goodmuscopi: Pls note, this thread is a floor for married, divorced or separated folks to discuss and share insight from experience. Single should just observe and learn
Now, what are the challenges you faced/are facing in your marriage?
What step did you take wrongly?
Irrespective of wrong steps, both partner should be forgiving
Marriage isn't about being right all the time...infact you can't be correct at all times cos both of you were shaped up with two different family principles.
To continue to make it work, both parties should be forgiving
KingDashx: y'all have been around for a long time, PSG is not up to 50 years, so no argument here, epl is wack, if like 3 Ligue one teams were there they will still dominate back to back.
And who told you psg was new from the scratch.
You don't even know the history of the club you are defending
Paris Saint-Germain Football Club was founded in August 1970 after the merger of Paris Football Club and Stade Saint-Germain
marianakes: Greetings everyone. I am Mariana, a professional cook. I enjoy trying and cooking new dishes from various regions, such as Indian, Korean, American, and my personal favorite, Thai. I love cooking Thai Food, and my kids also love it, but my husband is different.
He absolutely hates any other food and adores his mom’s cooking. No matter how hard I try, he can never praise my cooking skills.
Does anyone else face similar problems, or am I being paranoid?
Obavoh: I came back from work yesterday to see my Wife’s younger Sister in my house.
I was surprised because no one told me she was coming. I greeted and welcomed her.
I later called my Wife aside and asked her why she did not inform me that her sister was coming to pay us a visit. That was when she broke the news to me that the girl was 3 months pregnant and had to leave the village because of shame.
My Wife begged me and even called the girl to come and kneel and beg me to allow her stay until she puts to bed. I was very angry at my wife for that.
I would love to help the girl but the problem is
1) My Father-in-law is not aware that his Daughter is pregnant. Only my Wife and Mother-in-law knows.
2) My Mother-in-law has not called to plead with me to let the Girl stay under my roof. My Wife asked me to call their mother to confirm but I think it should be the other way around.
3) I am currently managing a one room apartment with my Wife and 7 children. The place might not be conducive for a first time pregnant Girl. Feeding her is not a problem.
4) I am afraid I would be the one to pay her Medical bills, antenatal and all. When I asked my Wife she said her mother would pay but I don’t believe this judging from personal experience.
5) What if the girl suffers miscarriage or complications? God forbid. I might be held responsible.
Please advise me on what to do. My creator sees my heart that I would love to help but I am afraid. Should I let her stay or send her away? How do I do this without losing the respect of my Wife and Mother-in-law. What is the best way to help the Girl?
Let your father inlaw know. Do the right thing. Don't let those women blackmail you emotionally
Kemetian: Popular Kenyan YouTuber, African Tigress is touring Brazil, and was shocked when she arrived the great city of 10 million people, Salvador, where it's almost as if everybody has Nigerian ancestry! Yoruba to be precise.
VaginaAcademic: I've always been curious about this trend. Is it done to make the car appear new or well maintained thereby deceiving the prospective buyer?
johnerry77: Hello Narialand Please I need your Advice on this: Am a fresh graduate from one of the Prestigious University in Nigeria, Considering going for My Masters in one of the Universities here In Nigeria or get an IT skills in Cyber Security.
Please Advise
IT skills...Msc won't get you gigs....if you need government job, go with msc
IBenardoo: Omo nah Bet9ja o Mine wasn't once sha, there's this myth about hitting the green on your first try omo tried that shit a couple of time didn't favour me, sharp I drop am like hot Yam
Aniahbaby: The joy that fills your heart when you finally rent that dream apartment feels unreal, right? You were so excited, grinning from ear to ear, already picturing how you’d arrange your furniture, where your TV would go, and the vibes of your new space. Then the agent brings out a form for you to sign. As a typical Nigerian who barely reads the terms and conditions, you just sign it without thinking twice. “Abeg, let’s just move in already,” you say.
Fast forward to two years later; the agent shows up again this time, not smiling. He tells you that if you're renewing your rent, you’ll have to pay extra because the landlord has increased the rent. Your mood changes instantly. You're confused, angry, and frustrated. “Why should I pay more than what I paid last year?”
You start arguing, raising your voice, trying to understand where this is coming from. But guess what? The agent calmly refers you back to the document you signed the day you moved in. Gbam! It hits you. You never read that document.
Now you’re staring at the paper with regret in your eyes, realizing that if you had just taken a few minutes to read and understand it, you wouldn’t be in this mess. You wouldn’t be forced to cough up that extra fee. Sometimes, the biggest legal mistake we make is signing what we don’t understand until it comes back to haunt us.
Conclusion No matter how excited you are, take your time to read everything you’re signing. Ask questions. Seek clarity. Don’t let excitement blind you to a future regret. Have you ever made a legal or financial mistake like this—something you wish you had known earlier? Share your story in the comments. Let’s learn from each other.
Mine isn't legal mistake. Didn't do my findings well. Got the apartment in dry season (Aug) and by September I discovered I would need a canoe to drive in
Aniahbaby: We can’t dispute the fact that artificial intelligence is so helpful to humans, and it has reduced the stress and hassle in the workplace. This same AI has made so many people so lazy that they can’t think straight on their own.
For instance, the year before artificial intelligence came into existence, everyone was using their brain to write and think. Ever since we all adopted artificial intelligence into our lives, we can no longer think on our own. It has gotten to the point that even our bosses are no longer demanding ideas from us. Instead, they go online, type in a few prompts, and boom, AI does the thinking and coding. Before, my boss would ask me to write some code or generate ideas for our web project. But now? He just types a few sentences into different AI and tells me to “touch it up.”
How do you expect someone like me to improve if I don’t get to think? I mean, AI is now coding for my boss. It's gradually taking over our responsibilities, and guess what? We are letting it. It’s funny how we begged for jobs and prayed for opportunities to prove ourselves, but now that we finally have them, we are giving them out to machines. I’m not against AI, but it’s like we are slowly pushing ourselves out of relevance.
Maybe it’s time to ask ourselves: are we growing with AI, or are we letting it grow in place of us? Let’s not allow technology to make us useless. Use AI, but don’t lose your human intelligence.
Unfortunately, you won't be a good programmer on the go. That's like using grammar ly to polish your grammar