Probably because of ignorance or because of unbelief, or because you forgot, you become too jealous of other people, get drenched in the fact that God doesn’t care about you, and ultimately spend the time being envious of others. You know what jealous causes?
It makes you to spend all your strength in looking at who or what others are while forgetting who you are meant to be. Not only that, it blindfolds you from seeing the treasures naturally deposited in
you. And you know something mysterious about treasures? Unless a treasure is discovered, it will remain untapped and dormant (and if care is not taken, it will remain dormant till you die). Petroleum has been in Nigeria since ages, but it remained untapped and unused because people were ignorance of its existence (until it was finally discovered).

This is exactly what jealous does to a man. Do not make one of the greatest mistake by comparing your life with others. This may lead to jealousy, and you know what jealous does again? It rotten the bone, it blindfolds the eyes, and it may lead you to a “wicked acts.” A double-eyed man would not appreciate who he is until he loses one eye. A one-eyed man would not appreciate who he is until he loses the eye. A no-eye man would not appreciate who he is until he http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/11/topic-99-god-has-better-plan-for-every.html#more

YOU HAVE GOT THAT AMAZING BEAUTY AND YOU THINK THAT IS ALL?
Yea, you are a perfect example and epitome of beauty. It is true that a guy cannot just resist the temptation of checking on you the second time after his first glimpse on your conspicuous beauty.It is true that you have got all it takes to intoxicate the “want-more” center of a man that set an eye on you. Without dispute, you are beautiful; even the heaven and earth can testify to that.

As I used to jokingly tell my friends, “an evidence of 6+1 working days of God (meaning God had used a 7 complete days in creating only you). You have got the anatomical figure 8 that men cannot
resist. Your presence subdues rational thinking; quite inexplicable. If we would not shy away from the truth, and without mincing words, “you are damn beautiful”. But do you think that your beauty is all? Don’t forget this word today: “A beauty may attract a man, but good attitude attaches him to you”. Lest, it is the same beauty that magically attracts them to you that will indirectly repel them from you. A beauty without a good attitude is like a Peak milk tin without the milk in it. It is useless and it becomes a liability because it fills space in the room attracting nothing good but insects. And you know where such peak milk can belong? It belongs to the incinerator! The same can be likened to a beauty without an attitude. You don’t belong to a “HOME”.

A beauty is like an attracting magnet but with the limitation to stick, but the attitude is like the glue that pin a man down. It is true that a man is moved by what he sees, but it is far-fetched to say a man is glued by the beauty. Yes, the leg and the heart of a guy may be moved, but they will retrace their step backward, if after checking on you, he realizes http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-98-you-have-got-that-amazing.html

YOU HAVE GOT THAT AMAZING BEAUTY AND YOU THINK THAT IS ALL?
Yea, you are a perfect example and epitome of beauty. It is true that a guy cannot just resist the temptation of checking on you the second time after his first glimpse on your conspicuous beauty.It is true that you have got all it takes to intoxicate the “want-more” center of a man that set an eye on you. Without dispute, you are beautiful; even the heaven and earth can testify to that.

As I used to jokingly tell my friends, “an evidence of 6+1 working days of God (meaning God had used a 7 complete days in creating only you). You have got the anatomical figure 8 that men cannot
resist. Your presence subdues rational thinking; quite inexplicable. If we would not shy away from the truth, and without mincing words, “you are damn beautiful”. But do you think that your beauty is all? Don’t forget this word today: “A beauty may attract a man, but good attitude attaches him to you”. Lest, it is the same beauty that magically attracts them to you that will indirectly repel them from you. A beauty without a good attitude is like a Peak milk tin without the milk in it. It is useless and it becomes a liability because it fills space in the room attracting nothing good but insects. And you know where such peak milk can belong? It belongs to the incinerator! The same can be likened to a beauty without an attitude. You don’t belong to a “HOME”.

A beauty is like an attracting magnet but with the limitation to stick, but the attitude is like the glue that pin a man down. It is true that a man is moved by what he sees, but it is far-fetched to say a man is glued by the beauty. Yes, the leg and the heart of a guy may be moved, but they will retrace their step backward, if after checking on you, he realizes http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-98-you-have-got-that-amazing.html

YOU HAVE GOT THAT AMAZING BEAUTY AND YOU THINK THAT IS ALL?
Yea, you are a perfect example and epitome of beauty. It is true that a guy cannot just resist the temptation of checking on you the second time after his first glimpse on your conspicuous beauty.It is true that you have got all it takes to intoxicate the “want-more” center of a man that set an eye on you. Without dispute, you are beautiful; even the heaven and earth can testify to that.

As I used to jokingly tell my friends, “an evidence of 6+1 working days of God (meaning God had used a 7 complete days in creating only you). You have got the anatomical figure 8 that men cannot
resist. Your presence subdues rational thinking; quite inexplicable. If we would not shy away from the truth, and without mincing words, “you are damn beautiful”. But do you think that your beauty is all? Don’t forget this word today: “A beauty may attract a man, but good attitude attaches him to you”. Lest, it is the same beauty that magically attracts them to you that will indirectly repel them from you. A beauty without a good attitude is like a Peak milk tin without the milk in it. It is useless and it becomes a liability because it fills space in the room attracting nothing good but insects. And you know where such peak milk can belong? It belongs to the incinerator! The same can be likened to a beauty without an attitude. You don’t belong to a “HOME”.

A beauty is like an attracting magnet but with the limitation to stick, but the attitude is like the glue that pin a man down. It is true that a man is moved by what he sees, but it is far-fetched to say a man is glued by the beauty. Yes, the leg and the heart of a guy may be moved, but they will retrace their step backward, if after checking on you, he realizes http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-98-you-have-got-that-amazing.html

YOU HAVE GOT THAT AMAZING BEAUTY AND YOU THINK THAT IS ALL?
Yea, you are a perfect example and epitome of beauty. It is true that a guy cannot just resist the temptation of checking on you the second time after his first glimpse on your conspicuous beauty.It is true that you have got all it takes to intoxicate the “want-more” center of a man that set an eye on you. Without dispute, you are beautiful; even the heaven and earth can testify to that.

As I used to jokingly tell my friends, “an evidence of 6+1 working days of God (meaning God had used a 7 complete days in creating only you). You have got the anatomical figure 8 that men cannot
resist. Your presence subdues rational thinking; quite inexplicable. If we would not shy away from the truth, and without mincing words, “you are damn beautiful”. But do you think that your beauty is all? Don’t forget this word today: “A beauty may attract a man, but good attitude attaches him to you”. Lest, it is the same beauty that magically attracts them to you that will indirectly repel them from you. A beauty without a good attitude is like a Peak milk tin without the milk in it. It is useless and it becomes a liability because it fills space in the room attracting nothing good but insects. And you know where such peak milk can belong? It belongs to the incinerator! The same can be likened to a beauty without an attitude. You don’t belong to a “HOME”.

A beauty is like an attracting magnet but with the limitation to stick, but the attitude is like the glue that pin a man down. It is true that a man is moved by what he sees, but it is far-fetched to say a man is glued by the beauty. Yes, the leg and the heart of a guy may be moved, but they will retrace their step backward, if after checking on you, he realizes http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-98-you-have-got-that-amazing.html

Yea, you are a perfect example and epitome of beauty. It is true that a guy cannot just resist the temptation of checking on you the second time after his first glimpse on your conspicuous beauty.It is true that you have got all it takes to intoxicate the “want-more” center of a man that set an eye on you. Without dispute, you are beautiful; even the heaven and earth can testify to that.

As I used to jokingly tell my friends, “an evidence of 6+1 working days of God (meaning God had used a 7 complete days in creating only you). You have got the anatomical figure 8 that men cannot
resist. Your presence subdues rational thinking; quite inexplicable. If we would not shy away from the truth, and without mincing words, “you are damn beautiful”. But do you think that your beauty is all? Don’t forget this word today: “A beauty may attract a man, but good attitude attaches him to you”. Lest, it is the same beauty that magically attracts them to you that will indirectly repel them from you. A beauty without a good attitude is like a Peak milk tin without the milk in it. It is useless and it becomes a liability because it fills space in the room attracting nothing good but insects. And you know where such peak milk can belong? It belongs to the incinerator! The same can be likened to a beauty without an attitude. You don’t belong to a “HOME”.

A beauty is like an attracting magnet but with the limitation to stick, but the attitude is like the glue that pin a man down. It is true that a man is moved by what he sees, but it is far-fetched to say a man is glued by the beauty. Yes, the leg and the heart of a guy may be moved, but they will retrace their step backward, if after checking on you, he realizes http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-98-you-have-got-that-amazing.html

One thing I have realized over time is that God has a special plan for every man on earth. But not every man key into this special plan due to some factors.The fact that there is no clear evidence of God’s better plan in some people’s life, is not because God doesn’t have the initial plan for them, or neither is it that God had refused to fulfill these special plans, but because some people have
ignorantly failed to tick some of the boxes necessary for the evidence to manifest. While some didn’t tick the box at all, some people are busy ticking the wrong boxes, some are ticking the right boxes at the wrong time and vice versa, and the last group are those that have no resources to tick their boxes at all. Is hope alive?
THE GROUP THAT REFUSES TO TICK THE BOX AT ALL: these are the set of people that wants riches and other good things of life, but they have refused to work for what they actually desired, or probably what they think they deserve. They are the feeble-minded lazy ones. What is in your hand for God to bless? Even at the season of blessing, there is nothing in your hand to be multiplied. It is like multiplying 1,000,000 by zero. It will eventually give zero. The ones that sleep and wake up doing nothing, and expect miracle of riches and blessing to come without working. Some of them hypocritically spend their time going to mountains, churches or mosques to pray to a God that Himself, isn’t a lazy God (evidence of Creation proves that; and God rested on the 7th day). Well a futile prayer be it.

THE GROUP THAT TICK THE WRONG BOX: These are the LOST ONES. Some term it ill-luck. It disheartens me because it seems the life doesn’t seem to be fair on them. The ones with the intrinsic energy and the willpower to work for what they truly wanted. The ones that are always there at the right time, but always find themselves ticking the wrong boxes any time they try to. Well, many factors may contribute to this. As for the part of this world (Africa), spiritual FORCES (beyond mere explanation), can be a major http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-97-god-has-better-plan-for-every.html

One thing I have realized over time is that God has a special plan for every man on earth. But not every man key into this special plan due to some factors.The fact that there is no clear evidence of God’s better plan in some people’s life, is not because God doesn’t have the initial plan for them, or neither is it that God had refused to fulfill these special plans, but because some people have
ignorantly failed to tick some of the boxes necessary for the evidence to manifest. While some didn’t tick the box at all, some people are busy ticking the wrong boxes, some are ticking the right boxes at the wrong time and vice versa, and the last group are those that have no resources to tick their boxes at all. Is hope alive?
THE GROUP THAT REFUSES TO TICK THE BOX AT ALL: these are the set of people that wants riches and other good things of life, but they have refused to work for what they actually desired, or probably what they think they deserve. They are the feeble-minded lazy ones. What is in your hand for God to bless? Even at the season of blessing, there is nothing in your hand to be multiplied. It is like multiplying 1,000,000 by zero. It will eventually give zero. The ones that sleep and wake up doing nothing, and expect miracle of riches and blessing to come without working. Some of them hypocritically spend their time going to mountains, churches or mosques to pray to a God that Himself, isn’t a lazy God (evidence of Creation proves that; and God rested on the 7th day). Well a futile prayer be it.

THE GROUP THAT TICK THE WRONG BOX: These are the LOST ONES. Some term it ill-luck. It disheartens me because it seems the life doesn’t seem to be fair on them. The ones with the intrinsic energy and the willpower to work for what they truly wanted. The ones that are always there at the right time, but always find themselves ticking the wrong boxes any time they try to. Well, many factors may contribute to this. As for the part of this world (Africa), spiritual FORCES (beyond mere explanation), can be a major http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-97-god-has-better-plan-for-every.html

One thing I have realized over time is that God has a special plan for every man on earth. But not every man key into this special plan due to some factors.The fact that there is no clear evidence of God’s better plan in some people’s life, is not because God doesn’t have the initial plan for them, or neither is it that God had refused to fulfill these special plans, but because some people have
ignorantly failed to tick some of the boxes necessary for the evidence to manifest. While some didn’t tick the box at all, some people are busy ticking the wrong boxes, some are ticking the right boxes at the wrong time and vice versa, and the last group are those that have no resources to tick their boxes at all. Is hope alive?
THE GROUP THAT REFUSES TO TICK THE BOX AT ALL: these are the set of people that wants riches and other good things of life, but they have refused to work for what they actually desired, or probably what they think they deserve. They are the feeble-minded lazy ones. What is in your hand for God to bless? Even at the season of blessing, there is nothing in your hand to be multiplied. It is like multiplying 1,000,000 by zero. It will eventually give zero. The ones that sleep and wake up doing nothing, and expect miracle of riches and blessing to come without working. Some of them hypocritically spend their time going to mountains, churches or mosques to pray to a God that Himself, isn’t a lazy God (evidence of Creation proves that; and God rested on the 7th day). Well a futile prayer be it.

THE GROUP THAT TICK THE WRONG BOX: These are the LOST ONES. Some term it ill-luck. It disheartens me because it seems the life doesn’t seem to be fair on them. The ones with the intrinsic energy and the willpower to work for what they truly wanted. The ones that are always there at the right time, but always find themselves ticking the wrong boxes any time they try to. Well, many factors may contribute to this. As for the part of this world (Africa), spiritual FORCES (beyond mere explanation), can be a major http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-97-god-has-better-plan-for-every.html

So as a guy who is trying to win a lady’s heart, you have to make it right, and the best way to do that is to try as much as possible to make it a direct contact.
Get the correct body language and see the correct feelings. Let her know you are really serious about her. Guys are moved by what they see
which is why most of them prefer to communicate through chats, but ladies are moved by what they hear and feel.

Most times the lady might begin to wonder; “what if there were no phones, would he keep asking me out?” or is it because he is bored, and since he has enough data on his phone, he decides to give it another trial since he has nothing to lose?” Chats, Phone calls, message should be a backup and not the main platform for a serious communication!

Furthermore, never expect a YES instantly from a lady even when you have a good motive, use a good approach method she might still give you a No. You shouldn’t blame her for http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-96-ladies-and-relationship-are.html

So as a guy who is trying to win a lady’s heart, you have to make it right, and the best way to do that is to try as much as possible to make it a direct contact.
Get the correct body language and see the correct feelings. Let her know you are really serious about her. Guys are moved by what they see
which is why most of them prefer to communicate through chats, but ladies are moved by what they hear and feel.

Most times the lady might begin to wonder; “what if there were no phones, would he keep asking me out?” or is it because he is bored, and since he has enough data on his phone, he decides to give it another trial since he has nothing to lose?” Chats, Phone calls, message should be a backup and not the main platform for a serious communication!

Furthermore, never expect a YES instantly from a lady even when you have a good motive, use a good approach method she might still give you a No. You shouldn’t blame her for http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-96-ladies-and-relationship-are.html

So as a guy who is trying to win a lady’s heart, you have to make it right, and the best way to do that is to try as much as possible to make it a direct contact.
Get the correct body language and see the correct feelings. Let her know you are really serious about her. Guys are moved by what they see
which is why most of them prefer to communicate through chats, but ladies are moved by what they hear and feel.

Most times the lady might begin to wonder; “what if there were no phones, would he keep asking me out?” or is it because he is bored, and since he has enough data on his phone, he decides to give it another trial since he has nothing to lose?” Chats, Phone calls, message should be a backup and not the main platform for a serious communication!

Furthermore, never expect a YES instantly from a lady even when you have a good motive, use a good approach method she might still give you a No. You shouldn’t blame her for http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/10/topic-96-ladies-and-relationship-are.html

Our problem in Nigeria is not the economic recession, it is not the outrageous drastic fall in naira, it is not the ridiculous Boko Haram, it is not the Biafra agitators, it is not the callous corrupt leaders, and finally it is not because it seems God has forsaken us in Nigeria.

Our problem is because of lack of change, which start rightly from the individual. We can fast and pray till tomorrow, yet things may aggravate for us in Nigeria.

If you ask me how I how know this, I will refer you to what the Holy Scripture says. “If my people, which are called by name, shall humble themselves, and
turn (CHANGE BEGINS WITH ME) from their wicked ways, then I will heal their land”. This is enough to show us that even if we keep praying ignorantly that God should intervene into our situation, and we fail to turn away from our evil ways, there are high chances that our prayer may continually be to no avail, unless Mercy Speaks for us.
Let’s analyze these together:
Have you been faithful and guiltless in the following ways:
· Are you guiltless of creating wealth by exploiting and duping other people?
· Are you guiltless of accusing, abusing, and cursing your leaders?
· Are guiltless of clamouring for “Nigeria must break”?
· Are you guiltless of not seeing anything good about Nigeria?
· Can you sincerely say to yourself, “I am a good follower?”
· Where do you throw your used nylons or wraps after eating junks or cookies?
· Are you guiltless of jumping the queues always?
· Do you truly account for every penny or any public fund in your charge?
· Are you guiltless of bribe and other related scandals?
· Are you guiltless of nepotism? read more on www.ishopealive.com

cc: lalasticlala

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Our problem in Nigeria is not the economic recession, it is not the outrageous drastic fall in naira, it is not the ridiculous Boko Haram, it is not the Biafra agitators, it is not the callous corrupt leaders, and finally it is not because it seems God has forsaken us in Nigeria.

Our problem is because of lack of change, which start rightly from the individual. We can fast and pray till tomorrow, yet things may aggravate for us in Nigeria.

If you ask me how I how know this, I will refer you to what the Holy Scripture says. “If my people, which are called by name, shall humble themselves, and
turn (CHANGE BEGINS WITH ME) from their wicked ways, then I will heal their land”. This is enough to show us that even if we keep praying ignorantly that God should intervene into our situation, and we fail to turn away from our evil ways, there are high chances that our prayer may continually be to no avail, unless Mercy Speaks for us.
Let’s analyze these together:
Have you been faithful and guiltless in the following ways:
· Are you guiltless of creating wealth by exploiting and duping other people?
· Are you guiltless of accusing, abusing, and cursing your leaders?
· Are guiltless of clamouring for “Nigeria must break”?
· Are you guiltless of not seeing anything good about Nigeria?
· Can you sincerely say to yourself, “I am a good follower?”
· Where do you throw your used nylons or wraps after eating junks or cookies?
· Are you guiltless of jumping the queues always?
· Do you truly account for every penny or any public fund in your charge?
· Are you guiltless of bribe and other related scandals?
· Are you guiltless of nepotism? read more on www.ishopealive.com

cc: lalasticlala

Our problem in Nigeria is not the economic recession, it is not the outrageous drastic fall in naira, it is not the ridiculous Boko Haram, it is not the Biafra agitators, it is not the callous corrupt leaders, and finally it is not because it seems God has forsaken us in Nigeria.

Our problem is because of lack of change, which start rightly from the individual. We can fast and pray till tomorrow, yet things may aggravate for us in Nigeria.

If you ask me how I how know this, I will refer you to what the Holy Scripture says. “If my people, which are called by name, shall humble themselves, and
turn (CHANGE BEGINS WITH ME) from their wicked ways, then I will heal their land”. This is enough to show us that even if we keep praying ignorantly that God should intervene into our situation, and we fail to turn away from our evil ways, there are high chances that our prayer may continually be to no avail, unless Mercy Speaks for us.
Let’s analyze these together:
Have you been faithful and guiltless in the following ways:
· Are you guiltless of creating wealth by exploiting and duping other people?
· Are you guiltless of accusing, abusing, and cursing your leaders?
· Are guiltless of clamouring for “Nigeria must break”?
· Are you guiltless of not seeing anything good about Nigeria?
· Can you sincerely say to yourself, “I am a good follower?”
· Where do you throw your used nylons or wraps after eating junks or cookies?
· Are you guiltless of jumping the queues always?
· Do you truly account for every penny or any public fund in your charge?
· Are you guiltless of bribe and other related scandals?
· Are you guiltless of nepotism? read more on www.ishopealive.com

cc: lalasticlala

If it is by virtue of righteousness, I would rather not deserve to write this article, but for the sake of confession, sincerity, truthfulness, National growth and development and for fairness and just, I am penning down this article, not only for you the readers, but also for me the writer; to checkmate and to purge out myself because of my undefinable and inexplicable love for my fatherland, Nigeria. I can categorically say this: CHANGE TRULY BEGINS WITH ME, OLUKAYODE FADAIRO.I might not have committed atrocities like our past leaders have done and I might not have stylishly padded budgets like our present leaders are doing. I might not have embezzled and stolen the national treasures like some gutless and heartless politicians and leaders are doing, but that does not say I am a saint either, because I realized I have done not so much as an individual to the national development and growth; instead I have long been focusing on the mistakes and the shortcomings of our leaders. I have simultaneously forgotten to remove the specks in my own eyes. Is hope alive?
The campaign “change begins with me” was launched September the 8th, 2016 by President M. Buhari, and it was at that moment that I remembered the words of President JFK, who said: “don’t think of what the country can do for you, but what you can do for your country”. As simple as this statement portrays, a second critical look at it will give you and I a food for thought that only the sensitive and the wise people will re-again deliberate on.
Also, it is at this moment that I thought that what if everybody were to be like http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-94-change-begins-with-me.html

If it is by virtue of righteousness, I would rather not deserve to write this article, but for the sake of confession, sincerity, truthfulness, National growth and development and for fairness and just, I am penning down this article, not only for you the readers, but also for me the writer; to checkmate and to purge out myself because of my undefinable and inexplicable love for my fatherland, Nigeria. I can categorically say this: CHANGE TRULY BEGINS WITH ME, OLUKAYODE FADAIRO.I might not have committed atrocities like our past leaders have done and I might not have stylishly padded budgets like our present leaders are doing. I might not have embezzled and stolen the national treasures like some gutless and heartless politicians and leaders are doing, but that does not say I am a saint either, because I realized I have done not so much as an individual to the national development and growth; instead I have long been focusing on the mistakes and the shortcomings of our leaders. I have simultaneously forgotten to remove the specks in my own eyes. Is hope alive?
The campaign “change begins with me” was launched September the 8th, 2016 by President M. Buhari, and it was at that moment that I remembered the words of President JFK, who said: “don’t think of what the country can do for you, but what you can do for your country”. As simple as this statement portrays, a second critical look at it will give you and I a food for thought that only the sensitive and the wise people will re-again deliberate on.
Also, it is at this moment that I thought that what if everybody were to be like http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-94-change-begins-with-me.html

If it is by virtue of righteousness, I would rather not deserve to write this article, but for the sake of confession, sincerity, truthfulness, National growth and development and for fairness and just, I am penning down this article, not only for you the readers, but also for me the writer; to checkmate and to purge out myself because of my undefinable and inexplicable love for my fatherland, Nigeria. I can categorically say this: CHANGE TRULY BEGINS WITH ME, OLUKAYODE FADAIRO.I might not have committed atrocities like our past leaders have done and I might not have stylishly padded budgets like our present leaders are doing. I might not have embezzled and stolen the national treasures like some gutless and heartless politicians and leaders are doing, but that does not say I am a saint either, because I realized I have done not so much as an individual to the national development and growth; instead I have long been focusing on the mistakes and the shortcomings of our leaders. I have simultaneously forgotten to remove the specks in my own eyes. Is hope alive?
The campaign “change begins with me” was launched September the 8th, 2016 by President M. Buhari, and it was at that moment that I remembered the words of President JFK, who said: “don’t think of what the country can do for you, but what you can do for your country”. As simple as this statement portrays, a second critical look at it will give you and I a food for thought that only the sensitive and the wise people will re-again deliberate on.
Also, it is at this moment that I thought that what if everybody were to be like http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-94-change-begins-with-me.html

If it is by virtue of righteousness, I would rather not deserve to write this article, but for the sake of confession, sincerity, truthfulness, National growth and development and for fairness and just, I am penning down this article, not only for you the readers, but also for me the writer; to checkmate and to purge out myself because of my undefinable and inexplicable love for my fatherland, Nigeria. I can categorically say this: CHANGE TRULY BEGINS WITH ME, OLUKAYODE FADAIRO.I might not have committed atrocities like our past leaders have done and I might not have stylishly padded budgets like our present leaders are doing. I might not have embezzled and stolen the national treasures like some gutless and heartless politicians and leaders are doing, but that does not say I am a saint either, because I realized I have done not so much as an individual to the national development and growth; instead I have long been focusing on the mistakes and the shortcomings of our leaders. I have simultaneously forgotten to remove the specks in my own eyes. Is hope alive?
The campaign “change begins with me” was launched September the 8th, 2016 by President M. Buhari, and it was at that moment that I remembered the words of President JFK, who said: “don’t think of what the country can do for you, but what you can do for your country”. As simple as this statement portrays, a second critical look at it will give you and I a food for thought that only the sensitive and the wise people will re-again deliberate on.
Also, it is at this moment that I thought that what if everybody were to be like http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-94-change-begins-with-me.html

If it is by virtue of righteousness, I would rather not deserve to write this article, but for the sake of confession, sincerity, truthfulness, National growth and development and for fairness and just, I am penning down this article, not only for you the readers, but also for me the writer; to checkmate and to purge out myself because of my undefinable and inexplicable love for my fatherland, Nigeria. I can categorically say this: CHANGE TRULY BEGINS WITH ME, OLUKAYODE FADAIRO.I might not have committed atrocities like our past leaders have done and I might not have stylishly padded budgets like our present leaders are doing. I might not have embezzled and stolen the national treasures like some gutless and heartless politicians and leaders are doing, but that does not say I am a saint either, because I realized I have done not so much as an individual to the national development and growth; instead I have long been focusing on the mistakes and the shortcomings of our leaders. I have simultaneously forgotten to remove the specks in my own eyes. Is hope alive?
The campaign “change begins with me” was launched September the 8th, 2016 by President M. Buhari, and it was at that moment that I remembered the words of President JFK, who said: “don’t think of what the country can do for you, but what you can do for your country”. As simple as this statement portrays, a second critical look at it will give you and I a food for thought that only the sensitive and the wise people will re-again deliberate on.
Also, it is at this moment that I thought that what if everybody were to be like http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-94-change-begins-with-me.html

Girl’s dropout rates are still high in Nigeria. According to a British Council Gender in Nigeria Reports (2012), Nigeria has the largest number of out-of-school children in the world (with 70.8% of young women aged 20-29 in the North-West are unable to read or write; compared to 9.7% in the South-East).
Gender equality refers to the equal rights, responsibilities, and opportunities of women and men, girls and boys. Equality does not mean that women and men will become the same, but that women’s and men’s rights, responsibilities and opportunities will not depend on whether they are born male or female. There is an adage that says http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-93-with-humility-gender-equality.html

Girl’s dropout rates are still high in Nigeria. According to a British Council Gender in Nigeria Reports (2012), Nigeria has the largest number of out-of-school children in the world (with 70.8% of young women aged 20-29 in the North-West are unable to read or write; compared to 9.7% in the South-East).
Gender equality refers to the equal rights, responsibilities, and opportunities of women and men, girls and boys. Equality does not mean that women and men will become the same, but that women’s and men’s rights, responsibilities and opportunities will not depend on whether they are born male or female. There is an adage that says http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-93-with-humility-gender-equality.html

Girl’s dropout rates are still high in Nigeria. According to a British Council Gender in Nigeria Reports (2012), Nigeria has the largest number of out-of-school children in the world (with 70.8% of young women aged 20-29 in the North-West are unable to read or write; compared to 9.7% in the South-East).
Gender equality refers to the equal rights, responsibilities, and opportunities of women and men, girls and boys. Equality does not mean that women and men will become the same, but that women’s and men’s rights, responsibilities and opportunities will not depend on whether they are born male or female. There is an adage that says http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-93-with-humility-gender-equality.html

Nothing just happen in life; people make it happen. It is easy to dream, but without action, your dream may die a fiction. Forget about talent because talent is not, and may never be enough. Forget about gift and skills, because they may not be powerful enough. You have been dreaming all your life of becoming as great or greater than Ben Carson, Mark Zuckerberg, Barrack Obama, Steve Job, Mohammed Ali, Nelson Mandela, Bill Gate, Lionel Messi, Cristiano Ronaldo, etc.,but the rhetorical question is: “are you ready to pay the sacrifices these people paid before they get to
the apogee they reached today”? Are you ready to wake up while others are sleeping? Are you ready to keep working while others are resting? Are you ready to keep moving while others are stopping? Someone once said, “the only difference between an “ordinary” and an “extraordinary” is just the extra behind the extraordinary”. As simple as the word “extra” seems, it takes only the consistently determined and courageous fellow to bridge. Is hope alive?

There is a cost or a price to pay for almost everything in life including greatness. This is a true statement and is easily understood when http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-92-it-is-those-who-pay-prize-that.html

Nothing just happen in life; people make it happen. It is easy to dream, but without action, your dream may die a fiction. Forget about talent because talent is not, and may never be enough. Forget about gift and skills, because they may not be powerful enough. You have been dreaming all your life of becoming as great or greater than Ben Carson, Mark Zuckerberg, Barrack Obama, Steve Job, Mohammed Ali, Nelson Mandela, Bill Gate, Lionel Messi, Cristiano Ronaldo, etc.,but the rhetorical question is: “are you ready to pay the sacrifices these people paid before they get to
the apogee they reached today”? Are you ready to wake up while others are sleeping? Are you ready to keep working while others are resting? Are you ready to keep moving while others are stopping? Someone once said, “the only difference between an “ordinary” and an “extraordinary” is just the extra behind the extraordinary”. As simple as the word “extra” seems, it takes only the consistently determined and courageous fellow to bridge. Is hope alive?

There is a cost or a price to pay for almost everything in life including greatness. This is a true statement and is easily understood when http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-92-it-is-those-who-pay-prize-that.html

Nothing just happen in life; people make it happen. It is easy to dream, but without action, your dream may die a fiction. Forget about talent because talent is not, and may never be enough. Forget about gift and skills, because they may not be powerful enough. You have been dreaming all your life of becoming as great or greater than Ben Carson, Mark Zuckerberg, Barrack Obama, Steve Job, Mohammed Ali, Nelson Mandela, Bill Gate, Lionel Messi, Cristiano Ronaldo, etc.,but the rhetorical question is: “are you ready to pay the sacrifices these people paid before they get to
the apogee they reached today”? Are you ready to wake up while others are sleeping? Are you ready to keep working while others are resting? Are you ready to keep moving while others are stopping? Someone once said, “the only difference between an “ordinary” and an “extraordinary” is just the extra behind the extraordinary”. As simple as the word “extra” seems, it takes only the consistently determined and courageous fellow to bridge. Is hope alive?

There is a cost or a price to pay for almost everything in life including greatness. This is a true statement and is easily understood when http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-92-it-is-those-who-pay-prize-that.html

There is this lady I have affection for, but getting close to her was quite difficult for me and even after doing so, telling her how I feel about her fell on deaf ears on reasons best known to her…. What should I do?Well, what I think you need to do is to first of all ask yourself this question: “why her?”, why is it that out of the several ladies you’ve had
opportunity to meet, you decided to go for her? Why is it necessary to ask yourself this question?
This is because many youths of nowadays decide to go into a relationship without even figuring out why they really want to. Is hope alive?

Some decide to go into it, just to have “fun”, which is never a good ground to start a relationship. Most people don’t like to hear this, but it is always the truth because when a guy, whose intention is just to have fun asked a lady out, he might be lucky to get a “a yes” from the lady at the first trial, but most ladies will want/try to decline at the first trial. So a guy, who doesn’t even know why he actually wants the lady, would get http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-91-ladies-and-relationship-are.html

There is this lady I have affection for, but getting close to her was quite difficult for me and even after doing so, telling her how I feel about her fell on deaf ears on reasons best known to her…. What should I do?Well, what I think you need to do is to first of all ask yourself this question: “why her?”, why is it that out of the several ladies you’ve had
opportunity to meet, you decided to go for her? Why is it necessary to ask yourself this question?
This is because many youths of nowadays decide to go into a relationship without even figuring out why they really want to. Is hope alive?

Some decide to go into it, just to have “fun”, which is never a good ground to start a relationship. Most people don’t like to hear this, but it is always the truth because when a guy, whose intention is just to have fun asked a lady out, he might be lucky to get a “a yes” from the lady at the first trial, but most ladies will want/try to decline at the first trial. So a guy, who doesn’t even know why he actually wants the lady, would get http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-91-ladies-and-relationship-are.html

There is this lady I have affection for, but getting close to her was quite difficult for me and even after doing so, telling her how I feel about her fell on deaf ears on reasons best known to her…. What should I do?Well, what I think you need to do is to first of all ask yourself this question: “why her?”, why is it that out of the several ladies you’ve had
opportunity to meet, you decided to go for her? Why is it necessary to ask yourself this question?
This is because many youths of nowadays decide to go into a relationship without even figuring out why they really want to. Is hope alive?

Some decide to go into it, just to have “fun”, which is never a good ground to start a relationship. Most people don’t like to hear this, but it is always the truth because when a guy, whose intention is just to have fun asked a lady out, he might be lucky to get a “a yes” from the lady at the first trial, but most ladies will want/try to decline at the first trial. So a guy, who doesn’t even know why he actually wants the lady, would get http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-91-ladies-and-relationship-are.html

There is this lady I have affection for, but getting close to her was quite difficult for me and even after doing so, telling her how I feel about her fell on deaf ears on reasons best known to her…. What should I do?Well, what I think you need to do is to first of all ask yourself this question: “why her?”, why is it that out of the several ladies you’ve had
opportunity to meet, you decided to go for her? Why is it necessary to ask yourself this question?
This is because many youths of nowadays decide to go into a relationship without even figuring out why they really want to. Is hope alive?

Some decide to go into it, just to have “fun”, which is never a good ground to start a relationship. Most people don’t like to hear this, but it is always the truth because when a guy, whose intention is just to have fun asked a lady out, he might be lucky to get a “a yes” from the lady at the first trial, but most ladies will want/try to decline at the first trial. So a guy, who doesn’t even know why he actually wants the lady, would get http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/09/topic-91-ladies-and-relationship-are.html

Many people don’t live their life, but live by people’s opinion about them, and at the end they become the victim of public opinion. Any decision not base on strong conviction will result in confusion, and by virtue of that, they get easily derailed by people’s perception about them.

The reason why some people remain stagnant in life is not always due to their inability to do great things or make exploit, but it is down to the fact that they have subconsciously succumb and daily live by people’s opinion. Remember, if you refuse to do exploit in life, you will be exploited by life. Let me clarify the previous statement; when you live by other people’s opinion about you is when you refuse to grow beyond and always choose to be subdued under everything people say about you. You get motivated only when they motivate you and you get easily discouraged anytime they discourage you.

You don’t even know who really you are. You cannot practically define yourself; you don’t even know your purpose in life. All you know about yourself is that you “A JUST ENTITY CREATED STARKLY TO EAT AND DRINK, AND TO SURVIVE TO SEE ANOTHER DAY”. Subconsciously you lose confidence in yourself. You can no longer trust your own http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/08/topic-88-prove-them-wrong-dont-live.html

Many people don’t live their life, but live by people’s opinion about them, and at the end they become the victim of public opinion. Any decision not base on strong conviction will result in confusion, and by virtue of that, they get easily derailed by people’s perception about them.

The reason why some people remain stagnant in life is not always due to their inability to do great things or make exploit, but it is down to the fact that they have subconsciously succumb and daily live by people’s opinion. Remember, if you refuse to do exploit in life, you will be exploited by life. Let me clarify the previous statement; when you live by other people’s opinion about you is when you refuse to grow beyond and always choose to be subdued under everything people say about you. You get motivated only when they motivate you and you get easily discouraged anytime they discourage you.

You don’t even know who really you are. You cannot practically define yourself; you don’t even know your purpose in life. All you know about yourself is that you “A JUST ENTITY CREATED STARKLY TO EAT AND DRINK, AND TO SURVIVE TO SEE ANOTHER DAY”. Subconsciously you lose confidence in yourself. You can no longer trust your own http://www.ishopealive.com/2016/08/topic-88-prove-them-wrong-dont-live.html