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Why is he still playing at his age

Regular check up is key..rest in power

nuele:
Being blinded by love—is something many people go through. It’s often easier to spot red flags in hindsight than in the moment, because when emotions are strong, they can override logic and make us rationalize behaviors we’d otherwise question.

Why this happens
1. Attachment bias: When we’re invested in someone, we tend to downplay warning signs because we don’t want to lose them.
2. Hope for change: Love makes us believe the person will improve or that the relationship will “settle” into something better.
3. Selective perception: We focus on the good moments and ignore the bad, convincing ourselves the positives outweigh the negatives.

Common early signs people overlook
1. Inconsistent communication or affection.
2. Disrespect disguised as “jokes” or mood swings.
3. Avoidance of accountability—always shifting blame.
4. Secrecy about important aspects of life (finances, past relationships, intentions).
5. A pattern of instability in past relationships.

Moving forward
Love should never blind us to reality; instead, it should coexist with clarity and respect. A useful mindset is: “Love is a feeling, but trust and respect are choices.” If those choices aren’t mutual, the relationship will struggle no matter how strong the emotions are.

No 5 is key...past is not past, Oga ask questions

Mayowa dealth with her x hubby based on past relationship.

Pootle:
hours loss for cleaning your environment common let use our senses here

Ignorance

You don't need to ground the economy for 2- 3hrs to clean your environment.

If you have cleaning culture like the japanese, this nonsense would not have been brought back

Unfortunately, this move has prove to be counter productive

Sirchiboy:
Can a 50-year-old without a job, wife or nothing start all over again?

You can start all over at any age

Its all about mindset. Money making isn't age sensitive

Men still marry n give birth in their 80s

You can make the years ahead the best of your years on earth

Wrong move...Sanwo took us back to days of man hours loss. Now lagosians will only clean their environment once in a week

2mch:
Nothing will happen. They were not legally married. America count court marriage as the only legal marriage so she is free to marry anybody.

ki lomode e mo

Lamba muhammed

dibunotion:
Eye service.
My question is before his presidential aspiration, was he doing all of these.

Perhaps internet no reach your village

Obi has been consistent with charity works for the past 8yrs

FortCavazosKnox:
This woman is not moving with sense and tact, all the guy needs is to forward their marriage certificate to USCIS. She will be be arrested immediately then deported!

As it is, the podcoast is even more than enough evidence to nail her. She ll be back in Nigeria very soo. Immigration agents are monitoring every event on social media

She will lose her green passport

Liar MM...the only regime that ban twitter

They ll soon hit 100

Award wey dem don pay for

They ll all rot in jail

African presidents r clown

Childish upcoming actors

Nice acting

Yawoyawo government

Lamba

He ll rot in jail

Smartguyboy:
When I am outside in my balcony I will be receiving 5G but once i stay inside my seating room the network will disappear 🫠.

How can I fix this network issue.

It happens to all my phone .

Even to make calls I need stay close to the window 🪟.

Remove your roof. The roof is affecting the signal strength

Drsnives:
Today I was destined to catch a big Squirrel at my site..
I did justice to it.
This particular rodent was restless eating my young maize and to the glory of God this restless animal found rest inside my stomach

chai...its not worth it

Free them...Coup plotting is our culture

After 6 feet..it wont matter anymore

Omo 50.0 ..twenty less Rest in Power

Wasting of time

Way to go...OK for 2027..Its POssible

naptu2:
M.S. Ingawa is the media assistant to the Katsina State governor.

MS Ingawa @MSIngawa



https://x.com/i/status/2046971790056968347

Remarks by Yusuf Buhari during the official visit to Governor Radda and declaration of interest to contest for House of Reps Seat under APC. https://t.co/BDdeynbQ4e pic.twitter.com/jyXBSVzD6i

— MS Ingawa (@MSIngawa) April 22, 2026

Go n learn skills...politics isn't a career

They ll be brought to book soon

Graphic designers...its over

He's going to rot in jail...arrant nonsense

nlfpmod:

Nigerians dug up an old video of Roby’s ex-wife, Mayowa, talking about how men should satisfy their wives in bed. https://t.co/2tQZEi81nK pic.twitter.com/BJMqiL2i0D

— Vampz (@Hybrid_Ola) April 22, 2026

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Shameless woman

She no even fine sef...indeed beauty is in the eyes of the beholder