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Oga o! Everyone de run from love! Once knock out never love again??

Nothing new. Just to learn more from you.

This creedo is getting more interesting. So, love is man made? And men and women would die for making stupid choice! So what happened, iice? You have not replied to the questions at you. We are reading though.

Which of the twelves is more desirable for a decent man, Ariblaze?

Iice, as a woman what do you think a man should do to identify those chics and judge appropriately?

Why u dey laf? Wetin foni?

Are u sure he is back?

Are sure this is not an imaginary conception?

Na wa o!

You guys are doing well on this credo forum. I am honestly enjoying it. This is obviously the only forum on romance section where love and sex are absence. Tell us mishoo, ariblaze, olanajim a.k.a Dr mirror, you were all telling us about role nature assigned and the role you assigns yourself. Could you guys apply that concept to love angle? Is it possible for nature to have predestined a particular man/woman as lovers? Why do we have so much break ups here and there and what can we do about it? Is love natural or man made? Let's hear your wisdoms in this area. I have read Dr mirror's contributions on love so I know he is aware of this. Stop wearing protection, remove it. If you are hurt, we shall help you apply balm. We have lots of babe here willing to give your broken heart a good patch-up if it is ever broken at all.

True i have not been exercising lately. I have been jobless. I thinks alot and almost feel like commiting suicide. I used to read regularly but lately, it appear I am losing that habit. I even forget things easily.

It seem someone had just escaped from lunatic asylum.

What is this? Blantant, Oracle99 ? What are you actually driving at and what is the real problem?

Please clarify.

What is this? Blantant, Oracle99 ? What are you actually driving at and what is the real problem?

Please clarify.

What is this? Blantant, Oracle99 ? What are you actually driving at and what is the real problem?

Please clarify.

No wonder, she is germinating thorny seed of hatred for GM on NL.

@acid drop,

I thought you have a crush on Ola, and you both clink glass sometimes ago. What happened? And u aint interested in anyone? Where is he by the way?

@Gamane

If you found no GM, then, what are the men on nairaland?

@Babelove,

pls come over. It appear olanajim is missing. After all, you started this together.

@Azunp,

Don't deceive yourself and don't deceive the girl. Man is the head of the family. When you marry her your parents would bring in Alfas to christen your baby. You will return back to your religion some time later in life. And that love would not help you then. If she want you change your Deen, Ausu billah! Kaafiri? God help you.

Sincerely, you should snap out of your dream and accept you have lost now if she keep making ref to religion. Start looking for muslim or secularists. They out numbered the christains. Wa salam

HE DIDN'T SAY POLYGAMY IS PERFECT. HE WAS, I THINK, TRYING TO DRAW YOUR ATTENTION TO THE POSITIVE SIDE OF POLYGAMY WHILE NOTING THAT THE SYSTEM WAS NOT WITHOUT PROBLEM. I DON'T KNOW HIS RELIGION AFFILIATION, IT IS OBVIOUS HE IS FAMILIAR WITH ISLAM, HENCE HIS RELUCTANCE IN MAKING SPECIFIC CONCLUSION. HE WAS THREADING THE PATH OF EXTREME CAUTION. IT IS ALSO GLARING THAT HE IS FAMILIAR WITH CHRISTAINITY. I THINK, THAT IS HIS MYSTERY. A SELF ACCLAIMED MONOGAMIST CHAMPIONING POLYGAMY! HE CONDEMNED NEITHER. HE MUST HAVE A GOOD REASON FOR STANDING THAT LOGIC.
PERSONALLY, EVEN THOUGH, I AM ALFA, I ADMIRE HIS COURAGE TO STAND FIRM ON HIS ARGUMENTS WITHOUT CONDEMNING EITHER OF THE TWO. WE SHOULD RATHER ASK HIM TO CLARIFY HIMSELF AS HE MAY HAVE DIFFERENT OPINION.

ON MARRYING, FOUR WIVES: MUSLIMS DON'T INTERPRET QURAN THE WAY CHRISTAINS DO! THEY DON'T DO SELECTIVE READING ON SENSITIVE ISSUES.

PS: READ AL HALAL WAL HARAM FIL ISLAM BY DR YUSUF AL QORADAWI. THERE IS ENGLISH VERSION. CHECK CHAPTER THREE UNDER, MARRIAGE FOR REF.

DOING JUSTICE AMONG WIVES IS NOT THE WAY YOU INTERPRETED IT. I AM AFFRAID, YOU MISSED THE POINT!

", and you will not be able to do justice among (your) wives, however much you may wish to. But DO NOT TURN AWAY ALTOGETHER, (quran 4:139)

quran was specific here. That is why some muslims exercise caution when dealing with polygamy. According to AL QORADAWI, THE EQUAL TREATMENT MENTIONED IN QURAN 4:3, PERTAINS TO THE RIGHTS OF THE WIVES, NOT TO THE LOVE THE HUSBAND FEELS TOWARD THEM, FOR EQUALITY IN THE DIVISION OF LOVE IS BEYOND HUMAN CAPACITY, "

I THEREFORE, CONSIDER, YOUR ARGUMENT AS REGARD EQUALITY, WEAK.

ISLAM ALLOWS POLYGAMY FOR THE GOOD OF HUNANITY. I WOULD BE RELUCTANT IN GOING INTO THIS BECAUSE THIS IS NOT APPROPRIATE FORUM FOR THAT.

REGARDING DIVORCE, WHO TOLD YOU WOMEN CANNOT INITIATE DIVORCE? WHY NOT GO THROUGH AL QORADAWI, UNDER DIVORCE SUBSECTION? HAVE READ THE QURAN ON THIS ISSUE? LET ME JUST PUT IT THIS WAY: YOU GOT IT WRONG!

Hi

I AM A MUSLIM AND I AM ALFA. I HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING THE TWO ARGUMENTS FROM YOUR SIDE ON ONE HAND, AND OLANAJIM ON THE OTHER.

I THINK WHERE YOU GET IT WRONG IS EQUATING ISLAM WITH CHRISTAINITY. MUSLIMS DON'T RELY ON WIKKIPEDIA AND WHATEVER FOR INTERPRETATION OF SHARIAH. IT IS AN EFFORT IN FUTILITY. WHAT THE TWO OF YOU ARE FIGHTING OVER IS NOT SOMETHING YOU CAN WIN. MUSLIMS HAVE THREE AUTHORITIES WHEN IT COME TO INTERPRETING THEIR LAWS. THE QURAN, HADITH, AND THE IJMA' (CONSENSUS). QURAN IS THE SUPEREME AUTHORITY. ANYTHING THAT IS THERE IS THE LAW. IT IS INFALIBLE. THE HADITH IS NEXT. WHATEVER THAT IS NOT EXPLAINED IN QURAN ARE REFERENCED. IF THE TWO WERE NOT SPECIFIC, THE ULAMAH, THAT IS ALFAS WOULD DEBATE IT. THEIR VIEWS ALWAYS DIFFERS. THEY ARE THE REASON WHY MUSLIMS MAY DIFFER SLIGHTLY ON ISSUES. FOR INSTANCE, SOME ULAMAH BELIEVE SUICIDE BOMBING IS GLORIFYING, OTHERS CONDEMNS IT. ALSO SHIA, AND SUNIS DIFFER IN IDEOLOGY. SOME SHIA, BELIEVES ALIH, THE FORTH CALIPH, IS A PROPHET, BUT SUNIS THINK OTHERWISE.

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW IS THAT, WHEN AN ISSUE HAD BEEN SPECIFICALLY STATED IN QURAN, IT IS UNIVERSALLY ACCEPTED BY MUSLIMS REGARDLESS OF THEIR AFFLIATION. IJMAH IS NEVER COMPULSORY.

IN ISLAM, WE HAVE FOUR IMAMS WHOSE AUTHORITY IN JURIPRUDENCE ARE WIDELY RESPECTED. THEIR VIEWS FORM THE FOUNDATION OF FIQH, JURISPRUDENT. THEY DIDN'T AGREE IN CONTENTIOUS ISSUES. MARRIAGE IS ONE OF SUCH ISSUES. FOR INSTANCE, SOME MUSLIM COUNTRIES PRACTICE TEMPORARY MARRIAGE, OTHERS FORBID IT.

THE BOTTOMLINE IS THAT YOU CANNOT USE THE ARGUMENT YOU ADVANCE ABOVE INCLUDING THE REF TO OUTLINE THE POSITION OF ISLAM. AS A CHRISTAIN, YOU SHOULD REALIZE YOU ARE NOT AN AUTHORITY OF SHARIAH. YOU CAN ARGUE THAT LINE TILL ETHERNITY, BUT NO SANE MUSLIM WOULD GO WITH YOUR ARGUMENT FOR THE SAKE OF ARGUMENT.

I READ OLANAJIM'S CONTRIBUTION, I NOTICED HE WAS TACTICALLY AVOIDING BEING EMPHATIC AS YOU DO. HE WAS SMART TO CHALLENGED YOU TO GO AND DRAW YOUR COMCLUSION. HE DIDN'T SAY POLYGAMY IS

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@Jaydot12

gawd! How could you be displaying your stupidity and lack of decorum by posting this all over the thread?

Fool. How does that affect mother asking her daughter to Bleep about? Are you that desperate?

I am enjoying this. What say you Ola? You fleed?

Such a parent who encourage her daughter to sleep out need to be taken for test at Yaba of Aro especially if the girl is unmarried underage. It is either she is suffering from hangover of her ammoral youth or she need divine help.

Great luck. Have you tried OKOBO?

@moondust

do you know that free thinkers don't enjoy life as much as they love to?

@moondust

do you know that free thinkers don't enjoy life as much as they love to?

@moondust

what does that mean? Be specific.

KObe is in destructible by any force on nairaland. He had been fortified by standing in front of a strange mirror.

@Acid drop

gbogbo eran talapata bapa ti'saasun ni. With your new found love with olanajim, Baby Glow would stop glowing when she face the mirror.

I have been noticing that I always feel dizzy, day or Night. I would sleep at the slightest touch of bed. I can't read for longer time as I used to and I am generally weak.

I use tonic, vitamin etc to no effect. I usually wake up earlier but now, I can't do that again. Please this affecting my study as I am now lagging behind. Can anybody help me?