat with my friends in port Harcourt so I could hustle with my muscles and return back to sch at least because it had always been my dad's desire for all of us to go to sch, so I beat my chest and vowed that I would go to sch and graduate. Thank God, I'm done with sch now.
My current challenge now is my mum is in her mid forties and wants to remarry to a man in the village. She hasn't told me yet. But my paternal aunt called to inform me. I'm really worried because if she gets remarried, she will abandon my younger siblings who are there with her because she won't be allowed to take my siblings to her new husband's house as it is an abomination based on the customs and traditions of our place. If my siblings must live with her in that place, then they will have to start bearing the new husband's name as his children. Why ?
Also, as a male child, I'm not allowed to go visit here and eat or sleep over in her new house. If I do this, I might die. Why is this?
Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic terms, I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.
I wish u guys can beg my mum not to remarry please. What's the difference between me and someone from a Broken background? Life is not fair to me and my siblings. Not fair at all. I know how I'm feeling right now.
Let me make it clear at this point that if her plans of remarrying goes through, I will dis-mother her. I'll cut all ties and destroy every bond that ever existed between herself and us the children.
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The tradition is the issue, not her wanting to remarry
We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.
I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.
Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together. The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.
Please I need advice.
She’s already with someone else, just face your front and move
Doctors, Pharmacists and other Medical experts in the House, please help me out. I can't seem to understand how my body system is reacting to lack of sex anymore.
I've abstained from sex for exactly four years now. I decided against going into any relationship with any lady since my last encounter with my ex. And I don't patronize hook-up girls because I can't imagine having sex with someone I don't have any atom of feelings for. I Also do not believe in sleeping with random girls, reason I stayed away from sex until I'm ready for marriage. Another major reason is that I don't use condoms during sex, so I've got to be careful with whoever I'm getting down with.
Some nights, I would have wet dreams, get up to the bathroom to wash myself. I don't masturbate. Last night I had a wet dream again as i slept and laid on my stomach(Sleeping posture), in the middle of the night, I noticed my d**k was rubbing the mattress thoroughly and I noticed something discomforting, when I noticed what was about to occur, I tried to quickly jump off the bed, but unfortunately, while in the process of jumping off, I ejaculated profusely & uncontrollably. My semen was very thick as I checked my boxers. I got up and went straight to bath before going back to bed. I was so angry about it.
Today, I'm now feeling pains in my scrotum and it's a bit swollen too. After I finished bathing this afternoon and was trying to dry my body, I noticed semen coming out but looking like pre-cum. I need some advice on what to do, and how to go about this please.
The bible says we shouldn't indulge in Premarital sex cos it's a sin. You guys preach against Masturbation cos some see it as a devilish act. While others say it can cause erectile dysfunctional issues. So I don't know what to do. I'm just between the rock and the hard ground now.
Is there any Drugs I can take to inhibit the activities of these stubborn semen? Again, how do Reverend fathers cope without sex throughout their Lives? I need answers.
Having wet dreams occasionally is a normal thing! It the natural way of releasing build up semen from the body since you don’t have sex! I haven’t had sex for six years now and I don’t masturbate as well, and I’m feeling fine! So don’t worry yourself when u you have wet dreams, it’s a normal thing.
No matter how you paint it, cooking at home is not only cheaper, it is also more satisfying, hygienic and the best overall! Just say you’re lazy to cook, period
The curse can only work if the man used juju on her, but if she was the one looking to reap where she didn’t sow by following someone else she thinks is better. Her curses are of no use
There is one called ZMEX my colleague introduced me to. It crashed after just 3 days of putting 60$ earlier this month. I’m still feeling the pain right now
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Romance › Re: Marrying A Virgin Doesn't Automatically Mean You Married Well As A Man by Fantazy(m): 10:03pm On Jul 09, 2025
