KiNg0G: Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20 prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.
While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.
Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.
From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..
I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.
If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.
QuinQ: Women change their minds constantly. She may not come for sex but end up having it, and vice versa. Many women have left in the middle of the night than let the man have his way - after following him all the way to his house and lying on his bed!
All the signs are there. From experience, she was expecting a move. A woman need to be lead on to confirm are decision. She waited n didn't see all that...then she left
Double0h7: Why would she shower at a stranger’s house when she’s not spending the night? Op! I think you missed your train 🚂! When you find the next one, let us know because we don’t know.
Women and nonesense rules
Must you shower only when you are spending the night
Rhymesy: A lady returned from Owerri to Uyo during the Christmas period to visit her elderly sister. I happened to come across her, and I must say, she is extremely beautiful and charming. I tried to keep things normal—both in our communication and interactions. She eventually opened up to me, revealing that she has a serious man in her life. I remained calm and continued acting as a normal friend.
At one point, I accidentally stumbled upon her phone and noticed that she is a classy lady. Since I’m not financially buoyant, I focused on maintaining a stable and respectful manner. I kept my mind on being a good friend.
One day, she started asking me some deep questions about myself. I told her I just graduated from university and am waiting for my call-up for NYSC. She said she’s actually working towards that too. She also asked if I was staying alone, and I confirmed that I was. Throughout December, she spent most of her time with me, chatting, gisting, and smiling. Sometimes, I took her out to lounges and bought her food from eateries.
Yesterday, she confessed that she enjoys hanging around me. Today, she insisted that most people know where I stay. Initially, I felt reluctant to bring her to my place—not because of anything suspicious, but because I didn’t want my libido to get the better of me. After some persistent urging from her, I decided to bring her over.
As a single guy who just finished school, my laptop is my television. When she entered, she said she was feeling hot and asked me to find her a polo or a light jersey to wear. I did so. She then went into the bathroom to take a shower while I was in the kitchen preparing her a meal. We enjoyed the meal together, and she complimented my cooking.
Later, she felt sleepy and fell asleep. When she woke up in the evening, she asked me to see her off. Honestly, this lady is very beautiful—so much so that my friends on the street were even hailing me.
Naijalanders, what is really going on?
you didn't get the memo. She came for a fvck but you didn't give a fvck.
MONEY247: Many factors can be factored for adult bachelors. Finance, frustration, manipulation lack of interest and many more. Many of my colleagues do not want marriage... They just want to "enjoy" Here is the thing....Relationships and... . Marriage is work...
Whats the reason many older men Avoid marriage this days..?
The economy n culture of men must do all isnt encouraging
KobolanderSegun: Me I am Laughing..... In 2026 men are still prioritizing Female Virginity as a yardstick for marriage ? In 2026 !!!
What about Female Intelligence, Female Wisdom, Female Comportment, Female Financial Literacy ? They are not even looking to see whether she can cook. But No she must be a Virgin.
I cannot speak for everyone but no wonder Africa is so backward when you place so much energy on a state God created but you will not look for attributes that come with self development.
It's our choice, respect it
If women can priortise wealth, physique etc..what stop men
MeaslesMumpsRub: Laugh wan kill me. See as davido dey panick .
Thank God for DNA, if na back in the days, them go just ask Davido: you nack am abi you no nack am. If he gree say he nack am, him don positive for the DNA be that.
Amotolongbo: A whole 5 DNA tests tan, kilode? But Davido, please try to always patronise condom warehouses, we won’t have to be dealing with this kind of thing every year. January is too young fa.
If this is true, I would advise the mum to look elsewhere for the paternity of her daughter. Perhaps the father isn’t doing well, father na father.
Honestly, if he didn't enter the place...there will be no need for accusation or 5 dna tests
Sincerely, I'm a bit confused here. My younger brother, the last born of the family wants to come over to the city to live with me.
My kid bro just graduated from secondary sch last year July. He is actually my step brother, as my mum had to remarry a year later after the passing of my dad many years ago. This brother is the only child my mum has for the Man.
The man is a retired state govt teacher, my mum is his second wife. He's not being responsible over the years and this has caused lots of issues between himself and my mum. Sometimes, if not most times, I'll always have to step in to broker peace between them.
My mum abandoned us to marry this man. At some point she even had to send my blood sister away from the man's house. My kid sister was just four years and needed the presence of a mother in her life, but since my mum so much cherished her new husband at the time, she said that my kid sister wouldn't live with her. So she had to send my sister to stay with our grandma(maternal). I felt so sad about this. Today same sister is married with two kids.
My mum never supported any of us through sch. We are four, plus this step brother of mine, five in total. As a matter of fact, while I was leaving for the city after the completion of my university education, she was nowhere to be found because I was in some financial mess at the time and I needed her to support me financially so I can go to city to hussle. I also wanted her to give me that motherly blessings and pray for my success as I embark on the journey for success. But she was nowhere to be found.
I managed to source for funds and left the village for the city. I'm not four years here. I send her money almost every week. I also send her mother(my grandma) money and ensure I take good care of her since she's the only grandparent I have now.
There's almost no time I speak with my mum that she doesn't come up with one financial complaint or the other. Sometimes I avoid her calls for weeks. It's not like I'm doing well here in the city, but I keep meeting her needs. I don't complain to her even when I'm down. I already know she can't help me, so what's the point complaining?. She can have money Hidden somewhere while you're in dire need of it, but she won't tell or give u. She can be doing business and making money secretly without telling you. Sometimes I only get to hear about such businesses from outsiders. She does this so we wouldn't ask her for any help. She never bought us even a notebook or Pen while we were in sch.
Now she wants my kid Bro to come live with me. Living with me isn't a problem. But my mum already spoilt my step brother. He was so pampered as a child and he often disrespects my mum. They asked him to learn Barbing. After sch, he would go there and return in the evenings. But this boy wasn't consistent. At some point, he even stopped. Our mum instructed him to go back and continue, but he refused. His father is so weak and can't discipline him. Four years back, same brother went to live with my immediate younger brother in Lagos and after two weeks he said he wants to go back to the village just like that.
I want him to further his studies but I don't have the resources yet. I want his father to take up that responsibility first, while I also support. He knows I'm very strict and he can't be disrespectful to me. But my mum already corrupted him. If he comes and I start to discipline and disciple him, it would look like I'm antagonizing him because he's my step brother.
Again, and most importantly, I'm not working now, I'm just managing myself, hustling here and there just to survive. Sometimes I don't even get what to eat. I mange myself. Due to this, I wouldn't want to add another burden to myself. He eats a lot and if he comes here, it will now look like I'm starving him. My mum knows I'm just managing my life. I asked him to be a bit more patient and stay back in the village till I get something tangible to do, so I can take care of him when he comes to town, but he's insisting that he's already tired of staying in the village.
Considering what he did when he visited my immediate younger brother the other time, he wouldn't be able to go back there again.
Do your best and leave the rest. They will all survive without you . Don't let anyone gaslight you
Kalulu44: I swear, I almost died from tear gas when Naija fans scattered the stadium and tear gas was thrown to disperse crowd. . Where got me emotional was when outside the stadium, a babe been held by her boyfriend was crying and lamenting why Cameroun all the time. That was the 3rd time we lost a final to Cameroun
Yes, that was the last time Cameroon dealt with us at Afcon
judewrites: I remember that day, it was so gloomy in Lagos
Victor ikepa's penalty that rattled off the top of the bar sent shockwaves throughout the stadium and those watching.
As least we saw effort in his attempt, not like chukwueze who passed to the morracan goalie.
It's very sad when hosts lose in a final.
The days when fowards were in the frontline of taking Pk
I rewatched 94 afcon pk shoot out against civ in semi final... Ben iroha was the only defender as part of the kickers. They were all attackers - finidi, siasia, amokachi & yekini
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