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The survey only covered ladies between 28 and 35 year old due to their peculiarity. I wish they would learn why men dump them fast for younger ladies. Any lady that fail to tie down a man at 28 is either cheated or cheating.
Those who for other reasons such as education remain single at 28 upward are to be carefully scrutinized before marriage. Those at 30 and above must be xray before love enter. If they are rich, extra care must be taken to look at their past and their character. At least men interviewed confided to this.

It depends. You are right however to dump and unproductive lady before marriage. That is if she had tried getting pregnant and failed.

Most of 30plus ladies are not ready to settle down anyway. Check their past before you dive.

It depends. You are right however to dump and unproductive lady before marriage. That is if she had tried getting pregnant and failed.

Most of 30plus ladies are not ready to settle down anyway. Check their past before you dive.

RELIGION:
this also limit chances of getting good man. Even though some ladies are not religous and are fake at best, they still want to marry a "pious" man from their churches etc.

They would rather go for a devil in their church than a saint in their backyard. Yet, they claim there are no good men!

TRIBE:
almost all the ladies except one out of the twenty won't mind marrying a foreigner even if he is poor. But most of the ladies have reservation against a fellow blackman if he doesn't come from the same tribe as them. This open up an interesting observation. We are working on parents' response to their wards marrying foreigners. The ladies who however would obey their parents if they oppose marrying other tribes show they would accept a foreigner regardless of their parents response!

RIGIDITY/ FEMINISM:
it is interesting to know that some of the singles from 28 years and above are rigid in ideology. They constantly clash with the guys and are ever ready to show that this is 21st century. One of the ladies went far to say that she won't be cooking for her husband. That same lady told the same man, (while acting as rich man) that she would cook the best dish for him and take care of home! A glaring revealation that revealed how women behaves.

One desperate lady would do anything to discourage poor men from her. She had bad experience in hands of a man. And had resolved never to marry a poor man even though she had no degree and is poor herself!

The rest of the finding would be revealed later. Watch out for a comprehensive book on the research that had taken months to compiled.

Meanwhile, when you hear a lady is single while men abounds, always take a second look at why they are single. Many of them had broken men's heart for selfish reason before coming to the market.

We are almost through with men's version of the research. It is explosive as they bare their minds to our volunteers.

Your comments are welcome.

I felt sorry whenever I hear ladies at 28, 29, upward saying they don't have a man. We decided to devote time to study this trend.

In a nation where men outnumbered women, it is inconceivable to hear women cry for shortage of good men.

Our finding shows:

MATERIALISM: most women, are ever alert at the possibility of dating Rich guy or potential ones.He lives abroad,works in bank or oil coy etc. Forget what many of them say that money is not an issue. The true is that if you find any single lady from 28 upward. You'll find underneath her "surface tension" that silent desire for materialism. Our research group did online/offlin sample on 20 ladies by posing as poor man and rich man simultenously but with different ID.

Out of the 20, 17 women show by their act, they would go for cashman. Interesting thing is that 15 of the sample were on nairaland.And 13 of the materialistic ladies are nairalanders!

UNDUE COMPARISON:
Some ladies have penchant habit of comparing every man they meet with their ex.14 of the ladies on nairaland show that trait.The interesting thing is that,they also have shallow perception of what a successful relationship mean. They show tendency to distrust their partners. 10 of the 15 of those on nairaland are unfaithful. In other word, they fail the test that was meant to test their fidelity.The interesting thing about these women is that they sounded courageous but are very, very vulnerable to deception whether online or offline. Two of the nairalanders actually met their "suitors" at a designated venues. Both of them show that they are after all women and very vulnerable.One lady almost had sex with our contact just for dollar.Of course, they would never meet again. She made our contact "did it". However, the sex machine was not a nairaland lady. She was an offline sample.

EGO:
The tendency to show disinterest even though interested is another factor. The ladies hate desperate guys if he had no buck. But jumped at a banker if he "smell money."

It is quite possible to be banned and still post anyway. Meanwhile, I perceive most people as idiots. Why must you go to a house that belong to someone else and insists you not only sleep but die there? If the owner don't want you anymore then quit. Go elsewhere. By spawling on the floor and pleading for re-admission, you guys keep encouraging him to ban. I just hope you guys have jobs.

How does google chat works? I'd never used it before.

Some Nairaland Users are blind. Iice is in this forum already and had posted. What a blindness!

Some Nairaland Users are blind. Iice is in this forum already and had posted. What a blindness!

It mean nothing to me. I have been away even before the ban. I was busy with my job. And exploring new forum. They are really cool down there. I mean intellectual forum where real people converges. Most peep on Naraland aint real. So many dummies posting to make ya happy.

Seriously, I don't believe naraland was shut down. It was only grounded. If admin were to ground it for a week, he go lose money plenty plenty. He would be hurt more than anyone else since this is his daily bread.

Don't say I tell you o!

Wait o? Who is a spammer? It appear spammer has new meaning here. Does people that criticize Seun also qualifies as Spammers? What about funny people?

U can't wait for her?

What is special abt Togole?

Where are the gentlemen? I hope they are still here?

A bill had been idling at NASS for years with no action. Some call it social security bill others call it disability bill.

Fellow nairalanders, what recommendation would you make for this Bill? What are the input you would like to make in it.

We are presently looking at various public opinions before we complete work on representing the Bill to NASS.

Pls feel free to make your opinion known.

Rosquare weds ufobabe!

Happy married life. So you guys had been flirting behind the land? No wonder, happy people must get married. I am sure your respective partners are reading this.

Still free meal?

Oshodi,
Ajegunle,
EFCC

Married and searching for number two.

Head I supposed.

Treat her as if she is a demigod.

@kayhell,

with just a dozen of posts mostly on sexuality section, it is clear that you have a little grasp of the reality. No one need be told that one need to understand facts before going inot argument with someone more experience than him.

for your information, the lady you are criticising posted this thred a long time ago and she was not the only one to contribute into it. therefore your sermon is laced with hidden motive depicting, mostly your lack of understanding.

As for Babeelove, you only need to find out who she is to understand her. thank you for your admonition. and ensure you read threads from begining when you are new into the forum.

You would soon be double? That is great to know. I hope the lucky guy is a nairalander. Right?

That counselor must have a reason to say that. Did he explained?

Well said.

@Ufo,

are you married or intends to marry? What does walking in the spirit has to do with marriage?