₦airaland Forum

Sixfeetbelle:
I'm married with four kids.

Duru9:
If I meet her tomorrow show her cash and invite her for dinner at transcorp Hilton she go still come

Sixfeetbelle:


I need urgent 2k

Sixfeetbelle:
Imagine.

So if someone is getting you a gift, you'll open mouth to tell them what type of gift you want? Gift you didn't add shishi to buy?

Entitled modafvckers full everywhere ooh

Fahdiga:
And how did you know that it is a lie

LoveTalk:
My dear, I wouldn't be paid if my topics enter FP, my joy is that Atleast a person is elated with my topics.
I can't stop appreciating those whose contributions have been helping positively.

Miracood2:
air Force gave u the money?

fati2001:
scared of a married man in my compound month i put to bed through cs ,dis useless man started disturbin me dat we shud b datin. i refus him nd he continue botherin me .i told my hubby.he was angry nd ask me to report to his wif,which i did.d mumu wife started keeping malice wit me.she told my neighbour dat i want to snatch her hubby nd dat we hv been dating b4 i came to tel her.we settled tru d wife younger bro who is my frnd.d wife travel he started again .my annoyance is dat if dis stupid man see my hubby he wil kneel to greet him because he doesnt stay around .pls advice is needed cos m scared of d way he look at me. waiting 4 ur comment .

fati2001:
please i want u to raise ur voices high on my husband's behalf. He graduated 4rm University since 2010 till now he dnt av a job. He is the first son of the family, because he dnt have money his now like a slave to his family members. His mum, his immediate younger brother now call him a disgrace just cos things are moving well for him. He open a tutorial center for lessons and also registering exams for ppl to help himself and take care of us. But he's always having issues in his business. alot of ppl are owing him he's not disturbing dem but those he's owing small money are coming after his life to d extent dat one of them carried his machine. Pls help me in prayers that God should remember my husband this year wit a good job. I will surely come back and testify in this group. Am so sorry for the long post.

Juliusmomoh:
yea

Juliusmomoh:
When a conductor gets a promotion, he becomes DRIVER,
when a teacher gets a promotion, he becomes
HEADTEACHER, when a house girl gets a promotion, she
becomes---------what?? I am asking because i want to promote
my house girl.. I don't no the position to give her.. Help me
please�

Nazgul:
Her request to stay alone isn't bad. She's 22, and if she has a good job, she'll enjoy geninue peace of mind cos living alone is very good. You won't have to endure an irritating roommate, always getting on your nerves every now and then, nagging parents who will constantly remind you about the success story of all your mates, and your younger cousins who have all gotten married. Also, you can effectively budget your finances, economize your food and provisions, and manage your bills effectively.

As a girl there are few guidelines I'll give you to stay alone effectively most especially if you're not a runs girl.

1. Limit your friends. They say the average Nigerian loves free things. That's very true. If you stay alone, you must be very careful with who you let into your home. I remember how I parked out of the first house I rented with my money after my youth service. It was a one bedroom apartment, I had this friend who was always visiting. With time he uprgaded himself to my roommate without even my consent.

I didn't have any problem with that. The problem I had with him was that he doesn't contribute a penny to the house. From recharging the prepaid meter to recharging the cable TV, to buying food and provisions...even pure water this my so called friend couldn't get. The worse of it all was that he's a womanizer. Imagine coming back home from work tired only to see meet your bedroom locked by your roomie cos he's busy with a girl. I'll end up dozing off on the couch in the palour while waiting for them cos I can't access the bathroom without entering the bedroom which is locked by him.

We quarrelled over this severally. This guy will apologize, beg me and after some days or weeks repeat the same thing again. With time when the rent remained like 2 months to be due, I parked out and left him there. I've learned to limit the kind of people I allow into my home ever since.

2. Be security conscious. Don't be careless with your security. As a girl, you can easily be overpowered, drugged, raped, robbed... etc. So avoid unnecessary closeness with your neighbours most especially if they're guys whose source of income you have no idea of. Whenever you're at home, keep your doors locked at all times. Avoid inviting people you meet on social media into your home. Avoid accepting lift from strangers to your home. All these things will put your safety at risk.

3. Don't disclose your status. As a girl, telling guys that you stay alone isn't wise. When guys start asking don't keep them in silence or else they'll start guessing and might guess right. Just tell them that you don't stay alone. Cos if you don't they won't mind trailing you secretly just to know where you stay. Believe me some guys can be that jobless. And after one visit to your house, you'll need the police to keep them out. Cos some will go as far as threatening to harm you if you refuse to let them in.

If you're in a serious relationship your guy should be the only one who should know your house along with some of your female friends who are on the same financial status with you, and your family members. Every other person can meet you at your place of work, your church or in a public place.

My advice...tell her to do whatever is in her mind, she's an adult now and must be allowed to make her own choices.

As for her parents, let her explain to them and make them reason with her that she won't remain under their roof forever, so the sooner she begins to plan a life outside their roof, the better for her

Also I hope she's working, when I say working I mean 9am -5pm jobs with a reasonable pay check. Cos if a girl is staying alone without a reasonable source of income, she might be tempted to go into prostitution in order to survive. Tell her this.

Mercisharelove:
No you type Amen AMEN Amen AMEN *

Sixfeetbelle:
I am. Definitely avoiding your mentions

DEMZEE:
U should have said women should also b the breadwinners of the home and should also B paying groom's price nahhh


Bloody simp tuehhhhhhh

dollytino4real:
an illiterate wife or an illiterate husband which one will likely disgrace his or her partner at a public gathering? pls is not by force to book space to insult o!