₦airaland Forum

plaetton:
Wrong sir.

Snakes deserve to live, fend for survival as much as you do. The creatures that you share this Earth with do not live and exist at your pleasure.

Snakes in particular, hunt for food, and do not attack bigger creatures like humans, unless they feel threatened.

OLORIPAPA:
I bet u are under 20...am I'm having a hard time with ur psychic. U are responsible for ur Ignorance.

OLORIPAPA:
I bet u are under 20...am having a hard time with ur psychic. U are responsible for ur Ignorance.

DBriteLitehouse:
You are ignorant.Itsekiri beat us in brute warfare? They only fought with two Urhobo kingdoms.And for your information,we Urhobos harbour them during the Itsekiri and Ijaw crisis.
There is no need for this,all we need is peace.But the facts should be put straight.

fratermathy:
Oniovo, ignore that guy. He doesn't want to argue. He's here with a clear vendetta against Urhobos. Just don't let him derail your thread. That dude is not an Itsekiri. He's an IPOB youth. He's only trying to sow a seed of discord because Urhobos said we don't want Biafra. Try and report his posts since you are the Op.

Cc:
Mynd44

Please review the posts of Fea.rlez on this thread.

subsurface:
My questions as a ex warri resident are
(1)"if the itsekiri claims to own warri city, how come their King/Olu doesn't have authority over 60-70% of the city?

subsurface:
(2) why is it that 90% of warri pikin slang has urhobo language but not itsekiri or ijaw...?

subsurface:
Lastly I believe that court cases favoured the itsekiri because of their language closeness to Yoruba and their educational literacy..

fratermathy:
I can't counter what I can't verify. This is not an issue of oil or whatever. There is no vendetta here. I believe we are all having a productive argument, except if you are taking it personal.

Let us verify the judicial precedents from a source that is not an Itsekiri or Urhobo blog! Anyone can put up anything there and say whatever and if those precedents are true, then on what basis are Urhobos still occupying those areas, even with their own monarchies?

OAUTemitayo:
You are deceiving yourself.
So because they don't pay rents again the land automatically belongs to them?
So Ibos that bought land in Lagos will claim ownership of land will Aworis, Egbas and Ijebus?
This is the joke.
As for archives, I propose we use judicial archives as it more acceptable (to sane people) and undeniable.
Here I come with judicial archives all the way from Warri high court to the Privy council in London.
You go tire today.

OAUTemitayo:
So you mean if I lease land from you, my great-grandchildren can make a claim that they are the rightful owners of the land.
Does time erode the ownership of an item?
How do you expect the Nigerian government to accept the fact that oil belongs to Nigerdelta when you people deliberately choose which court judgement to accept and ignore?
You wonder why Hausas has the affront to declare that oil in Nigeria Delta belongs to them?
Its because Urhobos also believed that a land their grandparents leased belonged to them because they have been there for a long time

fratermathy:
Try and substantiate some of your claims of ownership so that an educative argumentation can be provoked.

Toks2008:
Let me give you different ore existing definitions for the sake of open minded people who are willing to learn...the fact that you quoted jut one definition vindicated me and for the last time I will advice you...be objective,be creative and think outside the box.

ExAngel007:
https://www.google.com.ng/amp/dailypost.ng/2017/07/07/biafra-nnamdi-kanu-reveals-states-will-claim-referendum-granted/amp/

Kirigidi:
I'm not surprised at your comments because I know you are IPOB Igbo! You don't know Warri well. That building you said near Okere Market is not a palace but the permanent secretariat of Okere-Urhobo Youth association. If you want to see the palace go to Ejemudarho. Did you said Urhobo are not recognized in Warri? For your information, the Honourable member representing Warri South Constituency 11 at the Delta State House of Assembly, Hon. Dennis Omovie, is an Urhobo native of Warri. Also the Vice Chairman and several other Councillors of Warri South LGA are Urhobo people of Warri.

Kirigidi:
You problem is ignorance! You know nothing about Warri. Who are the people of Okere? For your information, the palace of the Orosuen of Okre-Urhobo Kingdom is located right there in the heart of Okere. Even the permanent secretariat of Okere-Urhobo Youths was built closed to the Okere Market and you dare not park by its gates. People who live in Warri can confirm these to you: Every tribe knows her boundaries in Warri. The Olu's authority is restricted to only the Itsekiri parts of Warri and he never trespasses into Urhobo communities in Warri such as Edjeba, Ogunu, Agbassa, Okere-Urhobo, Okurode-Urhobo, Okumagba, Igbudu, Essi, Ukpokiti, etc. When the Itsekiris are doing their feasts, they do not carry their procession into Urhobo territories in Warri. The Itsekiris are matured and civilized people. They are not like you IPOBians trying to instigate division in Warri because we rejected Biafra!

Toks2008:
lol! why emotional...I'm one guy that sees issues as a process of learning but if you fail to open your minds and be objective then as I wrote,you are set for intellectual stagnation.

All your pendulic dogma are totally baseless because the term mid life crisis does not have a specific definition or application. ..life is not just about showcasing Grammer but it's more about intelligence and the ability to look beyond the dogma of life.

I can highlight different types of definition ascribed to mid life crisis from different sources that are totally divergent so which one are you really sticking to?

After going through it all,I decided to apply it to romantic union and define it as the period of human social and intellectual growth where the need for self-actualisation and the need to radiate it is required.It’s the normal period the human lifespan where we transit from younger people to older adults by way of thinking and acting in relation to our romantic life.

If you are to define mid life crisis in relation to health,spiritual life experience,hormonal variation,
career..e.t.c,you will certainly get different definitions for each and I wonder why you still don't get this despite all the Grammertical prowess you display

Dude don't expect me to go this endless pendulic argument with you...I know what I write and I am not sheepish in my approach to issues.

Consider my write up as my own creativity. what U.K spell as cheque is spelt check in U.S and while U.S pronounces schedule as shedule and U.K calls it skedule,people are forced to accept cos someone or a group of people made it so...

My final advise for you and others who think the way you do is that you should always think outside the box.

I will stop here

Toks2008:
The problem is that you are one of those who read titles without the objectivity of assimilating the contents.

The midlife crises in romantic affairs as applied in my write up is never the same with what you still have in your head and until you learn to think outside the box,you will never be emancipated from intellectual slavery.

Odaro

Toks2008:
Do you really understand the so called universally acceptable definition ?

Go read again and you will see that I'm 100% right if I choose to apply an age range cos the age varies just as I also pointed out

If I were you I would discuss the contextual application rather than bother my head over what a mortal like you wrote as their definition.

Toks2008:
This is exactly why we lag behind in Africa....who actually defined it?

It may blow your mind that the original definition is so wrong because life expectancy is about 70 years on the average and of course many die younger than that so shouldn't it be from ages 30 to 40?

You see why I wrote that until we learn to think outside the box we may forever be enslaved in the ideology of a fellow human like us

When I first used the word mid-life crisis I had no clue that it ever existed in the dictionary and I applied it when I was counseling a couple and as an individual with a cognitive ability to create words,I will stick to my application in relation to romantic affairs regardless of a universally acceptable dogma.

Toks2008:
A lady becomes an adult at 18 and at 20 to 25 she usually feels the world is hers and commitment talks to her at that stage is baldadash. ..any guy trying to pin her down at that point might be faced with her rebellious act..then as she gradually approaches age 30,she begins to see the need to calm down her nerves and that inner crisis begins to dwindle and a lady who feels she is unstoppable at 23 suddenly sees the need to settle down at 31....
and please what gragra does a 50year old lady wants to do again? if a lady adulthood starts at 18 and at 50 she is considered old enough dies it not make logical sense that the mid life of her romantic life should be from 20 to 30?

How is this hard for you to understand...let me stop here.

SecondEva:
you should have named it something else, mid life crisis is midlife crisis, you cannot redefine it.

Toks2008:
You need to think outside the box....

According to wiki...A midlife crisis is a transition of identity and self-confidence that can occur in
middle aged individuals. It is a psychological and behavioral observation that commonly occurs with individuals between the ages 45–64...... *Its observations differ in a diverse manner for each individual.

But this write up creatively expressed another type of mid life crises in our romance with the opposite sex...and not the contemporary definition you are used to

Toks2008:
My consept of the mid life crisis I'm referring to is far from the angle you are looking at it...

Toks2008:
In most cases,after marriage,Many men still live as though they are still single and they would still make decisions without carrying their wives along,act foolishly and irrationally.

Some married ladies on the other hand just get married just for the sake of bearing that Mrs but still live their life as single ladies and lacking the vital qualities of a genuinely married lady.
This irrational act in young couples is as a result of a passing phase called Mid-life crisis.

In any romantic union,the mid life crisis in a man is usually from age 30 to 50 while that of a lady is from age 20 to 30 and in few cases,it varies with individuals but this is one phase most people must pass through and while some people are disciplined enough to control the crisis,some allow the crisis control them.

As a lady,do you see your husband acting in a very uncaring,randy,insensitive, unreasonable manner or as a man do you see your woman acting in a rebellious,arrogant,nonchalant manner? please relax and don't conclude that such is a bad spouse....not at all,they are just passing through a phase and in most cases that phase will soon pass and you will start to experience great serenity and fulfillment in your marriage.

As we progress in age,the crisis usually reduces...During the mid life crisis of a man from age 30 when he is usually ready for commitment,there is an inner crisis he experiences when he will keep asking if he is ready for commitment and until he marries and grows in age,he will always be faced with that inner crisis thereby exhibiting some crazy acts that may likely make the lady leave the marriage....but as he grows in age,he begins to overcome the crisis and by the time he is approaching the 40s or 50s,he suddenly realizes the need to get a grip of himself.

For the lady,at the age of 20 to 25 she just does not care and to her it's about catching fun and as she approaches age 30,she starts to realize the need to calm down and once she clocks 30 and above,there is an unexplained calmness that she starts to exhibit and this is why in most cases,early brides and ladies generally in their 20s tend to act irrationally and men who do not understand the mid life crisis of a woman may at that point dissolve their marriage.

The bottom line is that most marriages that crash could actually survive if they can only understand how to tolerate and look away from the excesses of their partners when the crisis comes cos in most cases it's a phase that will definitely pass.*This is the secret of marital longevity.

Domestic violence is also part of mid life crisis but it's never an act to tolerate but can be reported to the authorities so that it can be checked.

Stay in your marriage cos every marriage has its own peculiar problems but why you don't hear about some is because they are able to handle their own crisis....Handle yours.

Don't know if this makes sense.

Aragon:
Actually he can walk alone on the Streets without any bodyguard and nothing will happen. You will be surprised that its your own people that Will beat you if you make any noise. Apart from the fact that he is a full military General, he also has people everywhere that genuinely love him

realjoker:
lols , 95% of Delta state oil and gas output are from shallow water and offshore oil fields. You and I know Ijaw, itshekiri, Urhobo/Isoko are the people who owns this areas.

realjoker:
Explain the bolded part

On the italic: Even the last confab report suggests that creation of new state should be subjected to its economic viability, so stop rambling, I am against creating additional parasitic state.


In general, you are the one shifting goal posts. You answered my first question by asking me a question.

realjoker:
lols , 95% of Delta state oil and gas output are from shallow water and offshore oil fields. You and I know Ijaw, itshekiri, Urhobo/Isoko are the people who owns this areas.

Explain the bolded part

On the italic: Even the last confab report suggests that creation of new state should be subjected to its economic viability, so stop rambling, I am against creating additional parasitic state.


In general, you are the one shifting goal posts. You answered my first question by asking me a question.

realjoker:
Lol... I thought Onitsha is going to be their State Capital as you earlier stated?

realjoker:
The creation of Delta north alone anioma state from today's Delta state will lead to the creation of an additional parasitic state and transform a resource rich state to a mega rich state, since little people will now be sharing its resources.

realjoker:
So let assume or agree about the creation of anioma state with onitsha being its capital which I even know its not happening, will that make Delta, Edo, Bayelsa, rivers, Akwa Ibom and cross river part of SE or make SS less political demarcation as you earlier alleged?

realjoker:
Nobody win argument by raising his or her voice. The SW Yoruba are not attaching by force with the Yoruba in the North Central, rather the Yoruba in the North Central have always been Yoruba, acted Yoruba, always feel Yoruba, wants to be with their kinsmen in the SW, and note if Anioma state is to be created today SE Will always be SE and SS will still remain SS there is nothing your profusely wailing can do about it.