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Romance / Re: Questions girls ask by fartkay(m): 10:20am On May 07, 2016
Akkord4gov:


She has Sometin to be worried about truly. Talking from psychological view point. Having guys asking her out doesn't mean she can't focus on her study. Even successful ladies have problem the most in a relationship. It is only good to be successful together with a guy. My opinion ooooo



Yea i quite agree wit u.

She needs 2 change environment maybe.

Y I said so is dat, she shouldn't bother herself on it, if I consider dat as an issue, she might want to force herself on to any guy just because she wanna break jinx.
Romance / Re: Questions girls ask by fartkay(m): 10:20am On May 07, 2016
Akkord4gov:


She has Sometin to be worried about truly. Talking from psychological view point. Having guys asking her out doesn't mean she can't focus on her study. Even successful ladies have problem the most in a relationship. It is only good to be successful together with a guy. My opinion ooooo



Yea I quite agree wit u.

She needs change environment maybe.

Y I said so is dat, she shouldn't bother herself on it, if I consider dat as an issue, she might want to force herself on to any guy just because she wanna break jinx.
Romance / Re: Questions girls ask by fartkay(m): 9:50am On May 07, 2016
Focus on ur study, wen u re successful real men will chase u pants down. "All iz well (2011)"

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Fashion / Re: 6 Best Ways To Keep Your Ankara From Fading by fartkay(m): 1:52pm On May 04, 2016
Always shade dry not sun dry

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Romance / Re: N'LANDERS, Pls Help Him Out. by fartkay(m): 10:08am On May 01, 2016
Afrok:
I think her words shows she's against fornication from both of u and/or cheating on her daughter from u. I'll advise u thread softly with your eyes fully opened, coz there MAY be more to what she said.



OK. Thanks

Come to think of it , an adage says. " the son u love u warn" does dat mean she accept his companionship with her daughter, cos I believe if she doesn't want her girl to be cheated or can not trust my guy with her daughter she can just tell her daughter not to go for him or cut off.
Romance / Re: N'LANDERS, Pls Help Him Out. by fartkay(m): 9:53pm On Apr 30, 2016
Afrok:
Op please tell that your friend to come out, I wanna advice him directly and not through u.


Ok .. Wait





Assume it's me. So advise
Romance / N'LANDERS, Pls Help Him Out. by fartkay(m): 8:48pm On Apr 30, 2016
A friend of mine asked me this, he said n I quote
"What does it mean when your girl friend mother (mother in-law to be) ask you to call her, and during d call she read out some bible passages stressing out that you shouldn't defile your bed and all sort. Simply put, no romance, no kiss n no sex. Does that mean i have been accepted into their family or what".


Pls advice maturedly...
Fashion / Re: A Nairalander And His Friends In OAU In Yoruba Demons Attire by fartkay(m): 8:14pm On Apr 27, 2016
I can't see the school gate under lock n key. Lol
Romance / Re: Lets Wish TOSYNTOOMUCH Happy Birthday Today by fartkay(m): 12:59pm On Apr 26, 2016
tosyne2much:
Fartkay I throway salute ooooo, and thanks to y'all cool



Always welcome
Romance / Re: Lets Wish TOSYNTOOMUCH Happy Birthday Today by fartkay(m): 12:30pm On Apr 26, 2016
Ojestas:
OP. . gimme just 10 reasons to wish him a HBD . .




The 10reason crooner will do dat himself
Romance / Lets Wish TOSYNTOOMUCH Happy Birthday Today by fartkay(m): 11:32am On Apr 26, 2016
It another day inded a new day in the life of the 10reason crooner, as he marks a year older today.











Thread souvenir courtesy

CODEDK'ODE
Romance / Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by fartkay(m): 8:32am On Apr 05, 2016
Alani86:



Funny you! "Far out of point" or too deep for your brain to catch? Well, you also spoke and we read your comment; it shows you have been noticed already. Congratulations!


Y go deep when all I mean is not far fetch. Wen I need u to think deep I know wat to type. Thanks dou, ur point us clear to me. I understand wat u mean, (not to throw caution into d air) 1stly put God first.


Good platform to know u.
Romance / Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by fartkay(m): 7:48pm On Apr 04, 2016
Alani86:



"Mind u its on her desk, d lady must do all that it takes to maintain and sustain her relationship."; even if it'll take her to hell? Should we displease God while trying to please men? I don't think so!



Y u multiplying words, your thinking is always far out of point
Romance / Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by fartkay(m): 10:26am On Apr 03, 2016
Alani86:



"Funniest thing is that she is a deeper life member bo talks dirty just to keep d relationship glowing."; this sounded funny to you right? You just made a public ridicule of her. You seem to be rejoicing in iniquity and that's so terrible. I'm not holy though(I only rely on His Grace, Nature and Spirit). But, I think you need to both go to God and ask for forgiveness before it's too late. And please, stop promoting darkness, and don't drag innocent souls along with you, in case you want to be adamant and at logger heads with your Creator.


If God could save and help me to this point(and ever), He can do the same for you(depending on how remorseful you are). The vilest offender who truly believes, that moment from Jesus a pardon receives!



U re right dou, u might ve define it ur own way (being dirty) bo I know wat I mean as well as she knows d kind of dirty talk she can engage me with. Am not promoting iniquity, and am not ridiculing her standard and profile, am only expressing d length you can go to save a distance relationship. Mind u its on her desk, d lady must do all that it takes to maintain and sustain her relationship. Just any means. Mind u I mean no harm
Romance / Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by fartkay(m): 10:25am On Apr 03, 2016
Alani86:



"Funniest thing is that she is a deeper life member bo talks dirty just to keep d relationship glowing."; this sounded funny to you right? You just made a public ridicule of her. You seem to be rejoicing in iniquity and that's so terrible. I'm not holy though(I only rely on His Grace, Nature and Spirit). But, I think you need to both go to God and ask for forgiveness before it's too late. And please, stop promoting darkness, and don't drag innocent souls along with you, in case you want to be adamant and at logger heads with your Creator.


If God could save and help me to this point(and ever), He can do the same for you(depending on how remorseful you are). The vilest offender who truly believes, that moment from Jesus a pardon receives!



U re right dou, u might be define it ur own way (being dirty) bo I know wat I mean as well as she knows d kind of dirty talk she can engage me with. Am not promoting iniquity, and am not ridiculing her standard and profile, am only expressing d length you can go to save a distance relationship. Mind u its on her desk, d lady must do all that it takes to maintain and sustain her relationship. Just any means. Mind u I mean no harm
Romance / Re: Keeping A Long Distance Relationship Alive by fartkay(m): 6:42am On Apr 03, 2016
layla129:
It can be really frustrating and boring at a point i tell you but a distant relationship that survives only grows stronger. I'll share some of my personal tips from experience with you which has helped and is still keeping us going.
1. Visit each other; if you're lucky to be in the same country, visit each other. And if in different countries, still visit. Spend time and money on travels.

2. Video calls/ chats; being able to see each other regularly and talking about EVERYTHING develops intimacy. Send photos, take shots specifically for him.

3. Make an effort and be determined to make things work; if he's a very busy dude like mine, my sister you have to really try. U jst have to pin him down to get things sorted. The longer issues linger, the gap becomes wider.

4. Keep yourself busy; focus on your life too, develop yourself... apart from the personal benefits you gain from this, it tends to take your mind off the thoughts of him for a while. And i'm sure he'll even respect u more for that.

5. Set some rules; in my case, i made it a standard that we should never sleep over a disagreement. We must settle it before it before we both go to bed...i've gone to bed 3am on an occassion because we just had to straighten out things.
We know each other's schedule for the whole day

6.talk dirty to each other and be very romantic; you know what to do tongue
Plus, tell him when you're angry or unhappy about anything because he is not with you physically to see your expressions.

These are the ones i remember for now, i hope they were helpful? Hang in there sis
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As if u know what's on my mind. Am in it too right now. We spend at least two hours on day time call n at least three hours midnight call. We do all that it takes to get closer dou wide apart. Funniest thing is that she is a deeper life member bo talks dirty just to keep d relationship glowing.
Romance / Re: Guys, Ever Been Embarrassed For Visiting A Lady? Share Your Experiences by fartkay(m): 5:45pm On Mar 27, 2016
Chai OP my own na small wash sha

Ma babe floor me die

She want me to introduce her to ma parent so as to know her stand in the relationship so I did, dat day I Introduce her as my wife to be. She also want to reciprocate my action by taken me home to her parent but to my surprise, I was introduce as just a fellowship brother in school. Na den I know wetin I enta

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Politics / Re: Police Prevents Wike And Amaechi From Entering Mile One Police Station (Pics) by fartkay(m): 11:29am On Mar 20, 2016
No matter how wise and smart you are, you will eventually meet yourself at the back yard of the foolish.

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Politics / Re: Economic Crisis A Blessing – Buhari by fartkay(m): 8:24am On Mar 18, 2016
joseph1832:
Abeg shut up joor! tongue yeye boy. If you lack comprehension, don't come here quoting me and displaying it. You understand?. tongue
.




Tu e malard. Did I ever refer u as a yeye boy. Well, I can c d pain in u. Sorry ehn
Politics / Re: Economic Crisis A Blessing – Buhari by fartkay(m): 10:29pm On Mar 17, 2016
We all can see the aftermath effect of the government that we claim the economy isn't tight, money here n there yet never touches the common mans' hand. Am blaming it all on the generation past for not doing something to ameliorate national issue of their time which is now affecting us, at least if my generation could fight this course right an well assured that all I will get from the next generation is gratitude. Appreciation thanks, prayers n not curses. So let support the government that has plans for the youth and trying to take what belongs to the nation back from the few.

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Politics / Re: Economic Crisis A Blessing – Buhari by fartkay(m): 10:15pm On Mar 17, 2016
joseph1832:
You expect the typical nigerian to believe and understand this?

The typical nigerian who would chose an Olajumoke Origasanya over an Ayodele Dada? The typical nigerian who would sit down and play baba ijebu and nairabet rather than work hard for his money? The typical nigerian who likes and believes he's entitled to everything F.O.C

Bros ye! Abeg you take style harsh ooo. LOL.



Hear yourself out. Typical Nigerians. So you want the president to run the office like a typical Nigerian so as to sooth the typical Nigerians. So he should fund nairabet n baba ijebu more with money so the typical Nigerians can benefit from there, nonsense, what an irrational thinking. And we all claim to go to school but we've got no common sense
Romance / Re: learn how to deal with partner when Stressed Out by fartkay(m): 1:08pm On Feb 22, 2016
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Romance / Re: learn how to deal with partner when Stressed Out by fartkay(m): 12:53pm On Feb 22, 2016
Romance / learn how to deal with partner when Stressed Out by fartkay(m): 12:42pm On Feb 22, 2016
We hear a lot these days about the many effective ways to handle one's own stress—meditation, yoga, healthy eating—but we receive little guidance on how to respond lovingly when your partner is anxious, depressed, or stressed. It's easy to love someone when they're feeling great and on top of the world, but how do you respond when life gets them down?

This is a common scenario I hear in my practice:

My partner has always been the rock in our relationship. He's been incredibly supportive when I've struggled with anxiety or when things are stressful with my family. But now that he's having trouble at work, he's the one that's been more unstable and I don't know how to handle it. A part of me wants to say, "Get over it! You're supposed to be the strong one!" but I know that's not a loving response. What do I do?

There are three steps you can take when you can see that your partner is going through a tough time:

1. Attend to your own feelings in a loving way.

When your partner is stressed, it will likely trigger feelings of your own, especially if you're not used to seeing him or her in a more vulnerable state. If your partner withdraws, you may feel lonely. If you don't know how to help, you may feel helpless. If you have a judgment toward someone "falling apart" and equate stress with weakness (likely derived from a message you received growing up that crying or struggling is weak), you may view your partner through these eyes and find yourself feeling an aversion toward him or her. So before you can lovingly show up for your partner, you first have to show up for yourself with compassion.

2. Show up for your partner using his/her love language.

When your partner is stressed, it's an opportunity for you to practice being the grownup in the relationship. Once you've attended to your own feelings (and this may be as simple as putting your hands on your heart, naming the feeling, and breathing compassion into it), you can lovingly attend to your partner. If you know your partner's love language, this is the time to express love in that way.

For example, if your partner is soothed by and most responsive to physical touch, simply approaching your partner and putting your arms around her can help her breathe some space into her tightness. If your partner's love language is "acts of service," making his favorite meal will help him unwind and let go.

3. Ask what your partner needs.

Many people retreat inside themselves when they're feeling anxious or depressed. They may have learned early in life that their needs won't get met, so they eventually learn to stop asking for what they need. This is where being in an intimate relationship can be profoundly powerful for healing old wounds.

If you see that your partner has retreated, make the effort to approach him and say something like, "You seem like you're having a hard time. How can I help you right now?"

When you partner sees that you're truly interested in helping him and giving him what he needs, he'll learn to soften into your loving question and depend on you in healthy ways. This healthy dependency is one of the qualities that creates a secure base in a relationship, the soft pillow where both partners can consistently land.

It's never easy when our partner is stressed, but it's part of life. Even if your partner has consistently been the rock in your relationship, there will inevitably come a time when he falls apart and you'll be given the opportunity to return the active love and support that he has shown you. This is a time to grow into a higher part of yourself and also grow the trust in your relationship. So instead of running from or resenting the stress, see it as an opportunity for growth.
Romance / Re: Val: Post The Pics Of You And Ur Bae And Let C The Most Beautiful Couple Here. by fartkay(m): 12:53pm On Feb 15, 2016
shizzy7:
Bad boy....


I didn't earn it, its inherited
Romance / Re: Val: Post The Pics Of You And Ur Bae And Let C The Most Beautiful Couple Here. by fartkay(m): 8:29pm On Feb 14, 2016
southniyikaye:
this is the best couple









Psycho de worry u. N wu tell u m ere for competition.



















From the back
Romance / Re: Val: Post The Pics Of You And Ur Bae And Let C The Most Beautiful Couple Here. by fartkay(m): 8:20pm On Feb 14, 2016
skelewu404:
no disrespect bro, ur boo is over size n u, hnmmmmm, ur teeth reminds me of someone vampire movies


Hahaha. No p
Romance / Re: Val: Post The Pics Of You And Ur Bae And Let C The Most Beautiful Couple Here. by fartkay(m): 8:17pm On Feb 14, 2016
khassy:



Una fat ooo undecidedundecidedundecided.... How una children go come be undecidedundecided

Opposite our size
Romance / Re: Val: Post The Pics Of You And Ur Bae And Let C The Most Beautiful Couple Here. by fartkay(m): 8:12pm On Feb 14, 2016
shizzy7:
Wetin you use pump this woman?

Vitamin S.
S 4 sp...m

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