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If I spent 7 years getting my PHD in awesomeness and I'm earning that six figures, I'm getting me a pretty cheerleader trophy wife like God-Emperor Trump.

And what if more men changed their behavior in response to "what women want"? What if they stayed in school until age 30 to complete a master's or Ph.D.? Do you really thinkthey'd want a 30 year old woman at that point when they could easily swoop the 21 year olds they see from day to day?

Just as no woman will "marry down," no self-respecting man will spend the rest of his life as a "kitchen help."Also, fortunately for "the children," who will be spared a life begun in bastady, more and more men are being disincentivized from being anonymous sperm donors. men don't want to be donors anymore so Enjoy your cats, "ladies." You had better hope that there are enough of them around tl bury you at the end of your dotage when you die without any family in attendance. As for those eggs, you might as well just throw them away."Posterity" doesn't apply to you.

Hypergamy renders women barrenOvereducation isa form of self-sterilization:A dearth of marriagable men has left an “oversupply” of educated women taking desperate steps to preserve their fertility, experts say.

The first global study into egg freezing found that shortages of eligible men were the prime reason why women had attempted to take matters into their own hands.Experts said “terrifying” demographic shifts had created a “deficit” of educated men and a growing problem of “leftover” professional women, with female graduates vastly outnumbering males in in many countries.The study led by Yale University, involved interviews with 150 women undergoing egg freezing at eight clinics.

Researchers found that in more than 90 per cent of cases, the women were attempting to buy extra time because they could not find a partner to settle down with, amid a “dearth of educated men”.

Sure, they should simply settle for less-educated men. But they won't. Because hypergamy.

oladeebo:
buying what there?
drugs?

so why do you give information that you know nothing about, talking about how the clash is imminent?

So OP you're indirectly saying you support censorship, am I right?

now I know you don't stay in the east

it's not necessarily so, it's Google that's recommending it to you based on your old searches, to stop this just clear your cookies.

too Xclusive doesn't rank in my searches.

Welcome to 1984

buy one goat get a table and cut your way to glory.

buy one goat get a table and cut your way to glory....

Keneking:
"Every Nigerian leader since the civil war has boasted that he would not preside over the dismemberment of Nigeria" - References needed please.

Paragraph 8 is simply idolizing Nnamdi Kanu

Paragraph 10 is not important as Ag. President need not to meet Nnamdi Kanu

Paragraph 14 is irrelevant in the context of the work

Paragraph 15 simply complicates his argument - did the death of Yar'Adua cause the creation of Boko Haram? Was Jonathan (his former Boss) responsible for the birth of Boko Haram and militancy in Niger Delta?

Paragraph 16 is antithesis - how does restructuring concern terrorism and other points outlined in paragraphs, 15, 12 and 10?

I am sorry as this article lacks conviction and rationale. The motivation for a call for restructuring should be put in a frame of conversation pointing our inherent problems with the current scheme of affairs (politically, socially and economically). If you divorce the last two, you risk the problem of creating additional issues with the products of restructuring.

Abati's article lacks the kick to sway masses on the side of proponents of restructuring. Pundits should work hard!

But where is lalasticlala sef? Afternoon don come oh

I'm sure you stay at Lagos, you've not left Lagos ever since you were born so you think the whole of Nigeria is Lagos. Reno stays abroad but he sees more than you. stop being delusional.

that's why I wrote this piece

https://www.nairaland.com/3844556/should-women-save-virginity-marriage

connectpoint:
lolz..i've noticed that isolation at parries oh..i kinda feel it's bourne out of self esteem issues... Most are this way..why attend a partywhere you can't feel among

she doesn't want you to see your friends that's just it

what type of companionship are you guys talking about, is it the nagging companionship​ or the drama type companionship?

we all know women hate women, they know it, we know it, everyone knows it. but they should not try to isolate us from our friends. that's wrong,

worst thing is they try to isolate you from your friends they come to your get together with your male friends and then spoil the party by twisting their faces, when you're trying to have a good time with your friends.

the think they deserve everything but contribute nothing, there's a woman in my work that has gone for maternity leave 4 times, that's like 4 years out of her career but men can't do that but she still shouts on people as if we don't work hard enough. she doesn't contribute sheeee to the job.

Inanna:
[color=teal]You don't know me. Stop basing your statements on fallacious assumptions [/color]

assumptions based on your statement, note that.

women only think of marriage when their value has gone down due to age, but before then they were flexing with the Playboy and partying all night, that's selfish, why would they want to hook up with someone to bear their burdens after they've wasted their youth on someone who didn't deserve it. that's dhy their whole life is always feeled with regrets and hatred transferring aggression to their husbands that had nothing to do with it.

gwanggaeto:
A very nice write up....

The presidency need to Hire this man as the National Advicer on ethnicities matter and affairs...I love people who say things the way it is ...

Who is THE PRESIDENCY?

gwanggaeto:
A very nice write up....

The presidency need to Hire this man as the National Advicer on ethnicities matter and affairs...I love people who say things the way it is ...

Better but...

Inanna:
[color=teal]Oh will you shut up already?! Just look at the dirty things looking for extra oil. First of all, what do y'all demand for in a relationship? With that your filthy engorged organs, you all go into a relationship looking for just one thing. You do not care about any other thing. You should also ask yourself what you bring into a relationship apart from STDs and body odour. Don't even say money because really that's nothing.
You think it's only you that wants extra oil? women also want men that'll be spiritually, emotionally and otherwise supportive towards them. The earlier you understand this, the better.
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you're saying this based on the guys or men you've dated, you know that. when you start paying for dates then I'll reconsider.

RaggedyAnn:
Again with this topic?


You're evading the fact that most guys (of a certain age) are only after sex. And you're now making this about the girl; challenging her to convince the guy to go for something else on her shop window. Like trying to convince a customer to buy a beautiful shirt since you don't have the shoes he really wants. While some, more indecisive shopper, might go for it, others won't. You can be the most spiritually supportive person in the world, a single-minded guy will never be distracted from his ultimate intention. He might regret leaving you later in his life (when he has learned to value other attributes in a woman), but it doesn't change the fact that he left you today because sex was off the table.

This isn't about what girls have to offer, but what do guys really want offered?


What do guys want from a relationship apart from sex? Make a list and go shopping; if you don't find it on the shelves, don't buy. Walk away. It's not a crime to only want sex; it's the only thing you might have use for at the moment. But don't claim a girl has nothing to offer in a relationship, in general, just because you value nothing else about her apart from sex. That is your matter; not hers. Each woman brings her own specific lot to the table. If you don't recognize what it is, then you probably have no need for it. Don't go into a liquor store hoping to find tampons. But liquor isn't useless.

Now to the biases. I'm a woman so that's a natural bias that cannot be diminished to zero; I can't help seeing things this way from where I stand, anymore than you can help your vision from the stand point of a man. If you're standing on the left side of a neutral point, even the things exactly in the middle would seem to be on the right to you. No one can claim any objectivity here, so I'm not trying to invalidate your opinion. I'm only saying what it looks like from this angle.

from your angle you seem to imply that girls are only good for sex and nothing else considering you didn't deny what OP said.

connectpoint:
I wonder why it's so easy for we-men to see the 1,000 flaws in women and not see the bright sides... I employ all men to seek for the good in women, the anti-women posture in this our generation is beginning to worry me...

because 1000 flaws outweighs 1 good thing.

when you marry them, they deny you sex too.

it's a very good thing for a girl to be closer to her father, it just means she doesn't have any "daddy issues" so any man that wants her will have to do more than her father did in other to get her, which is almost always hard. OP I'm sure you fit never blast sef.

but if she doesn't have a relationship with her Dad then that will be a problem but in your case, I believe the Reverend father has replaced her Dad or is her God father now.

and only him can decide if you're the best person for her, it's complicated. And just as the mother always knows who's the bad girl by just looking at the woman (gold digger) who's about to marry her Son, the Reverend father will see through any pretense you put up, just as a Father sees through that man about to marry his daughter.
if you don't believe you're the guy don't visit the Reverend. Simple.

EMMAUGOH:
whoever wrote this piece is intelligent....

The president can either borrow sense from him and address some issues directly or either wait and face the implication.....

looking at how Arewa and Ipob youth and Niger-delta disregard their elders recently u would understand what is coming is not for socalled elders to handle...is better Osibanjo face the issue squarely or keep saving face with useless politicians, elders and army.

You mean ACTING president.

this is the only man that knows what's up
the handwriting on the wall says it all.

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