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kellycute:
@fayded, why are you acting like a puss.y? Come on, that babe is playing with your emotion taking u for a ride and u are there feeding her the more. You need to lay aside all this negative emotion and be a man for once. You gotta have to put her in her place. Acting nice or loyal aint finna cut it out. The more u act nice or wanna convince her d more she keep messing up with your head. My advice is that you should let go of her completely. You don't need her or her gabbage friendship. Next time she say * I am done with u or let jus be friend bla bla*, reply with *yea that is good but sorry my friendship is expensive u can't afford it.. I've got neuroanatomy to study.. U need to be on queue like everyone.
Abeg throway dis yeye negative emotion joor n be a man. NICE GUYS ALWAYS CARRY LAST. She gat low self esteem and that aint your business. Rubbish..

Feranchek:
Send me a pm

nubian999:
That's unforgivable because I can't read it. I don't understand a word of it. "Be been " and you're a medical student? I bet your auto correct went crazy! Unforgivable! !!

Feranchek:
You've done all you could bro. Give her space. Be her friend. Don't bring up relationship matters. Upload at intervals, pictures of your salf looking cool. If you've got a female cousin or good friend of yours that is pretty, upload her pictures on WhatsApp or BBM buh without any captions.


Most importantly, don't approach her with the relationship ish again. And REDUCE YOUR CALLS AND CHATS.

Feranchek:
Lol. Na woman na. Pele.

Feranchek:
The only way to save yourself some thinking is to understand that women are a very confused and complicated creatures. What makes you think a gurl who claims not to want sex will be moaning when you touch her buh keeps telling you "fayded no... stop... I don't want....awww. ... I'm dying.... you're killing me.... stop please...." and then you stop and ask her " should I stop??" And I'm sure you already know the answer to that

They're very confused biko. Don't let her go. She loves you and you her.

Feranchek:
A good friend of mine will always say "Bros soup wey hot, na small small dem dey take lick am"

Just start with the basis. You've both come a long way and it's high time you become friends with her momma. She'll be happy with such development. Ion know them both buh trust me, she'll come around if she see you're serious with her daughter.

Whenever you're both on hols, try visiting her here in Lasgidi (if you've got anyone here to stay with). It goes to show how much you wanna be with her and she'll value it ALOT.

Feranchek:
Here's the thing, you like her a d she likes you. Her ONLY problem is the dear that you both MIGHT NOT get married. It's happened before and guess what.... till you both EVENTUALLY get married, I can bet my yesterday's bet9ja winning that it'll happen again. If the ONLY reason you both always quarreled and breakup is cos of HER fear of not getting to say "I do" to you, then you've got yourself someone to FIGHT for.

Now what to do:


Fight for her. How? Make her mom accept you cos she seem to be the bane of this problem. Don't be too nice or something, buh be her friend. Call her mom once a while to ask questions on issues you already know the answer to (just tomake her believe you trust her judgments), visit her once a while when your bae is at home. Be friends also with the family (especially the male folks)

On your bae.

There's really nothing much to do. Just keep reassuring her and NEVER give her any reason not to believe in the ULTIMATE goal. Try not to cheat on her (buh medical students sabi cheat..... Kai!!!!) Always tell her the truth.

When BEING A MAN with her, be kind with your words.

In general, WIN HER TRUST (cos you already have her love)

iWish you a happy relationship brov.

Jarizod:
[color=#679267] A medical student typing this way..br0s why [/color]

ikp120:
Bro to get over her, simply delete her number and start hanging around with girls more. Visit your female course mates more. If that girl comes around again, just put her in your friend zone. Don't ever call her or flash her number, except you really need to.

That relationship cannot work. She doesn't feel you for real, just once in a while infatuation.

Flirt with girls, but don't be a play boy. That's how I forget some girls forever.

aaronson:
Yours is even worst than him who went to medical school, let me guess, you not a medical student, Are you?

yomi007k:
Dude d same thing happened to me n my pharmacist babe wen I was in med school ....we dated for 5 yesrs.



She is right u guys wont get married but u can always be a better man n marry a better girl.




Take revenge by being successful. ...my ex regrets her actions now.



In d long run u will see dt u need no chick...

TrapQueen77:
Never lose hope... Always look at the bright side..



What doesn't kill u, makes even stronger...

Oma307:
in fact he has to come and answer this question because it's tantamount to the responses u will get

STFUareyouG0d:
Poster above me stole FTC


@op only seuun's got answer to your question

TrapQueen77:




Does ur medical school didn't teach u how to mend a broken minds and broken hearts? Juz kidding...


Obviously boo she's not happy being with u anymore... Give her space sha.. We cannot force ppol to love us the way we love them... Now, if u really love her then let her go...


lolz...no oo..we can't treat broken hearts..
thanks tho..I have to let her go..its hard..cos am losing my best friend nd gf at d same time..

aaronson:
Okay, solution number one, work on your grammar maybe she don't even understand the messages you do send her on whatsapp that was why she blocked you, If you work on your grammar, it will solve half of your problem.