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only my ex jare... 50 -100

benromeo39: hypo go white o . Btw, why u snub me that day?

hmmmm sorry

traware: @OP Look at one of the who.res here

Hunting me indirectly....keep on dreaming

bakynes: All you have said still won't change the fact that most Nigerian ladies are whores, bitches etc.

Goan drink hypo then smh

mcocolok: Please i really need your Help Nairalanders.....


I have been with this Girl like FOUR years... The first three Months of our relationship was sweet and cool until i noticed changes in her attitude.. The Tape worm(EX) crept in. I have been there for this girl.. Loved her and cherished her... I took pains for her just because i truly LOVE her...I took her to see my people so she could understand i truly want the best for us...

I met her when she was really struggling to gain admission into the University and we worked out the MATHS together just to see her through...Immediately she gain the admission, she changed.. She tells me its OVER at every little problem we had and all i do is CRY because i really do LOVE her and cherish HER so much... I give her everything she needs and i spend time thinking on how to make her HAPPY ALWAYS just because i cared about her....

The real problem began when she traveled Home after her first year. On a cool evening two weeks after she got home, she uploaded pictures on her Facebook between she and her EX...I called her and she never picked up the call.. I left her messages so she could explain to me what happened and she never replied. I tried calling that Night and she never picked up until 1am and her reply was " WETIN SELF, I NO FIT SNAP PICTURES WITH SOMEBODY AGAIN,I TELL YOU SAY MY EX DEY STAY MY AREA..I DEY WAKA I COME SEE AM ,HE SAY MAKE I SNAP WITH AM SO I COME SNAP WITH AM" I was heartbroken by the response but i had to be strong.. She later called and told me she was no Longer interested in the RELATIONSHIP and that she LOVES her EX... I tried explaining to her that i was there for her and i love her so much and i really want 2 be with her. I explained 2 her that i so much love her and this can KILL me so soon and she insisted i should stop calling her... I was furious all through the night...Then she later called me crying. I asked why she was crying and she said she had hurt me so much and i was too good to her. She said she never deserved me and that she had things 2 tell me... She later Opened up that she lied about her EX and that she slept with HIM.. I was Heartbroken again and wept. She said she never intended to do it and she felt guilty about everything.. I said i still Love you and still don't care about the Mistake you made and we can move on and i will still LOVE u.. She later said she slept with her REV father. I was speechless on hearing that and asked how she got involved with him. I also asked if she slept with HIM when we started dating or before and she said after we started dating and she slept with him three times.....My reply was "I was there to make you happy,gave you the best sex,showed you LOVE and cared for you all through for good 3 years and all you had 2 do is sleep with your EX on seeing him once and also sleep with your REV father" I love her so much and just couldn't stand 2 see her cry so i forgave her...

I made her strong and also forget about the silly shit with the HOLY MAN OF GOD....She called me two months after the whole drama and said she had something 2 tell me,she said "I still Love my EX and i want to back 2 him" I was MAD again and said why don't you want 2 leave your EX and let it be? Why do you always make me wanna cry... I later TOLD her i am no longer interested in the relationship and want i wish her luck with MR EX...I hanged up and switched off. She left me messages on Facebook saying she was sorry and wanted 2 see if i still LOVE her...I forgave her and we still Moved on. Now we have been together for four years. I had a chilled bottle of RED wine last night and decided to think about all she had done and also made up my MIND to call it QUIT. I LOVE HER SO MUCH that i was ready to die for her but she doesn't even appreciate everything .

I really need your help nairalanders if this is gonna be the right thing 2 do.. I need your advice before i take actions....

Tanx and One Love....

Shey you don belle full now? U don scatter d pomo finish now u wanna call it a quit..hmmmmmm

firstolalekan: U don drive ur farano pass again abi?

Yeah my Ferrari

Jes passing sha

Vig86: The only girl I can walk down the aisle if she says YES is www.nairaland.com/farano. I don't want to disturb her now till I am rich enough to buy her the world.

So romantic

prettythicksme: farano is very pretty among others

Thank you dearie. You're pretty too

NeedLove: Most men are scared to approach random women because they feel that they might get rejected, ignored and worst of all, humiliated and laughed at right in front of their friends. What they do not know is that there are strategies in which you can approach girls without getting rejected. Read on to find out exactly how to start a conversation with a girl, so that she will like you...

Pay close attention to the surroundings. One of the important things is to be mindful of the actions of people around you, as well as how they respond to your queries. You can do this by using your peripheral vision - observing things with corner of your eye.

Thinking out loud. There are times wherein someone would say something and you are the only person around, so you have this feeling of obligation to respond. If this happen with a women, then utter a brief and casual statement which is related to the situation.

This would seem like you are talking to yourself or thinking out loud, and by doing this, you are offering a woman an invite, a non-threatening one because you are not directly taking to her, or even in front of her.

Be relaxed. Whenever you are talking to a woman, make sure that you do not get agitated as she can feel it from the sound of your voice. Talk in a natural manner - like you are chatting with your friend.

Do not lose hope. If you have this notion that women are only attracted to handsome and wealthy men, then you are mistaken. Alpha males have the capability to draw women towards them because of their faith, confident and high self-esteem attitude.

They do not easily give up, even if the woman already turned them down - they continue to fight until she says "yes", and they take it like a real man and not lose confidence if she does yield to their persuasion.

Random things work - If she is a really attractive woman, then she will be expecting the same old boring approach from you. But, in the end, random things really do work when it comes to the first conversation. This means random topics, and things which don't even relate to pickup or her at all.

The reason they work, is because they make her think for a second, and have her trying to figure out what you mean. In the end, she will feel amused and will find you interesting, which then gives you room to continue on with the rest of your pickup successfully.

Laugh at her - This will be the last thing she expects, but make sure that you don't go too far. Only do it for small things, such as the pants she has on or the purse she is wearing. Make it seem as if she is common and like every other girl, by saying something like "Is this purse on sale? I have seen many girls wearing it, but I just wanted to let you know, that you are cute, even if you only get things when they are offered at a lower value."

All these gospels sef

*hyper blushing*

coolebux: Admit you were wrong bleeping that dude on your first night out. you no try at all

And so

benromeo39: Farano and this her dimples.

Hilarious

hmmmmm

Adikam: ashawo don finally talk

Olodo

fruqsy: no just to know if i could get a one night stand.

Oh really? Never

Timijo: Oh I see! It's only a dog that does that.

...And how does it concern you is my question... smh. Grow up and think with a mature mind

fruqsy: don't tell me it's something you do?

Surely001: hmmmm Guilty!

Rexnegro: With this your comment its like u have fuccked a guy on the first day right ? So u re feeling as if the OP is talking to u abi ? Hahahahahhahaaaha

Timijo: I hope you are not guilty of that no. 3?

Rexnegro: With this your comment its like u have fuccked a guy on the first day right ? So u re feeling as if the OP is talking to u abi ? Hahahahahhahaaaha

Ok how e take concern una? abi na una own my honey pot

Rooneyboy: Did u eat before stepping out of ur house

How do you mean? Anyway yes

Obinoscopy: Coded lap romancing? Hmmmmm.

Yes but I caught him red handed

silversonuc: dis one is guilty as charged, doro farano

Ok goan hug boko bomb Next!

RedBenson: But sorry, unfortunately i dont give mine to girls who want it on first date unless you are a call girl. Are you one?

Even in your dreams, in John Cena voice, 'You can't see me'

silverprince413: you must be an accidental victim of de number 3

Goan hug a wet transformer then

RedBenson: Why are you countering No. 3 in particular? Is like u like opening those legs on first date. I'm kind of sure even if the dude is not interested, u'll lie down and open those legs, then call him to come take it free-mindedly. Lol.

For dash sef I won't take your short and tiny manliness

noah24: .

Hmmm..sum1 is guilty of sex on d first day......

*hiohiohiohiohio* It's none of your business

So?

LaurelP: Just forget d whole epistle and make money Godammit!

Abi o