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Chiwetalu1:
Please go through and comment to help a brother...its a long read sha



Earlier this year I decided to start a relationship with a casual friend (a girl). She accepted my proposal although not without giving me much headache sha


So we started, having known alot about our past and in a bid to get the best out of what we have, we gave it all. Shared all our deepest secrets to each other - although I don't have any past still trailing me, my pasts (relationships) where gone and are very far from me. Same with her except for one.


He is a very trusted family friend of hers. Currently a seminarian for almost a decade and has a good chance of being a priest but still does fling with her until I came into the picture. Was a member of the mums prayer group and have been very close to the family for long.


She has been having this affair with the said guy without the knowledge of anyone around but a very close sis, I happen to be the second person to know. So this dude still has assess to her home and she to his home (although both of them don't spend much time with family again but occasionally come around).


MY FEARS

*They really really had a lot in the past, even as a seminarian, he indirectly made her end relationships, she claims to be over him but I usually see it as a conscious denial.
*When she's home and the guy is around, they get to meet- he even made advances at her sometime ago.
* My girl once told me she will want the want the guy (as a priest) to officiate our wedding.
* All about him is seriously threatening my religious life as a Catholic. Each time I see a Seminarian I will be like "hypocrite, this might be the guy who did this with my girlfriend". Imagine what this will be when he eventually becomes a priest.
**the talk plenty sha


WHAT I ASKED FOR

When she told all about him around March or April this year. I insisted on her completely cutting communication with him, but she vehemently refused then, somehow I accepted. I also wanted to know the said guy in person somehow (even if it's through Facebook since I wasn't close), but she still refused. I decided to give her time since we barely started. We've been good since then and things are going well. And I thought we've gotten over that.


Some days ago I stumbled upon a post on her Facebook wall over a sensitive topic. A guy who share a lot of similarities with this ex of her commented on it, using just a sentence to my explain my girls position on that topic. I concluded it's him. So i casually approached my girl - even with a plea not to get offended by what we will be talking about - that I have seen the guy shes been hiding from me. She said I was wrong about my assumptions, and later asked why I was bent on knowing this guy.

My people, I've spent since Monday trying to explain why i think it's important I know him, if not now but sooner considering how far we ( my girl and I) are going and cos we aren't in the same location. But she has totally refused insisting that she only did me a favour by letting me in on it and will not go further not even in future. She even threatened that we should walk away from the relationship if I insisted on knowing the guy.


So i kept asking myself...am I really asking for too much or is it right I know this person??

She will cheat on u by sleeping with dt guy. End dt relationship and leave her.. Or stay sha, in which case, when it happens, come back here and tell me, so I can say "I told you so"

Preshieben:
Lolzz

corrections please
I don't need a guy to behave well..
I'm a final year student not a jambite
I'm 20
Akwa ibom girls are well trained girls,so I'm a good girl

Thank God, u go soon graduate, enter workforce, see as life dey be.

CAPSLOCKED:
OGUN KILL ME IF I REJECT.
2147716688 UBA.
OYA! I DON JOIN QUEUE FOR ATM LIKE THIS.

Guy.. Lwkmd. I Don die.. U Dey mad, I swearrrrrrr

Preshieben.. I've been observing ur threads for a while now. I take it, you're in ur early 20's,like tops 21.
And you're probably a jambite or still in school, which explains the time u spend here.
Calm down oooo, u just keep bashing men upandan. Not all guys are like d ones you meet or have been meeting. One day, u go meet a nice guy. Na loneliness or lack of the kind guy u want, Dey make u behave like ds.

My babe is from akwaibom like you, and she Dey so fucking well behaved. Na even why I begin observe u.
Aunty, calm down Pls, u go Dey alright Las las

Day11:
Are you for real?... This is really surprising and I reckon you must be deliberately stupid. I don't trade BTC like I said before and my account was never compromised.

Right now... you need to tell me the person you ve been talking with impersonating Day11 without delay before I found you myself.

You can't just type nonsense on Web and think it's cool.

He never mentioned btc buh u did first. Dts a sign of guilty conscience. And since he posted y'all chat. U just keep quiet. How far??

CastingCrowns:
nope not a student done with that chapter a long while ago.. I'll check out the movie.

How then do u not go a day without reading??
U a nerd??

CastingCrowns:
change really is constant.. I recall those days when I couldn't stay a day without reading a book but nowadays just looking at one exhausts me.. I've also lost interest in watching movies, they annoy me immensely.. let's share what we have lost interest in nowadays.

I Take it, you're a student. Lolz, cos me too, I done tire to read or open books. I still enjoy watching some movies though. U should try watching peaky blinders. Very interesting.

ILoveDemMANNA:
This is what is called TRASHING.

Wanna know about another TRASHING in the history of Soccer?

Check it out below......
Cc
Dominique

Thrashing is what you're receiving here on nairaland everyday..
Trash is what you cook and advertise here

anastasius:
Kill them all. Burn down all government properties. Burn down all oppressors. I'm here for it

Na ur papa properties them go burn down, idiot. See as them burn all banks finish,now no money.. People wey no fit do transfer Dey suffer am. Burn cars, burn shops, see eh.. I have been a full fledged member of #endsars, buh now I support d military, pls shoot these hoodlums which kind nonsense anarchy be ds.. Be burning everything

Eyaff be!!!

alfredilly:
Yoruba claim against the Igbo is valid. Please read.

The attack on Tinubus properties in Lagos has divided the struggle and has given it to another arms of the enemy which is the PDP opportunist. It is a valid claim that the attack has taken an ethnic dimension culminating from the long standing sentiment fueled by Igbo tribal rhetoric on Yoruba.
If the uneducated aren't aware of this, at least the educated see on line everyday, on twitters, on Nairaland and comment sections of Facebook news.

While the protest was initially focused on creating a lasting change in our system, it is also expedient that we are not ignorant of the prevailing moods and how it developed.

I have my proof. For the past years, I have had my ear to the ground by following, reading and interpreting comment and feedback on social media especially Twitter.
We must realize that Twitter was, at first, the mobilizing front for the protest. It still remain the most influential site in advancing the course of the struggle. The #endsars is a Twitter trend and the mobilizing celebrities take their base from the app. So when I see developing stories and the accompanying opinion, how it easily metamorphosed into the intended sentiment of some people in contradiction of the objective realities, I realize the power wielded by ethnically conscious people in exploiting social media for their own agenda.

There has been weeks and months of culmination of ulterior motives. Anyone who observe and follow events will see a consistent pattern. Almost everyday, Yoruba, Igbo or Tinubu trends on Twitter and once I see that, I need not struggle to comprehend the orientation of the opinion. Whenever Igbo is trending, the prevailing opinions are always the rhetorics that Igbos are hardworking, Igbos are the most marginalized, Igbo holds their head despite attempt to suppress them: Igbo are the most successful ethnic group in Nigeria and Igbo are the most intelligent. Once Yoruba trend, opinion varies but there are also the insult on Yoruba that they arr slave to northern Fulani. Nairaland is where this opinion thrive the most and most of you know..
And Whenever Tinubu trend, it is about his dynasty, the bullion van, his role in enthroning Fulani man, sometimes, comparison with Awolowo. I also see this as an attempt to denigrate the Awolowo.. Even some few months ago, Awolowo trended on twitter and once I saw it, I quickly pounce on it knowing a tribal war was already raging. My intuition didn't disappoint me as some were already mobilizing opinion calling Awolowo a perpetrator of genocide. He was accused of masterminding all the ill treatment metted on Igbo during the civil war. This led to heated debate and name calling between Igbo and Yoruba. History were dug up to correct the false claim and lies foisted on the sage. It even took the verified account of some prominent Yoruba name to give the founding father a bit of soft landing. I guess the Igbo on twitter left on that day to fight another time.

Before Lekki killing two days ago, my intuition already told me an anti Tinubu protest was in the offing. It was a ticking time bomb waiting to explode. For days, I have seen tweets accusing Tinubu of being the sole source Nigerian problem. He was accused of being responsible for the enthronement of Fulani man in Buhari. Most of this post tried to absolve Jonathan. The hasty comparison of Buhari administration to justify the later is a common rhetorics amidst south Easterners while the Yoruba mostly maintain a liberal posture that both men are part of the age-long succession of bad Nigerian leaders. But in recent days the tactics of glorifying GEJ as a way of condemning Buhari had held sway unchallenged by Yoruba because of the current mood against bad governance. Tinubu wasn't spared the attack too. Not that I absolve Tinubu, and I never defend him but seeing the desperation to nail him alone when the demanding was to effect systemic change made me sceptical of some people genuine intention.

Three days ago, the news of a former TVC employer, who was sacked at the behest of Bourdillon after walking away from a live show made the headline. The South easterner lady who is now an actress stormed the Instagram to claim she was sacked from TVC by order from Bourdillon after walking out of a live show in response to the Oba of Lagos declaration in 2015 that Igbo will be drawn in Lagoon. The allegations later drew the response of her fellow show anchor Morayo Afolabi Brown who claimed the order didn't come from Bourdillon.

The narrowing down of this to anti-Tinubu is a deviation fueled by brewing ethnic sentiment and it is aimed at serving the Igbo people age-long interest of ending the reign of APC government in Lagos ans replacing it with a PDP. Isn't it surprising that the Lekki massacre could not put the demand for Buhari resignation on front burner? I checked Twitter trend yesterday and #BuhariMustResign died down completely while #TinubuIsAKiller maintained the top spot. I care less about Tinubu but I doubt the readiness to push for Buhari resignation. There is also the tribal view the removing Buhari will aid Osinbajo to power.

Fem!!!!

That's a quality husband.. Top notch. Who wants to come ,when people are going from ds wicked country

ILoveDemMANNA:
mynd44

U go call mynd44 till u die...nufn will happen. U re still a fool. And may heavens forgive u, d day I go find out who you be for ds life.

ILoveDemMANNA:
Naija youths......
WHAT TO DO FOR NOW?
I suggest that YOU back out of the protest for now.
The Nigerian youths have made their presence felt and their voices heard.
A wise performer leaves the stage when the ovation is high.
Let's not allow bad eggs to spoil our achievements so that we can successfully build on this in subsequent months and years


Peaceful protest is the way to go.
#IStandWithAPeacefulProtest

My brother, I rarely say this to people.. Cos I'm a very reserved person. Buh u re a fool. U will be a fool Tilly die. U see Dt rubbish u typed there ...ur life will be like Nigeria, till u die. Ds current Nigeria ooo, not d one we re building

Juliusmalema:
Just Imagine the rubbish..


These are students who suppose to have finished exams since June or so and because of Covid-19 it was postponed till now.

What sort of visionless protest will not allow the passage of sensitive exam materials to their destination.

The younger generation have overstayed at home, let them finish their exam and face their lives....The exam has lingers for so long.

From ENDSARS you now want to ENDFUTURE of the young generations.


Both the protesters And SARS are just natural killers.....


Stop obstructing them from writing their exams..

Nonsense.

Who Dey obstruct them?? If u wan write exam.. Use leg Waka go ur center or skul write am. Nobody go enter skul beat u or stop u.
The neco sef them Dey write.. Which university dem wan use am enter?? D one wey dey on strike Abi e get another one??
Oga, listen. Ds protest is here to stay, until we see reforms. Until then join us or keep shut.

#endsars protest

Abeg person wey understand all ds appellants upandan should explain to us in layman terms biko.
Them Dey sack d constables Abi them go keep them??

TecM0:



Hands of peace rejected,

Hope you can continue your protest and stop accusing him when you face further attacks from thugs


.

Be spewing rubbish upandan. Fool like you. Shame on u when ds country gets better due to our protests

protests:
His number is available if you have something to say to him
Ask, and you will receive

Send the number Pls.. I want to ask him something

Marygreatful:
Good morning nairalanders, please am feeling very depressed right now i am a young girl of 21 i finished my secondary school in 2015 and this 2020 i am yet to secure admission to the University mainly because i had no one to support me well that is a story for another day,. Please i need advice because I'm in so much pain it hurts me when i see most of my classmates have graduated and currently serving and i am still where i am. I will love to study medicine and surgery but people are discouraging me because of my age my friends advice me to just study any four years course, please i need advice, thank you all.Also i sponsor myself now because i own a shop. Please i will like to put in certain things based on the comments, i appreciate the comments. I wrote my first waec and neco in 2015 but i had d7 in my physics both results and the registration was expensive so i had to rewrite both exams which was expensive and i can't register another waec when i have a good result already, medicine and surgery is the course i love so much not for work security or to be called a doctor no is because i have passion for it but i made a tough decision last year when i used my waec (science) to apply economics which is a social science course it didn't work for me, am just so scared not to make a decision that will affect me in the future. I don't like any other science course that was why i applied for economics because am now into buying and selling.

Okay.. Just like u, I was once an aspirant. Now I'm in medical school, almost done. Now d toughest part for u right now is getting the admission, not financial issues. One thing with medicine is Dt when u get d admission, aunty, money go fall out, ur uncles, aunties, friends, strangers even.
Im speaking from experience, so my dear, don't give up on ur dream. U re a future doctor already, I see it in you. Just get d admission, d rest will fall in place. I promise.

Flier:
send me a pm I will send you pictures

Send d pics to d family of those killed by SARS, and those being arrested for protesting. Oga, I don't rate u, shift abeg. If u mention me again. U re wasting ur time, we Dey akwa now, na awkuzu SARS dey hear am. Them go kwete

Flier:
Your family are fool,I was there protesting but there is always an end to everything,the more we protest the more people we lose
We have gotten what we want and we should suspend it,we were on the street protesting while some are on twitter collecting donations and push for more protest to get more money
You need to use your brain before you lose a family member to this protest

I can swear with my life dt u never protested. Cos if u did, u no go Dey talk ds kind rubbish. What is it Dt u wanted dt u got?? Change of name of SARS?? End of police brutality?? Arresting d defaulted SARS officials?? Which of them??
Oga keep quiet and be d fool u are.. Stop exposing ur foolishness online

supportnija:
stop supporting these white people i beg, what they are doing in Nigeria they can't doing it in their country.

What is ds one saying?? Are u daft OR what?? U read Wetin she talk??
Don't worry,by d time we re done with d Nigerian govt, and u start enjoying d fruits of ds our protest, u will come back and apologize. Zombie

Flier:
This is what I was talking about,this protest need to be suspended at least for 6 months
I won’t have sympathy for you if you get killed out there,we have gotten what we want

Look at me.. Look at me very well, you're a fool

SilverNorGold:
I think the policeman opened part of Francis head to put small sense inside. It's possible they were mocking the police officers after the news.. The policeman cannot just attack him unprovoked.

Silver nor gold, u Dont have.. And sense and wisdom too

Siberia01:


Education doesn't make you great...
it will never make you rich.....
the Major reasons why degree holders are poor!!!

wizkid, zlatan and davido combined are all richer than all the Nigerian doctors put together..


better drop out now ...
or you live to regret the rest of your life..

go and learn skills
go into music
go into entertainment...

leave education for the white race

I can only say one thing to you.. U need education in ur life.. Clearly from ur statement above. U lack it

Abeg who know Wetin hold absu from opening??

Abdulrahman1987:
Still yet Eastern institutions deny do us admission

U re just a tribalist, looking for someone to argue with.
Leave d eastern universities for us, if them like make them admit 2000 students for medical skul, leave am. We love it like dt. When we apply to ur universities, if u deny us, we go bk to the east and start hustling it again,no complaints.
Whether north or south, the world sees us as Nigerians.. So stop trying to divide Wetin no even division. Northern and southern universities are still rubbish, none even Dey top 200 for world.
So shut up, ewu Hausa aa

majamajic:
Based on what he met on the ground ,

U really dunno what u re saying