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Akkord4gov: Yea i quite agree wit u. She needs 2 change environment maybe. Y I said so is dat, she shouldn't bother herself on it, if I consider dat as an issue, she might want to force herself on to any guy just because she wanna break jinx. |
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Akkord4gov: Yea I quite agree wit u. She needs change environment maybe. Y I said so is dat, she shouldn't bother herself on it, if I consider dat as an issue, she might want to force herself on to any guy just because she wanna break jinx. |
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Focus on ur study, wen u re successful real men will chase u pants down. "All iz well (2011)" 1 Like |
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Always shade dry not sun dry 1 Like |
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Afrok: OK. Thanks Come to think of it , an adage says. " the son u love u warn" does dat mean she accept his companionship with her daughter, cos I believe if she doesn't want her girl to be cheated or can not trust my guy with her daughter she can just tell her daughter not to go for him or cut off. |
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Afrok: Ok .. Wait Assume it's me. So advise |
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A friend of mine asked me this, he said n I quote "What does it mean when your girl friend mother (mother in-law to be) ask you to call her, and during d call she read out some bible passages stressing out that you shouldn't defile your bed and all sort. Simply put, no romance, no kiss n no sex. Does that mean i have been accepted into their family or what". Pls advice maturedly... |
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I can't see the school gate under lock n key. Lol |
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It another day inded a new day in the life of the 10reason crooner, as he marks a year older today. Thread souvenir courtesy CODEDK'ODE |
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Alani86: Y go deep when all I mean is not far fetch. Wen I need u to think deep I know wat to type. Thanks dou, ur point us clear to me. I understand wat u mean, (not to throw caution into d air) 1stly put God first. Good platform to know u. |
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Alani86: Y u multiplying words, your thinking is always far out of point |
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Alani86: U re right dou, u might ve define it ur own way (being dirty) bo I know wat I mean as well as she knows d kind of dirty talk she can engage me with. Am not promoting iniquity, and am not ridiculing her standard and profile, am only expressing d length you can go to save a distance relationship. Mind u its on her desk, d lady must do all that it takes to maintain and sustain her relationship. Just any means. Mind u I mean no harm |
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Alani86: U re right dou, u might be define it ur own way (being dirty) bo I know wat I mean as well as she knows d kind of dirty talk she can engage me with. Am not promoting iniquity, and am not ridiculing her standard and profile, am only expressing d length you can go to save a distance relationship. Mind u its on her desk, d lady must do all that it takes to maintain and sustain her relationship. Just any means. Mind u I mean no harm |
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layla129:. As if u know what's on my mind. Am in it too right now. We spend at least two hours on day time call n at least three hours midnight call. We do all that it takes to get closer dou wide apart. Funniest thing is that she is a deeper life member bo talks dirty just to keep d relationship glowing. |
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Chai OP my own na small wash sha Ma babe floor me die She want me to introduce her to ma parent so as to know her stand in the relationship so I did, dat day I Introduce her as my wife to be. She also want to reciprocate my action by taken me home to her parent but to my surprise, I was introduce as just a fellowship brother in school. Na den I know wetin I enta 34 Likes 2 Shares |
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No matter how wise and smart you are, you will eventually meet yourself at the back yard of the foolish. 2 Likes |
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joseph1832:. Tu e malard. Did I ever refer u as a yeye boy. Well, I can c d pain in u. Sorry ehn |
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We all can see the aftermath effect of the government that we claim the economy isn't tight, money here n there yet never touches the common mans' hand. Am blaming it all on the generation past for not doing something to ameliorate national issue of their time which is now affecting us, at least if my generation could fight this course right an well assured that all I will get from the next generation is gratitude. Appreciation thanks, prayers n not curses. So let support the government that has plans for the youth and trying to take what belongs to the nation back from the few. 2 Likes |
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joseph1832: Hear yourself out. Typical Nigerians. So you want the president to run the office like a typical Nigerian so as to sooth the typical Nigerians. So he should fund nairabet n baba ijebu more with money so the typical Nigerians can benefit from there, nonsense, what an irrational thinking. And we all claim to go to school but we've got no common sense |
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We hear a lot these days about the many effective ways to handle one's own stress—meditation, yoga, healthy eating—but we receive little guidance on how to respond lovingly when your partner is anxious, depressed, or stressed. It's easy to love someone when they're feeling great and on top of the world, but how do you respond when life gets them down? This is a common scenario I hear in my practice: My partner has always been the rock in our relationship. He's been incredibly supportive when I've struggled with anxiety or when things are stressful with my family. But now that he's having trouble at work, he's the one that's been more unstable and I don't know how to handle it. A part of me wants to say, "Get over it! You're supposed to be the strong one!" but I know that's not a loving response. What do I do? There are three steps you can take when you can see that your partner is going through a tough time: 1. Attend to your own feelings in a loving way. When your partner is stressed, it will likely trigger feelings of your own, especially if you're not used to seeing him or her in a more vulnerable state. If your partner withdraws, you may feel lonely. If you don't know how to help, you may feel helpless. If you have a judgment toward someone "falling apart" and equate stress with weakness (likely derived from a message you received growing up that crying or struggling is weak), you may view your partner through these eyes and find yourself feeling an aversion toward him or her. So before you can lovingly show up for your partner, you first have to show up for yourself with compassion. 2. Show up for your partner using his/her love language. When your partner is stressed, it's an opportunity for you to practice being the grownup in the relationship. Once you've attended to your own feelings (and this may be as simple as putting your hands on your heart, naming the feeling, and breathing compassion into it), you can lovingly attend to your partner. If you know your partner's love language, this is the time to express love in that way. For example, if your partner is soothed by and most responsive to physical touch, simply approaching your partner and putting your arms around her can help her breathe some space into her tightness. If your partner's love language is "acts of service," making his favorite meal will help him unwind and let go. 3. Ask what your partner needs. Many people retreat inside themselves when they're feeling anxious or depressed. They may have learned early in life that their needs won't get met, so they eventually learn to stop asking for what they need. This is where being in an intimate relationship can be profoundly powerful for healing old wounds. If you see that your partner has retreated, make the effort to approach him and say something like, "You seem like you're having a hard time. How can I help you right now?" When you partner sees that you're truly interested in helping him and giving him what he needs, he'll learn to soften into your loving question and depend on you in healthy ways. This healthy dependency is one of the qualities that creates a secure base in a relationship, the soft pillow where both partners can consistently land. It's never easy when our partner is stressed, but it's part of life. Even if your partner has consistently been the rock in your relationship, there will inevitably come a time when he falls apart and you'll be given the opportunity to return the active love and support that he has shown you. This is a time to grow into a higher part of yourself and also grow the trust in your relationship. So instead of running from or resenting the stress, see it as an opportunity for growth. |
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skelewu404: Hahaha. No p |
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khassy: Opposite our size |
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